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RHP User
11 years ago
If things have progressed for her to take the initiative I think its super hot!
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Hottie1
11 years ago
I thought to quote a rapper 'a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets' is what turned most men on but alas I'm finding that a sexually confident woman is one of two things, a turn off or a 'slut'. Very few men have the confidence to deal with what I need :( Mary xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Two very confident people to happen. Her to ask and he to accept, even on RHP it's all too rare, pity.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ag4mg92' Lets it be known she has 4 child free hours for some fucking but try as she might she had no takers? 😩 Mary xx Must be guys with rocks in their head to leave the lovely and sexy Mary waiting and wanting. Michael xxxxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
You comment showed courage
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ag4mg92' I thought to quote a rapper 'a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets' is what turned most men on but alas I'm finding that a sexually confident woman is one of two things, a turn off or a 'slut'. Very few men have the confidence to deal with what I need :( Mary xx I have to agree few men are able to cope with women that are confident in their own skin and/or taller than them LOL There is little more frustrating than seeing a beautiful intelligent woman lower her demeanor and act hesitant or deny themselves, I for one prefer a partner on equal footing. Be confident, stand up and say yes you will come with me and I will be satisfied by you :)
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Hottie1
11 years ago
Why are you so far away ;) I agree, I have at times 'not been myself' in play situations and at the end of the day, I'm the one who loses out. I've decided that from now on, where I feel I can't be myself, I will walk away. I prefer no play to play that makes me feel bad about myself for what I need and want. Thanks for the vote of confidence. Mary 💋 xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
In my experience most men love it when you take the lead, but then get a little intimidated if you are a strong woman who knows what she wants. Sometimes they don't perform as well or allow you to dominate everything which is a little disappointing. But the one's that have the confidence and security to meet you at a mutual level are amazing :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Way back I was the manager of a large company with a staff of 22 women. One particular female employee who always let everyone know where she stood with sex, floored me one day when she knocked on my office door and announced she wanted to give some oral NOW ? I thought she was joking and told her to stop buggerising around.. But she was deadly serious.. When I realised she was serious, I jokingly rejected her advance... As much as it was a lost opportunity , I felt it the best at the time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
why noti would love to be asked to fuck some oneespecially a random that you don't even know
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you dont ask you dont get right? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
If i like was she looks then yes
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes yes yes yes - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
but I might make you buy dinner and drinks first
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RHP User
10 years ago
I also like when a woman tells me what to do during sex.. (sometimes) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
...I'd rather some subtle overtures. No need for words...or requests.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I Amigo 1, think that it's the ultimate turn on to have a partner ask for what they want. It is also an affirmation that you are desired, wanted. Also from a guys perspective it takes away the pressure to find a way to ask that question. Cheers SG 2 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find it a turn on when a woman knows what she wants and goes and grabs it (so to speak). Screw the guy (lol) having to make the first move, if a lady wants sex and she hits me up for it - who am I to deny her request
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've spent the best part of the last 10-15years working, socialising and living in a male dominated industry. At first I was pushed aside, over looked and treated very differently to the guys I worked along side of. One company pushed me to my limits and I vowed that I would never let anyone make me feel like that again. It brought out another side of me, one that lives by the motto 'If a bloke can do it, so can I or I'll die trying'. So yes, why not ask. You'll only get 1 of 2 answers (unless of course he's a procrastinator) LOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
If a lady asks to undertake some fornication the answer will be yes. This is because if her ex, her boss, her friend, her kids, ir whoever has frustrated her has created the urge within her then who am I to say no. By assisting her with her needs the universe will be helped get back into kilter. She will be happy and the world is a better place when the woman of the world are happy and it never hurts to get some good karma points from the universe.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes its ok, oh god I want this to happen soon....please.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ask away...
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RHP User
10 years ago
My experience is if you have a play on words use it if you build yourself up women will generally end up doing a homeless guy at 3 am
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ag4mg92' I thought to quote a rapper 'a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets' is what turned most men on but alas I'm finding that a sexually confident woman is one of two things, a turn off or a 'slut'. Very few men have the confidence to deal with what I need :( Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bloody yesus if she wants to comes over to mine.. sure I will
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MissBishere
10 years ago
I don't believe a lot men do. I think there is a very large portion of men that find it confronting. It shows a strong independent woman and that freaks these men out. They want the perfect little slut in the bedroom but the meek and mild little woman in every other way. I find these are generally the same group that say they wouldn't have a relationship with people on this site. There are women that you fuck and then there are women that you date. Isn't that how it works guys?
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RHP User
10 years ago
to Missb72 i would like to know if iam taking you the right way if a guy fuck you why would they not date you
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MissBishere
10 years ago
That is the million dollar question. I can only answer for me and my experiences. What I have perceived from asking questions and listening to what they don't say but watching their actions. i believe I am ok for a fuck buddy as long as it's kept strictly for sex and not seen in public, doesn't take up to much of their time. They say all kinds of things with their mouth but their actions are so contradictory. Basically it comes down to in my situation, I am to big to date or be seen with but ok to fuck as long as Noone knows. it's a certain group of men and I've learnt to stay clear of them.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
I also agree with Mary’s earlier statement. Men seem to want a feisty liberated woman, get all hot and bothered by a day/week/month of sexy suggestive chat, then when they get the booty call they race on over and enjoy the rewards of being with a sexy woman who knows what she likes and knows how to enjoy herself. But then after a few times/weeks/months, they think oh hell, she’s getting too close, I’ll back off a bit. They change their language – it changes from “you look as sexy as hell in that outfit” to “that’s a sexy outfit”. They become vague as to when they can see you again, they put constraints on parts of your interactions. They might not want to go out with you for a meal/drink anymore (if they ever contemplated being in public with you in the first place!). In other words, they change the very nature of the ‘thing’ (don’t want to offend anyone’s sensitivities by using words such as friendship or relationship) you have going. And all because they get it in their big heads that you might be after more than what you have clearly stated ad nauseum that you want, and what you like about the ‘thing’ you have with them. Women can do ‘casual’, they can be the sexy woman who drives you to distraction, they can be the shoulder you can lean on occasionally, they can be and will be whatever is appropriate for the situation you have with them. But when you start messing around with them, when you stop acknowledging their uniqueness - the characteristics that attracted you in the first place, when your actions and words not longer match, when you become guarded in communication and in person….. Well we get pissed, and we get feisty – and not in a sexy way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
tokissk i do not understand i have known guys i meet on here for over 2 years an we txt an talk and hang out all the time i do have trouble with reading so i hope i have not upset any one iam just trying to fit in here
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
Quoting 'redhot666' tokissk i do not understand i have known guys i meet on here for over 2 years an we txt an talk and hang out all the time i do have trouble with reading so i hope i have not upset any one iam just trying to fit in here No you have not offended at all. You are lucky that you have great ongoing male friends. You are a lovely person :) Some of us find that much harder to find. I have it with couples, I have it with females, just finding it hard with men.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But not straight out as that is no fun.Seduction , tease and use her female assets.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' That is the million dollar question. I can only answer for me and my experiences. What I have perceived from asking questions and listening to what they don't say but watching their actions. i believe I am ok for a fuck buddy as long as it's kept strictly for sex and not seen in public, doesn't take up to much of their time. They say all kinds of things with their mouth but their actions are so contradictory. Basically it comes down to in my situation, I am to big to date or be seen with but ok to fuck as long as Noone knows. it's a certain group of men and I've learnt to stay clear of them.
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