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March 08 2015

do you like a lady to ask you for sex

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  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    11 years ago

    Have wooden balls? Is the Pope....a Catholic This sounds like one of those rhetorical questions. If it wasn't intended that way then.....umm yes. I quite like it when that happens :) Him - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Every time I ask for sex. They get this panicked took and back away a few steps. Then pivot and run the one minute mile. Unless it's in a dark corner in the car park of the local pub about ten minutes after closing. Then they settle for me blowing them, with a paper bag over my head. See u recycle paper bags, the plastic ones I save for breath play. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think a lot of guys would agree that we like to get things right the first time. Propositioning a woman can be fraught, however well things may have been going otherwise, so being on the receiving end can be very relieving.... Quoting 'LadyTuscan3' Every time I ask for sex. They get this panicked took and back away a few steps. Then pivot and run the one minute mile. Unless it's in a dark corner in the car park of the local pub about ten minutes after closing. Then they settle for me blowing them, with a paper bag over my head. See u recycle paper bags, the plastic ones I save for breath play. - Posted from rhpmobile Just for the record, LadyTuscan3, you would only have to ask me the once. Getting rid of me, afterwards, might take asking a few more times!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I wouldn't turn down a trans at this point. I haven't been asked in months goddamnnit... so who wants to ask? x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm not easy you know, you will have to ask nicely. But yes, you should definitely ask.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As long as they say please :)

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    11 years ago

    but that does not mean it will happen. Knowing her intent starts things off in the right direction and from there it is the way she asks for it that determines where it leads and ends. ET xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love it when a woman is that clear and forthright. It definitely takes the guesswork out of things. Part of why I'm at times shy about initiating sex is because I have no way to know for certain if that's what she wants without asking myself, in as clear terms, or beginning and seeing if she goes along with it or puts on the brakes. I also used to get a bit confused sometimes about cuddles and kisses that turned into sex. When I had a girlfriend, I used to wonder what the correct ratio of cuddles and kisses that stayed there to the ones that turned into sex. Like... are we kissing, or are we kissing and subsequently having sex? If we have sex after cuddling and kissing too often, does that mean that I communicate I expect sex after those things, and they aren't valid in and of themselves? But if I don't make moves towards sex tonight, am I rejecting something I'd otherwise be up for? And am I sending the vibe "You're not very attractive tonight" without meaning to in the slightest? Gah! As you can see, it can get a bit confusing. So "I'd like you to make love to me," or "let's have sex tonight," or "I want to hear less talk and more squishing, sonny-jim!" are all mighty helpful to utter at times. In my opinion, anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    They may get stage fright

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    i just sneak up behind them sitting by the bar, put them on a choke hold until they are semi-conscious or they tap on the bar to submission then fuck them senseless..just kidding. Kidding aside, YES, of course. I have before, a few times when I see the men are tongue tied but keen. Lol. But I don't often ask for it as am a bit old fashioned and to be honest, the men beat me to it. Most men are not very shy about wanting sex. Lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    In my view if it gets to the point that you have to ask then it may not be worth the effort. I can not remember the last time I ever asked or was asked. You dont ask for a smile, a hug, or a kiss you should just know its wanted and you just act on it. If the guy or girl is not picking up on the signals then you tell them, not ask them, to get busy with it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hahaha I might just go with the gag and duck tape but thanks heaps for the advice everyone - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes ask away

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Please Sir,may I have some more? 😜XxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Who wants to bonk me? Any one? Any one? Buhler? Buhler? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Ask? I tell them. You. Me. Now. O:-)

  • MysteryMr

    MysteryMr

    11 years ago

    "I'd like to fuck you now, is that ok?" - sweeter words have never been said. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Some times she won't even need to finish asking her question. Other times I might be quite playful and have a fun time giving her playful teases/responses/I-want-it-too-and-let's-have-some-fun-with-this shenanigans. Lastly, there are moments where I might have something serious on my mind (eg, just had a situation at work), and she may need to do a little "convincing" before my hormones activate.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Love many of the comments..... I will admit I find women ask for it far more often (in my experience) than I would. I actually find that women tend to take a cuddle watching TV to a sexual conclusion far more frequently than I would expect. The relationships I've had, I have been the instigator far less often. Do I mind being asked or lead along? Certainly not. One has made the comment that she felt she was always instigating it..... I told her that she never gave me the opportunity to be the instigator! All that said, while I love the sex, there are times when I just like the closeness and cuddling too, without it progressing further. If I am in the mood for sex and want it as well, then it is great. If I am in the mood for just spending time together, I don't generally say no or dislike it, but on these occasions I'm happy to do less of the "work".

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Never been asked. If I had to be asked, means she not hot enough for me or she's not using her female prowess to lure me.. Some things are not for the asking. I mean if her body language and her eyes don't do it, then may as well move on woman.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    i was talking about calling up a guy for sex an just sex

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'LadyTuscan3' Every time I ask for sex. They get this panicked took and back away a few steps. Then pivot and run the one minute mile. Unless it's in a dark corner in the car park of the local pub about ten minutes after closing. Then they settle for me blowing them, with a paper bag over my head. See u recycle paper bags, the plastic ones I save for breath play. - Posted from rhpmobile Well I do , Lady Tuscan3 you would only have to ask me ONCE , and yes you most probably have trouble getting me out the door as well ! lolxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Blindman has nailed it here...I sure he has, she was smiling... A discreet hint is very welcome if its a first date and the environment hasn't helped get the lips kissing but if a girl feels the need to actually ask to be fucked, it probably suggests he isn't that interested. Body Language is better than verbal. If however this is an ongoing relationship and you've fucked a few times, in a bar having a glass of wine and she says 'I need to fuck me right now'.... yep that'll work

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    yes its a turn on yum yum,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'd love to know what my reaction would be. Oh and LadyTuscan the answer in your case is already yes.

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    Gentlemen. ..(now waiting for a response).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    so is it ok for a girl to txt a guy for just sex no hi or talk just hot sex

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'redhot666' i was talking about calling up a guy for sex an just sex What's the worst that can happen? Maybe a no thanks. If your ego can handle that then you should be ok. What's the best that can happen? Some mind-blowing sex with a guy you fancy! You just have to evaluate the risk vs reward equation. Rejection is not that bad, while sex is generally pretty fucking good!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'redhot666' i was talking about calling up a guy for sex an just sex Yes, I have done that in the past with a man. I had his number but he didn't have mine and I would ring him when I felt like getting my leg over. He loved it at first, but I think after awhile even men get sick of being used for sex.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If a woman sent you a first email via Red Hot Pie saying " wanna fuck" or something similar. You would say yes straight up?

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    But I'd be worried the answer would be a horrified "NO" ~ 😳 Indy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' If a woman sent you a first email via Red Hot Pie saying " wanna fuck" or something similar. You would say yes straight up? Do you mean without checking out her profile? No. After checking her profile and seeing we both match what one another are looking for? Yes - perhaps. I never meet anyone without doing the "meet in public first" shtick, but I will admit that I have played on first meeting.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As a rule, I would say yes, but it is really a matter of the person, whether there is any chemistry between us and of course, when and where..But I do find assertive, confident women to be incredibly sexy, and whilst the 'being asked for sex' isn't the scenario I think of, it is more the 'being led down the path of debauchery and sensual exploration and experimentation' that I long for...

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Using a man for sex? Hell yes, but I'm sure we'd both enjoy it.....it's a win, win situation really so why not and like Simon said, what's the worst that could happen, thanks but no thanks......💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'On_Safari' But I'd be worried the answer would be a horrified "NO" ~ 😳 Indy Surely any "no" to you would be preface to "not now" or "not yet" or "we're a thousand miles apart! why would you ask me that? are you trying to drive me insane?" Why else would anyone say "No"?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I would say yes, why wouldn't a woman ask for sex? I think it is a turn on, not only that she wants me, but having the confidence to do so. Everyone has wants and needs, just keep the respect alive!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just because she has a vagDoesn't mean she is going to get. So i would say NO has to be an attraction Why do women think guys will fuck anything? Quoting 'Meeka100' If a woman sent you a first email via Red Hot Pie saying " wanna fuck" or something similar. You would say yes straight up?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    do you like a lady to ask you for sex Who cares!! Seriously though, why not, it is the age of equality after all, no glass ceilings etc, etc. There does have to be some physical & intellectual attraction though. We don't just jump into bed with anything that moves you know . But hey, the same as men, who get knocked back a lot, no harm in asking, and most likely most men are more likely to say yes more often. I personally would not think any worse of a woman who asked, even if the answer was no.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'xoJulesox' Just because she has a vagDoesn't mean she is going to get. So i would say NO has to be an attraction Why do women think guys will fuck anything? Because Jules we have all received the "do want to fuck messages' countless times from men. I can come over now messages, the "I have already booked a hotel I hope you are not a time waster" when you haven't even exchanged any photos or messages. Sorry but I have to wonder based on the messages we receive from men........ will they indeed fact fuck anything. And I think a lot of you would fuck anything in my opinion. A hole in the ground if you are horny enough.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am not saying all men but certainly the men that send "wanna fuck' messages and other classy messages like that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'xoJulesox' Just because she has a vagDoesn't mean she is going to get. So i would say NO has to be an attraction Why do women think guys will fuck anything? Because Jules we have all received the "do want to fuck messages' countless times from men. I can come over now messages, the "I have already booked a hotel I hope you are not a time waster" when you haven't even exchanged any photos or messages. Sorry but I have to wonder based on the messages we receive from men........ will they indeed fact fuck anything. And I think a lot of you would fuck anything in my opinion. A hole in the ground if you are horny enough. My opinion the way some women fuck i would go the hole in the ground or a tree stump

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    11 years ago

    Lets it be known she has 4 child free hours for some fucking but try as she might she had no takers? 😩 Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'xoJulesox' Just because she has a vagDoesn't mean she is going to get. So i would say NO has to be an attraction Why do women think guys will fuck anything? Because Jules we have all received the "do want to fuck messages' countless times from men. I can come over now messages, the "I have already booked a hotel I hope you are not a time waster" when you haven't even exchanged any photos or messages. Sorry but I have to wonder based on the messages we receive from men........ will they indeed fact fuck anything. And I think a lot of you would fuck anything in my opinion. A hole in the ground if you are horny enough. A hole in the ground Hahaha (never tried, that, but I would be scared a spider or snake might bite me, gravel rash is also a worry) LoL. What about a big plastic stick (vibrator), cucumber, carrot, strap-on, chair leg, tongue, finger, fist, arm, probably a thousand others but can't think of them at the moment. (I am not certain but I am sure a vibrator has no physical or intellectual attraction). Perhaps both men & woman just like to get off occasionally ??? and as long as everyone is in mutual agreement, enjoy it, and does not hurt anyone or break any laws.. Have to agree though that cold calling with no messages or photos or connection is rude & not right, and probably what it appears, Cold Calling / numbers game. They have probably already seen your pic and are interested, or horny, pissed & / or stupid

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'redhot666' i was talking about calling up a guy for sex an just sex Had a friend who used to text me with messages like.... fancy a bit ;-) or Im hungry, can I have you for dinner And ofcourse I liked it. I expect everyone would..... within the context of that kind of friendship.It showed that I was something she wanted...... so, I felt appreciated and desired..... and she showed me that well. Otherwise, under more "normal' interactions.... a woman doesn't ask with her mouth, but her body language and actions make it pretty clear when you pay attention. And dare I say it out loud.... she's waiting for a Man to lead, to take that responsibility off her.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ag4mg92' Lets it be known she has 4 child free hours for some fucking but try as she might she had no takers? 😩 Mary xx I am sure that (if you were single that is) if I received a message from you Mary, that if you messaged saying you had 4 child free hours for some fucking, then as long as I could drive to where you were in 3 hrs, 58 minutes (Hahaha), then I would be out the door like (well, like a rat up a drain pipe) (1hr or less driving would be ideal though, as it would give an extra 3hrs plus of driving)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I would think so, women can speak there mind if they want to have sex , it's great

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't mind if a lady asks me for sex. I would be honoured if a lady asks me for sex.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm sure everyone here has a personal preferences (age, shape etc) for who they would like to be with. Whilst you might think you are a good match for someone doesn't mean that they will think the same.. So just as a guy asking a lady won't always get the response they were hoping for, the same applies to a lady asking a guy.. Whilst I don't get asked anywhere near as often as I'd love, it's incredibly flattering when a lady writes to you first.. What I do struggle with, is somehow saying 'no thank you' to a lady that doesn't match what I find attractive. I struggle as I feel a lady being knocked back is 100 times more impacting than a guy getting rejected (no lady needs to feel rejected and I don't want to ever hurt a ladies feelings).. So definitely ask (please ask) but don't expect always to get what you ask for.. And guys be totally decent in any response you give.. To get asked is good for everyone. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    This could be a science project, make a single lady profile, leave it as gray ghost. Write a profile for it saying" i just love sex, cant get enough blah blah" see what guys message, and who would be prepared after messaging to and fro without showing a single pic to the guy, if they would meet up for sex. I wonder how many guys would? I had a male mate on here who was quite a looker and well endowed, he had a few women send their address as soon as they saw his pg. straight up" heres my number and address, come over now".( One he actually did because he liked her pics, spoke on phone, drove there, but she was so drunk he didnt stay)So its not just us women who get the rushed hook up messages. But yeah ive had lots, especially the late saturday night ones who prob didnt pick up at the local, so they try for the online " free hooker" approach of" hey you want a good time, Im horny and up for it, heres my number, call me now sexy. Will give you the time of your life" You know!! Its what we are here for apparently. Another reason why I have not looking for single guys on my profile now.and I wont come up in a search for women looking for men now. Has cut my messages by 95%.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    love to 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love it - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hell yeah. I love it when a woman asks me for sex. 2 reasons. I am flattered and it means that she is sexually confident.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'redhot666' i was talking about calling up a guy for sex an just sex Hello redhot666, you still haven't really made it clear. I think there is a difference between a man's girlfriend, wife, lover, or FWB initiating sex or asking for sex, from a man receiving a lets fuck message from a woman on RHP. Are you asking if a woman he has never met or only met a few times gives him a booty call would he be okay with it? Or are you asking if any woman, whether he knows her well or not, asks him for sex? PS: How HOT is it when you are doing your best to seduce your lover and he is playing hard to get. *Slurp*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    lol Women do ask, but in their own way. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A wink or a smile, no better feeling than in traffic looking over and seeing someone to your liking, flashing a smile and receiving one back...best feeling ever. Better feeling them winding down their window and saying...want too fuck, alas it hasn't happen. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    11 years ago

    I would respect it alot more if a woman made the first move and even asked for sex.. says to me despite a stereotype situation she doesnt care and wants us to be together or at least wants me that much!! And is also too mature minded for the stupid courting games society has randomly dreamed up. Its actually a big fantasy of mine where this sexy blonde made me take her home.. she was ontop of me kissing and slowly slid down and her hair carressed over my face as she sat up on my hips and says. . Are you glad im here... and it was like i had met the perfect partner. Body soul and all. And thst was the start of the rest of our lives. True dream.. yet to happen.. lucky if i even ever get sex - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    11 years ago

    Fantasy is 2 sexy model type women that are bi having a 3some with me and we just sensually melt together. Would make an awesome relationship too. But this isnt about fantasies so my bad - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Safari it happened once I won lotto same weekend !!! Nah never been that lucky lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    11 years ago

    Is sexy, alluring has style and class wins me every time💐. YES ...... Absolutely. I'm actually a little shy until I know someone. Asking for SEX may not be the way I would describe it. We all know how women here hate being asked for sex. I would say seduced🔥 would be 💃 my order for oyster dining😘

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ..... can you ask the question a again ... I thought that i misheard you ... ..... I prefer them to 'take' their sex ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Who is asking ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Ulysses42' ..... I prefer them to 'take' their sex ... Taking sex? I'm hoping that came out wrong.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    One woman said straight up 'I want to fuck you', I panicked and bailed.....in both cases These days, it would really depend on the scenario and the woman I do believe, as one very classy lady once said to me, that the skill in being a woman is to intice a man into coming to get/take it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    When a lady wants it she should just go for it and cut out all the red tape.................

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    I think somebody else has gotten hold of Almost_done's gag and tape. Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've never been asked, I have however been used as an impliment within minutes of meeting..... Strange I've never woken up feeling used. Funny thing that

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I am not saying all men but certainly the men that send "wanna fuck' messages and other classy messages like that. You used the word 'men' in that sentence... I'd question whether they qualify for that category of species if they send such messages and expect a result. Maybe a good question might be to girls, has anyone ever had sex with a guy that has used this approach ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'willowtree' This could be a science project, make a single lady profile, leave it as gray ghost. Write a profile for it saying" i just love sex, cant get enough blah blah" see what guys messageDo we need anymore of these sorts of female profiles ? LOLTo be serious for a moment though, the power is generally in the females hands, its harder for guys to get genuine responses from girls no matter what the approach is. Girls can offer to meet at a coffee shop without showing their face pic because they are 'scared of privacy issues or a partner finding out'... guys go along with this to be considerate, not because we'll fuck anything.Most female profiles on here that want to meet people, give the impression that they are sexually active and keen to have such a relationship. It shouldn't really be that much of a surprise if some guys mis-interpret this to mean they don't need to work hard to gain trust and build a rapport with another human being.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Text messages for sex are the best I use to get them all the time from 5 different females a week. I never once nocked one of them back now I text them and get the nock back. The dry streak I'm in is not nice. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm selective on who I approach for sex. But too be honest if a woman asked to take me home and ride me like a thorough bread I'd be happy to oblige;-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    11 years ago

    I guess she's kneading your bread! 😜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'manonfire1982' I'm selective on who I approach for sex. But too be honest if a woman asked to take me home and ride me like a thorough bread I'd be happy to oblige;-) - Posted from rhpmobileA Mmmm a french stick now we are talking

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'manonfire1982' I'm selective on who I approach for sex. But too be honest if a woman asked to take me home and ride me like a thorough bread I'd be happy to oblige;-) - Posted from rhpmobile It appears those with a lot of dough, seem to knead a lot of woman, and get them ;-)

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'manonfire1982' I'm selective on who I approach for sex. But too be honest if a woman asked to take me home and ride me like a thorough bread I'd be happy to oblige;-) - Posted from rhpmobile I see your type of a woman... 'kneady'.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm not sure I would, I'm always a little wary of the knockback :/ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Always nice to share the load (not the best or quickest on the uptake). It just depends on which of the two are happy or sometimes confident enough to take that plunge to instigate those pleasures of the senses

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    In their own feminine way of course depending on the context. Guys get tired of doing all the work all the time. Help a fellow out ladies. :-)

  • boots_69

    boots_69

    11 years ago

    Always happy to be asked for sex by a lady - does the ego good. The reply may not always be yes but will always be polite.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Asking a woman for sex is "doing all the work"? No wonder we have so many unsatisfied women here! 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The pussy makes the rules ;) I would ask as well, I think it doesn't matter how starts... Just if both doing nothing it's shit... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    'So many unsatisfied women here' The survey says....X Are there really any unsatisfied women here? Maybe by choice, certainly not for want of opportunity - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Brunnication' Are there really any unsatisfied women here? Maybe by choice, certainly not for want of opportunity Opportunity and quantity.... are no measure of quality or enjoyment. Men and women are all aware of that, in every element of life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I said 'opportunity' with no assessment on quality or quantity. The more likely answer to the lack of satisfaction is the definition, if one is not looking then how can one complain about not finding ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Ah I think what ML is saying is that for the - "opportunity" to exist and to use your vernacular again - "by definition" - there must be quality. Quantity is merely the number of potentials to scan for the requisite quality.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    in response to the post - Definitely! The more forward the better. Very sexy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'SensualAries' Ah I think what ML is saying is that for the - "opportunity" to exist and to use your vernacular again - "by definition" - there must be quality. Quantity is merely the number of potentials to scan for the requisite quality. Beg to differ - Opportunity does not infer quality or quantity at all, however both exist on this site in abundance (otherwise why are we here)Quality in a relationship of any description comes from the participants in the relationship, not from the profile description. If one has no patience or willingness to engage with a potential suitor properly then one will never know satisfaction even if it slaps you in the face. I know that there are plenty of high quality guys here, I suspect just as many high quality girls. Some would object to being asked for sex, others would relish the chance to be so forward. If anyone is unsatisfied, maybe try a little harder to understand the other side.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ... to be asked. It's flattering. The only hard part of that scenario is when you're not attracted to the asker, and you need to find a way to graciously say no thanks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Brunnication' 'So many unsatisfied women here' The survey says....X Are there really any unsatisfied women here? Maybe by choice, certainly not for want of opportunity What am I missing with your posts? You asked a question..... asking if RHP women are "unsatisfied".(according to the posts surveys comments etc that women offer, some are left rather.... underwhelmed by some lovers... and not by others.). Then, you label that dissatisfaction as a choice .... because they're not utilising...... what(?)... the volume of opportunity in here? I clarified that opportunity... really simply means opportunity to discover IF the grand claims and big talking promises of the men in here to deliver ..... is quality, or merely oversell. So again I state that just because someone has the capacity to fuck you, and promises to do it better than anyone in history ever has..... ..... is not a guarantee that it is true. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I get your drift but it wasn't I that first said there were many unsatiafied women here. I was responding to this comment by suggesting there are probably more unsatiafied women by choice ie they aren't looking or are unwilling to look beyond a profile filled with flaws. Again I reiterate opportunity is much broader than even your very accepted explanation. Opportunity to gain satisfaction lies in every person, agreed for some situations it takes a heck of a lot and most would not bother, but it still exists. Your last statement has nothing to do with opportunity, I agree with the sentiment but the chance to find out is the opportunity. To make it true has more to do with physics, energy in = energy out :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Please to consider. 1. Some definitions of "opportunity" seem not to require an element of "quality" to be so defined. 2. Other definitions of "opportunity" critically require a requisite level of quality to indeed qualify as an aforesaid "Opportunity". Shall I be so bold to reasonably conclude that your definition as stated above and again argued further is option 1 above... Dare I speak for another member but after viewing many many posts from the same,< MLs // DGs > definition similarly as mine most definitely require the element of quality in variable proportions for said opportunity indeed to exist sir. Mate I was looking for numbers 30 years ago.....as a mature intelligent individual, quality has to be there for me to consider it an opportunity.....if a 75 yo lady grabs my nuts at the checkout you seem to call that an opportunity.....seems indeed that it is I who beg to differ.. SA

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The lady at the check out is only an opportunity if you determine it to be. If her name was Gabi Grecko that might still not be an opportunity. How you determine quality is a different set of rules again, they obviously will overlap. Some will see Gabi as a low quality hoe and others the 75 yo as experienced. My point was simple, if you judge a book by its cover without at least reading the first chapter you do yourself a dis-service. Most good roses have thorns but if you shy away from pricks you will miss out. All is entirely personal choice but it is silly to argue that there is no quality here, there are at least 3 quality gents in this conversation ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ah your original point sir directly linked quantity to satisfaction then redoubled above...... So Glad we agree - Im happy with Gabi & since quality seems irrelevant you may have the nut grabber.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'SensualAries' ah your original point sir directly linked quantity to satisfaction then redoubled above...... So Glad we agree - Im happy with Gabi & since quality seems irrelevant you may have the nut grabber..... hahahahahaha thanks a lot I didn't actually say i didn't want quality but perhaps I find quality in the most unusual of places which isn't always obvious to the window shopper. Did you know the 75 year old was Gabi in a body suit, she needed some more soap as they last block disappeared in the shower :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Brunnicator' Quoting 'SensualAries' ah your original point sir directly linked quantity to satisfaction then redoubled above...... So Glad we agree - Im happy with Gabi & since quality seems irrelevant you may have the nut grabber..... hahahahahaha thanks a lot I didn't actually say i didn't want quality but perhaps I find quality in the most unusual of places which isn't always obvious to the window shopper. Did you know the 75 year old was Gabi in a body suit, she needed some more soap as they last block disappeared in the shower :) didn't bite........lots of other flip wits would have....well done........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes more women should be asking for sex the world would be a better place - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If she hadn't asked I'm sure I wouldn't have my FWB today.No she's not from RHP.

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    11 years ago

    And knows exactly what she wants and how she wants it to play out, is that still a turn on? Is a sexually confident woman in all respects a turn on? Mary xx

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ag4mg92' And knows exactly what she wants and how she wants it to play out, is that still a turn on? Is a sexually confident woman in all respects a turn on? Mary xx That means it's clear in her mind, that's she given it thought, it's going to get her hot and horny and she want's me involved to make it happen for her.Who wouldn't find that a turn on?More so than a woman who is not sure of what she wants. Easier to hit a target that's in plain viewThan to hit a target hidden in the bushes........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It can be awkward turning a woman down if you're not really into her. But if you are it's hot. Not that it happens that much, but one time a few years back I had to go to Europe for work and I dropped a line to an ex who was living in Nice to see if she wanted to catch up. Her response: "only if you're going to put out." That certainly cut through layers of faffing around and made the days in the lead up electric with anticipation...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ag4mg92' And knows exactly what she wants and how she wants it to play out, is that still a turn on? Is a sexually confident woman in all respects a turn on? Mary xx but I'm starting to wonder.

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