M67
When Someone is just too big
May 12 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
Good lords. Blessed be..... Wine and nibbles available here for anyone to join in. 😆 Maybe it's the inches that are lacking. Just sayin... Tho ankles around ones ears helps. Should try it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...is to simply avoid contacting and/or following up with women that you personally may feel are disproportionate. It's only a guess, however rarely do the ladies here contact the men first...just change your tactics. Problem solved...next question? .......best, CM
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thought this was going to be a "size" brag. lol I used to be a very large woman at one time...never had the issues you're reffering to. Could be you as well (not just the woman/person you're with). Takes 2 to tango..or f*ck like rabbits..either or... If it doesn't work for you, change the type of person you're with (hard to do if that's the "type" that you're attracted to) or be more creative with positions. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
No offence and not making any assumptions, but I had a guy who had trouble fucking me, size wasn't on his side and it just wasn't great, he was also carrying some extra padding, not a lot, but enough to contribute to the experience not being great for me. So my opinion is it's not about the size of the woman. Everyone have their popcorn? 😂😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'Tho ankles around ones ears helps. Should try it. ...but how is having his ankles in his ears going to help him? He would look rather silly. Oh well, there's always hope if you're a contortionist!
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Teaser7
9 years ago
Coming from a BBW I've never had the problem you're referring to. Perhaps it's at your end so to speak....... Need some cushion for the pushin' 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
There are at least a dozen positions that will help you get in =D G o o g l e it =) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Find someone of a size you are compatible with and go for it. I don't like really big guys....either cock size or body size. If the cock is too big it just doesn't do it for me. Just my experience. And if the body is too big it can feel like they are suffocating you when they are on top. FFS don't rest on top of me. It's not sexy.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Do flaps put on weight?
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On_Safari
9 years ago
Yes they do, but only if the fat has nowhere else to go.....given we are born with a finite number of fat cells and if you have cosmetic surgery then your body will redistribute fat stores elsewhere.....sad but true. 👍🏽 Great question too BTW ~ Indy (still larfin')
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RHP User
9 years ago
working hard at becoming acceptably slimmer for many reasons including trying to get sexy mojo back, I've never had a issue in this area and yeah for all my weight on, I can still put my ankles behind my ears Why Op, do you assume it is "us" ?
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wantstochat
9 years ago
I've been with a few large women & never had any problems,i wasn't small myself at the time,i found patients & communication worked wonders for us both & really made the experience memorable for us.
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RHP User
9 years ago
as a supersize woman, I have never experienced this..and I do all positions..im not into big cocks over 7" is TOO BIG for me.........so I have to agree to what others have said maybe its actually your cock size ........
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RHP User
9 years ago
I almost choked on that dick I waa sucking. 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think after this post, you won't have to worry about us 'larger ladies' and how you could possibly have sex with us, not a good post - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
When one or BOTH parties is just too big, so maybe the OP is not suggesting it is ONLY the size of the "other" that is making things difficult. I've never had the problem, but then my 61kg means at least one of the parties is not too big. Grab your imagination, shake it up. Remember that you don't always have to be looking into her eyes, that one or either of you don't have be laying down and that you don't need to be parallel with eachother either. Think outside of, err, the box.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' I almost choked on that dick I was sucking. Don't gag and wake up the neighbors. Just pull your mouth offa my cock and put your ankles in your ears? Shhhhh don't tell and I will never say word to anyone. ...luv ya hot stuff! PS: *Warning* ...skinny women can cause pelvic bruises that won't go away for a week!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Im a much larger gawjus hunk of woman. I've not had an issue with lovers being balls deep. Even a 5"er and bloody hell, he was a great root. In fact he was a larger man too..The bugger went back to England. So it's all about position, position, position and maybe you're just doing the starfish. I must admit tho, men with a bigger than average tummy can perhaps have trouble in some positions. Enjoy the journey. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
You're an evil woman, Inspirit... that's why I like you! Some years back when I worked corporate here, I was at a conference in Noosa and the MD of the company said ''watch this'' and laid down on the floor twitching and spinning around? We said ''What the hell was that'' and he said ''Call it the Electric Starfish and my wife loves it!'' Of course a few bottles of Glenfiddich and the Midori on the bar may have been inspirational but what the hell! Serious...this top dog even knew enough to know better or maybe he knew the best? You are a geeeorgeous woman and if anyone says otherwise...well you're also big enough to give them one hella bop on the nose. Give me a holler if you don't drop them in one and I'll give you the cover. Best......... CM who hates pelvic bruises.
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RHP User
9 years ago
You'd be fucked if I jumped ya bones haha
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RHP User
9 years ago
Measure how much your abdomen extends with your groin as the 'zero' point. If your abdomen extends 5 inches from your groin, and the cock's entire length is 6 inches, Houston, we have a problem! Now, if you then have a partner whose abdomen is fairly large as well, then when the two abdomens collide in most sexual positions, Houston, there is no touchdown! In such a scenario, you'd have to improvise with the sexual positions but that would limit you and your partner greatly. I've had an ex with a large abdominal girth and a below average cock. The devious bugger romanced me and gave me the "let's not have sex until we are sure" line and I thought, wow... what a rare gentleman! He was, in actual fact, hiding the real issue - that he would be an absolute dud in bed. I gave him a fair go but the large abdomen consistently came between us... literally. I couldn't breathe because the abdomen was pressing down on me and with the laboured breathing, I was truly fearful that he would collapse from heart attack halfway! I also ended up doing most of the "work" because he'd just lie back and be a bloody starfish. Being an optimist, and being generally "nice" and not wanting to hurt people's feelings IRL, I gave another really large guy a chance but I've since learnt that I am really not into obese men and I cannot even feign enthusiasm about it anymore. There's something sexy about someone taking pride in their appearance and putting in an effort to look good and stay healthy so they can function optimally. I love love love self-improvement and love nutrition, fitness and health and obesity is the antithesis of what I truly love. The best thing to do would be to look at seriously trimming down the abdominal fat. Excessive belly fat is a huge risk factor for heart disease. I have belly fat myself and I hate hate hate it. I'm working to lose it totally because I do not think that being at an unhealthy weight is anything to be proud of. Since my weight loss, I've had so many health issues virtually disappear or lessen in intensity. I'd encourage anyone who's obese or morbidly obese to look at living a healthier lifestyle. Your life, including your sex life will definitely improve by leaps and bounds without all that excess, unhealthy weight.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for the sermon on being obese. However did you read the man's profile. His actually slim. I'm going to that I've had an amazing lover with a 5" dick and a gut. So I don't particularly agree with your post. Maybe I'm just more adventurous when it comes to small dicks and being a fatty. If fact what a crock of shit.....'your sex life will improve' LMAO. I think confidence and attitude improves a sex life. Tis ok forumites. I'm a big girl and can handle the back lash. Passive/aggressive much. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would think that being less of an arse would do more for one's sex life than losing weight
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I've gained a decent gut the last few months. Whadda ya say we get some different sized dildos and test out the theory that more jiggle = fewer penetration options? I'm in
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RHP User
9 years ago
Shizen even David Bowie had this one figured out years ago? Even if you can get the rocket in the air you need to be able to fly it right upon entry. Don't even ask about re-entry until you've got a space cadet license? Best..... CM
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'Tis ok forumites. I'm a big girl and can handle the back lash. ...so I hereby sentence you to a thorough tongue lashing (front, back, standing on my head) to be delivered personally on behalf of the Magistrate's Court and valid only until 2030. ....best, CM
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RHP User
9 years ago
You are correct her ankles around your ears do help in some situations but even when trying doggie it was hard to get near.I guess being 175cm and 76kg makes me medium build but I think sometimes the accuracy of the profile for ladies could help being more honest.slim = medium buildaverage = a few extra poundsa few extra pounds = large and overweightlarge = obeseSaying all of this having 6 inches is not hung but will stick to slim to medium build from here me thinks.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes I agree less arse would help, let me know how you go with that one
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RHP User
9 years ago
Pure Peony,Thanks for the post and understanding, with the gorgeous body that you have and the work you have put in you would have no issues but you are correct after having the experiences with a few obese guys.I have seen a few ads where women or couples want gang bangs with multiple males. After checking out their size its easy so see why the want 8-9 inches plus guys so they can actually get in there.Oh well Long and thin cant get it all inShort and thick does the trick
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RHP User
9 years ago
Count me in... I still have the pot belly that I acquired last winter, so I'm definitely a good candidate to test the more jiggle = fewer penetration options theory. Funnily enough, none of my lovers have complained about it, or seem to have 'entry' issues. And one of them is a long term lover (over four years) who's experienced my body when it's been a few kgs lighter than currently, so he'd see a difference for sure.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Im in...so too speak but I do have an 8" strap on to make up for my 15" gut. :-) See you in Brisso I hope! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Why tank you Sir. 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Why tank you Sir. 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
..and assume PP worded her post with out thought, that some would take offense. To be honest its hard to make judgement when you've not trully experienced what a topic is about. I remember once thinking it was piss easy to run a business. Oh how I was wrong. As for the OP. I don't think there was any malice in his post. Just perhaps his not experienced over weight people who are very sexually adventurous or who just aren't as flexible as some. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
9 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' I almost choked on that dick I waa sucking. 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am certainly not that experienced and do certainly not have the biggest cock on earth, but there are numerous ways to have fun with a big partner. What I dislike however is that I am more limited in my ways of handling a bigger partner But that point can be blamed on both participating, the girl for being big, or the guy for being to weak
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RHP User
9 years ago
Got me but it was 8" and I did swallow like a good girl. 😲💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I only had one bigger partner ever, so I can talk only about that one experience(s).
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RHP User
9 years ago
...38 kilos over an 18 month run of eating like a horse and loving every minute of it. LOL.... I do look and feel better at 79Kg and the ''All you can stand to eat'' buffet restaurants don't kick me out on sight anymore. Ohhhhhhhhhh do they have that so wrong!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Flights are coming down tho for us west coasters to get to the east coast more frequently :-) 🍾 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your first post the contortionist one 😂😂👍🏻👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Even tho you've lost 38kg you're sex life hasn't improved, just askin. 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
... and I do have a belly myself. So what's all this narkiness about? Inspirit, get personal and sling insults, why don't you? Saying stuff like not enough sexual experience, etc. Go ahead! Take the title! I'm not even a contender for that sort of title. I don't know any of you, have never seen you and don't wish to, and don't care whether you are fat or skinny. Go ahead and make everything personal and everything about you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
hahaha so true babe:)
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RHP User
9 years ago
hahaha so true babe:)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Its the Forums I didnt see any nastiness in your post, but youll be misinterpreted so best to have a thick skin. I used to be ashamed of my body, being on RHP actually gave me loads of confidence, and although Im still not skinny nor ever will be, I have accepted my shape ......this is me. I exercise and try to eat healthy food most of the time, but I like going out with my guy and my friends and having a nice dinner with wine. If people have a problem with body size then it comes down to the fact that there isnt a good enough connection. If I really liked someone then size wouldnt be an issue. Someone will find you sexy for who you are and there are lots of different ways to please each other, I really cant see why the OP has found it too difficult but obviously he has had that experience and I havent. Be proud of what you have achieved and dont let anyone take that away from you.
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MissBishere
9 years ago
I have a belly and an arse and I have played with men that have bellies to and an average sized penis. I haven't found it's stopped any encounters but I do find that sometimes the angle has to be right. Like in doggie I really need to arch my back to push the pussy more towards him or better yet assume the position of chest down arse up rather then being on all fours. I once had a lover for a period of time that was 60, pot bellied, and his penis would be maybe 4 inches and thin. Still we had no problems with him getting it in and keeping it in with my legs over his shoulders or me riding him. There is always a way to make it work.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I wasnt insulting you. I was merely making a statement, which perhaps you've taken personally. Some people are more confident, adventurous and flexible. I don't believe losing weight will change this. Losing weight can of course change ones confident levels if they were unhappy with their body and in your view and experience, it did, which is ok. Is also ok for someone to take offense to a post and say something. I did not directly insult you in my view. I did however take offense to you calling someone a dud root because he was fat and had a small cock. So I went in and batted for he who cannot defend himself. Sorry. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've never an issue with any size lady. Sexy comes from within a person. The more sexy the lady has the more I want to bring it out of them. There is something hot about everyone. Sounds like you might be a little down in some areas - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've had cocks of varying sizes and this has never happened to me. Sounds like the driver is taking a wrong turn, maybe get some directions.
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yankmychain56
9 years ago
this is where extensive use of fingers and TONGUE come in to make up for any deficiencies :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I understand you'd like to have the option of people being honest about theyre size. However, I'm sure you've met these so called larger woman and yet you still sleep with them, then manage to whine still. I think I missed something here. Oh and me giving you the benifit of the doubt..... LOL. *Steps out* - Posted from rhpmobile
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youandus33
9 years ago
Hahaha what am amateur . May be why you are single lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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time4us4play
9 years ago
My thoughts, grow a bigger dick. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Try the side mount position next time with you straddling her bottom leg, have the top leg bent at a right angle as far as you can get b.It's a very deep, easy position. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have a rather jiggly tummy and a big arse but he knows all the positions to get right in there and give me the best orgasms. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Riiiight. Nothing made you come alive and fire post after post with rapid gunfire speed because you chose to see personal insults in my post. Hatred sure makes you come alive. And as for "defending" my ex, you aren't known for being charitable nor kind in the short time I've been here. It's been mainly catty, bitchy comments with the occasional positive thing. I admired you for what you've accomplished in the workplace but the direct attacks on others, class act. The OP did ask a valid question. I don't see any viciousness in his comments. And yet, so many females have taken it personally and slung back insults at him. I truly feel sorry for those who are in attack mode all the time and see offence where none was intended. Musn't be in a very good place where the instant reaction to everything is caustic, toxic, and bitter. Is it that hard to believe that the OP had a genuine question that he wanted constructive advice for? It was objectively written but the snide remarks about his length, his technique, that is truly low brow and totally unnecessary. OP, take courage. ATM, the forums is highly toxic and negative but don't let any of the personal attacks get to you. ;) The haters actually motivate me to remain in the company of positive people and I treasure my friends and social groups IRL even more. :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks! I was responding to the OP's questions in the post and sharing my own experiences. But oh well, people can read it and turn it into some personal vendetta of hate, no one's stopping them. Ironically, I have a belly myself and it's immovable - it didn't shrink at all despite my weight loss. So I suppose I'm stuck with it. :P See, all those who are too happy to get into Rottweiler attack mode are only too happy to read what they wanna, interpret how they wanna and then unleash the fury. It's Sunday, I have just returned from a nice catching-up session with friends, and I'm glowing from the lovely gesture of friends who surprised me by turning up to help me move stuff into storage. Whatever vitriol that occurs here, doesn't impact my real life one iota. ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
The forum isn't highly toxic and negative. People just post based on their experience or how they feel, which isn't always in agreeance with the op or may come across as negative, but there are plenty of positives to go with that, which is life. Most if not all people on here have a great sense of humour, most if not all will be honest with their feelings/opinion re a topic. It's a tad naive to expect everything to be perfect and everyone to interact perfectly, perfect sunshine, all of the time. Best to try not to cast an overall negative picture of the forum, a place many of us love and enjoy. Life/people aren't perfect, but take away honesty from the forum and, well it wouldn't be a forum. Chin up, just enjoy it 👍
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just curious what ladies opinions are on the perfect length/girth? I know it's all preference but that is why I am asking. Cheers
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not to comment an opinion in these forums anymore. Thanks PP Be well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I thought you were talking about ladies being too small or shallow cervix for a man....had that happen a few times.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes, agree 100%. Foreplay can be 'all' play and amazing. I had one partner, we never fucked, it was all tongue, fingers, mouth, all oral, and passionate kissing, focused attention for both of us, neither one of us needed anything more. I also agree with MissB re angle of position. I find with doggie, I push my body down and poke my butt up at a more acute angle, for me, it feels so much better, seems to open up and prepare to receive, hard to explain, but almost like it exposes the nerves more, even to the air prior to penetration, but seems to be better for them too. And although I hate missionary, I love when they grab my hips and heave me up, ankles up high over their shoulders, then we can both get the visual and alternate between hard and fast, and slow teasing, hence heightened stimulation, for me anyway. Playing around with positions and angles is worth doing to find what works best for both, along with communication. Guys aren't mind readers either so I try to tell them how I like it, partly that and partly sucking and seeing at the time 😛😜 some of the onus certainly falls on us to communicate properly with them 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
You have as much right to be here and share your opinions as anyone else, all personalities bring diversity to the forum. The longer I'm on here, the more I appreciate that and I really mean that. I love that diversity. You're absolutely fine. I don't take of fence from anything you write, not jumping in to take sides, just that I like your input, it's punchy and funny 👍
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RHP User
9 years ago
Grrr pre-empt changes offence to 'of fence' 😛
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RHP User
9 years ago
No forumite owns the forums and no one has asked you to leave nor does anyone have the right to do so. I truly resent any form of ridicule, which you did indulge in. The malicious intent is not lost on me. Read my post again - I mentioned abdominal girth vs penis length, and then abdominal girth of both. Common sense. If you want to interpret that as fat people can't have good sex, or only stupid, inexperienced people not as good as you are in bed can't have good sex because of their tummy, that is totally your hypersensitivity to make my objective comment personal because, let me see, you are so confident in yourself that you take offence at any mention of obesity and make it into a personal offence thing. You and all the ladies who jumped the gun here. What's wrong with saying things in a more tactful manner like, "What you said can be interpreted as offensive because..."? This is where countrytouch is truly impressive because he's diplomatic and slow to make inflammatory and personal remarks. Even when he disagrees with something or objects to something, he puts it politely and nicely. Look at the posts insulting the OP that is littered throughout this thread. Totally unnecessary. Why do the Mods think it's ok to allow people to continue to be verbally abrasive in here, especially to newbies? The number of good, sensible and logical people who have left the forums because of the senseless attacks is sad.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have found being a bit confident and a connection to a person makes a big difference. No matter what size body or other bits. If you are comfortable with someone makes a world of difference. If you arent it can be a big fail. No matter what happens it doesnt hurt to be nice. Then move on. It's all about having fun after all. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
This is my last post. You yourself have taken everything I have written in this post and others, out of context. You've singled me out, which is fine. Unfortunately it is sensitive woman like yourself who do cause problems. Perhaps you should reread my post of the last 6 years and then have a go at me. Goodbye and good luck.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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compressor
9 years ago
the fact is all shapes and sizes are beautiful and enjoy sexy just the way all other ladies enjoy sex
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Op as Im not privee to what happens in the bedroom with your partners, (that's not an invitation btw) it would be presumptuous of me or the others to point fingers at any one or two reasons for your problem. I haven't looked at your profile nor know your size as insinuating that is non constructive to this topic, IMO. So I'll look at your topic maturely and constructively. I've been with men with padding both average and well endowed. No issues as we try many positions to maximise full and deeper penetration. Look at your techniques. There should be no blaming involved as that is not helpful. dont rush things. Change things up. You may want to get your larger partner to lower their head and raise her arse mireein doggie. Or you can prop up your partners back by placing pillows or cushions under her bum. Raising her hips with pillows will put less strain on her and your arms/back, as well providing maximum penetration. She can also relax as you give her a good tongue lashing and use your fingers to excite her. Use your hands to part her wider if that is what you both want. If you cant keep it in as you say, stop pounding in and out like a rabbit and learn to grind your hips against her luscious ass while grabbing her hips. you get to fill and explore her inside more. If you get tired, rest a bit, kiss, caress and massage her back. Enjoy the sensuality of moment and your partner, regardless of her size. So experiment, experiment, experiment. Each woman are turned on differently, like you men. Ask her what turns her on and then work a way to get you both what you want. If there're some weight concerns, very few of us have supermodel bodies, work together with props and your hands and tongue. you'll find that the more turned on a woman is, the more she'll open up and widen her legs and receive you. Invest in a swing.😄 She'll love it. . Best wishes.
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RHP User
9 years ago
It could be a cock size 6 inches I know is not hung nearer the bone sweeter the meat
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RHP User
9 years ago
An Elke has horns so maybe I could hold onto them whilst entering you
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi Meander no malice meant just wanting to try and get others views and ideas on this
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RHP User
9 years ago
That's the best response to the OP's questions thus far! Constructive and very helpful! Someone should pay you to write a sex column. =D
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RHP User
9 years ago
Being a large lady, what size cocks do you find you are comfortable with and can feel inside
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RHP User
9 years ago
Dear Inspirit, I don't purposely sleep or have sex with large women invariably they say on profiles they are average then when you get there you see all the padding.I always stay and not run and make sure they had a good time.Its disappointing that people don't be honest in their assessment of themselves.The profiles ask for a height so it would be more informative if the listed weight as well
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RHP User
9 years ago
Single or married or defacto has zero to do with it.You can call amateur if you wish and comment but tell me this if your so hot and happy with your wife. Why are you sharing her with someone else is there a deficiency there maybe
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RHP User
9 years ago
How do you do that, I mean yours is listed as 5-6 inches what size was it before, just asking?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Wow you are a more than honest soul, advertising extra padding well after seeing your pics I would say average and gorgeous body no issues there.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Dear Pure Peony, Its ok I hope the posts genuinely help people do something about themselves if they have a problem.Sex is meant to be pleasurable and its why most are on here.A weakness is having to get snotty and have a genuine crack at someone trying to be informative, generally the post probably hit a raw nerve with someone who has a body issue but doesn't want to talk or do anything about it .BTW nice pics.Op
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RHP User
9 years ago
My women curvy and voluptuous. Dad bods are sexy and I've played with men who've been larger, only once was sex and penetration an issue with some positions. I am curvy and voluptuous and if I was to measure against my BMI I'm morbidly obese ... go figure ;) I was at a club with friends and we watched two very, very large people fuck. A lot of positions did seem very challenging, virtually impossible because of their sizes. The gentleman, though fully erect and a good size by the look of it, did not protrude past his belly. I did think that some positions may be difficult to achieve for them but a good lover will in fact, through sexy trial and error, work out the position that's satisfying for both :) Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
I really dont think you are trying too hard.... We love bbw and most of our group are larger including mrs host. Never a problem for all shapes of guys also. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
9 years ago
I posted before I was your responses above. I.think it was not necessary to take the tact you did re. being single. People's desire to have sex with othee has nothing to do with their relationship status, regardless of whether they are happily married or not, single or attached. No relevance to you unless it affects you personally . for whatever reason they seek other connection, their business. the same argument that goes for you that you seek company with people of any size. I'm confused when you 'stayed' around when you meet women that does not fit your preferences. what do you mean stayed? Have sex with them even if you disdain them at sight? why? Just seeking clarification. Thanks
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RHP User
9 years ago
It was never about perfection. That doesn't exist. We may not see eye to eye a lot, but we are both practical people. It's about not being catty and bitchy to others, especially to newbies. Sometimes, people genuinely have a question to ask and instead of getting good advice, they get very personal insults thrown their way. Who dares to ask anything anymore in an atmosphere like that? Or who dares to share anything seeing how others who dared are being mindlessly attacked? If you truly enjoy diversity, endeavor to make newbies feel welcome, not intimidated. You have a wealth of experiences - Life and Sexual. People love to read about your exploits. You have a helluva imagination and I reckon you are very creative IRL. Personality differences aside, who batted for you when others celebrated your temporary departure from the forums? We aren't the best of friends but still, I didn't like how nasty others were towards you. Same principle when newbies and OP's get attacked. Hate it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your subsequent posts made for interesting reading. Based on your writings, I think your "lack of success" with "larger" women has little to do with their physical shape or your cock size. I'm thinking more to do with your attitude A rethink perhaps? PP and Inspirit, both excellent posters. Please don't stop posting as you both raised valid and important issues. I enjoy reading both your opinions and I'm sure I speak for others :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
For a large proportion of people in the western world generally living a healthier lifestyle will cause them to lose some weight and it will definitely improve their sex life appreciably. This does not imply that a fulfilling sex life can not be had at any size or that such changes in lifestyle will amount to a net positive for all people, although I suspect it would for most. Some people are perfectly happy how they are and would not be any other way and that is their prerogative. But to think that healthier does not equal better, more frequent sex and being more attractive to most partners which also leads to the same is being straight delusional or maybe in some cases sorely lacking in life experience. If this intrinsic and quantifiable/verifiable fact offends or bothers you then I suggest that "shooting the messenger" be that me or PP is a self limiting behavior on your behalf.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have had sex with a couple of bigger guys, and to be perfectly honest, it was a problem. Either his belly got in the way, or he was crushing me, or had issues with getting his cock inside me. I don't think this post is bad, it's not rude or degrading or anything like that. Many of he comments are though. I'm sure the OP has a normal cock and the fact that others feel they need to attack him is just childish. I'm no stick figure, I have plenty of bumps and curves and jiggly bits, and I have no problems with men or women asking about body size. The same question could be asked in reverse, how do people find sex with "skinnier than normal" partners? I find it can be uncomfortable for many reasons, and depending on who it is, whether I'll go there or not. But I don't find "skinny" attractive, based solely on that factor alone. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
A relief of sorts to know it's not just me. 😎 Pass the popcorn please 🍿
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RHP User
9 years ago
Here... have some of mine 🍿, I'll even shout you a 🍻
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RHP User
9 years ago
Any forum topic which deals with body shape/size/dimension (i.e.weight/height/cock size/boob size et al) is going to draw a heated response from people. Surely you've noticed that by now? I'm all for people having preferences, but when that 'preference' is described as a dislike/antipathy for it's opposite, count me out. The perfect body shape or size is dictated by society, media, social media etc. Although there are movements to counteract this, we've still got a long way to go unfortunately. I've experienced body shaming from both side - as in being too skinny and being overweight - in the form of to-my-face, derogatory comments. It's had a huge impact on my self confidence. To those of you that have reached that Nirvana of not giving a damn about what the current perfect body shape is, and who are happy with how they are, I salute you and I'm working to get there one day. We also need to acknowledge that some people have a particular body shape due to medical or other issues - bulimia/anorexia, anti-depressant medication or a whole bunch of other reasons. Telling someone to lose weight or put on weight, with no knowledge or understanding their history, is facile in the extreme and shows a lack of empathy at the least. I know that your intentions were good, but I challenge you look back at your first post in this thread, and understand how condescending and judgemental it may come across to someone like myself who has experienced weight fluctuations for reasons that were totally out of my control.
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RHP User
9 years ago
If I intimidate people, that's their problem. I can't be treading on eggshells every time I make a comment, and your constant lectures about the forum being 'toxic' in which you talk in a nasty way about others and the way they post, saying how nasty and vicious they are, do you see what you're doing? You're being what you accuse others of being, but you can't see that. It's all a bit sappy for me anyway. If people are intimidated, they need to grow a set, I did lol 😎 we're adults, surely we can handle a bit of heated discussion, and just because you came into bat for me once, doesn't mean I have to agree with your attitude or everything you say. What on earth has that got to do with anything? I'm not forever indebted to you. I seem to remember going in to bat for you too when you were on the outer, or have you conveniently forgotten that? Completely irrelevant re the topic or continued musings on the forum. I'm out, not remotely interested in getting bogged down with your negative take on the forum. If it's so bad and 'vicious'/full of rottweillers lol why are you here? Don't even want to be associated with that kind of baggage and naive unrealistic expectation. You do what you must, just leave me out it, thanks 👍
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kisskiss80'The same question could be asked in reverse, how do people find sex with "skinnier than normal"I'm by no means "skinny", but I'm smaller than I used to be...much less padding. So I always seems to come away from a good night of sex with bruises on my hip bones nowadays! (As well as the usual rough play marks) ;-) lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
When I first read the title, I thought it was about genital size lol I don't like commenting on people's actual weight because it's a fine line to tread and whether people just give themselves excuses, have critical physical health concerns or are happy with their weight is not really my business. There are some hotties that will only go for bigger people. I cannot say that sex life is better with skinnier people. But tbh, when I go on a date and guys have put on many pounds since taking their photo, I am not attracted to them. I'm not desperate enough to go through having good cock and I don't care that he's the Sumo champion of the world... I'm going to outrun him for sure. Maybe that's what it is, I don't want to go for a guy that I can't outrun... lol what's the use of the guy chasing me then? But again I don't want someone that I can't catch either. No fun. At the end of the day, regardless of physical body size it depends what gets you off. Some people hate it, some people love it and some people don't mind it. Some people are just bitter and go off topic. You have all sorts lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I don't want to go for a guy that I can* outrun. Hehehe being playful is half the fun, isn't it? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Lol @out running. There seems to be a lot of sexual callisthenics and athletics involved here. Haha. Nearly spat out my lunch. Haha 😂 👍
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Seachange73
9 years ago
I'm about to rush to my next meeting at the other side of the city and looks like I'll be doing a runner after lunch in my high heeled boots. U wouldn't mind a Hottie chasing me down to speed up the process and make the trip more fun. Haha. Gotta dash 🏃 💨
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RHP User
9 years ago
down in some areas??
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RHP User
9 years ago
May I ask how many kilos you weigh , now be honest?? Looking for a tayla made answer
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RHP User
9 years ago
Lily orchid When you make an appointment and someone invites you into their home , tending to get to know someone first not jumping them straight away. I would think it to be impolite to just say " Your too big not like your profile stated" so instead I was respectful and pleasured them anyway. just being courteous
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RHP User
9 years ago
Dear Kiss kiss80, I have found nearer the bone , sweeter the meat \.This post wasn't about obese people just trying to find a way around it for others.I think honesty on their profiles and photos which are recent would be a good start.The ask for endowment size, breast size height etc. So why not ask to register weight so that people get a clearer picture before hooking up?
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