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GUYS...CONDOMS!!
June 18 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
i had a meet with a girl once and it was made clear beforehand that it was just a social meet with no intention of going any further at that stage.. so i left the rubbers at home.. didnt take long before the social meet turned into her tearing my clothes of in the allyway and begging me to give it to her behind a pile of crates. haha you should have seen the surprise on her face when i told her i didnt bring a condom. she couldnt beleive it. i explained to her that it would have been presumtious of me to bring one since we had agreed it was strictly social..she called me old fashioned and we had a laugh about it and went to the servo to grab a pack..alss well that ends well
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RHP User
13 years ago
I never carry condoms on me, I find its bad form to have the wallet open and brandishing rubber all over the place. Nor do I enjoy when my work friends rifle through my shizzle in my car, so don't keep them there either.I also don't get too far a head of myself and expect that I'll actually get to use them with whoever I might end up on a date with, so I do not load up for simple dating or catch ups either.Don't get me wrong, I always use them but I would rather run to the store if the situation arises, I mean where isn't close by that has them! Oh, and stopping to let someone put it on or help me put it on... one of my fav things :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
If as a fit you have a penis that is not super easy to fit, I would think once you found a condom that fit you nicely you would want to use it rather than leaving it up to us. I had to use a female condom the other day Cos the guy was not used to condoms. Honestly I don't want to get anything and I try to have a range of condoms but I am shocked that it is always me supplying- Posted from rhpmobile
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Bigsouthozcock
13 years ago
Very true JJ. I carry my own as I prefer a specific brand and a certain sized one!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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Bigsouthozcock
13 years ago
Haha... Self being the operative word when it comes to yourself it seems ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well xfunlovingx I would go ahead and say that I personally hate condoms and would rather not use them at all and am sure that most guys would agree. That being said I would never meet with someone without carrying one on me. Could it also be that these men aren't carrying them around because they don't want them being found by someone? I.e girlfriend?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Simple as that. No exceptions.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...at some women who, when I reach for the condoms, say "oh don't worry about it, I'm on the pill"...major turn off! I was genuinely shocked the first time this happened, so it's not just the guys
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RHP User
13 years ago
I met a guy who had the biggest cock I had seen in real life. I arrived at his house to find him lazing naked in the spa. His cock was unbelievable, however, he said he refused to use a condom. He was so adamant about it. I said no condom, no fuck. I think he was so surprised that I was willing to walk away from him. I think he thought his cock would mean he could get what he wanted. When he knew I was serious he pleased..."we could get aids/sti tests and then fuck without it". I said... "sorry, no, I want a fuck now, not in weeks... I'm just going back online to find someone else" and I left... He sent me a text later and said..."so much for my plan" lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Think we're all in agreement - we'd all rather not, but there is not way we wouldn't. Having a box handy (one in the car, one at work, one at home, one in a safety deposit box in the city...) at all times is an imperative for we Lotharios who just never know when the next fair maiden will swoon into our arms. And, agreed, size XXL all the way..I can recall twice being 'caught' carrying condoms on a first meet - once, it was greeted with delight, on the basis that it indicated the lead up had seduced me, and the second with disdain on the basis of being presumptive. People are funny...BUT, if it's easy to know that they are needed initially, when does that stop... when you're agreed to be monogamous? When you've both had a test? Never? When you've reached a trust that even if not monogamous you're always safe with others?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'sexnfun8888'Dont know why guys don't use condoms....the only time I don't use condom is when I'm with mrs sexnfun7777. It boggles the mind at how big a risk people are taking..I would also be stressing for months after, worried that I may have caught something if I didn't use one.....safe sex is stress free sex...PUT IT ON, THENGET IT ON....hehe Do you do oral on others? You mention "safe sex" Chlymadia is about the only STD you cannot contract by doing oral
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Elconquistador1'Well xfunlovingx I would go ahead and say that I personally hate condoms and would rather not use them at all and am sure that most guys would agree. That being said I would never meet with someone without carrying one on me. Could it also be that these men aren't carrying them around because they don't want them being found by someone? I.e girlfriend? When I meet up with attached guys I have no problems supplying the condoms...It is the unattached guys who are meeting me for sex that don't turn up with any that shocks me, even though I always carry them on me, I think that some guys need to think before meeting for sex and at least have one on them! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I couldnt see a bad word pass those lips, let alone anything else....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I always carry one on me, never know when you will need it but best to be prepared all the same.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think it's not acceptable to meet someone with the intention of intercourse and not bring protection. I don't know how they do it, I couldn't arrange for a meeting with someone and not bring a condom. I would think it would be a deal breaker. What is your reaction to the times it has happened XFunlovingX?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think those of you who seem to feel that oral sex without protection is perfectly safe are not considering all the possibilities.A young lady I know had sex for the first time and thought she had struck gold. The guy was happy to wear a condom and was happy to show her the pleasures of oral sex. What he forgot to mention was that he suffered from cold sores around his mouth from time to time and had - supposedly - just gotten over an episode....Her first sexual adventure ended up giving her Herpes. They were young and foolish and didn't know the risks, but now she has to live with that for the rest of her life. True story and very recent!Anyone who does not enjoy monogamous sex runs a risk of disease. Condoms Fail but is that an "acceptable risk"?We all run risks. It's just what YOU consider to be acceptable and the consequences are YOURS too.All we can do is ask for honesty (and maybe we should carry a checklist with us too, just in case we've forgotten to ask the right questions....lol)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Even us girls can tell the difference....
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