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GUYS...CONDOMS!!
June 18 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Surprises me too !! Or those that meet me at a swingers club and don't go to get one before they proceed to sex ( its right there on the bed stand!) I could have unprotected sex with lots of men for all they know !! Don't they care?? Or are they ignorant!? BIG turn off having to constantly ask and check ( that it's still on!!)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Dont know why guys don't use condoms....the only time I don't use condom is when I'm with mrs sexnfun7777. It boggles the mind at how big a risk people are taking..I would also be stressing for months after, worried that I may have caught something if I didn't use one.....safe sex is stress free sex...PUT IT ON, THENGET IT ON....hehe
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RHP User
14 years ago
I know what you girls are saying ... But I would really trust the guys to provide them ... reason being If they are keeping them in their wallet .. the friction being experienced from sitting / standing / getting in and out of cars .. runs a very high risk of putting fine holes in them .. Have also experienced guys providing condoms with out=of=date expired useby dated items . If its in a new packet .. then definitely I would trust .. I always carry a few in a very pretty container (purchased at sexpo just for the purpose) and make sure they are always available and in date ..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Not Even Stupidity,then again perhaps there is...not so much Stupidity but Ignorance...Nah Ignorance don't wash with me either.Lack of care, attention and responsibility of your own sexual health is both stupid and ignorant, lack of care, attention and responsibility of your prospective partners sexual health Narcissistic.About 27 years ago they used to have those lovely bowling ball adds with the grim reaper remember those?,and the couple in bed that had unprotected sex next to all the people in beds with all the other people that had also had unprotected sex and so on and so on....they really should bring those back i think.Back then i hadn't even begun having sex and i was told if you do at least make it not worth dying for.I still think that no matter how great that sex may be....I love living a whole lot more
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RHP User
14 years ago
The amount of guys that we chat to that ask do they have to use one is amazing , What is going on in there heads ? If its not on then your not going in
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have a low tolerance to latex products. As soon as I come into contact with latex the fountain dries up. Most of the partners I meet provide their own but I also pre-warn them that they need to bring non-latex protection and give them the brand name so they can find it easily (Skyns).... A little prerequisite training goes a long way to pleasure and not disappointment for both parties. I have made converts who only use non-latex condoms because it feels better for them too. Gotta love those Skyns!!! (Closest thing to going without that I have tried so far). I should be asking for commission on the number of sales I've helped them make.....lol Stay safe...Hugs....SFxx
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'celebree'If they are keeping them in their wallet .. the friction being experienced from sitting / standing / getting in and out of cars .. runs a very high risk of putting fine holes in them .. If its in a new packet .. then definitely I would trust .. I always carry a few in a very pretty container (purchased at sexpo just for the purpose) and make sure they are always available and in date .. I too have mine in a "special" hard-case card holder especially for these reasons and check the date before any meet. Regarding the OP question...if it was an organised "sex meet" then it would be disrespectful to not bring atleast a couple of various types, allowing for atleast one repeat performance and the lady's preference. But if it was just a first-time "meet & greet" then I would probably not bring them thinking it was more disrespectful if I did, preferring to opt for oral first time if the meeting progressed to that stage and the lady did not wish to wait.
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RHP User
14 years ago
and I carry them in case in my car and my purse which does not fit in my pocket ;)Cass xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was taught by a male friend to always bring my own and I have met many guys who turned up without any and I would say dont worry I bought some. It was and always is a concern for me that they just dont care.Meaning THEY JUST DONT CARENot safe
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RHP User
14 years ago
To be honest, I cant justify why we make such stupid decisions. I think it does come down to us not thinking of the whole picture where it just does not register that we need it. Sure as hell we feel like we need it when we get there... I cant justify why we do it, other than we are just stupid and forgetful some times... As I have d one it too
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RHP User
14 years ago
just in case of breakages, I've had a vasectomy so am not worried about impregnation but I dont think the missus would be too happy if I brought her home any 'suprises'. I wear safety glasses when I mow or chainsaw, i wear a hard hat and steel caps at work, protection is natural and doesnt rate a second thought. Nat;)
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QLDtwo4fun
14 years ago
For it's worth I'm a guy in favour of condoms for two reasons. I've got through the last 50 years of life without catching any STDs, and catching one is not something I want to experience. Secondly I have four children, both my wife and my ex-wife fell pregnant almost the day they stopped taking the pill. Even though I've now had a vasectomy it's still always safe sex outside our relationship. As for the arguement that it desensitise things for a guy, I am happy to last longer. So unless your profile answer to the safe sex question is 'for all activities' neither of us are interested. Maybe some of these guys are worried about partners finding them in possession of condoms.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I ensure I have some on me at all times...never know your luck ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Simple really.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well, glad to know that I'm in the two percents. I carry them even when I go to swingers party/club just to make sure I have them. Worry that the condom will break for carry them around is not an excuse, if you are worried just leave them at home and take them with you once you are going to meet someone. If you drive just leave them in your car. I suggest all the women should refuse to have sex with men without condoms. This will teach them a lesson to start carrying them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Should I be wearing it before I arrive for the date?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I wouldn't leave them in the car, folks. Just like dogs die in hot cars, latex can degrade. In fact I've had condoms that I've accidentally left in my car for a few days and I've put them straight in the bin. We don't have to be crazy about them and keep them in Eskys but a car parked in the Australian sun for days on end could be inviting disaster. Quoting 'jensman1903'Should I be wearing it before I arrive for the date? If you can get and stay hard for the drive there and the lead-up chat then by all means.
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RHP User
14 years ago
The bottom line is if you have a penis then you should wrap it when on the scene. I am amazed at the amount of profiles that don't have safe sex "always" in them. I wouldn't consider one that doesn't have safe sex as a priority. Would you pick someone up at a pub or club and expect to not use a condom? well swinging should be the same. Having said that, I have an extensive supply of colours, shapes, sizes, brands, latex, non-latex, flavour just in case the guy "forgets" to bring them. But honestly, to me if they "forget" then their intention is pretty clear that it is not a priority for them. Bye, bye Mr Condom amnesiac I say! No condom, no play.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I always have 1 in the wallet, just in case. Always bring a pack to a meet (I need the whole pack in one sitting ) Always have a pack under my bed. Easy :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo' I wouldn't leave them in the car, folks. Just like dogs die in hot cars, latex can degrade. We don't have to be crazy about them and keep them in Eskys but a car parked in the Australian sun for days on end could be inviting disaster. Leaving them in the car .. on a hot day .. is worse then having them in your wallet ..
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RHP User
14 years ago
They are in date but I have never had to use them so have been in there a while.....I will bin em.Found one once on my basin tap- kids had been trying to use it as a water balloon lol!I prefer men to use one's I have if at my home- not from their wallet or from a fresh packet at their home.Cass xxx On a tangent- A man was shocked the other week when I said yes he has to wear one for anal!!! Like pregnancy is the only issue!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just a couple of random observations - 98% of men dont bring them? Then we would ask just what sort of men are you meeting and where are you finding them!! lol Dont think we've ever had a male friend who hasn't had a couple on them 24 hours a day, just in case of some miracle opportunity!! Secondly, basic behavioural theory - for every man that isn't bringing condoms, there must women who fuck him without them, otherwise they'd pretty quickly change their tune! Positive consequence = increase in behaviour, negative reinforcement = reduction. hehe
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am shocked at how many guys I meet for a sex meet... This introduction alone by this poster of 'how many guys I meet' should be a sign that we should all be safe. Big numbers of meetings by some people = be safe.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Also I dont know, maybe it is something mental. But if ever I have condoms on me I dont ever seem to get offered. Seems like its only when I dont have any condoms with me that i get offers :-)./// Is this just me?
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RHP User
14 years ago
but that's more to do with being optimistic than responsible.I should check the dates on them i think?~face palms self~
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'usa2syd' I am shocked at how many guys I meet for a sex meet... This introduction alone by this poster of 'how many guys I meet' should be a sign that we should all be safe. Big numbers of meetings by some people = be safe. Seeings as you cut the first line in half... and added the .... what you are trying to achieve has failed ... big time! This is a serious issue and I see that since yesterday you changed your profile from "If required" to now read "Always for Intercourse"...See, you are one of the men that is a danger! Please take your frustration out elsewhere..... xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
More common than what I thought...Thanks to the ones that answered the question just shows that some of us take safe sex seriously! At least we had one guy answer the question honestly... TongueCramps...I was meeting the men from here and sometimes out and about (when I used to have sex) and I actually started this post on a post that was brought up in SWB! When girls see that it is not only them it happens to then they feel better about the situation! To the ones that tried to put it back on me and the men I meet and the amount of men I meet...I am sure you will be known by your first name by the local sexual clinic nurse! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
well, i for one always carry and use condoms. just makes sense to protect both. but what really surprises me that there are so many girls that ask me not to use it. i don't get it? i mean, from a guy's perspective, yes it does change our sensitivity just a little, but does it really feel that different for the girl?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'FlyingHangman'well, i for one always carry and use condoms. just makes sense to protect both. but what really surprises me that there are so many girls that ask me not to use it. i don't get it? i mean, from a guy's perspective, yes it does change our sensitivity just a little, but does it really feel that different for the girl? That is when you run FlyingHangMan...If they ask you not to use them...just imagine how many others that they have had unprotected sex with! For me I couldn't tell you if it feels different as I have been using them for over 14 years, even in relationships as I have unable to take contraception at all for medical reasons! I think that the Grim Reaper ads need to come back for the young ones...that is really scary shit! If I were you I would also be wondering if they want to fall pregnant...the withdrawal method just doesn't work! Be proud of yourself FlyingHangMan for every no that you say to no condoms... Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I always carry protection with me and I would've thought it'd go without saying to BYO if you were meeting up for sex.. I'm here to enjoy myself and have fun, not stress or worry about what potential 'surprises' I might catch.@Nudierudie2 - I think I remember the Ad you're talking about, I agree, they should bring it back. Or something similar with the same message.And afterall, we're on a sex site. The aim for most here is to meet people for sex. So whoever your meeting for sex has possibly had sex with a few people. And the people they've had sex with have also possibly have sex with a few people, and so on and so on. It makes me think of an upside down pyramid with you at the tip... Some of those pyramids could be very, very big. You just don't know, better to be safe than sorry IMHO.FTL
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'usa2syd' I am shocked at how many guys I meet for a sex meet... This introduction alone by this poster of 'how many guys I meet' should be a sign that we should all be safe. Big numbers of meetings by some people = be safe. Apologies in advance because this is slightly off topic, but I've been thinking abut it all evening.Seriously, I think it's safe to assume that people who are keen for casual sex with you are keen for it with others. So I wouldn't be about to judge anyone on their 'numbers'. Dismount the high horse already.I'd think that the people who bring up safety up the ones who should be applauded, they're the ones you should be banging. Certainly there are plenty of others out there with 'big numbers of meets' who aren't being safe, so perspective is key.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have to say, and it's something I'll be telling my daughter, that it's the girl who provides the condom. That's not a sexist view it's a pragmatic one based on insider knowledge. If you want safe sex YOU make sure it's safe. Guys don't get pregnant and guys don't receive the present. Guys also have a pretty effective water tight cover on their equipment making them about a third less likely to contract an sti (Dutch study, healthy males, undamaged skin). Guys, particularly late teens to early 30's are genetically programmed to take risks,,,, and fuck. All in all, having been one, totally untrustworthy. No appologies to you guys with sense and consideration to provide your own it's just that it's not possible to know who you are.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We all know sex with out condoms is better............but I am a firm believer that if its not on ...its not on.......only when both parties are confident with each other .. should unprotected sex be an option............I do have troubles with condoms fitting right!!... im not saying im the biggest guy ..but some are just difficult to use......thats why I think some guys leave it to the ladies!! ....thats my thoughts any way:)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe because most guys don't get any sex and aren't expecting to get any lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have a pack in my car, a case in my left bedside table and a spare pack in the other bedside table... There is no excuse for not wearing one, until trust and anynominimty (?) develope (I'm sure I spelt that wrong...)
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charliesangelkir
14 years ago
yep spot on, i could not agree with your post more, ive found the same problem with men, and i always get oh i thought you would bring them, yeah its lazy no other reason.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting FlyingHangman "yes it does change our sensitivity just a little, but does it really feel that different for the girl? " seriously, couldn't feel the difference between having it on and not wearing one, 55mm nom width so they dont squeeze too tight at the base. Mrs also said she couldn't really tell I had it on
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contemplating1
14 years ago
Yep I remember those old classic adds! Gee, if you are going to meet a lady, or lQQking for possibilities....How could one not have a condom or three with you.... Guess the old "It will never happen to me" syndrome prevails with many... Have a good one! (Hehe..... safely!)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'kinkisthenewpink' 1. They know the woman will fork out the cash to buy them 2. If they can get away with not wearing them they willI know that it may seem that all men are like that Kink, but even at my age i have always used, and will continue to use condoms until i am completely comfortable with someone (a few months or more into a relationship). There is just too much out there these days to just go around unsafe. My best friend (girl) met up with a bloke and after 2 months stop using and ended up catching clamydia from him. I think it'd be great fun to go out there and have fun but i would say you should always use proctection, more especially when your going to see multiple people/couples.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'geminilibra' The bottom line is if you have a penis then you should wrap it when on the scene. I am amazed at the amount of profiles that don't have safe sex "always" in them. I wouldn't consider one that doesn't have safe sex as a priority. Would you pick someone up at a pub or club and expect to not use a condom? well swinging should be the same. Having said that, I have an extensive supply of colours, shapes, sizes, brands, latex, non-latex, flavour just in case the guy "forgets" to bring them. But honestly, to me if they "forget" then their intention is pretty clear that it is not a priority for them. Bye, bye Mr Condom amnesiac I say! No condom, no play.always cum to play with condoms always
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RHP User
14 years ago
can everyone stop patting everyone on the back now???? can he who is without sin throw the first stone????I think anyone who feels otherwise is afraid to say anything in the fear they'd be shot down in flames!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Perhaps some of us are not pre-sumptuous.
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RHP User
14 years ago
hey all how are you
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'geminilibra' The bottom line is if you have a penis then you should wrap it when on the scene. I keep gladwrap and rubber bands in the car, just in case.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hahaha jensman1903 - you are creative! I remember mum saying that's what they used in the 70's. I guess if you take a cut lunch to work every day & wrap it in glad wrap then you could use it for a quick shag after work?! Recycling to help the environment?!
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RHP User
13 years ago
How many girls on here have gotten on really well with a guy and the chemistry is there and you text/talk often, flirt, etc....THEN...You bring up condoms...THEN..... You never hear from them again? There is: "But I am clean"..."I will pull out before I cum"..."You won't fall pregnant cause I've had a vasectomy"...I think I have just about heard them all! Would you still meet up with a guy if he even gave a hint that he doesn't like using them? I know that I sure as hell wouldn't! I always ask if condoms are a problem and the ones that say no...I meet...obviously there are no problems with condoms as most don't even have any on them! If they say yes they don't like them, all they get from me is....! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I never carrry any on me because i dont expect suprise sex......... but if i have organised something with a girl i will make sure i have some on me.
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brent3250
13 years ago
i believe in the age old saying if it's NOT ON then it's NOT ONsimple really :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
its not rockit science............so it was an un spoken male thing that we all would carry condoms and over time it was just left up to the girls!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' How many girls on here have gotten on really well with a guy and the chemistry is there and you text/talk often, flirt, etc....THEN...You bring up condoms...THEN..... You never hear from them again? There is: "But I am clean"..."I will pull out before I cum"..."You won't fall pregnant cause I've had a vasectomy"...I think I have just about heard them all! Would you still meet up with a guy if he even gave a hint that he doesn't like using them? I know that I sure as hell wouldn't! I always ask if condoms are a problem and the ones that say no...I meet...obviously there are no problems with condoms as most don't even have any on them! If they say yes they don't like them, all they get from me is....! Hugs...xFunlovingx Have never had sex without condoms. The longer I have to discuss it, the dryer I get and the less likely it is that there will be any sex. It's not a f---ing debate. It's non-negotiable. From my four broken condom experience ("wait, why did that just go from "nice" to "omgomgomg" in 5 seconds?! freeeeze. condom broke), I do fully appreciate that sex without condoms feels way better, but I'll pick self-preservation and healthy genitalia over increased pleasure until I'm in a mutually monogamous relationship with no expiration date.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' Quoting 'geminilibra' The bottom line is if you have a penis then you should wrap it when on the scene. I keep gladwrap and rubber bands in the car, just in case. You do realise a tight rubber band is how they often castrate lambs and calves? I'd be careful... lol
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platinumblonde69
13 years ago
Still on the same issue, but a different twist....We are all assuming here that if we have sex with someone using a condom...we are safe....I beg to differ....What if the condom doesn't fit properly......what if it breaks during intercourse.....what if it is put on after some foreplay and its too late??????? I always think beyond the square....I ask myself before I meet anyone...let alone have sex with them...Do I know enough about them???? Because what if they had Hep C or have been a intravenous drug user in the past they might be a risk factor.....or maybe they have had STD's in the past.......would i still want to have sex with them using a condom..........My answer is NO....So for me....it still boils down to knowing someone a little....Plat
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm always for protected sex whenever i meet up with someone, but for some reason when putting a condom on i lose my erection. I could be having the most vein bursting erection but as soon as i starting ripping that wrapper open it gradually decides to go south. Is it some subconscience reaction that u may lose sensitivity with a sheath on? I dont know, but that cld be a contributing factor as to why some men prefer to go without. But in saying that i usually make sure that i get back up one way or the other and enjoy some risk free sex.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I always carry protection with me. I wouldn't play with anyone new without one. If I were to ever not use one (& that won't happen), then I wouldn't be able to enjoy it, I would just be too concerned & worried about what I might catch!!Safety first. Simple as that. No glove, no love.
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RHP User
13 years ago
This is not even a topic that needs discussion in my book - in this day and age of knowing the possible consequences from so many easily accessed sources - to have them handy at all times is a NO BRAINER. If I was with someone M or F who suggested not using one I would not be the least bit interested James
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi I'm newer youse condom better sex
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi I'm newer youse condom I'm control me when Ned to cum im asck whare you wanet
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Sexy135'Hi I'm newer youse condom better sex Your profile actually says that you practice safe sex for ALL activities?? Are you just trying to get attention? You are going the wrong about it I think. If anyone reads this, I doubt they would go near you! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Black_Mandingo'I'm always for protected sex whenever i meet up with someone, but for some reason when putting a condom on i lose my erection. I could be having the most vein bursting erection but as soon as i starting ripping that wrapper open it gradually decides to go south. Is it some subconscience reaction that u may lose sensitivity with a sheath on? I dont know, but that cld be a contributing factor as to why some men prefer to go without. But in saying that i usually make sure that i get back up one way or the other and enjoy some risk free sex. Maybe you can ask the girl to put it on while she is giving oral. I do that all the time...I find it much sexier than having to stop to struggle with a condom pack (geez some of them should come with idiot proof instructions they are so hard to open lol)! Alot of guys don't even realise they have one on! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have found woman like to supply them as you never know if the guy has tampered with them. Last thing you want is to get pregnant or catch something. I keep them handy just incase she has none though.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You know I love ya babe, but seriously, both you and I know they come to these meets hoping like hell you'll change your mind and let them go bareback. It's an issue I don't have to worry about with Mrs Palmer :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
As it may mischievous, and nor do I condone the practice, but there ARE listing "if required" as the answer to the profile question"safe sex?" so then what happens in the scenario when two "if required's" get together?? But I totally agree with the boy scout motto.
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RHP User
13 years ago
To the OP (and every other woman)...How often do you go to an encounter armed with dental dams?I have NEVER had a women bring a dam with her or request that one be used.What is wrong with you women?!;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't mind wearing condoms its the sensible thing to do, but then you expect me to go down on you ?Whats with that ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Intimate - safe sex - always for intercourse.Sexual - oral giving oral receiving Fetish - bukkake watersports.So could someone explain the "safe" bit please ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
...to keep a few spares in your purse, having been caught just once or twice in the heat of the momentMaybe they weren't confident and thought they weren't going to get lucky on the first date ?But you're probably right - it's just lazinessSlinkey
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have watched a heap of guys all cum on and in this girl at a club. Only two used condoms for each time they went in. Silly boys played with her then played with themselves. Don't mix chicken with red meat basic cross contamination guys. Excuse the food metaphor. I think most of these guys think well she wouldn't do anything nasty. Or I'm her first after a long relationship I believe her whatever her name was. After all she's the fourth this week I'm on a lucky streak what could stop me. If they had the old style clamidia check they would think twice, get out the swab and the long metal stick I say. Guru
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes!!!!! For all activites, always carry on me or purchess on the night its the clean, safe and respectful way to do things. its a must
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avidmale
13 years ago
I think thats a culture resulting from porn.. A lot of people will watch porn, and the majority of porn videos, the males dont have any protection. Whats that saying to everyone? Especially with a younger generation now.. Porn is available to any teenager than to say 10 or so years ago. Where would you think they get their expectations from?From my personal experience, I have only had unprotected sex with one other partner, and we were both virgins, and we continued to not use condoms for the rest of our relationship. I know, just because we were both virgins doesnt mean that we couldnt develop an STI.I'm with some of the other posts in that a condom, feels quite different to that of not wearing one. My partner also would dry up a lot when compared to not having one on. I'm going to take that advice and get non latex condoms to see how they go for other partners.It is a two way street though as one or two have mentioned. My latest 'playmeet' wouldnt of spoken a word about a condom unless i had proactively went and got one. As for carrying them around willy nilly. I dont. Lets be honest here, blokes only have wallets. And we are told not to put them there. So do you think we're going to have them in our back pocket everyday? If there was a scheduled playdate, for sure, a guy should definitely have some. But we dont have handbags that can fit copious amounts of different things in them for any possible occasion that might come up
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have even been insulted by a couple of guys when I have asked them to wear condoms and they accuse me of having a disease. I barely know them let alone what they do with themselves. I am only wanting to protect myself. I always think that kind of guy is naive.So I always carry my own -- always.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'deviate_syd' Yes!!!!! For all activites, always carry on me or purchess on the night its the clean, safe and respectful way to do things. its a must Does that include dental dams ? You have on your profile oral giving and receiving so he wears a condom and you ? What ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I always take responsibility for my own safety. I always make it clear up front that condoms are expected and required. If I go to his house I always take 5 or 6 with me (fresh out of the packet) and don't rely on him to provide them. If the guy comes to my house he will always find a fresh supply on the bedside table.
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RHP User
13 years ago
fuck that i allways carry a comdom on me all the time and in my car like i think i got 6 haha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Could this be an allergy phenomena??? You know.. 'my dickie has a latex allergy'? Bring a tissue hun....and blow - cos' it's gonna be the only 'softness' that little sucker is gonna feel around here.
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RHP User
13 years ago
WHY IS EVERYONE AVOIDING THE OBVIOUS QUESTION OF ORAL SEX !C'MON LADIES ! CONDOM OR NOT THE LADY GETS ORAL SEX WITH NO PROTECTION !WHICH MAKES THE WHOLE CONDOM THING A WASTE OF BREATH !AS I SAID IT'S A FOOLS PARADISE ! I'm not trying to claim any moral position here, just think it should be discussed if we are to be honest and realistic about std's.I hate condoms and I have a vasectomy, but I am also the father of two small children so I would rather spend a bit of extra time learning about someone and seeing if condom free is doable. But when you are with someone who sucks your cock and wants to be gone down on and then insists on a condom for sex, it's crap !DISCUSS !
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think it would just depend on the meeting. As previously stated, if you know what the meeting type is going to be and you're both expecting it could end up with sex then sure, it makes a lot of sense to take a condom or check if the other person has one before hand. If you know it's literally just a date with nothing else than hanging out and having a good time then it could be perceived as being insulting with the expectation that the date should end in sex anyway.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think that it all comes down to choice. If you're prepared to accept the consequences of going down without a dam, then all well and good if that's what works for you. Some are a little more strict with what they're prepared to accept. However, any sex with expectations should very seriously considered or reconsidered in my mind. But then again, I haven't really found a willing participant online for me to be in a situation I need to make these decisions.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'TongueCramps' You do realise a tight rubber band is how they often castrate lambs and calves? I'd be careful... lol The real danger is leaving the rubber bands in the car so long they begin to perish. Damn thing just snapped and whacked me fair in the nuts. (sob)
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pinkyandthebrain
13 years ago
If some asshole ever turned up on my doorstep without a condom, I would slam it in his face. Im always holding. Every handbag I own has a small collection in them as well as my husband's bedside drawer.Im happy to use mine of course, but there is a difference between being ill prepared and hoping for a natural fuck.If he were to ask ahead and say, would you like me to bring some or would you like to supply? Then it would be fine. My reason for kicking his ass to the curb? If he's willing to risk natural sex with me, how many other partners has he done that with?My husband and I are quite fond of our sexual health, I hope more people are too.
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pinkyandthebrain
13 years ago
Just remember to change condoms between entering one girl and then another. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
You mean you can't wash em and reuse?? :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
What, we have to wash them now? I thought we could just turn them insideout and shake them off.
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RHP User
13 years ago
you r so much fun.love to spend a night with you.me.and.my dominating demanding hott stylish hubby....will be hoteling on 28th this month.be spontaneous.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We can't understand why so many swinging couples and singles that dont "Tarp up", Do they really like playing Russian Roulette? Each to their own!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Girls get all the 'feelimg' so its good enough for them to say. We feel NOTHING with a Conny on. Simple.
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RHP User
13 years ago
*feeling
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ClintDogg'Girls get all the 'feelimg' so its good enough for them to say. We feel NOTHING with a Conny on. Simple. Really, you know that for a fact? I cant speak for all women but for me it feels very clinical and for those of us that have a latex allergy its rather uncomfortable long after the event if the wrong condoms are used? SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I gotta ask, if someone rolls up without one, do people tell them to piss off anyway? Who knows how many others they've done that with and haven't worn protection. I'm insanely paranoid about safe sex. We all live a fairly risky lifestyle so we need to play safe
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yawn
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Torturedcliche'I gotta ask, if someone rolls up without one, do people tell them to piss off anyway? Who knows how many others they've done that with and haven't worn protection. I'm insanely paranoid about safe sex. We all live a fairly risky lifestyle so we need to play safe The last guy that whined "But they are such a moooood killeeeeeeerrr....", got told to get out of my bed and go home. Simple really.
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RHP User
13 years ago
He was a paramedic, and should really know better.
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RHP User
13 years ago
That is SOOO porno. Nurses and paramedics lol did he try play doctor?? Lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' WHY IS EVERYONE AVOIDING THE OBVIOUS QUESTION OF ORAL SEX !But when you are with someone who sucks your cock and wants to be gone down on and then insists on a condom for sex, it's crap !DISCUSS ! Because of the obvious answer that while it is still possible to transmit diseases through oral sex, the risk is less than unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Saliva is not as effective a carrier for disease as blood, semen or vaginal fluid, though you can still catch all sorts of nasties from it. The risk is greatly increased if you have any cuts or open sores in your mouth.I agree though that there's a tendency to ignore the risk from oral sex altogether (and I'm guilty of this, as is everyone I've ever met to be honest!), but my understanding is that unprotected oral is not an apples for apples comparison with unprotected intercourse.Mr Tryst
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RHP User
13 years ago
We will look at someones profile and confirm condom / on / off policy within 1-2 messages, if its not what WE want we will just move on.Dumb move....waiting till the bedroom....jeeeezzz
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's pretty simple...No glove, No love..We're not out there to make friends with the Grim Reaper..
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Letsparty2gether
13 years ago
Cant understand why anyone would risk unprotected sex with a stranger.. If you are in a committed relationship go for it, I would never trust a stranger. If she's prepared o have unprotected sex ith me... How many others has she done it with.. Condoms aren't that bad. Are they?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tryst_and_shout' Quoting '50zcool' WHY IS EVERYONE AVOIDING THE OBVIOUS QUESTION OF ORAL SEX ! But when you are with someone who sucks your cock and wants to be gone down on and then insists on a condom for sex, it's crap ! DISCUSS ! Because of the obvious answer that while it is still possible to transmit diseases through oral sex, the risk is less than unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Saliva is not as effective a carrier for disease as blood, semen or vaginal fluid, though you can still catch all sorts of nasties from it. The risk is greatly increased if you have any cuts or open sores in your mouth. I agree though that there's a tendency to ignore the risk from oral sex altogether (and I'm guilty of this, as is everyone I've ever met to be honest!), but my understanding is that unprotected oral is not an apples for apples comparison with unprotected intercourse. Mr Tryst Also, the second any bodily fluids come in contact with your stomach acid, anything contained in it is well and truly killed dead. The HIV virus actually gets killed by enzymes in your esophagus before it even reaches your stomach. And: Guilty.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Futurenomads'Dumb move....waiting till the bedroom....jeeeezzz Oh, I had been very clear about my condom policy. That is probably why I got so annoyed I almost literally kicked him out of bed.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Letsparty2gether'Cant understand why anyone would risk unprotected sex with a stranger.. If you are in a committed relationship go for it, I would never trust a stranger. If she's prepared o have unprotected sex ith me... How many others has she done it with.. Condoms aren't that bad. Are they? That is how I feel about the whole situation! I don't get why people like to play with their lives or their health at all! I started this Thread a long time ago after I kicked a guy out of my house (we didn't even get naked) as he whinged about using a condom and told me he was clean (also a paramedic like Miss D's man)...well anyhoooo...he ended up sleeping with a friend of mine about a week later (I didn't know at the time that they were going to even meet) and low and behold she got an STD from him! She was on the phone to me crying about the STD and as hard as I tried I just couldn't give her any sympathy at all...If you are going to not use a condom during sex then you have to face the consequences later! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
who are fine wearing a condom whist doing it with girl on top .. or missionary .. cause the girls can see the condom .. HOW does everyone .. or anyone handle it when the guys wants to do it doggy style half way thru .. and thinking it is all good and normal to change positions.. and .. as soon as he get behind .. HE REMOVED THE CONDOM >> must have thought that it wouldn't be noticed or seen with head buried in the pillows .. but she did .. and he was sent packing .. out the door with his clothes following quickly after
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