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Attached Guys
December 11 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
rug
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RHP User
8 years ago
Welcome to the forum. That lone smiley face wasn't a dig at you. It followed another comment which is no longer here 😇
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Bentleft' I find some of the comments amusing and it just goes to show how differently we all think, especially men and women. Anyway thought some of you might like to watch this video that explains the difference between how women and men think.✌🏽 The tale of two brains Men think differently when it comes to being honest about their situation? They think differently about honesty in general? Because that's what we're talking about here. This isn't a thread about why men cheat or any of the justifications for that, it's about those men who lie about it to other people (before anyone jumps down my throat yes I'm perfectly aware that women cheat and lie about it as well). Even if your video is about how men and women think differently about sex, I'm getting a little tired of (some) men using amateur evolutionary biology assumptions to justify certain behaviour. Yeah men and women are different and we do think differently, but we are also capable - or should be - of rising above our primitive instincts when we know our behaviour is doing damage to others. The men who feel free to act like dicks and then go 'oh it's all good I'm just hard wired that way dontcha know!' get no time from me.
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j_jones1969
8 years ago
Why thank you! Pity I'm not going to Perth anymore...😢 - Posted from rhpmobile
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technologic
8 years ago
Love you! 😘 -MsT - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Plz inbox me mate - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Add me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Site seams to be full of single guys post a date and all you get is single guys!!!! Were are all the couples gone - Posted from rhpmobile
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technologic
8 years ago
*waves* howdy! 😬 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am attached guy in a sexless marriage but I stay for the sake of the family unit. Although sex is always on my mind I accept the reality of the situation, this topic only confirms it. We all think differently, polarised probably a better term. To expect that others will have empathy is an unrealistic expectation. Honesty will not help although I am honest for the record. I will be interested how many replies there will be but no answer. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’m attached but look how sexy I am. Women message me if you’re interested 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Quoting 'Roberths1' I’m attached but look how sexy I am. Women message me if you’re interested 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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m3bmw
8 years ago
People are dishonest and look out for their own needs before anyone else. Imagine the shock on my face at this revelation! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I haven’t had that experience they always seem to be upfront about it. I’m not into it personally. Even though I’m a guest it’s still easy to wade through dicks literally lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
If you are happy to claim you are attached on this forum, why aren't you happy to do so on your profile? 🤔😛
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes exactly my thoughts
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
You are exactly what this forum is about. Liars. Too busy promoting yourself to realise. That mean your dick is steering the ship?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Can't we all just get along and fuck! Predominantly, that's what this site is for, regardless of your relationship status! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's not as simple as that, the lies are not only harming their partners and play partners, but are a big selfish time wasting pain in the neck. Example this morning. Get a 'think you're hot...' flirt from a young couple, all pictures of her, she is hot but no sign of him, about me I counted 7 'my' or 'I' references, in a couple of short paragraphs, no mention of the other partner. Then you start to read the 'looking for' part and the first line jumps out of the page 'We do NOT play separately, so don't bother asking.......' Well I didn't ask, you did lol so stop yelling at me and sort your fucking profile out. I just find that offensive. Oh I forgot. At the bottom was this little gem PLEASE NO TIME WASTERS!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
This part you might need to work on yourself> "Keep it real & make it fun! Can't we all just get along and fuck!" So you've kept it real have you? 😉 You also say you're not looking for the town bicycle, contradicting what you've just said above. Aren't you in the wrong place, we're all town bikes here 😜 we do it without apparent judgement. Big eye roll mate. Little hypocritical don't you think 👎
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have kept it real, I'm separated awaiting divorce papers and I'm here to fuck with NSA!!! My profile reference to the "town bicycle" is to myself, merely stating I don't fuck anything that has a heart beat, quality over quantity! Nothing contradicting about that! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
My profile clearly states that "I'M not the town bicycle that everyone has ridden!" I made no reference to the woman on here! I don't think you understood the phrasing or grammar! 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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bonefide
8 years ago
Aren't you in the wrong place, we're all town bikes here 😜 we do it without apparent judgement. 😱😨 back the truck up one moment young lady, I'm a country lad but, draw the line at being ridden hard and hung up wet to dry. 😎
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’m confused I found out about this site at men’s gallery funny enough and I’ve seen this girl a couple ones with my wife next to me and she said this site is what sounds like your looking for . But it’s he opposite everyone is very picky and people saying attached males are complicated can’t speak for all males relationships . I don’t know maybe my situation is rare where my wife pushed me to get out there and have fun but I just feel like as far as I have encountered so far on this site and many others people are very picky . - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Quoting 'repook' I’m confused I found out about this site at men’s gallery funny enough and I’ve seen this girl a couple ones with my wife next to me and she said this site is what sounds like your looking for . But it’s he opposite everyone is very picky and people saying attached males are complicated can’t speak for all males relationships . I don’t know maybe my situation is rare where my wife pushed me to get out there and have fun but I just feel like as far as I have encountered so far on this site and many others people are very picky . - Posted from rhpmobile Gees, how disappointing for you. You've come here with the expectation that every one you fancy will open their legs and let you fuck them.Sorry that we have standards. Perhaps you don't measure up to those standards. Lots of single men have those views too so you aren't alone.Keep searching elsewhere, most of us don't drop our k nicker on command. Your problem not ours.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Don’t let the forums put you off, some here just like a dog to kick. The action is in the profiles, I see you have taken out membership, good for you, take charge of your experience here by seeking out people who fit your criteria rather than just wallowing around waiting for something to happen. The diversity here covers a huge gamut that is way beyond the tunnel vision of a few forum junkies. My my Annie how the worm has turned, I remember you as a timid newbie craving acceptance for the new you seeking shelter and understanding from the harsh world of the bigots and intolerant. Hope you get some chill pills for Christmas.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Perhaps I'm sick of getting dicked around by attached guys. Then reading that we are too picky for not playing with said attached guys If l get some chill pills, I'll send some over with a slab of Tooheys. Merry xmas
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RHP User
8 years ago
If Repook dicked you around. If not why payout on him ? Keep the Tooheys.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Personally I find this post quiet sexist as it seems to be no issues for females in open realationships but big issues for males in same situations Yes there are a lot of idiots out there doing dodgy with root n boots and decite but it’s ruining it for us genuine guys in open relationships who want the true friends with benifits. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'funNcheeky' Personally I find this post quiet sexist as it seems to be no issues for females in open realationships but big issues for males in same situations The post is by a woman whose experience is with men, not with other women. You are perfectly free to post your own topic talking about your issues with attached women who purposely mislead and lie to you about their status.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I received a message today from a married interstate man asking me to open my pg. Profile says he doesn't play, just wants to watch couples or whatever. Guess he figures that's not cheating. Your wife might think differently mate. Do you seriously think that's okay? And why would I open my pg for you. No conversation, just open the pg 👎 I hope you get caught 😇 Another one for my special list
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Quoting 'Sailbadthesinner' Don’t let the forums put you off, some here just like a dog to kick. My my Annie how the worm has turned, I remember you as a timid newbie craving acceptance for the new you seeking shelter and understanding from the harsh world of the bigots and intolerant. Hope you get some chill pills for Christmas. You played that card......Well been here over 3 yrs. I've evolved. I have an opinion. Sorry for that. I'll stick up for those I relate to. Trans, cd, women, bi guys.Not sorry for that. Get over it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
As soon as I read “unattached” I move on. My expectation is that if I am being honest about being attached, I will assume they are being honest about not wanting that. Though being honest about being attached and the potential of being poly amorous, seems to be way too honest. Most viewers click through to get back to the tradies section and the depth they desire. The meet and greets are better than measure of a person, you get to see who they are. Check in wi H them and read the truth. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
the fakes/liars take their show on the road lol ^^^ bs
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your continued swipes at the forum and people on the forum, is getting tiresome. Your negative take on the forum, may I ask why you are here (forum) if you can't let go of minor things that are said. Big deal, grow a set mate. I did lol 😉 True to form, you'll report this, but at least you will have read it. I've tried to be nice to you and you either don't talk to me, or you're nasty, others get the same treatment. You need to make a choice where to go from here. If you stick around, try losing some of the passive aggressive shit, we're over it. Most of us are grown ups and can move on. You're not new on here, and don't show your face, so why do you get so worried about what people think? It's just a forum. It's not your healthy debate that I don't like, it's the constant swipes. Give it a rest or take a break, and ffs lose that bloody chip on your shoulder. You're not 10 👎
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have a greater understanding now as to what women have to put up with. I used to get pissed off when women wouldn’t reply to messages. I’m polite, single and can hold a conversation but wouldn’t get a reply. It’s a real shame that women have to deal with a bunch swinging dicks with issues at home who fuck it up for people on both sides. - Posted from rhpmobile
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1968KittyKat2468
8 years ago
I can’t see the need for transparency for a woman wanting an unattatched man being any greater than a man would have when they’re clearly straight and not wanting any bi interest . Some profiles even say they’re sick of the time wasters who ignore this .. Basically each person , for whatever reason , just wants and deserves to know what they’re getting .. it’s like ordering one thing online and getting something else .. and with that goes the right to choose.. that’s a yes please or a no thanks .. people being dishonest about their relationship status (or anything really) denies the other person that choice. I had one guy once message/chat/talk for 5 days solidly .. very single , hurting after wife’s affair, no trust , not been with anyone for over a year.. blah blah .. he set up the time and date to meet for a drink etc I thought he sounded great. Day comes ,I message , see he’s read it again , and finally at about 2 hrs before we were meant to meet, I called it a day.. he read them and ignored them.. once you have a first name , basic idea of where they live, type 0f Work (not specific name of the business) it’s not hard to find someone on a freely available social media platform . So found him .. found his partner of 2 years ..l made another less identifying account and sent her the screenshots.. we never met , nothing happened , so yes they split as I cc’d him into the chat.. and watched it happen which of course was awful.. but hey wished someone told me when I was her , once upon a time .. she was appreciative and I gave it a week before doing this . Sent one or 2 messages beforehand telling him that all he had to do was fess up and not go further and I’d never have messaged her.. give me the choice to chat/meet or not .. he didn’t and treated me as just nothing .. I’m not sure if I was the only other he was chatting to, but if they got back together , then my doing that might have been the best thing ever for their future I think .. I explained to her that I was just a fantasy bubble for him .. like porn or whatever so believed it didn’t minimise his feelings for her , but still needed to know and cop the consequences of how much it hurt.
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RHP User
8 years ago
We are attached and make it clear to our playmates both male and female from the get go, it’s a shame it should be that easy. We like to play together but often that’s not practical as not everyone gels. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
OP what I have found again and again is guys either don't read your profile or if they do, they seem to think they are the magic person who is going to make you change your mind about not playing with married or attached men. I have had guys try to get my sympathy with the "my wife is sick and we never have sex" line. Well sure that's hard but I'm still not interested. I think if its just sex he needs why he doesn't get a sex worker. Oh of course, he'd have to pay for the service. To me lying about your relationship status shows a total lack of respect, for you, the person he's lying to, and for his partner, the person he is totally negating with his lies. Pretty bloody sucky anyway you look at it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Itm2, I’ve never reported anyone, so spare me your persecuted victim fake news bullshit. Fact is given your the minister for verbal diarrhoea and posting everything everywhere I skip over most of your crap. As for being friendly and talking you’ve had me on block constantly so what are you on about. As for the rest of your spiel well that’s just laughable. Pot Kettle Black.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Beautiful day in Perth today again 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
Only beautiful because your there Touchy :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Honesty online is a very rare quality. It's taken me 4 years of being totally fucked over to realise that 98% of people on the Internet lie,scam or cheat. And I'm sure that you have been told 1000s of times that the person your talking to is as honest as the day is long. I couldn't lie to someone and if,and I mean IF you ever actually get to meet them and your caught out...... personally I couldn't think of anything more embarrassing. I don't like feeling like a fuckwit and being truthful is the only way to avoid that! ! x - Posted from rhpmobile
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asiacouple
8 years ago
As an attached male, my preference is for unattached & single females, as like most single women, I would not want to worry about an attached female's partner getting jealous/finding out/broken relationship/etc. In my case, I have permission to meet other single women, so there's nothing for the single gal to worry about. Yes, really, people like my open-minded wife do exist! So I do look for singles, but ignore those who indicate they are not interested with attached guys. That's just me respecting their profile. Not all attached people want to date others as only a couple. So if someone say's they are attached but wife/girlfriend is fine with him going with other girls, hey it is probably the truth, just like my situation. While I am at it, yes I do fancy a nice social with a sexy pleasant girl :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
We're a couple! Pretty obvious 👀 We understand that every lady looking for something in particular has that choice & would expect to receive messages from people to suit!! Where we get confused is.. example!! Not interested in men!!! If you message me you will be blocked!!! .... Or, No marriage couples!!! Yet when you go through there friends list it can be 90% men... or married couples? 😞 This could possibly lead to some confusion as someone who might be interested in a profile even though they do not suit may still message regardless? 😉 🖐 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think a lot of people have friends they've met at swingers parties or meet and greets, who they are friends with but haven't necessarily played with. A couple for example might attends events only wanting to watch, or bring in one single male or female, on occasion playing with other couples even while there, but that might not fit their needs ongoing on here. They can build a large network of friends along the way, just not necessarily a reflection on who they search for in between. I would still follow the guide of what they ask for specifically
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nobody gets inundated with single male responses to the point their inbox crashes. That's talking from our couple profile and Abi's single profile. Makes you look a bit of a prima donna if you threaten people before they've messaged you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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nightingale8
8 years ago
I've been following few of the forums threads here enjoying the different perspectives recently so thought I might just add my own as I'm not sure it's been offered up. I rarely bother to post but I guess I'm in a sharing mood, plus I guess it helps clarify my thoughts on the matter. I've dabbled on and off this site for... wow 7 years... and so far I've come to the conclusion that people will just do what works best for them to get them what they want. It's human nature. For some men this may be lying about their relationship status, as it's pretty unsavoury to many women to be involved in an affair, and it may not be working for the guy to be honest at that point in time. For some other men, it's not even worth lying as they may just prefer the freedom that comes with honesty. For some women this may be writing on your profile "SINGLE MEN ONLY", because what else are you supposed to do?? I totally get it can be frustrating to be lied to. What works for me though is trying to think about the circumstances of the other person and being nonjudgmental/getting my head around why they would think or do what they're doing. People are doing the best they can, even if their best is not my best. My general approach is: your problems are yours, mine are mine. Don't expect me to take on yours. On my profile I've written, "If you are attached I expect the other partner to know about me", by which I mean "I hope you are single but if you choose to lie, no judgment, I just won't make any adjustments to my life to accommodate the fact you are cheating". Haha I'm stubborn that way. That's not an invitation to lie to me BTW, I almost always prefer honesty. The way I view it is that it's not worth my energy to be pissed off about it. The best thing I can do is worry about what I do and try to accept other people just as they are and not how I'd like them to be. I of course draw the line at lying about things like STIs because that is making their problem my problem. I totally respect everyone here has had different experiences, no judgment here. I wish the world were more sex positive. Doing my part :D
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sweetgem
8 years ago
Disrespecting is a common act/behaviour that lives amongst some people in here and in the real world! Those people have zero care fact about other people and so their action! In my early years (in my early 20s that is) of coming online to seek relationship with a man on those so called matchmaking sites, I ran into men who claimed to be single, but were indeed attached or married, and the next thing I got were phone calls and messages from their partners/wives! I was lucky that those women were sensible people and knew that the problem was lying with their own men and not me! So, they asked me to cease the interaction with their men and so did they to me! Sugar high, those were truly scary times back then, as I was young and inexperienced! And so I stayed offline for many years until I reached my 30s. Imagine if I ran into one of those jealous wives, I wouldn’t have the face I have today! 😬😬 Sadly, there are always people (both genders) who don’t know what respect means, and don’t think about the consequences of their action before they act! This is why I have to hide my profile for now, as I’m not here to seek any company and don’t want to be disturbed! Best wishes for a more positive experience on here, sexy_sub5, you will become immunise over time and build a stronger BS detector 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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