M56
Occupations....
August 17 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
If I find out that a guy is a cop, or in the defence force, I will tread carefully. There are a few reasons for this, but personal experience does come into both (particularly in the case of police as I worked for the QPS for nearly 3 years). I'm not tarring all guys in these positions with the same brush, but it is also the case that the nature of those jobs means that they do attract their fair share of certain personality types that I just don't gel with. I wouldn't automatically say no to a meet because of it but would certainly want to exchange a few messages and see how things progress there first. In terms of the job itself, I'm really not too worried what people do, particularly when it's a more casual relationship. And no there aren't any occupations that I specifically look for, or go for. I suppose though if I was looking for something more permanent then occupation may become more of a factor, not due to financial reasons but in the sense of whether it's something that may cause issues in a relationship (e.g. do they have to travel or move a lot).
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Hottie1
11 years ago
to judge someone on their occupation. I love finding out what people do for a living but as far as I'm concerned I do not judge people on their occupations/professions. I don't have a favourite occupation but do love men in uniform - I have a soft spot for firemen ;) As a teacher, I always get the 'naughty school teacher' comment. Mary xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I haven't been deterred by what someone does for a living but I do prefer someone who works with their hands, however they still need to be able to use their mind because I like my man to be able to hold a conversation.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
If they wear a trench coat, dark sunnies, a mask, drive really fast and carry a violin case around. I'd have think twice. 😎 Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes I am a job snob.... also where they live makes a difference to me too. What can I say, I am judgemental.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But prepared to to take an individual on their own merits instead of writing them off instantly because of their work. Working FIFO, I've been on the receiving end too... a lot people aren't interested in being with someone who's not available at the drop of a hat :). Each to their own, and I don't let it phase me... they have no idea what they're missing out on ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
with "Superfoxxxy"
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RHP User
11 years ago
however for me - it depends n their attitude - I met some right bottom heads in both Blue and White collar. .... not fussed on Blue eyes either.
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RHP User
11 years ago
First hi all and i havent posted for a few days but this has caught my eye.@Twisted_Mister - Im in a similar situation as u and i can totally relate on different levels. I was a profession soldier for 20 years and prior to departure i was poached by an organisation for my skillset. Both positions over the years and even up to today has given me grief with the thought process and ideals of some people. People are branded based on their skillset or occupation and its wrong and unfair for whatever reason so ive held it all in and only given basic info to protect myself from prejudists. But, saying that this is a site to meet people for whatever reason, fun, amazing sex or have all and a relationship so to me someones occupation shouldnt matter as its the person, their individual qualities and all the good things about that person that they bring to the table to enhance the fun, amazing sex and relationship. Yes everyone has the ability to make choices based on what they search for, crave, wish and want and yes some occupations are more appealling to the shallow ones based on there position, power and money. @LuckyDragon23 - I follow your posts and all due respect as i think ur intelligent and normally on the mark but I would be curious to find out what u ment by certain personality types as the people i served with, knew and know now are the finest people in the country and they never had any bias against anyone, they meet women, didnt care about what they did for a living, they dated, fell in love with the person and who they are. So after all that and im sorry for the comments if it offends and it being long winded but to answer the question, no, to me its about the person, to make her glow, smile, happy, fulfilled, romance and take her to the moon everytime u have sex instead of.....um....can u tell me what u do for a living.... hope everyone is healthy and happy and......who dares wins..... Shooting_Stars01
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RHP User
11 years ago
LOL LOL LOL
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
Oh yes, men who work with their hands with tools. And pt/boxing instructor is on my fucket list.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well I do not often ask, but my usual is Cop, or tradie love a man with rough hands. office guys are not my thing nobody cares what i do for work, its not like it matters as i have tits fifo guys yes, as they come and then they go I guess I am a snob in that I prefer a man that has work as give me something to talk about while he is stoking the boiler I can say, did you bring your cuffs, and I have been a bad girl so I need to be arrested and nude frisk is required.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I work In a physical work environment, but also have a second job within the military....judge me as you will because I would not judge someone on how they make a living. If you're that superficial then I have no time for you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Couldn't date someone if I had a problem with the morality of their job. I stay away from butchers, anyone performing tests on animals, people working for cigarette companies, etc. Oh, and politicians. Just no.
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RHP User
11 years ago
..everyone has some form of judgement (though I think this is too strong a word here) so perhaps opinion is of a better word in one way or another. In all respect - I am sure most have had an opinion on some occupations. Like the Car Salesman, the Check out Chick, the Receptionist, the Lawyer, the guy in the Forces, the FIFO guy, the Garbo, the Teacher and of course the oldest profession in the world the HOOKER......the list is endless and unfortunately we do judge and sometimes from social conditioning. It is my choice if I choose not to meet some one that I have precondition thoughts about them due to their profession. It is not up too you to judge me for this though. TW - I prefer Blue collar workers who have a great mind.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Shooting_Stars01' First hi all and i havent posted for a few days but this has caught my eye.@Twisted_Mister - Im in a similar situation as u and i can totally relate on different levels. I was a profession soldier for 20 years and prior to departure i was poached by an organisation for my skillset. Both positions over the years and even up to today has given me grief with the thought process and ideals of some people. People are branded based on their skillset or occupation and its wrong and unfair for whatever reason so ive held it all in and only given basic info to protect myself from prejudists. But, saying that this is a site to meet people for whatever reason, fun, amazing sex or have all and a relationship so to me someones occupation shouldnt matter as its the person, their individual qualities and all the good things about that person that they bring to the table to enhance the fun, amazing sex and relationship. Yes everyone has the ability to make choices based on what they search for, crave, wish and want and yes some occupations are more appealling to the shallow ones based on there position, power and money. @LuckyDragon23 - I follow your posts and all due respect as i think ur intelligent and normally on the mark but I would be curious to find out what u ment by certain personality types as the people i served with, knew and know now are the finest people in the country and they never had any bias against anyone, they meet women, didnt care about what they did for a living, they dated, fell in love with the person and who they are. So after all that and im sorry for the comments if it offends and it being long winded but to answer the question, no, to me its about the person, to make her glow, smile, happy, fulfilled, romance and take her to the moon everytime u have sex instead of.....um....can u tell me what u do for a living.... hope everyone is healthy and happy and......who dares wins..... Shooting_Stars01 get over here, get your clothes of and be prepared for me to give you a short arm inspection. and what we say on here, take it with a grain of salt, the truth is you meet a person, your attracted to them and you just want to get em between sheets and thighs , its not really a job interviewas for me, I am just a man in uniform kinda woman. To some women the uniform can be a suit or guy in fluro its just a little fetish we have, some guys go for hot nurses, others for housemaids after all dress ups do get your blood going. its a superficial shallow pool we swim in here, don't dive in to deep you will crack your head.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' ..everyone has some form of judgement (though I think this is too strong a word here) so perhaps opinion is of a better word in one way or another. In all respect - I am sure most have had an opinion on some occupations. Like the Car Salesman, the Check out Chick, the Receptionist, the Lawyer, the guy in the Forces, the FIFO guy, the Garbo, the Teacher and of course the oldest profession in the world the HOOKER......the list is endless and unfortunately we do judge and sometimes from social conditioning. It is my choice if I choose not to meet some one that I have precondition thoughts about them due to their profession. It is not up too you to judge me for this though. TW - I prefer Blue collar workers who have a great mind. smart cookie that you are
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'haveago81' I work In a physical work environment, but also have a second job within the military....judge me as you will because I would not judge someone on how they make a living. If you're that superficial then I have no time for you. - Posted from rhpmobile I can see your a weapons specialist. Thats some weapon you have their sugar
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RHP User
11 years ago
What they do for a living doesn't change their personality. Any job is better than no job at all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why thank you lady. Long time no see gawjus woman! Yes yes I am back in Perth so will catch up sooner than later. xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Why thank you lady. Long time no see gawjus woman! Yes yes I am back in Perth so will catch up sooner than later. xxx always a bed for you down by the beach, so if you need a break , I might just have a rhp girls pj party, hubby will be beside himself lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
We all have likes & dislikes. Sexually i would not care what job my FB had. Relationship wise yes, i look for an equal partner.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
God if he has a job then that's a good thing. I defiantly wouldn't let someone's occupation get in the way of meeting, playing or getting to know them. As for favourite professions, a man in a uniform is sexy, a man in a suit is yummy too and then a man in king gee work gear is hot as hell too......💋
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
God if he has a job then that's a good thing. I defiantly wouldn't let someone's occupation get in the way of meeting, playing or getting to know them. As for favourite professions, a man in a uniform is sexy, a man in a suit is yummy too and then a man in king gee work gear is hot as hell too......💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
LuckDragon is going from her personal experience and you can't argue with that. She is an intelligent woman and knows that it is a generalisation but her experience makes her wary so she approaches with caution. Nothing wrong with that. PS: And another decision I have made and I realised I have just violated is reading a comment of a person with no profile picture. I refuse to do that. So hello and good bye.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
God if he has a job then that's a good thing. I defiantly wouldn't let someone's occupation get in the way of meeting, playing or getting to know them. As for favourite professions, a man in a uniform is sexy, a man in a suit is yummy too and then a man in king gee work gear is hot as hell too......💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was a copper for over 20 years and now work FIFO worker and can definately say that the blue uniform had more appeal that the orange one :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just someone being employed is always a plus, he can afford to take me out, lol. Seriously though, if it's just casual doesn't particularly matter, but if it were serious love business I would steer away from doctors. They work too long hours.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Please have the pj party whilst I am still on leave. Does it matter I sleep naked?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Does not bother me, I just need him to be understanding of mine :-(
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't care, don't need to know what a lady does for a living... Your work isn't who you are (or shouldn't be... But if it is... I'm happy for you). I've never had anyone ever have a problem with what I do or did... In fact, if they ask and I tell, I invariably get "20 questions" before we start talking about something else.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Interesting topic. Don't you think that the job a person chooses to do tells you something about who the person is? Many profiles say that the person is looking for a certain sort of conversation. The conversation you're going to have with a person who drives a road train is not going to be the same as the one you have with a university professor. If you choose do something for about a third of your life, it doesn't seem right to see that as superficial. I read an article once that suggested people's personalities change to fit their professions because they spend that much time doing their job it comes to define who they are.
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RHP User
11 years ago
No I don't believe a job defines a person. You can start a career when young and get stuck on that path due to life circumstance. Also as fir defence force / police force. They employ so many people, the personality types are wide and varied. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'inthekiss' Quoting 'haveago81' I work In a physical work environment, but also have a second job within the military....judge me as you will because I would not judge someone on how they make a living. If you're that superficial then I have no time for you. - Posted from rhpmobile I can see your a weapons specialist. Thats some weapon you have their sugar Thanks sweetheart
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' LuckDragon is going from her personal experience and you can't argue with that. She is an intelligent woman and knows that it is a generalisation but her experience makes her wary so she approaches with caution. Nothing wrong with that. PS: And another decision I have made and I realised I have just violated is reading a comment of a person with no profile picture. I refuse to do that. So hello and good bye.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Gotalk' Interesting topic. Don't you think that the job a person chooses to do tells you something about who the person is? Many profiles say that the person is looking for a certain sort of conversation. The conversation you're going to have with a person who drives a road train is not going to be the same as the one you have with a university professor. If you choose do something for about a third of your life, it doesn't seem right to see that as superficial. I read an article once that suggested people's personalities change to fit their professions because they spend that much time doing their job it comes to define who they are. At the end of the day, if a person is working hard be it in a factory job, or something some might consider 'undesirable' and they do it because it pays the bills, feeds the family and provides a roof over the heads, that person gets more respect from me for being willing to do that day in and out, more respect than suit wearing 'executive' types. Not saying at all that the suits aren't great at what they do, and let's face it machines need cogs of different sizes, but if someone is willing to do the hard yards in order to support their family, then bravo. Factory workers are a funny mix, there are some particularly articulate, very smart people there, just paying their way through night studies, or doing uni in their off time. And on the whole there are very genuine happy people. But to those in the ivory towers, they are considered very poorly. I may say this as a blue collar worker, but in the long run, in this environment or RHP, if you're just after a shag, occupation shouldn't play that hard into it I'd think. But maybe that's just a blue collar worker thinking for himself...shame shame /end rant
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RHP User
11 years ago
@LuckyDragon - im sorry but there was no disrespect intended, i was just trying to voice my experiences based on the subject as im the one on the receiving end not the one making the choice so i have no choice but to deal with it so LuckyDragon yes all has a choice and i respect what u said. @Meeka - its ok to be snob if u wish to be one, lol, seriously ive had allot of respect for your comments on here and to make judgement on someone without relating to them is your choice but to me its kinds wrong. it doesnt matter if i have a pic or not as u still read others posts without a pic so this is an example of being selective in the same manner as the subject of the post. ok, ill upload a six pack shot and legs on a bed then its ok and u will read mine, yay. anyway, meeka, i take everything with a grain of salt and this forum is for all to comment and im disappointed a little with what u said but i still think ur cool, wicked and sexy. great topic and i seem to understand the regulars allot better now, have a great day all. Shooting_Stars01
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have a few pre-reqs: 1. A job - or would accept full time study leading to employment 2. Takes care with appearance3. Compatible mobile phone charger4. Clean maintained vagina I have recently read a few profiles that seem to have a strong preference for a particular occupation, which I find a bit off putting to be honest. I don't know of anyone having sex with a job and if the sole criteria is based upon a particular job/ uniform etc it seems a bit impersonal.... I'm sure someone is going to tell me they know what they like..... what I'm trying to say is that Id rather be interested in who a person is rather than what they do for a living! ** Notes regarding #1 I like industrious go-getters
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm apparently a drug dealing, illegal prostitute smuggling professional if you believe the media.... But I call myself a truck driver..... Does it matter what someone else does for a living in my eyes??? Hell no....as long as they have a job.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
GLOCK.. and I use it to keel people for money... BUT.. you are my friend yes??... I keel you for nothing...
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RHP User
11 years ago
If the conversation gets that far and they are unemployed, police or male armed forces then it's a resounding NO. Both police guy and army guy both thought they could call upon us when they liked and the cop unfortunately for him thought he could intimidate to play again. Both were sadly mistaken. If you are unemployed in Darwin that means your a lazy barstard and nobody likes lazy in the bedroom. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
That I am a major job snob in real life and RHP life...... (Totally cringing to admit it lol). Someone's chosen profession or vocation is a direct reflection of their character and personality. I think perhaps I just prefer to mix and interact with people who are intellectually equal or superior and find nothing more aggravating than trying to converse with someone who is incapable of holding a conversation of substance. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with luck dragon. From my own experiences I have learnt to tread carefully with people in the military. I am not trying to tar one occupation with the same brush. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just had to say it. After reading the last few comments, by all means have your opinion, after all we are all entitled to one, however to convince yourself that a persons chosen profession is direct reflection of their character is just rot. I work in an industry some may find hard to deal with, however I know for a fact that my personality and character reflect ZERO on it. I work hard in a dirty job, get paid well for it in order to provide security to those most dear to me. That so many out there are willing to do the same, says great things for who they are. Those most devoted will do what they must and that is the true reflection of their character.My personality and character are reflected on my upbringing and family life, raised to respect those around you, follow the rules and work hard. As for people having something against military and police persons as a whole, as result of a bad experience with a few bad eggs, well that's also a shame. I happen to know many police officers and am former military myself, and some of the best, most giving personalities have been found amongst those professions. Each to their own, but I'll tell you this, status and social standings are not an effective way to reflect on who a person is. A person develops into who they are and will be, long before they get into a profession, or 'job'. /out
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RHP User
11 years ago
makes no difference to me I have been asked what I do and yep that's the end of conversation but pfft too bad one thing I'll say is my work pays for my living I may not be rich yet but I live well and can have and do pretty much anything my heart desires so yay me lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
well, i havent been here long and when i first started posting i was ganged up on by illiterate morons who thought they were better because they had been here longer, had a pair of tits as a pic but they just use this site as a voyer and really dont respect people and opinions. i actually thought we were all equal with our own opinions and in this case it was all about personal experiences not be outrite rude and play follow the leader. im just staying on here long enough for this post to be seen, then im gone because i wont lower my standards being here. this forum is about people and getting on and not making it personal.....its wrong. so to answer the main question asked by Twisted_Mister, as the comments of the people who choose to slag at some jobs are a reality without any real compassion just to get noticed is sad. so for those who choose a job over the person or an individual, yes its your choice but it shows that u have no integrity and ur funny to a point that no wonder ur divorced or just sleeping around because thats what u do best and the person doesnt matter....but....yeah stay away from people with the jobs u think suck. as meeka said, hello, and good bye. Shooting_Stars01
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Curiousplay1980' That I am a major job snob in real life and RHP life...... (Totally cringing to admit it lol). Someone's chosen profession or vocation is a direct reflection of their character and personality. I think perhaps I just prefer to mix and interact with people who are intellectually equal or superior and find nothing more aggravating than trying to converse with someone who is incapable of holding a conversation of substance. - Posted from rhpmobile Hi Curious, Just an idea, that I personally don't understand... Why do you assume that a person in a 'given' job is an "intellectual equal" or not... There are people doing jobs that they 'prefer' rather than those they may be able to do on their heads, which require a rare degree of intelligence and knowledge. They may just prefer to do what they do, rather than something they are perfectly capable of 'intellectually' but don't much like... Just my opinion and how I interpret what you said, but I think maybe, you are assuming that all people are limited mentally or intellectually to the work they are engaged in. Job satisfaction is very important to many people and I'll admit, that I am one who chooses to do what I do because I like it. I have held positions that ARE NOT 'a direct reflection of their character and personality' ... Some that I think you MAY look upon favourably and others that I again, think you MAY assume make me a FAR too unintelligent, my conversation unsubstantial and lacking in IQ points for you. Truth be known... my jobs have never reflected who I am or my IQ... "But I fight to the death, for your right to have this opinion..." As you say
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'haveago81' Just had to say it. After reading the last few comments, by all means have your opinion, after all we are all entitled to one, however to convince yourself that a persons chosen profession is direct reflection of their character is just rot. I work in an industry some may find hard to deal with, however I know for a fact that my personality and character reflect ZERO on it. I work hard in a dirty job, get paid well for it in order to provide security to those most dear to me. That so many out there are willing to do the same, says great things for who they are. Those most devoted will do what they must and that is the true reflection of their character.My personality and character are reflected on my upbringing and family life, raised to respect those around you, follow the rules and work hard. As for people having something against military and police persons as a whole, as result of a bad experience with a few bad eggs, well that's also a shame. I happen to know many police officers and am former military myself, and some of the best, most giving personalities have been found amongst those professions. Each to their own, but I'll tell you this, status and social standings are not an effective way to reflect on who a person is. A person develops into who they are and will be, long before they get into a profession, or 'job'. /out You took the words right outta my mouth{and no we weren't kissing} Too think that someone's profession determines their intellectual capacity says to me that those who make such assumptions are lacking in life experience which to me and most I know means more than to be scholarly and tertiary educated and still shitting green. I was a blue collar worker all my life yet retired at age 44 and live a very comfortable life. My chosen vocation was something I loved doing, NO status symbol bignoting bullshit job yet behind the scenes working in the worst conditions this country could throw at us. NEVER JUDGE ANY BOOK BY IT'S COVER
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RHP User
11 years ago
@MeAgain7...... Agree with your stand point whole heartedly. I'm only speaking from my personal experiences of course. I try my best to keep my posts as short and sweet as possible so something's may get a little lost in translation in doing that. I think you have over thought my post a little much though and that's fine. And being that I have spent my entire life growing up and working in mining communities here in Australia and other countries; the social circles and mixing with "like" professions etc has become ingrained and is hard to break. I hope my explanation has sufficed? I did say that I am admitting my perception of people and their intellect based upon career/occupation is a fault and we all have them I guess. Cheers 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Shooting_Stars01' well, i havent been here long and when i first started posting i was ganged up on by illiterate morons who thought they were better because they had been here longer, had a pair of tits as a pic but they just use this site as a voyer and really dont respect people and opinions. Between this and your profile, you sound like an angry man. Are you a clown? Now, there's an scary profession! (p.s. my tits will always be better than yours, but you would probably beat me at making balloon animals.)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just like the good ole days! We all have opinions tho just remember not to take things personally in cyber world.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Charming. Not sure who ganged up on who.... must have missed all that. I guess this question must be a little too close to home for some. :)
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madotara69
11 years ago
inspirit What do you think about blow jobs?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think the next topic should be which occupation are the best lovers. I hate telling people what I do because the assumption is that people in my profession are all dull and boring. Which I don't believe I am.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Librarians are hot!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gods, I hate bankers and accountants, they are the most boring lovers ever. Now, nurses are amaaaazing!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' inspirit What do you think about blow jobs?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Gods, I hate bankers and accountants, they are the most boring lovers ever. Now, nurses are amaaaazing! No way............ some accountants have very big rulers to spank that naughty butt missy! And wankers are.......... well the name says it all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What about dentists? They have good drugs and very special drilling skills. Plumbers are good at fixing my leaks. Cleaners are very good at polishing knobs.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Actually I think I need to marry a chef because my cooking skills suck. Musicians are sexy.......... I think I will have to take my percussion triangle to the next meet and greet and wow everyone. Yeah!
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madotara69
11 years ago
I should have been a lawyer, kicked arse at the unfair dismissal tribunal today.
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RHP User
11 years ago
ARSE Job today Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a female tradie in the motor industry (panel beater/spray painter), I receive a lot of disbelief from males..."she can't paint.." Blah blah. Intimidation is NOT attractive. Man up and get over it! Who cares what someone else does for a living. Enjoy life. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Without prejudice
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Now, nurses are amaaaazing! They will steal your left over biscuits from the tea room at the end of a shift and they tend think they are experts at pretty much everything :), Not so sexy either thesedays without their 60's style uniformsMe, as a humble Shephard, I couldn't give a rats what people do for a living as its all about their arse and boobs really. My part time FB here has no lasting job and I can usually get her to perform lewd and lascivious acts for a small fee when shes low on cash.happy to help those in need M
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RHP User
11 years ago
Amazes me how many have had a cracked at military or police. But they would be either calling for them or hiding behind them when push comes to shove. I come from military background. And hubby has had those kind of jobs and still does. Those guys are not soft clocks, they work hard train hard and I respect them. Perhaps that's why they turn me on as I like a man that has some guts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Soft clocks, we'll you know what I mean
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RHP User
11 years ago
I get to paint pictures of naked people. Errotic photography and get to photograph people wanking or screwing, makes me skip to work. I have also had many jobs, so I guess people have looked up, and down on me at times.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Having worn the uniform for over 20 years it never ceased to amaze me. the people who where such vocal detractors where the first to say. I'm so glad your here. When they needed us that is. anyway sort of getting off topic I guess. Anyway still kept my tools of the trade if you get my drift?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'haveago81' Just had to say it. After reading the last few comments, by all means have your opinion, after all we are all entitled to one, however to convince yourself that a persons chosen profession is direct reflection of their character is just rot. I work in an industry some may find hard to deal with, however I know for a fact that my personality and character reflect ZERO on it. I work hard in a dirty job, get paid well for it in order to provide security to those most dear to me. That so many out there are willing to do the same, says great things for who they are. Those most devoted will do what they must and that is the true reflection of their character.My personality and character are reflected on my upbringing and family life, raised to respect those around you, follow the rules and work hard. As for people having something against military and police persons as a whole, as result of a bad experience with a few bad eggs, well that's also a shame. I happen to know many police officers and am former military myself, and some of the best, most giving personalities have been found amongst those professions. Each to their own, but I'll tell you this, status and social standings are not an effective way to reflect on who a person is. A person develops into who they are and will be, long before they get into a profession, or 'job'. /out you can assume a lot about a person and the job they do and I think that is what most are referring to. For example, anyone working in the music industry, or the arts you could safely assume that they have some artistic and creative flare, blue collar workers don't mind getting dirty and are often handy, executives must be intelligent, military training can make people regimented etc. Not saying that any of these qualities can't overlap into other industries but you can assume it is a safe bet if it is a career choice. Some find these qualities great whereas others not so much. Using that as a reference, I can assume that someone who is creative may conflict with my practical side, someone who is regimented, may not be suitable with someone who is spontaneous, etc. A truck driver/FIFO worker may be too absent for a person who requires more stabilty but great for someone who likes their space. A cop/firey or ambo worker may be working in an environment which would be too worrying for some. A tradie guy may find an executive woman too high maintenance or vice versa if the roles were reversed. In saying that too, opposites do attract also so depending on the outlook of the people involved, I do think peoples careers can make an impact on how people relate. Not all people enjoy their jobs either but at least they have one, some their jobs are a means to pay the bills, others are passionate about what they do, some are just opportunities that come about and they have just stuck with it because they don't really know what they want to do, some people are just naturally skilled at what they do. I would have an issue with someone long term unemployed or anyone who could not support themselves. I would be willing to meet most people without considering their job though. I can say though that I am probably more attracted to the tradie/blue collar worker type but maybe because that is what I was brought up with. I am not sure I would be comfortable in a world of executives if I had to attend dinners and hob knob with high powered people, it is not my scene just like I wouldn't have anything in common with an IT computer whizz that is a gamer, I think I would rather shoot myself than have to sit around waiting for someone to finish another level of some game but there are people who would love that and they are more suited. I don't think it is a judgment as much as it is a suitability.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Id never sleep with or be friends with someone who killed animals for a living. I am a sucker for cops, firemen and doctors! lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
I worked as a Scoffolder and Rigger for a company named (out of business now) named 'Permanent Erections'. I wonder what comments hide in that particular job... LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
when one is walking around with the company name and logo all over the front and rear of the work shirt...
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's sad but true most do judge (we'll I find ) based on job or even clothing choice ??
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RHP User
11 years ago
I never would have thought my job defined my personality......... Now I have to work out what sort of job I should really be doing And OP.........I usually don't even ask. That's how much it means to me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I haven't had any experience with men in uniform BUT those people saying that all those people would be happy to have a cop in times of trouble, etc. Ummm yes but that doesn't mean I want to fuck them does it? Some people don't like aggressive, or dominant men or whatever other stereotype you want To mention. Isn't that okay? Aren't they allowed to have a type?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Supposed to dribble at the pussy anytime a man in uniform goes past? Personally it isn't my thing... Although sexy fireman well yeah okay. :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think I should date an editor who can teach me grammar and spelling!! ^_*
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RHP User
11 years ago
I prefer to date a woman who has a job - at our age if I meet someone and find out they are either living off the dole or taking their ex for every cent he has whilst not lifting a finger to help herself, well I am out of there. But I refuse to judge someone by what job they hold, there can be and often is a backstory that can explain a lot. One of my closest friends is a perfect example. When i met her, she had just come out of an abusive marriage, but a very wealthy one, her and her ex ran a company together as MD and CEO. But after the breakup, he and his team of lawyers tied up the finances for nearly two years. My friend had nothing, and raising two teenage boys, started cleaning. First homes, then business. It gave her the freedom to be home for her boys and keep food on the table. I have never been prouder of someone than her. After all it is a big step down from Managing Director to cleaner. Personally, as I have mentioned, I am ex military and wore a uniform for three decades. And yes it seems the civilian population either loves us or hates us, not much middle ground. And most of the hate comes from previous bad experiences so yes I can actually understand it. It is stereotyping but that unfortunately happens in all aspects of life, no matter how much we all proclaim we don't. Mooka
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'haveago81' Just had to say it. After reading the last few comments, by all means have your opinion, after all we are all entitled to one, however to convince yourself that a persons chosen profession is direct reflection of their character is just rot. I work in an industry some may find hard to deal with, however I know for a fact that my personality and character reflect ZERO on it. I work hard in a dirty job, get paid well for it in order to provide security to those most dear to me. That so many out there are willing to do the same, says great things for who they are. Those most devoted will do what they must and that is the true reflection of their character.My personality and character are reflected on my upbringing and family life, raised to respect those around you, follow the rules and work hard. As for people having something against military and police persons as a whole, as result of a bad experience with a few bad eggs, well that's also a shame. I happen to know many police officers and am former military myself, and some of the best, most giving personalities have been found amongst those professions. Each to their own, but I'll tell you this, status and social standings are not an effective way to reflect on who a person is. A person develops into who they are and will be, long before they get into a profession, or 'job'. /out I didn't mention anything about status or social standing as being any influence whatsoever on my decisions, because they have nothing to do with it. Also, I did specifically say that I was not tarring all with the same brush, I am perfectly aware that there are some very decent people working for the police and defence forces. Again, I worked for the QPS for nearly 3 years, I met quite a few of them. I have also met very nice people who work in defence. As I said, I would not dismiss someone outright solely on the basis of their job, but I have experienced and observed enough to make sure that I am a bit more careful now. If you or anyone else choose to take that personally, well I'm sorry but that's your issue. Nobody will be changing my mind. I also stick by my comment about personality types. Of course different jobs attract different personalities. And being a police officer or a member of defence do require certain traits, they aren't jobs that just anyone can or will do. I certainly couldn't, and wouldn't. There are obvious reasons why psychological testing is part of the process for entry into these positions. I'm not making any qualification here about whether the required traits are 'good' or 'bad' because that's way too simplistic and like just about any trait they can be both depending on the context.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
The dentist.....standing in front of mirror and refuse to show their face. You do know they aren't really brushing their teeth....yeah? They just giving themselves a really good HAND JOB, have really bad smelly breath and rotten teeth. If I met a dentist who showed me his face, I'd be impressed. Foxy
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I am no longer in the career of my choice. Does my current role reflect me as a person? Well, I deal with people and get them what they need/want and do so with warmth, professionalism and humour. I don't think that has anything to do with my occupation because I've always been the same. I fix stuff. I deliver. I understand what the OP is getting at. I felt my old career defined me as a person, it was only after freeing myself of the golden handcuffs and losing who I thought I was that I realised I wasn't my job and it didn't define me. I define me. ~ Indy On Safari still
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RHP User
11 years ago
I could also be personally offended by this thread because some have mentioned that they won't have anything to do with a person who is unemployed, and until recently I was in that category. But I'm not offended. I could try and change their mind and make them understand that not all unemployed people are lazily lying around all day eating cheetos and getting high, and I could get into social determinants and the complexities of the current economic and job climates which means that even people who do really want to work / study aren't always able to, but it would almost certainly be a waste of my time
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Proctologists aren't big on my list but Engineers seem to feature.....maybe because I have enough personality for both of us? 😝
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I've been homeless and unemployed (not on Centrelink either!!) I've also had a 6 figure income. For those saying they wouldn't date someone because of employment status I get it BUT unless you've done it hard or been there who are you to judge? Honestly....
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I had a partner (for very short period of time) unemployed, and who smoked weed all day everyday. Did it make me happy? ... Nope not one bit - he had lost all passion for life, working goals, had a Masters degree at being deceitful, wouldn't leave house and lived in another "happy" world that was not "Reality". Excuse after excuse, after excuse.. Huge lesson learnt there - NEVER AGAIN! Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' I could also be personally offended by this thread because some have mentioned that they won't have anything to do with a person who is unemployed, and until recently I was in that category. But I'm not offended. I could try and change their mind and make them understand that not all unemployed people are lazily lying around all day eating cheetos and getting high, and I could get into social determinants and the complexities of the current economic and job climates which means that even people who do really want to work / study aren't always able to, but it would almost certainly be a waste of my time LD, and some here could try to change your paradigm about the Military and Police - but would that make any difference? Both organisations are made up of a vast plethora of vastly different people, to categorise them all as one is the same as you have described for the unemployed. Everyone has their own personal set of standards, it doesn't mean it is good for everyone or even if it is wrong, but surely people are entitled to express here their own opinions. Mooka
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mooka, please note that I do not say this against you or the other persons who have posted here on a personal level. I have tremendous respect for you and I in no way suggest that you have acted other than in an honourable manner in your service. I also apologise as this seems to be moving in a tangent from the original OP. However, a report was prepared into the culture of the armed services 3 years ago. That report found systemic problems in the attitude of certain members of the armed services towards civilians in general, and women in particular (both serving and civilian) which extended through all ranks and which had been endemic for decades. There was a pervasive attitude of sexism, and a sense of entitlement which culminated in a culture which belittled women in particular but also included wider bullying, and has been the subject of further investigations. I accept that not all servicemen are like this. However, it is such a pervasive problem that it has tainted the reputation of servicemen in the wider community and makes women wary until they get to know the serviceman better.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ah fck.. I prefer to date a Woman.. Period... No.. NOT a woman period.. just a WOMAN.. PERIOD!!Reminds me when I was trucking years ago, and went through Nimbin.. picked up thir VERY hairy creature hitchhiking out of there.. I pulls up, and the hair ball climbs in.. no words exchanged.. Ten minutes down the road.. I was a world of my own, hairball talks.... "Go on! get it over and done with.. ASK the question!!" "What Question? " I asked..."If I am male or female.. that is what I usually get asked...."I replied.. "I don't give a fck WHAT you are.. I am going to fuck you anyway!!" I hate truckies now :) I gpt fckn Fleas AND ringworm off it!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't think I like them either...My last boss was one.. but he sacked my arse... Mind you.. it probably was because I DID his wife.. But fck.. SHE was an Engineer too.. *Shrugs*
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RHP User
11 years ago
THEY have no sense of humour...This girl I knew was at school (Of some sort) studying art.. I asked her what she intended to get out of it all.. the study and stuff..She told me she was going for a "Double arts Degree"I was ABSOLUTELY fascinated... and said to her... "You know how to CORRECTLY address someone who has a double arts Degree?"She said.. "No.. (smiling) please tell me.."I DID.. I said "Fries and coke with that Big Mac please Girl"WELL... I tell you.. THAT fckd THAT date up!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't stop.Your insight cracks me up
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RHP User
11 years ago
down on people with a job, say cleaning public toilets or seeping the streets is a very very mean attitude. Most people forget we would drawn in shit and dirt without people like that. I come from a lifestyle of above middle class then my husband past suddenly and I found myself on Centrelink and no job....ok I am a survivor and tough, I did it with two children and no one out there can say anything. I know also people judge you on your English.....and all this people who do so, have never spoken or written in a different language...but judge others. The only thing I judge on should you call it this....cleanness, conversation and good teeth. And even good teeth is a hard one to sustain in Australia because you pay a fortune on dentists and some can't afford it. I love a Tradesmen, I love butchers, I love scientists, I love men......and a dickhead comes in all occupations and a sweet men too. So thats my take on here.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
I am not job snob in a true sense. I do have some preferences though in that I don't like men that works in professions hat are morally disturbing to me . But overall, I am not judgmental that way as it just puts a cap on the potential path in achieving happiness and making my life more a positive journey. I have dated men from all walks of life from company owners to lawyers doctors to plumbers and farmers. All good to me as they all bring something wonderful to the table. I have dated a cattle farmer and found him extremely intelligent and down to earth and know his way around touching my body sensually (must be all that milking techniques. Lol ) and met extremely rich men who are just plain dicks who has a massive sense of self-entitlement. No fun with the latter. So can't really tell, and needs to be treated on a case by case basis. One of my current fwb is a tradie but extremely smart, funny, down to earth, and hands on. He does not care what I do and does not discriminate. How refreshing. How sexy. I have to admit I find Firemen and military pilots very sexy and have never been with any. My fantasy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' I replied.. "I don't give a fck WHAT you are.. I am going to fuck you anyway!!" I gpt fckn Fleas AND ringworm off it!! That wasn't a hairy person talking to you, you were so off your face you fucked Red Dog!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya'To look down on people with a job, say cleaning public toilets or seeping the streets is a very very mean attitude. Most people forget we would drawn in shit and dirt without people like that.
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RHP User
11 years ago
im a job snob..snob. So if i meet someone who judges people for the work they do, i snob them off and dont want anything to do with them ..But thats just me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ladies not any fans for gynaecologist that counts me out,jokes xx Surely irrelevant as long as happy doing whatever pays the bills,keeps you happy! That said nurses have my vote,fav occupation ,giving ,caring ,sexy ,etc! Understand security is a factor for some,which is understandable! I don't judge or discriminate ,as long as emotionally available that's most important to me xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Chefs go to the top of the list!Actually I think I need to marry a chef because my cooking skills suck. Yeeess..well the spate of cooking shows these days hasn't hurt the image of the often underpaid chef slaving away over those hot pans one bit. Glamourised it if anything. I can't complain, it is a useful skill to whip out for parties,special events and more private occasions. Its never failed to impress.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'nostrings_1' Ladies not any fans for gynaecologist that counts me out,jokes xx Surely irrelevant as long as happy doing whatever pays the bills,keeps you happy! That said nurses have my vote,fav occupation ,giving ,caring ,sexy ,etc! Understand security is a factor for some,which is understandable! I don't judge or discriminate ,as long as emotionally available that's most important to me xx I'd be very very happy with a "VIP SHORT-SIGHTED" gynecologist.... Up close and very very personal, if you know what I mean. Foxy
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