Married and attached

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Quoting 'Haemoglobin' but not married, and never will be. I have not got anywhere at all on this site (Im not on any other site). Though to be honest I havent tried real hard, seems that my options are severely limited with being a guest. But at present Im ok with this. Im in no rush and am happy to just look around.I had thought that by now I would have been asked to share my private pics, or at least the odd chat here and there.At present I believe that my major hurdle is being a guest, I dont really know how much the partnered thing affects me. However, I do believe in being open and honest. All my pictures, my entire profile is made as honestly as I can. If I found someone that was not honest on their profile I wouldnt be happy about it, and I completely understand others who do not like this. Shit, it's hard enough for us paying male Members, who can message ladies to stand out. When you're a guest and all you've got is your profile picture to grab attention, unless it's truly outstanding, they all blend into a blur with the sheer number the ladies can browse through. The male / female ratio here is crazy. Now don't mistake paying as you will find someone who wants to potentially go further. The odds are still you won't, but it's still a lot better then the almost zero chance as a male guest.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  It's that you have a single man profile and are likely cheating on your partner. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Quoting 'Fit_Geek' Quoting 'Haemoglobin' but not married, and never will be. I have not got anywhere at all on this site (Im not on any other site). Though to be honest I havent tried real hard, seems that my options are severely limited with being a guest. But at present Im ok with this. Im in no rush and am happy to just look around.I had thought that by now I would have been asked to share my private pics, or at least the odd chat here and there.At present I believe that my major hurdle is being a guest, I dont really know how much the partnered thing affects me. However, I do believe in being open and honest. All my pictures, my entire profile is made as honestly as I can. If I found someone that was not honest on their profile I wouldnt be happy about it, and I completely understand others who do not like this. Shit, it's hard enough for us paying male Members, who can message ladies to stand out. When you're a guest and all you've got is your profile picture to grab attention, unless it's truly outstanding, they all blend into a blur with the sheer number the ladies can browse through. The male / female ratio here is crazy. Now don't mistake paying as you will find someone who wants to potentially go further. The odds are still you won't, but it's still a lot better then the almost zero chance as a male guest. Yeah, I understand this. Unfortunately paying for membership is not an option at this time. However, Im ok with this. Im happy just checking things out, browsing forums...and pics

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I don't think you're in an open relationship at all. If you were, you'd be a paid member and look for action, since you have the green flag to do that. Or do you? I think not, I think you're just here for a perve. Due respect, if you were honest about that, I wouldn't care

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Paper trail from payment me thinks 😉

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I don't think you're in an open relationship at all. If you were, you'd be a paid member and look for action, since you have the green flag to do that. Or do you? I think not, I think you're just here for a perve. Due respect, if you were honest about that, I wouldn't care You are welcome to your opinion, no problems. I do like the perve, for sure, there are many beautiful women on here. I like to hear what people have to say on the forums too.And sure, if something developed on here, great. But Ive said I am in no rush, I dont really mind either way. I tend to prefer things to develop naturally. Rather than explaining my situation on a public forum, Id prefer to talk directly to people who I get along with. Everyone will know what is going on. I have no want or need to be deceitful.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Formatting! Sorry. You are welcome to your opinion, no problems. I do like the perve, for sure, there are many beautiful women on here. I like to hear what people have to say on the forums too. And sure, if something developed on here, great. But Ive said I am in no rush, I dont really mind either way. I tend to prefer things to develop naturally. Rather than explaining my situation on a public forum, Id prefer to talk directly to people who I get along with. Everyone will know what is going on. I have no want or need to be deceitful. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Hi, I think that it is a matter of numbers. I am assuming that as OP is attached, he is only looking for a physical liaison, not a partnership. The dynamic is very different when men and women are looking for a partner VS a sex buddy. 1. Males far outnumber females in these sites... 2. Given the shortage of women, there are so many males in their 20s-40s who would be happy to have a well-kept woman of any age (sort of) as a casual sex buddy; this gives the 50+ or 60+ males some disadvantage. 3. To that, add that the hotter males who have higher attractiveness and confidence will probably cause a further disadvantage to all other males (of any age and relationship status), as when looking for a sex buddy, looks might count somewhat more than someone's fantastic personality. 4. To that.... Add that males who are unattached can freely host at very short notice. 5. As someone said already, there might also be a further shortage of women in the 50+ category, perhaps... But I am not sure... All of the above points will make it very difficult for an older, male, attached and of average looks to be able to get a slice of the RHPie. Unfortunately, this is a meat marked and when browsing meat on shelves we all tend to be attracted to the packaging first... BTW... I am a vegetarian... Lol... E

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Sorry... But this is true... Even in clubs sometimes women enter for free, whiles males pay... It sucks but sites like these need to attract females to go anywhere... No club or sex site will be in shortage of males... It is just the way it is...

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