squirting and rough handling

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  some of us singles have been in this same situation with singles and with couples ... when it starts is the time to set the ground rule and say .. NO ROUGH stuff .. some guys just seem to watch too much porn , and think if its done in the movies than that the way it should be done ... Some like it rough ... AND some DONT ... Guys .. ask before you start .. there is more to sex .. than just fingering roughly and making the bed really wet!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I would say this is going to be a case of you stepping in before it gets started, explain that if they arent prepared to give Mrs.JE some oral enjoyment to relax and get her in the mood first then they can forget all about the crazy painful fingering trying to get her to squirt. And also if they are getting rough they will need to work out a signal or a tap. I know exactly what she means with that too, Ive had someone go straight in there trying to 'make it happen' without even the possibility of me getting in the moment, it bloody well does hurt and for a good while afterwards. . So maybe some tweaking of your pre-encounter rules and how you go about letting the other person know? That way if it gets too rough for Mrs. at any time during play, she will most likely feel more confident to say stop or slow down, as they've already been told what is and isnt on. Best of luck, and hope you can get it sorted so the unpleasantness doesn't ruin your future fun xxx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  a swift kick in the head usually gets the message across.Or return the favour while sucking them...and tell them you will MAKE them ooze precum from the prostate pounding...whether they like it or not...coz thats just how good you are.LOL.Maybe just put something in your profile saying that if the guy reckons that a hard fingerfucking is the bees' knees..then perhaps he should look elsewhere.JMO...BJxxx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  im with D_G_T. maybe set out a few extra gidelines before play starts that way if Mrs Just feels that its getting alittle out of controll or there hasnt been enough foreplay for her to get in the mood then she will be confordent so say so. Mrs B

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  You might even be doing them a favour in the long run by teaching them it's way way easier to get a girl to gush if there's fluid built up in the area to work with, if you see them going in too soon or too hard, give them a pro tip that if they get her very aroused with their tongue first they'll get a better result.It's definitely OK for you as her partner to prevent him doing any harm to her if she's not able to say it herself. You know the consequences and what her limits are better than random dude will and you know that she might get carried away in the moment and regret it later, the only person who has to be cool with you stepping in to protect her is her. She's lucky to have you there with her best interest at heart.xx Sarah

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Two quick comments...yes, take charge and forget about trying to teach someone anything. If they aren't asking...you aren't going to teach them anything.|Next, lead the charge...grab your gear and head for the door. Some of life's lessons are best...hard learned and well deserved.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Where your wife is coming from...I too get caught up in the moment as they are pounding me with their fingers...it's sort of pain and pleasure rolled into one...I have never cum this way although felt close at times so never stopped them! Yes for days later I am in so much pain that it hurts to even touch my pussy! BUT...never again! I am going to speak up more often now and same goes with the oral...I used to give guys heaps of oral with none in return...now I won't let their cock go anywhere near my mouth unless they give me GREAT oral and I am so turned on by their tongue that I can't help but take their hard cock in my mouth! < There is no use putting it on your profile .. I have, and it doesn't work at all as most only look at the pictures and don't read the words that are written on there! Both you and your wife can sit with them beforehand face to face (as chatting online doesn't work either) and tell them the boundaries! If they start to become rough...give them one warning only (as they too can get carried away) and if they are still rough..kick them out or get up yourselves and leave! Hope that helps! xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Justenough, I am surprised at you. I never picked you as the shy type... you seem to be more than capable saying what you think! Whether it be you or you wife you should say no at the time and avoid the pain afterwards.xxMeeka

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Xfunlovingx I sure would love to give you oral for hours

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  erotictouch4u

  14 years ago

  Sure there are some who enjoy it rough, including many varieties of pain, but generally aren't the odds stacked in the favour of always starting off slow and sensual with plenty of non-painful stimulation before moving onto anything rougher anyway ? I for one am not into the pain thing, never have. Preference should always be to give as much pleasure as you can to your partner "the way they want it" and then they will be more in the mood to return the pleasure to you how you want it. For all meetings though I agree with the others that clear guidelines should be set out before anything is started. This can be through the initial emails, chatting or face-to-face and always should be agreed to again before the fun starts to make sure it stays fun. ET xox

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  hi get a egg vib and just work the clit she know the spot when you find it a little bit of grape oil good inside and out great for cooking to lol

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Hey, Celebree, DGT, Miss BJ (lol youre a bit tuff but same message), Ballinacple,curiousnewgirl, Mr Midnight (thx for keeping it under 100 words) , xfunlovingx, Meeka (not so much being shy but letting the fun happen when I knew the consequences) eagertongue, and cherylane. We have taken all your comments on board, altered our profile and Mr will say "hey slow down, she may like it now but I know her body cant take that without being sore for days" am sure anyone in the bedroom would respect that, we have have found 99% of people in the scene and nice, lovely people. Thanks Guys!

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