M56 F43
sorry not interested
February 25 2017
Comments
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Hard to know what to say to that really. Firstly because your profile is lacking, no pictures, not verified, you want the elusive unicorn, your apparent age difference, your age will be an obstacle, throw in some slightly odd wording "not into filth" 😁 how old are you? That sounds like a comment coming from a man in his 70,s or older. What do you define as filth? Sex is dirty, not sure whether "non filthy" will attract many couples and unicorns or even singles. I wouldn't be interested unless it was filthy 😉 So hard to know if this is a male or a couple. I'm putting an each way bet on this one lol 😯 And one other thing, can anyone else view the profile who validated? Is it locked to everyone. That's generally a sign that it's fake, to me anyway. Now if I'm wrong about all of this, great, I really hope I am. You could easily correct all of these things, and your profile will look more honest and genuine. That's how I viewed it, others will too, I wouldn't have actually got past the lack of pictures. Good luck. Due respect, but I think you'll need it 😃
-
RHP User
9 years ago
From a young lads perspective you seem to be extremely attractive however I cannot tell what your husband looks like. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
9 years ago
I touch myself2. I've seen several of your posts you seem to enjoy bagging the person asking a question. Maybe you need to take a good look at yourself before you comment on others. I think you are a bully.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry to lower the tone but if you were looking for a single man there would be no "sorry not interested" from me😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Unfortunately some people when they have been on here for a while get a bit big for their boots and think they are sexual Gods/Goddesses. In real life, however, they are just average Joe or Joan like most of us. Like you guys, we are not into filth (scat play ) but I would leave that until messages start and you discuss likes and dislikes regarding fetishes. Otherwise your profile seems genuine and you have met someone who obviously liked you guys. Its just a case of being patient til you meet nice people who suit what you are looking for xx
-
Smilingwithfun
9 years ago
While you may not wish to have face pics, at least have pics of the 2 of you. Have a lot more pics up & mention face pics in Private gallery
-
Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
Hi there, it really had to say on why people say thanks but no thanks. When I had my single profile I was very particular with what couples I played with. People have different preferences and that's ok, you just have to move on. As for a profile is concerned (I love a good profile), I think a profile should be well written, it should depict who you both are snd what you are looking for and I think they should to be longer than a sentence. Photos, (yes I love a nice photo also) especially on a couples profile should at least have a few photos of a couple, yes separated photos are ok, but together photos are a must.💋
-
AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Filth is regarded as what comes out your arse. My boundaries, and l have only 2, is no pain and no filth. Common description around the place
-
AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
As Lovinit says, putting proper photos up of the 2 of you, body at least will filter a few. Send a message with face shots unlocked will filter more for the first step.Couples X2 is the hardest combo, 4' people need to be feeling it to proceed. It's all a numbers game for everyone except for single women. So accept the game and keep churning. You are lucky you have each other for moral support for the rejection times. The single males have only themselves to keep fronting up to the keyboard after rejection. So you are twice as lucky already.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Its all about attitude! How and what when you communicate is the difference between success and failure!
-
MissBishere
9 years ago
Attraction is a fickle thing. What one considers attractive another does not. Add more pics, show face pics up front if you don't want to hear the rejection. Best of luck
-
MissRedFox
9 years ago
Is extremely common. I have a face pic and clothed full body pic in my public to save time, but still get asked quickly for my private gallery (which isn't over explicit anyway) I have noted a lot of time wasters on this site - men who want the dirty talk and pics but seem to have no intention of meeting up. For me, the first message and profile is crucial. Very few people actual put effort into that first message and I don't find "hi, how are you" that inspiring. I could be wrong on this, but I don't think anyone on this site logs in and instantly has a perfect order of sex delivered to them. Every one either reads or sends multiple messages, has endless conversations that go nowhere, has been treated rudely or disrespectfully. (if you haven't please share your secrets so we can all learn:) The worthwhile things take time and patience. While most of us have an "end goal" here, I find just enjoying the process and not having too many preconceived expectations helps. XX
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Personally, it comes down to physical attraction. Let's face it (pun intended), were being judged on our looks, first impressions right? A connection comes later (maybe). If we don't find you attractive then it's going to be a "no thanks" from us. We get these responses all the time and just move on. I think maybe you need to get over yourself! Just my 2c - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Lot of rude people and people punching above there weight and let's not forget the time wasters on here . Keep at it pizzadogs if you enjoy it ... just takes a lot of sifting though to find right people :-) Good luck - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Upgraded to allow myself to message, have had 2 messages asking to see pics , I did .....I didn't even get a reply let alone a thanks but no thanks....bit rude me thinks....
-
RHP User
9 years ago
average Joan like you, good lord. Some days words just escape me 😀
-
Have2befun
9 years ago
Had numerous contacts by message, met two couples. Once as guest and one two weeks ago. Nothing eventuated. First ones seemed ok but didn't click. Second one seemed up themselves, couldn't even reply to my thank you for meeting message the next day. I feel like there is many fakes pretending to be couples that are just possibly men just getting their kicks off trying to get nude pictures. We show our non nude private photos to whoever we communicate with but its like as soon as I mention we don't do nudes, thats the end of it. Getting a bit disappointed, we get more people chatting us up in person at clubs but still haven't found a bi girl to have fun with my wife as she desires. Plenty of male attention but she says she's got one of them already, just wants to experiment with a woman. Trying to find a mutual couple where the guys watch the girls play with possible future swaps, fmf, mfm & fmfm. All just seems like its just going to be a fantasy that never becomes reality. Are we that unattractive or is it our age, or could it be because we have no experience or what? All we can do is keep hoping. Keep at it Pizzadogs
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Simple Most couples are single guys and picture collectors. Most women want adonis with massive cocks Guys over state the truth. For example 6 inch is said to be 8 inch. Love handles is atheletic. Honest profiles are interpreted as being also misleading. So 5 to 6 inch cock is interpreted as an inverted penis. Average is read as butt ugly. 48 years old must really be 68. Profiles have too many untruths. If you want sex it seems yiu have to lie your arse off.
-
Have2befun
9 years ago
We believe in honesty and thats whats on our profile. Its a sad world when people need to lie. Don't they get it, they always are found out eventually. Don't play the share nudes game till after you meet. RHP maybe setting up a date ratings panel that is mandatory on date completion that is triggered by a date acceptance option might be a good start. Eg like ebay feedback option where you can state a few words and select 1 to 5 star rating for a set question. Eg. Enter your comment on your date (As per validations) Sexy Couple, amazing, very friendly, had the best night ever, thanks Please rate Sexy Couple 1-5 stars Profile accuracy ☆☆☆☆☆ Punctual ☆☆☆☆☆ Appearance ☆☆☆☆☆ Respectful ☆☆☆☆☆ Recommend ☆☆☆☆☆ Could help sort out the genuine ones from the fakes if something like it could be initiated. Hopefully we will all find a genuine connection eventually.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
It might also just be a little difficult to get all 4 agreeing and feeling an attraction. We haven't met anyone from RHP yet, but the amount that people say about fake profiles has us concerned. That in itself limits options. It's a waiting game, I suppose. We're thinking of trying a swingers club first, at least it makes decisions a little easier. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
TheScorpions
9 years ago
Don't be disheartened, try swingers clubs or party's or both at least you get to see and meet and make a decision from there. Their are a lot of genuine people out there and a lot of naughty fun to be had.
-
mjplay
9 years ago
It's not all one sided, you messaged us recently...saying keen to meet up, we responded......yeah let's meet for drinks. No reply, it's a two way street.🙈
-
RHP User
9 years ago
I was so close but so far having a drink with you guys. But I had to work nighshift then travel back to Perth. Why could I not have stayed the weekend and checked out your mighty fine hotwife candyshop up close and very personal🤓👺!
-
Seachange73
9 years ago
Nailed it. A nice profile write up, a few nice pics of you as a couple, face pics in the gallery and see how you go. And lots of patience. If it helps, if you want.to meet real people rather than ghosts online, check out swinger's clubs in your area and attend meet and greets. Take heart that Rome was not built in a day. I wish you the best and ignore the negative people here. there are lots of good people here willing to share their experiences and help you out. Have a great swinging weekend.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Happens all the time. We ourselves are guilty of it to. Sometikes life gets in the way and u forget to respind erc or the messages back n forth become less until you become disinterested and move on. Truth be told getting out and meeting people in real life then joining fb groups and the like work a whole lot better than rhp, though its a launching point. Unless you are one of the beautiful people or acsingle female your options here are severely limited. Just the way of the world.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry bout the spelling. Fat thumb on phone lol
-
thevarmints
9 years ago
...interesting thread / as a general comment re Profiles we notice the absence of photos that genuinely represent the physicality of folks / often there are very few of the 'blokes' and all too often there is a proliferation of photos that really should be reserved for the GP lol / really - we've all seen the bits before - everyone's got one & if you are in this scene it just about goes without saying you've seen the odd one or three / we love the lifestyle but it takes perseverance, tolerance & some luck lol to find compatible play friends! - Posted from rhpmobile
-
On_Safari
9 years ago
There's a social day happening at Elizabeth Quay in Perth on Sunday so I've just read from SweetFrangipani under the dating meeting RHP'ers topics. I suggest if you really want to meet people and tear down all the web walls that seem to be blocking you go along to that and meet people in real life . Who knows you both might make some new friends who can introduce you to others and enhance your social circle. You're welcome ~ On Safari
-
RHP User
9 years ago
I love the banter on this site. And through the years I have met some awesome people. But one thing I do know is the best way of meeting people after the initial chat and banter is to meet them in a common location. I prefer to be touch and feel person. Not invading private space but a secure known location. So if people are in the lifestyle or say they do I prefer to meet them at a house party or a swingers club. It also proves if they are legit and do show up. Then you can see them in person. Chat to them under "normal" circumstances chat have a drink and see how they really are. And if anything further cool if not both parties dont feel awkward and can bail at anytime. Yes I am a ghost but will the real swingalingson please stand up. And those who have met me in person the profile does match the real person. Straight forward what you read is what ya get
-
RHP User
9 years ago
Nothing wrong with that. I think it's worse when people just ignore. I would much rather get a response, be it 'no thanks'. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
johnisfun3
9 years ago
If I could throw my two scents worth...... as this is social media people behave different to what they would in person. I think we better get used to it. At least its good to hear others have the same problem. In my opinion everyone's expectations may be higher specially the newbies believing members on the site are desperate and falling over each other to meet them. Probably this is not the case and after wasting your time you learn to filter out the time wasters. Unfortunately as "Meander" pointed out attractiveness is a fickle thing and someone more attractive could still be rejected. If I may use the analogy for our sexual needs to a blocked drain or sewerage pipe. When the drain is blocked it stinks and you get the first plumber to fix it at any cost. But if the problem is not serious (no stink) its not a priority and your are willing to wait.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
There is a Bunbury Meet and Greet coming up a week on Saturday. Check the Events pages xx
-
aaenjoy
9 years ago
The internet tends to make the ugly become sexy, so they shoot others down. Don't worry about them, they are just hurters and with small minds.
-
RHP User
9 years ago
that is all you can hope for...:)many said on here before that attraction is a fickle thing...we have chatted to couples, where we loved the profile, were attracted to the bodies...but once we exchanged face shots we found we weren't feeling it.... it's not that they were "ugly"...beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and in our opinion everyone is beautiful to someone...we just didn't feel that spark, that's all...happened to us a few times too...in real life we seem to get a positive feedback on our looks...here we had couples who found our bodies attractive, but our faces didn't draw them in...it happens...on the same token, we had bumped into people at parties, who we had turned down in the past...only to find that they were amazing people, charming, sexy and witty...and indeed it was our loss to not have met up with them...:)at the end, we only want people who wants us back...lol..it's simple..so don't take it personal, as it will just do your head in
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 15111 Comments: 88222
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1417 Comments: 10251
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2519 Comments: 11676
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2506 Comments: 9774
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 1004 Comments: 5188
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1303 Comments: 5789
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 782 Comments: 1992
-
LGBT
Topics: 170 Comments: 869
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share