quadriplegic???

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  13 years ago

  Hi,I can honestly say I don't know. It's terribly ableist of me, and I probably need to work on that, but sex with a quadriplegic, how does it work? Does the woman have to do everything? Do you have use of your hands? If I sat on your face would I smother you because you weren't able to let me know you couldn't breath?If I was friends with someone who was quadriplegic and we got on well, and there was an emotional and mental connection, then I'd be more inclined towards investigating how to make the physical work, but for a fuck buddy or friends with benefits, I think it would all just be a little too hard.I can't speak for anyone else, but that's how I feel about it. I hope I'm in the minority.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  You haven’t provided much detail – so I do not know if you are the person suffering quadriplegia or not so I will assume it is you (apologies if I’m am being presumptuous) Quadriplegics are more than capable of performing and receiving sex (and experiencing various levels of physical sensation ) but more importantly – mentally and emotionally are just as capable of experiencing every emotion known to man as the rest of us….you are not your disability….you are who you are – who sadly (probably due to circumstances) is confined to a chair…(forgive me if again I’m presuming but until I know the full extent of your break – I have to presume) I assuming (that damn word) that you are chatting to ladies around your own age group – 30 or below…..and although these lovely ladies may empathise with your situation, the reality of dealing with your situation is a whole different affair……I’m sure you have experienced this reality before Many people (irrespective of age) find any disability confronting and uncomfortable….because it reminds them of their own mortality and vulnerability – some will deal with this with issue with empathy and compassion but most wont…..sadly it’s just not within them – this can’t be helped..it’s a fundamental truth and many would have no idea how to deal with your unique situation Chris – you don’t have to be a quadriplegic for a lady to promise you it all and then renege on the deal …I’m sure many of our lovely male posters and peeps will agree with me on that comment …… So in answer to your question – personally – yes I would have sex with a quadriplegic – but here is the thing…I’m older, hopefully a little wiser – and somewhat educated about your condition – and that is because I am a doctor – a pathologist…so this give me a very tiny insite into what your condition and situation is..and there will be others in the community like myself that would agree with me, but thru no one’s fault, you are more than likely interacting with those who will never completely understand your condition/situation and for them it is confronting and frightening As very tiny (and I mean tiny) comparison – I am currently on crutches at the mo – if I have to walk far – I am suffering from an illness – once I put my crutches down and out of site…you wouldn’t really know I was ill…..unless I informed you…or from the occasional grimace on my face (yes I’m in pain) …but even with these damn sticks..people treat you different (I’m sure you can relate) and I am hesitant about who I meet even with my nuisance condition – I hide my illness (although not for much longer, as major surgery is around the corner…) but regrettably you can’t…so in a very very tiny way, I can relate to your situation –Ive purposely not met men who I don’t think can empathise with my situation cause at present I can’t be thrown around having wild jungle sex…the reality is I am in pain !!! And I will only meet with those who I think can understand and empathise with my situation.. In closing I say this….keep putting out there….somewhere somehow you will find someone who will see beyond the chair….and she will be so worth it….. If this person is not you forgive my presumptions…. But if it is is….then OP never ever ever give up………………you have just as much to give (and receive) from a lady as those who aren’t limited to a mobility tool I wish you nothing but good luck and happiness.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Depends on the motivation for having sex. I certainly wouldn't do it out of pity, morbid curiosity or so on. I imagine I'd do it if we were attracted to each other and there was a real connection - as with any other man.   As for the how ... I guess we'd figure that out :)

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  13 years ago

  lots of ask me in your profile OP.The answer can never be a yes or no from me.I worked with people with disabilities for many years.Many were people who had quadriplegia,there was one man I became quite close to but he was my client....so I would never cross that line.I don't wonder about the ''how'' but it comes down to attraction for me,mind and body. There are a couple of films that cover this well ''My Left Foot'',the story of Irish poet Christy Brown and ''Dance Me To My Song'' a film starring Heather Rose who had cerebral palsy .She helped write the script which was directed by Rolf de Heer. I am not sure if this helps with your question OP but I strongly suggest that you add to your profile and that you are transparent about your situation and what or whom you are seeking. If this question is about you.

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  13 years ago

  Nick is a wonderful motivator and goes to many schools and businesses to speak of his disablities. He was born with only a body...no legs...no arms...and yet last year he married a full bodies gorgeous (I think she is Hawaiin) woman and they are now expecting their first child around May this year! There are so many videos of him on YouTube and I think he has a website as well! . I have been with a paraplegic sexually and didn't see anything different to being with a fully able bodied male. The sex was great and the oral was out of this world. . Never give up! xFunlovingx

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  13 years ago

  Who I've met numerous times, had a dreadful motorbike accident quite a few years ago which Left him quadriplegic. He's one of the nicest guys I've met and a great laugh, loves going out drinking with his mates (pays for it pretty badly though). He ended up having a relationship with one of his carers (started about 12 months after she finished work with him) they ended up getting married and seem to be very happy, had their first child early last year (not sure if it was done naturally or ivf) I'm not sure on the details how but it's obviously possible.

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  13 years ago

  I use to see an amazing man. Sexy, smart, horny and honestly one of the best fucks I've ever had. God the things that fella could do!! He was just amazing in every way!!......oh he was also a quadriplegic!

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  11 years ago

  I would, it would be really sexy to be in control

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  11 years ago

  If I met a Lady who was quad or para that would not change my feelings toward her the fact that we would have to do things different would not make an ounce of difference. Even a Lady who was an amputee same deal

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