RHP

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profile pics

October 21 2009

we have been searching thru couples profiles and we get winks and msgs from other couples  i have noticed alot atm that the couples pics are mostly of her and quite a few profiles dont even have a pic of him on there so how can we say we are interested when there is no picture of the male so how do we no if we are interested or not its just something that has been bugging me we as a couple have both pics of us as a couple then one single shot of us both

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Makes it hard to decide to go further when there are so many good profiles around...I guess they are selling themselves short..albeit I totally understand why some couples can't show sufficient photos..just means they may have to accept other couples won't give them a second look.   Trev & Kilee

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I agree, we have a pic of both of us,sure I want to know if im attracted to him or her. People who dont have a pic of who they are makes its hard to choose. We are new here and already had a few single men say they are part of a couple! We arent willing to meet anyone unless we chat to both parties. U have to be physically attracted i think.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Girls are just prettier to look at :P ... so it's not a problem for me if most of the shots are of her... however, yes, at least one shot of the guy is essential, be it a nice body shot or face pic...just enough to get an idea

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    But how can you tell by looking at a pic that you will have a good time. The person/people may be visually appealing but useless in bed!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Its so much shallow water in Q, you must be affected

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    however there are stages we go through before actually getting to the bed/beach/backseat of car phase...   1st is do we find them physically attractive 2nd is can we have a decent conversation 3rd ok everyone get naked   So no pics and we wouldn't take it any further.  Doesn't mean to say we wouldn't chat or flirt with someone who doesn't have public pics as long as they have some to share before a meet up.   K.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    im not shallow for knowing what kind of person im attracted too im sorry for having standards i just wont fuck anyone if im not physically attracted to some one im not going to waste my time

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Why is that shallow???   Physical Attraction is very important. It's not everything, but it has to be high on on the list. It's our biology to see some one attractive and want to be with them.   lovebitten xoxoxoxoxoxo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I agree there has to be a physical attraction but and its a big BUT... How often do you hear of people who have known each other for a long time starting a relationship. They might not be on your 'A' list but get to know them and your perceptions of people change.    Looks are no indicator of how good someone is in bed.    Don't forget the largest sexual organ in the body is the brain!!!!  I'm better in bed than I look

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i agree with the physical attraction side and have to agree with kileetrev and lovebitten, that an attractive pic certainly perks my interest...but, if you like someone's profile, then there is nothing like meeting up, even for coffee or a drink just to see how you like the both of them...the guy may not be so great to look at, but ya just can't portray charisma and that mmm-mmm in print now can ya?...i love great pics...but i also love no pics and great profiles...and hey, what's wrong with finding a new friend, even if ya don't make it to bed, kitchen bench, back seat of car (bit cramped, espcially in my mini..giggles), railway station....lolcheersjose...