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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hi Nyc2Syd, I don't care how many women a guys been with. I care about safe sex and I'd like him to prove that he gets regularly tested (show me his results). Sex is just sex ! I am a VERY HONEST women. In fact most agree I'm TOO honest. If anyone asks me a question i answer honestly. BUT... I've discovered it's best avoiding the HOW MANY question. I now answer "what is concerning you" or "I get regularly tested every three months would you like to see my results". Or, I say, "I can be loyal and faithful or I can be casual and carefree. What are you looking for ?" I'd never consider a woman a slut based on the number of men she's slept with. The term slut refers to an attitude not a number ! xxx Miss Saturn P.S very nice picture !!!! I love white boxers.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  But then again, it's the person I am interested in. As I get to know someone, he tells me through his words if he is a player or someone who is more selective. Those who are more selective will refer to previous lovers as "girlfriends" or "a woman I was seeing"...meaning to me, that they spent time with them in and out of the bedroom. Players will usually say "this girl I was with once....." Interesting though, a lot of men have asked me that question...how many partners I have had. So I tell them "less than you"...really for my amusement so I can see them nod their heads in approval ;P Jx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hey NY.... I'm a slut and I defend other sluts and say that there's no right or wrong in that.. it simply describes a degree of promiscuity. Being a slut is more about an attitude than a number's game. I think you know when you are a slut though.. and that's when you can't answer that question to a reasonable proximity. As for does it matter.... I'd rather spend any day/night of the year with a slut than with a prude... so I guess it does matter. HUgs Stalky

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Surely in this game that word does not even exist. Slut is a derogatory word used by sanctimonius vanilla crowd.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  as long as they play safe with me who cares how many he has had roxxy xxx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  We've talked about it but neither of us is the jealous type and reminiscing in company can be fun but we know we're both clean, both tested twice since we got together, and that's all we really care about.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Like the others as long as he is safe sweet man... And I won't have anything to do with a man that asks me how many...non of his business! I don't ask him so what right has he got to ask me....TWATS!.....LOL... hehe weetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Except for RHP, most women on dating sites always state they are not after a 'player'. How can i avoid that?? Unlike some of my uber romantic mates, I DONT fall in love after 2 weeks. I sort through applicants. After 2 marriages I can say confidently that my next long term relationship has to tick a lot of boxes (....A LOT OF BOXES!!). Not sure that woman actually exists outside the movies. Until then I happy to play the field & search thru the applicants. But how do you play without 'Playing'???

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  thank you all for your insight. I would agree that slut is a derogatory term used by the less open minded. Sex is fun and should be enjoyed SAFELY. Number of previous partners has nothing to do with the person you're with now, and hopefully we've all learned from those that came before . My answer to the number question is always more than 1 and less than Mick Jagger (meaning i choose politely not to participate in that discussion). Happy hump day xxx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Mate... a guy has to be under 35 to be a player. Guys like us... I mean seasoned .... ..we're not players.. we're masters and expected to share the benefit of our experience. :p NOt so much "playing" as providing "instructional training"... you know... a community service! Hugs Stalky

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Quoting 'stalky' Mate... a guy has to be under 35 to be a player. Guys like us... I mean seasoned .... ..we're not players.. we're masters and expected to share the benefit of our experience. :p NOt so much "playing" as providing "instructional training"... you know... a community service! Hugs Stalky i'm an instructor, i'm an instructorahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahain what????????????????Earlahahahahaahhaahahahhaahhahahahaahahahahahahaahhaaa

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  We'll seeing as how I've not 'been around the block' too many times, I'd love to have an instructional afternoon with the very sexy and seasoned masters Stalky and Earl, at the same time!!! I promise to continue to share my learnings, also as a community service of course...

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  really ? maybe i dont really understand ...

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Earl your a cracker! luv it! huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I make it a matter of personal pride that I never let slip how many partners I've had. I keep myself clean and checked regularly, but I think a little mystery is not something that should be lost easily.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Stalky, you're experience has done you well amigo. I most certainly agree that in our 30's (while still open for much experimenting) we are the experts. it is our duty, (one that comes with much pressure and expectation) to share what we've learned with generations of young lovers to come. I wear that role with pride and look forward to passing on some oh so fun wisdom. Imagine what would happen if instructors like us didn't exist! the horror!

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