RHP

RHP User

M44 F45

is it just me?

September 22 2010

hi there ppl of rhp. we are a newly open married couple and we decided a few months ago we would spice up our marrage and have a fuck buddy each. f found one easy but for m its been as hard for him and i think its because he's married and not single (which isnt fair on him that he cant get a friend either). so my question is is it just me or do single woman not like to play with married men even though they're in an open marrage/relationship?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Will play with a married man, when they can have one of their own, apart from the sisterhood thing.I also think that most women will think your bullshitting if you have an open relationship.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Trish has said exactly what i would have said (i just wouldnt have said it so well lol) and Nev finished it off perfectly for me so i really cant add anything else...but good luck roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I can understand your frustration...... We have found the same....... We find cpls more reliable and sometimes hubby/wife will do solo.... This has lead to a FB for hubby........ Unfortunately these sites have soooooo many men on them than females, so the fellows are definitely disadvantaged. Cannot answer for single women. However we have come across many guys who stretch the truth just a bit about the open relationship thing. He is open and she is not ! And may not even know he is on this site...... And that is NOT 6 inches..... LOL! Hope this helps..... Be patient... Cheers MRS SRFUN

  • playfulminx

    playfulminx

    15 years ago

    Oddly enough I would not choose to meet an attached guy (even in open marriage) even though I am attached myself. I just like blank slates I guess? Or maybe I figure single guys aren't as distracted by their significant other. If I have time in my limited schedule to hook-up, I don't want to hear excuses like: "Oh, my wife and I usually go to the movies on blah..." or "Can I get back to you so I can make up a story to tell my girlfriend blah".Those excuses aren't so sexy :(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    well when im with someone and my significant other is elsewhere i dont go and say stuff like that. i go straight to the point and focus on them.