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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hi Ethan_guy, you really should use a spell checker and re-read your blog before you post it. But to answer your question, it depends on the people, everyone is different. If your friend really likes you then it's probably ok, just don't do it all the time or she will think your being too needy and insecure. You have to show her that you are confident and fun to be with even when your not kissing. I knew my first boy friend since I was 3 and we were always close but never got together until mid way through high school. Our first date was magical and we kissed so much; it's still so vivid to me but also like a dream. We didn't kiss all the time and he spent more time making fun of me than wooing me and that's what made him so much fun to be around, we were always laughing. I still catch up with him when ever I'm back in Melbourne, and even though we both date other people, I'm sure we will get back together as soon as I'm finished uni and move back home. But! Some girls can get carried away on a first date and are not looking for more that a bit of fun, so try not to feel badly if she gives you the cold shoulder, it wont be personal, she just might have been looking for a good time, not a long time, and I know how easily some guys can get hurt when they expect a hot date to lead to something more but doesn't. I hope this one works out for you, stay confident and keep a GSOH. :-)SF

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  only 12 hrs- lol

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  As Sarah said, play it cool otherwise she will think you are too needy. I've been in this situation twice now (I obviously didn't learn the second time either) and I told the girls how much I liked them and wanted it to be more. Up until I let them know that they seemed really into me. But as as soon as they knew they had me.. it was game over. And yeah, their reason was 'too needy' Then of course you get the other girls that say 'just tell me how you feel...' and don't seem to understand that when you've done that in the past you've lost out. Yeah... girls have messed with my head and heart many times. I'm so emo. LOL.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  yer we had sex two nights after but after she said she didnt feel like she wanted to see me anymore im so confused i was hurt like alot cuz i thought we had something going on but yer i feel so used :( i guess ive learnt my lesson now

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  It's also possible that after having done it with you she just didn't feel anything that made her want to continue. That doesn't mean you were bad, maybe just not right for her. It happens, no biggie

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  flesh_mesh

  16 years ago

  hey, your hot,,, her loss

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