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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  OK - well your profile is a bit whiny - I mean why do you put "#1 - Reply to my messages" in the "looking for" section? And the 'about you' is just a profile creator job. I'm guessing your messages prob come across as whiny too It also doesn't bode well that your profile pic looks like it has a public toilet as a backdrop. I'm sure there's more, but where do you stop?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  ...seeing as you asked nicely :) Perhaps re-think the profile photo and swap it for something a little less like a mugshot. Maybe even crack a smile? Haha Write something interesting about yourself. Sell yourself, write about your interests, use humour. The best profiles on here stand out because they are funny. Have a look on some of the other guys profiles for examples- don't worry, I'm sure they'll be flattered! ;) The standard profile builder is fine in your first week on here, but after 4 months surely you've found some time to update it? Theres a few typos and words spelt wrong, not the end of the world by any means, but will show that you have attention to detail. And if you contact someone, make sure you fit their criteria and have a read through their profile before sending a non-generic, copy and pasted message. Originality is crucial! Good luck!! :) Belle

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hi Mate,You're over 20 so best to write as an adult and drop the "IM" abbreviations. Use a "Contraction" and " Possessive" correctly ie. you're and yourAdd some pictures to your PG and I agree with the other suggestions get rid of the current profile pic. Get a friend to take a nice candid shot. A smile works wonders.All the best in the search.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Came close to needing some tp for the public dunny.. after I read this.. Quoting 'Jean_Girard' OK - well your profile is a bit whiny - I mean why do you put "#1 - Reply to my messages" in the "looking for" section? And the 'about you' is just a profile creator job. I'm guessing your messages prob come across as whiny too It also doesn't bode well that your profile pic looks like it has a public toilet as a backdrop. I'm sure there's more, but where do you stop?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  i haven't checked your profile, but are you >6ft tall, have a six pack and is your name Ken? guess not!But seriously dude, four months,... bet there are guys who have been here four years with exactly your success rating!Cheers Nev

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Pretty much what others have said. Checked out your profile and it seems that you didnt pre-read it before you posted it.For example: you are ft 1 tall? If someone saw that they would think ... he is really short... unless they scroll back up to where it actually says your height.... so you dont need that.You say you interests are varied... well name just a few of what you really like... because that is way to broad.Honestly get rid of the top 5 list. Write what you would like... but you could add some of those things within it.With the replying to msgs part... it does seem pushy to some extent. And yes please remove the abbreviations, write the word in full.Sell yourself as to why you are on here. Have you travelled? You say you are seeking women 20 - 40 yrs unattached but within your profile you say: Would love to meet new people for whatever really... so for whom are you actually seeking... women and what for... friendship, relationship, just dating????Well thats all I can think of... good luck with all of itKaz (partyinsatiable)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  *giggles*...some people write looooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnngggggggggggggggggggggg profiles...*yawn*and some people write short ones...i think a woman likes to be teased a bit...so maybe put ya face pic in ya gallery...and then a body shot as your main pic...heck, i'm sure ya got some muscles...let the girls see them...either get a friend, or a camera and a tripod...everyone is honest...be open about yourself and the things you really like...and take note of what everyone above has said...i like what tinquabell said...attention to detail and spelling...use google or a spell checker...cheers and lots of luckjose...

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