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do people actually meet?????
January 22 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
It takes a while to find the real ones then more time to find the compatible ones. Just be honest about what you want and relax, it'll come. Especially with a hot pic like that one!
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RHP User
15 years ago
We were reading about ways to approach people on these sites, the authors were suggesting a personal letter, not a template and keep following up 2-4 weeks later if there is no responce. Yes people do meet and play on here, but it is strange how it goes, you can have no interest then out of the blue you have more approaches than what you want. Hang in there be proactive and keep sending those messages out, and get use to rejection.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dunno how many people we have chatted to and arranged to meet, but when it comes to crunch time, we get no response. Bit hard for us because we live in different towns. So when we are in Perth together its a bit of a let down when we get stood up, we end up having our own fun of course... but we kinda thought wed meet someone by now at least. This is our fourth month on here now, patiently waiting.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We know what you mean but it is not a problem of this site alone but all have similar 'issues' for those looking.But, whilst there are a number of pure time wasters where you will make arrangements for a meet yet they fail to show, there are many more with legitimate reasons ranging from disinterest in you and/or relevant profile through to timing issues wheret hey may be busy.For us, we have been stood up, stood down, trodden on and spat out at times across sites, but we have also met some wonderfully interesting people (not all of whom we have played with either).So for us and from our experience, yes people do meet but look at it the way we do, that being that we may find someone interesting, but they may not find us as interesting or have their own reasons for delaying any meet. Not a problem for us and we just look forward to our next contact with another person of interest and see what happens there.Shebagaz
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RHP User
15 years ago
i meet heaps off RHP and are willing to meet more :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Real life tends to get the better of any 'fun' intentions a lot of the time :( Organising these kind of things around busy work requirements, 'regular' social functions, family, etc... it can just be harder than we'd rather. Almost seems easier to occasionally browse, look at the lovely folks and think "They'd be interesting to have a drink with" rather than try to put something together and have a last-minute spanner in the works disappoint anybody.Your mileage may vary ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Do you really?? So that is why you havent actually pulled your finger out your arse and invited me around is it! too busy with all the other women on here! ENJOY :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
lol yup.... na i invited u before u went to LONDON...
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RHP User
15 years ago
its funnt i think theres heaps of fakes on here thats for sure
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RHP User
15 years ago
when it comes to meeting people but me and my partner do meet if we think the couple is what we want
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes it takes time - Be patient Agree after being here one day it will suddenly get busy - we have times when we dont have enough weekends, then times we think oh lord is there anyone out there ? Loads of fakes - just move on - good idea , if they say "can I have a nude photo" almost always a fake. Oh we have met and played with people we meet here - they exist. Real life - has not worked if you meen a bar or other ? BUT swingers clubs we have met loads of people and had loads of fun ! Brae ...... stay sexy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3' Yes it takes time - Be patient Agree after being here one day it will suddenly get busy - we have times when we dont have enough weekends, then times we think oh lord is there anyone out there ? Loads of fakes - just move on - good idea , if they say "can I have a nude photo" almost always a fake. Oh we have met and played with people we meet here - they exist. Real life - has not worked if you meen a bar or other ? BUT swingers clubs we have met loads of people and had loads of fun ! Brae ...... stay sexy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Quoting 'looking2try3' Yes it takes time - Be patient Agree after being here one day it will suddenly get busy - we have times when we dont have enough weekends, then times we think oh lord is there anyone out there ? Loads of fakes - just move on - good idea , if they say "can I have a nude photo" almost always a fake. Oh we have met and played with people we meet here - they exist. Real life - has not worked if you meen a bar or other ? BUT swingers clubs we have met loads of people and had loads of fun ! Brae ...... stay sexyFunny you ask Focus as we just got this message earlier this afternoon (and yep, this is the full message) - 'Nice profile you have do you have a private gallery for access thanks.'And the profile pic was a damn cock shotwhy oh whyShell and Gaz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Quoting 'looking2try3' Yes it takes time - Be patient Agree after being here one day it will suddenly get busy - we have times when we dont have enough weekends, then times we think oh lord is there anyone out there ? Loads of fakes - just move on - good idea , if they say "can I have a nude photo" almost always a fake. Oh we have met and played with people we meet here - they exist. Real life - has not worked if you meen a bar or other ? BUT swingers clubs we have met loads of people and had loads of fun ! Brae ...... stay sexy I've met her she's fake ! Brae ...............lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
We like to see a photo of the guy and girl, not just the girl but most people keep sending photos of the girl and don't want to show their face because they are so special in their own world.We like to chat via email first to see if we click.We don't want to fuck on first meet because we want to be social and work our way around it and have fun in and out of the bedroom but most couples tend to want to meet and get straight into it.Would rather be back in the sixties where you go out have a few drinks then come back home, spin the bottle or play strip poker and then get into it with a little fun.Have met couples and had a drink got straight into it and left wondering what the fuck just happened.We ask each other did you enjoy that and to be honest we didn't, wham bam thank you mam for us is out, we prefer to be attracted to the people we meet not just do it because it is in front of us.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We have found it hard, alot of people here just seem to want to see pics, chat on msn and never meet. We have recieved lots of winks lots of messages but when it comes to meeting. People do not seem to be up for a meet n greet. Must be something wrong with us i guess :(
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am fake and proud to admit it...lol . oh wait ..................... . .. ... .... ..... ...... ....... Damn I just remembered people have met me - bugger them n On the positive - people do meet - it can just take time to find the right person m Kisses Focus still waiting her nude shoots from Brae and MissS
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RHP User
15 years ago
The problem is we are not fake but seems alot here who are and makes it no fun at all and we are both getting sick of it. Why are people like that and not real and want to meet up with people ??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachypear63' Quoting 'butterflybabe90' when it comes to meeting people but me and my partner do meet if we think the couple is what we want ... a couples profile would be appropriate then lol :-)Quoting 'puppy' It takes a while to find the real ones then more time to find the compatible ones. Just be honest about what you want and relax, it'll come. Especially with a hot pic like that one! Hot, well apparently... but restricted... I canna see ya rolli :-( Yes people do meet... i do have a couples profile also... i only use this one to go on forum and chat. and my profile clearly states that i am taken if people take the time to read it
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'japaniso' We like to see a photo of the guy and girl, not just the girl but most people keep sending photos of the girl and don't want to show their face because they are so special in their own world.We like to chat via email first to see if we click.We don't want to fuck on first meet because we want to be social and work our way around it and have fun in and out of the bedroom but most couples tend to want to meet and get straight into it.Would rather be back in the sixties where you go out have a few drinks then come back home, spin the bottle or play strip poker and then get into it with a little fun.Have met couples and had a drink got straight into it and left wondering what the fuck just happened.We ask each other did you enjoy that and to be honest we didn't, wham bam thank you mam for us is out, we prefer to be attracted to the people we meet not just do it because it is in front of us. We operate much the same way - we'd prefer to see photos first to see if there is a basic attraction and have a definite rule about meeting first on neutral ground before deciding if we'll play. For me, "playtime" means just that too - if it isn't FUN, why bother? l like to flirt and socialise and decide at least if I LIKE the person before I want to get down and dirty.
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RHP User
15 years ago
The time wasters need to be whipped, tied up and fucked for several days .
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RHP User
15 years ago
Holly hell don't get us started,if we had a dollar for everytime someone on here said they wanted to meet us and did'nt we would have free life time membership on rhp.We are sick and tied of no shows and flirt and email ping pong it's not funny,if poeple have no intention of meeting don't waste other poeples time.We are here like some of the other real poeple on here who do want to meet and not be fucked around by you turd sniffing wankers,if you want to talk shit go onto yahoo chay and wank to your hearts content.
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RHP User
15 years ago
This is spot on we al have lives and different needs! I find as the single guy trying to meet couples I bend as far as possible for the couple. Their discretion and needs are normally more important to fit to! Also It is hard to contact people when your only a guest and dont have time to set up your profile properly! I have been meaning to upgrade for weeks! Quoting 'perthcouple081' Real life tends to get the better of any 'fun' intentions a lot of the time :( Organising these kind of things around busy work requirements, 'regular' social functions, family, etc... it can just be harder than we'd rather. Almost seems easier to occasionally browse, look at the lovely folks and think "They'd be interesting to have a drink with" rather than try to put something together and have a last-minute spanner in the works disappoint anybody.Your mileage may vary ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Some definatley have no intention of meeting!! Some have all of the intention but chicken out when it comes to the crunch of fantasy meeting reality!! And........ We are starting to notice an increasing number of "couples" where one partner (always the guy! sorry) has listed the couple with pics and then asks us to cone along to meet them and get Mrs Cheeky to try and 'pickup' the other girl?!?! Although it does sound sexy ;-) it also seems wrong!! . There are a few really 100% dinky di genuine swingers on here, you just have to weed them out!! And they also have to like you, then you have to arrange a time that all 3 or 4 or more of you can actually meet!! That makes it hard!! . But there is no reward without effort! And don't worry, the reward is great!! We have met some Fantastic people through here.... we just had to get through some undesireable time wasters first!!! . FYI we actually 100% meet if we like your pics and profile (and you like ours)!! YES!!! We actually READ profiles and use them to make informed decisions (or hypothesis if you like)!! . Play safe . DnK xxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
We've found that a lot of time is wasted chatting to couples on here. Half the time we aren't sure whether its actually guys masquerading as a couple so they can score a play or two. My boyfriend and I are professional people who jist dont have the time for the constant back and forth banter. We don't have time to waste - either you are interested in meeting or not. Simple as that! We are giving everyone about 2-4 weeks to secure a play date or just even meet up for drinks. After that time it's "adios amigos"....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'yummy196'The time wasters need to be whipped, tied up and fucked for several days . But then you will need to find some way of actually punishing them afterwards! lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
oh hunni miss you come back to brissy call when your in town so we can go out shopping or to seaworld withthe kids
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RHP User
15 years ago
i have come to the decision i only meet ppl or couples in the safety of couples international. i know if they not show up there that i still get to have fun anyways. if they are real they will show up. or it scares em away and they not hassel me again. my reason for this is that this way the (guy) partner cannot just show up on my doorstep with out his partners approval. and no one needs to pay for the hotel room (roughly same cost as couple admission to ci anyways. i am a member so i get in for the cost of my drive down in fuel. have fun everyone
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RHP User
15 years ago
Maybe we need a feedback system like eBay? lol But it is an issue, a lot of people seem to love the 'idea' of meeting but have no intention of following up. Everyone is different but while we have met some awesome people from here, they are few and far between! Everything seems to go well right up until we say "lets swap phone numbers"...
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