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conundrum
November 27 2014
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Plain280
11 years ago
Oh here goes, a lot of men think thats all is needed to get through a good shag. It is one way unfortunately of meeting players who think they know everything and is the difference to guys who actually explore what is going on and what is needed in your tete a tete to make it enjoyable for both. Its times like these I wish women would chuck off the veil and say to the guys bugger off this is not whats its about, as frankly we all get tarred with the same brush as the percentages of the duds outweighs the gooduns.Me thinks shallow men is the name one shall be giveth to them
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RHP User
11 years ago
Guilt? Naivety? Stupidity? Some people just don't know when they don't need to say anything at all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are you saying that casual lovers tell you this or are you saying that men you haven't slept with are telling you they love you? I have to say if a man says that only after a few weeks....... I just discount it really as their dick talking.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You mean all those guys are not in love with me? Mwahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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6exxy
11 years ago
So you believe that they are lying to you? After what time frame are we talking about here? Please don't confuse your guys, with all guys, feeling the need to tell you they love you. That would be an overstatement for the population of men.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That perpetuate the misconception of either the "love at first sight" thing or the idea that all women will automatically succumb to romantic or emotional overtones, and fall head over heals at the slightest mention of love. Certain men need to understand that today's woman is often independant, emotionally in complete control, sure of what she wants & needs and with the complete ability to stay within her NSA limits - perhaps to coin a term: the alpha female. In short, some men say these things because that is what they *think* the women want to hear. But I wouldn't put too much blame on them, they are simply misinformed at best. For the man, the casual partner being "the best thing in his life" could often be literally true, especially if it's been a long time between drinks, so to speak. However going any further to talking about love in it's purest sense, is obviously a little overboard. Of course the word love gets used in different scenarios, I love you... versus I love it when you... etc
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh joy another excuse to chop men down. OP Have you considered that maybe it is your selection process that is the problem. All the women I have had relationships with in the past 7 years are all crazy as loons but I would not go so far as to say women are all loons, far from it unfortunately, its just that I have a good eye for crazy, and they for me. Surrey not all guys want to piss in your pocket?
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RHP User
11 years ago
They love you.... Guys don't lie!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Post coital I usually just get dressed and say "thanks....but my wife is gonna be pissed that I'm home late again!!" :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry, I didn't clarify that part. One is A regular fb. We see each other when time permits, but have always known it's a physical thing. But in general, you chat to someone and they feel this need to placate with unnecessary comments. It makes me back off straight i I am probably generalizing, so apologies to those offended 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
How you answer these questions. Why does anybody do it? Why do women start asking so where is this going after a few dates? Why do they need assurances that maybe they might be the one? Why do women start thinking that they are a little in love with a bloke after a few orgasms? Not all women....... some women. Of course sometimes it just depends on the man too. We are all different. Personally I don't like the talks and for me usually a vague idea of where things are going are enough for me. I never tell people I love them, although I think I am a very affectionate and loving person. So maybe some people find it easy to say, maybe they love you as a friend and are not really saying they are in love with you, perhaps?
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RHP User
11 years ago
It might be some guys way of saying 'thanks, I enjoyed that'. And they feel the need to wrap that gratitude up in some way that they think will be better received than just plain old 'thanks'. But who knows...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gee, blind man, sounding a little bitter there...having a bad day?? Snippedguy, thanks for your insight, you make a lot of sense:) and Sir you make me laugh, thank you xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for pulling me up on that. You're quite right, I should have said 'some men'. I don't like to tar and feather all... But then again, it could be fun 😱
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lisalee69' Thanks for pulling me up on that. You're quite right, I should have said 'some men'. I don't like to tar and feather all... But then again, it could be fun 😱 I've developed a handy disclaimer that you can add to any posts in which you refer to your experiences with members of the opposite sex (see the 'dishonesty' forum in Girls Ask). Because it is inevitable that if you don't state in VERY specific terms that you are aware that not all men / women are the same, at least one person will take offence and feel the need to point that out to you
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lisalee69' Gee, blind man, sounding a little bitter there...having a bad day?? Not bitter nor a bad day, was just finding the clear felling of men a little tedious. If you thought i was calling the women i was seeing crazy loons in a bitter light, No not at all, I would not want it any other way, its the only way I get to have any semblage of sanity. Normal people scare me, or was that bore me?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks luckdragon, I'll keep that in mind next time :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lol, blindman, a clear case of its ok for the goose.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
I reckon those who cry man bashing constantly are guilty of something.... Even if they're not.....I'm sure I could invent something for them to be guilty of lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lisalee69' Lol, blindman, a clear case of its ok for the goose..... LOL OK then .. well... guess ill leave it up to the goose, or gander.... oh look a duck and over there, a loon. Ill quietly back away, as you are starting to turn me on with your strange ways. Best I not start kissing your sexy bum in public, people would start talking.. "That blindman always pissing in pockets."Have an excellent day and a more awesome one after that, and may that be the trend for you for many years to come.
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6exxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lisalee69' Thanks for pulling me up on that. You're quite right, I should have said 'some men'. I don't like to tar and feather all... But then again, it could be fun 😱 Hi its not about that it may offend someone I think luckdragon23 has that wrong. It's about communication and who you are talking about. Simply getting it right. That is something that Men & Woman when posting should keep in mind. We are here to meet for fun not have a go at each other ha ha ha ha. Only if the Tar is chocolate can we discuss that last bit lmao
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '6exxy' Quoting 'Lisalee69' Hi its not about that it may offend someone I think luckdragon23 has that wrong. Heaven forbid that we assume people can actually read between the lines and not have to state the bleeding obvious all the time
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6exxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting '6exxy' Quoting 'Lisalee69' Hi its not about that it may offend someone I think luckdragon23 has that wrong. Heaven forbid that we assume people can actually read between the lines and not have to state the bleeding obvious all the time While you may believe that is true I'm telling you that it is not. So that would make it an assumption based on your observation. If you took the time to talk with me you would know. You have not and you are entitled to your opinion but it is wrong. You don't know me at all nor do I know you. I'm not offended it is simply wrong in the context of who the OP is speaking about. Simple English really.
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