M35
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October 01 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I see this sort of thing posted all the time.....not sure what we do that is different to anyone else but every couple we have planned to meet up with show up and with most future plans are made and followed through. What I am saying is yes there are a lot of genuine people on this site, that have provided alot of fun and entertainment for us :) K.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ethan, If you take the time and the effort you will find that you will get places. Sites like this engender a different culture since the small talk goes out the window when you are looking at pics of fannies and boobs but that does not mean that you should drop the small talk. I get more flirts than i send in fact almost double but then I do not send out blanket messages abd flirts to every one on the site. You just have to hang in there because no matter what you will be able to find what you are looking for if yu make the effort. Mike
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RHP User
16 years ago
and would like to add that all of the pics on our profile have been taken in the last 3-4 yrs with new ones added regularly, the most recent were taken and added last weekend lolol.If first contact is your problem, it might be some of the details in your profile.CheersMrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, there are genuine people on here and ones that are just after a quick thrillKeep searching, you'll eventually find what you're looking for, patience is a virtue
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RHP User
16 years ago
thanx all, ure right, i need to be more patient, i shouldnt even be using this site at such a young age of 18, how sad, i guess im looking more for love on here and thats why i dont like hooking up at clubs cuz u cant even hear wat thye are saying half the time, sorri if i offended anyone, how young and dumb of me to be so wreckless
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RHP User
16 years ago
Using this site isn't sad for anyone regardless of age.....everyone seems to use this site for different reasons - love, sex, friendship, perving, whatever. If it works it works. Relax and enjoy! And why would you think you have offended anyone? K.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I also hate going to clubs because you can't have a conversation. I end up shouting at people just to say hello... and I think... why bother. But it doesnt matter what you are looking for, this community is just like any other. All the site does is give you a chance to communicate with other people. No matter where you go, you will find people who aren't genuine. I think you should think of this place as just another tool to reach out and talk to people. If you get your end in because of it, then that's not such a bad thing is it? I've not noticed you being dumb, wreckless or offensive buddy. Hugs Gaz
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2more4fun
16 years ago
I think you should try writing a bit more about yourself in your profile instead of just using the generic profile builder stuff. Your profile looks fine and you have good pics but you need to tell more about yourself like what your interests are, what your studying, what you like to do in your leisure time, what sort of friends you have or would like to have.....in a nutshell if you make yourself sound interesting (as I'm sure you are) then maybe people/girls will get interested. Have fun.
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RHP User
16 years ago
you are now entering the world of la la land
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RHP User
16 years ago
well i think that there are a lot of people on here just looking for cyber or whatever, their intentions unknown to me but perhaps just trying to get their rocks off with some dirty talk, cam or pic sharing. nothing wrong with that if thats what your after. however, if you wanna meet in real life, well thats a possibility finding someone on here too. over the years (jemma been here off and on a long long time LOL), ive met lots and lots of people from this site (and others), and made some really great friends this way. had some disasters as well... but we wont talk about that. i havnt slept with everyone ive met, coz ive found that sometimes you can get on like a house on fire online, but real life can be slightly different. why? dunno exactly. ive also met someone im head over heels for and want to be my special friend forever! so, i just wanted to let you know that YEP! you can meet people in the flesh from here, i think its a good way of meeting people, it certainly isnt "sad" or anything like that, just look at how many members are on the site!!! there are also LOTS of young people here. also... i think out of about every 4dates i make, only about one actually happens!!!! so you just gotta bear with it, meeting someone your compatible with will be well worth it in the end!!!good luck!!! dont give up!P.S Daddy, you give GREAT advice in the forums, i LOVE reading them!!!love jemma
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RHP User
16 years ago
Give it time and the site will work for you but you gotta work the room so to speak too. I don't know if ur bitchin as a Guest but duh like ur going to get anywhere fast without being able to message anyone. If you got no plans to upgrade then ur really going to have to work other areas of rhp like the forums and anywhere that will get you noticed. Have watched enough Guest guys get traction on here but ultimately you gotta be in it to win it. Good luck mate.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Your profile is very good.You look athletic and well presented.You speak your mind well.Please don't bother changing your ways for Cyber addicts.You will get many contacts but most are people who take this lightly as a game/play.Its the Haven for Swingers, People who go to group party and Network through others all the time.If you like a decent connection with a sexy hot lady who'd be more likely to stay with you if the chemistry is there , turn off the PC , join Dance classes, Meet people through physical/hobby activities and alike.Many gorgeous looking once who communicate to the point also will ask you for money etc off line or when you meet them in person. You'll do far better and save yourself priceless time and unnecessary chit chat over nothing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ethan, seriously if you are looking for love then this is probably the last dating site you should pick. Sure there is a chance you may find it but if you want to find larger numbers of women that are looking for love then try elsewhere. If you are looking for a couple to play with this would be the right site. I wont go into all the reasons although moost should be obvious. Do not be concerned with your lack of success, single males rarely have much success because they are so prolific on these sites. There simply is not enough women to go around. You sound genuine and maybe should try the sites that are more for finding love instead of ones geared to find sex. There are tons out there and you will find that even those have more guys than girls. Difference is that you will have more women looking for a relationship and less couples taking the women away. Sites like RSVP, Plenty of Fish and Oasis. I have met people from 2 of these 3 sites and have not had to pay anything. You may also find people on those sites that are also on here sometimes.So do people on here meet up...yes some do. Do people get into relationships on here...yes some do. Are you too young...no however you will find that there are very few young women available. Good luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
Escapepod ~ You're back I see... "join dance classes, meet people through physical/hobby activities and the like"... you seem to be saying that you can't meet people and form a decent connection via the internet and I have to tell you that you are wrong. Many people do meet others and form a strong connection on the internet. You can go to dance classes or the gym for years and not achieve the same outcome... really, it comes down to you. It's up to you to make friends and form those connections..... your PC is just a tool for it... this site is just a community of people brought together by some broadly common interests... it's up to you to find the ones with whom you connect. Hanging out doing the rumba is certainly a very admirable activity and it is fun, but it is still up to you. Either way, people like discourse. If you go to those dance classes and never do any "chit chat", you will also be unsuccesful. JUgs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
i agree with you all and i'm getting great feedback which i really do appreciate from of all of you guys :D i do find my life is seuxally active but i gues this is more of a fantasy to find someone on the internet for a one of, but who knows, only time will tell, until then, clubs and hobbies is they way for me trishl, dont say ure a dinasour hun, your not that old :p yer, i think im gonna give up the internet dating thing and just go for what's out there etc, but thanx again all for the help, i thought i was the only one with this opinion...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Are yes,,,,' the impatience of youth',,,, Good things cum to those who wait......
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RHP User
16 years ago
Im 20 and iv been on rhp since I was 18 and I'v met a few great guys from it. One of them I almost ended up dating, except he moved to melbourne. Another has been my playmate since Janurary and we always have fun together even though its strictly sex. (I choose to stay single) In saying that though I do not go for guys my age. I find older guys to be better, more mature and able to actually act like a man not a boy. For me profiles of guys who have pics of their cocks or just chests are a turn off. I would rather see a face shot of who I am talking to and also find a profile that is fully filled out rather than one or two lines catches my interest more.
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RHP User
16 years ago
thanx taby, u have a really strong opinion which i enjoy listening to
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with Portababe. Patience is indeed a virtue.........
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