advice on a threesome

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  No you can't do that with your vanilla friends! *gasp* If I were you I would go to swingers club just to observe and see if you might like it. Lots of girl on girl action there. And you might meet someone interested in meeting up with you at a later date. Also, go look in the events section for some parties or social meets as the trick will be to meet like minded girls. I think lots of girls would love another girl to go down on them but it's probably really hard to find. :D

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Meeka,these things are all about opportunity,timing,and inclinationx Hugs H

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Meant,great post Meeka

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  DonnaBrett

  13 years ago

  We've been swinging for about 12 years...in that time there's been about 5 or 6 singles girls we've threesomed with (other 3somes were with the female of another couple). Finding a singlle girl to play with a couple can be tricky. Yes swingers clubs are one answer...these websites too (although 99% time wasters on here). Friends can work...our first experiences were with vanilla friends...great times! Then after it was all over things went back to normal...no weirdness, no awkward situations. It's just sex afterall!The key is, your GF must really want it for herself too...not just to please you! Good Luck

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  obviously he wants to make sure it will happen...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I wouldn't push it too hard. I sometimes think these things need to be self driven. Having said that, following Meeks advice to catalyse those opportunities is probably what's going to work best.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Why is it up to YOU... to organise something.... that SHE wants to experience? (your words) Im thinking its better that she has that first exploratory experience without your influence or pressure (or fear of evaluation?!) being present. Consider introducing her to a potential female, then, leaving them to it. They can always invite you should they both wish, at a later stage, or on another occasion. Consider it an investment in your relationship. DG ..... i like a lateral thinker

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Bah-ha-ha-ha. Gold...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  i think by making the chances as small as possible if shes not 100% keen about the idea least she thinks it will keep me happy thinking about what could be

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