F54
a friend or not?
May 21 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
She is not a friend at all!! Let alone a good one!! Sorry to say this but what a bitch!! Can't she find her own men that she has to take yours and gawd knows how many other girls' men? < To me any guy that has been with a friend or even with a Forum contributor or even a girl in chat is out of bounds for me! I don't class these girls as "Friends" but nonetheless to me it is respect! There is a guy that gets in chat alot that kept sending me messages or "whispers" in the chatroom about us meeting up..he isn't a bad looking guy and seems very nice and respectful...BUT...because he has been with a Forum contributor and she has spoken of him a few times in her Posts...to me it is a no-go zone! Have I met her? No...Will I ever meet her? Probably not...We don't even say hello if she is in chat at the same time as me! But, I still respect her enough to not go and "cut her grass" so to speak! < Funnily enough this was discussed in the chat room this morning as apparently some girls were comparing who they have been with and it ended up being the same lot of guys (ewwww)! This girl said that she would not have sex nor meet up with a guy that has been with other girls in the chatroom and I feel the same! < Hun you need to cut this girl out of your life...as I said before...there is no way in hell that she is a friend to you at all! She is all about ME ME ME and doesn't give a shit for who she hurts around her! This is a true sample of a slut...steer clear of her or start chatting to guys that repulse you and tell her about them ..... lol that will fix her slutty wagon!! xFunlovingx
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Hanna_ybbn
15 years ago
Loved it xFfunlovingx Spot on!A little off topic, but imagine my surprise last night when I checked out the profile of a 24 year old Queensland girl only to find that the little BITCH had plaguerised almost my entire Profile!!!!The nerve of some people is down right disgraceful. Women and men.Doingitanywhere I'd take the advice given and cut this one loose lovely CheersHan x
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RHP User
15 years ago
A true friend doesn't do this....I'm with xfunlovingx on this one..Time to find another friend and stop putting yourself through this..good luck!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
You know, Focus and I discuss some of the guys we are chatting to. Some we are freinds in common but we do not mess with each others play mates. Focus is my daughter so the situation is a little different but the priciple is the same. We trust each other. It is an unspoken rule in life that there are some places you just dont go. Your brother in law and your mates guy are two of the biggies. The percentages of men to women on here is huge so it is not as if there are not enough men to go around. Obviously she thinks you have great taste in men. If the friendship is important to you, I would not tell her so much. One other thing Focus and I do is we make it quite clear to the people we are chattng to that they can have one or the other but not both.
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RHP User
15 years ago
So are you the filter? You check them out first, all good and she moves in. Need some serious thought there or you both have same taste in men.
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RHP User
15 years ago
LMFAO. I had a friend like that once.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Simple .. either dont tell her who you are chatting with .. or give her a false name .. and see if she hits on them as quick ..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Doctor, it hurts when I do this... | Quoting 'doingitanywhere'...she always starts messaging them after iv told her about them. | ...then don't do it. | It seems like stupid shit to me...the guys outnumber the gals here by a few hundred to on but women can be just as competitive as men. You think this is bad, watch how quickly the guys go for the throat when they get competitive, so... | ...never try to date a cheerleader.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' < Funnily enough this was discussed in the chat room this morning as apparently some girls were comparing who they have been with and it ended up being the same lot of guys (ewwww)! This girl said that she would not have sex nor meet up with a guy that has been with other girls in the chatroom and I feel the same! < xFunlovingx OK - so I agree, that a friend doesn't do what the OPs friend does. I would think the answe to the question is so obvious it's rhetorical. What's the solution - don't tell your friend who you're chatting to. Seems easy. . But I couldn't help but laugh... OMG!! are there men here having sex with more than one woman? How does that make someone off limits? Puts a whole new spin on NSA.... Maybe the N should stand for Naive.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Regrettable that this happens, but it does. It has happened to me before and it's very bad form. It would seem that the whole "bros before hos" is not a concept people honour these days LOL. Whilst I may not necessarily end a friendship because of it, I most definitely make a conscious decision not to trust that person from that moment on. Furthermore, I make a fairly concrete judgement of their character at the same time and rarely is that judgement reversible. Same can also be said for the guy if he knows what is happening and fails to draw that line in the sand for you. Find a new friend. Someone who is respectful of boundaries and friendships. Flirty x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dont tell her who you are going to meet up with.........problem solved.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' But I couldn't help but laugh... OMG!! are there men here having sex with more than one woman? How does that make someone off limits? Puts a whole new spin on NSA.... Maybe the N should stand for Naive. Souunds a bit silly. If they wanted sex with the one person they would have stayed married. LMAO. BUT is it okay for the women to be having sex with more than one man from the chatrooms?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' < Funnily enough this was discussed in the chat room this morning as apparently some girls were comparing who they have been with and it ended up being the same lot of guys (ewwww)! This girl said that she would not have sex nor meet up with a guy that has been with other girls in the chatroom and I feel the same! < xFunlovingx OK - so I agree, that a friend doesn't do what the OPs friend does. I would think the answe to the question is so obvious it's rhetorical. What's the solution - don't tell your friend who you're chatting to. Seems easy. . But I couldn't help but laugh... OMG!! are there men here having sex with more than one woman? How does that make someone off limits? Puts a whole new spin on NSA.... Maybe the N should stand for Naive. These girls are "friends" .. they all know each other and it seems the guys were checking who spoke to who and were trying to get as many "friends" as possible! I simply will not pick up a guy from the chatroom or the Forums as I don't cut anyone's grass at all! Unlike others as per this post! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thank you everyone for your advise I don't care who a man does or who he doesn't do but I personally have a problem having sex with a bloke my friends have been with, so I just won't go there, not even on this site she has now caused problems with this man, because of her messages he now thinks I'm playing games I have no idea when or what she messages to him until he tells me, cause she doesn't tell me she is doing it unless I ask her if I say anything I sound like a jealous bitch, which I have been told before when I'v questioned it before with another man and I don't know if any of you know Tasmania very well but there isn't many decent men here, so when you find one that is decent, you try and keep them if thats what you both want I can screw things up all by myself. I don't need help. lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
That you should drop her skanky arse Doingitanywhere! As I said before she is no friend of yours and to cause problems with these men and making you look jealous? What a conniving ugly person she must be! Dump her...you can make better friends than that one! xFunlovingx
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