M35
Young blood
July 31 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
haha I'm so happy there are guys your age who feel that way, otherwise, I'd be out of business Love guys your age, so up for real passion and so kind of appreciative of the experience, which I am too. Don't overthink it, just grab the older chicks lol they'll do you good
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RHP User
9 years ago
To your profile you are looking for women 18-30...that's not too much of an age difference.Women 25-30 would probably have a bit of experience ..so good luck in your search 🐞Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
Q has a good point, only going up 5 years above your age isn't much of a window of opportunity, you could be missing out on some serious fun lol sounds like I'm doing a sell job here. I guess I am, but not for me, saying it in a general sense. Sexual growth usually comes about through faded lines, blurred lines I mean, stretching your limits, going outside your comfort zone, and once things start to open up, you'll find you're open to new things, age is only a part of that, so much more to it
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RHP User
9 years ago
The OP didn't mention experience..... but that younger women "annoy" him. He also admitted he'd never slept with a younger woman so any relative experience one may have is untested. Perhaps the Author should expand on what makes these younger women so annoying to him - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Back when I was around your age, I too preferred the "older" girls - to the extent that all my girlfriends were older than me, some by up to 15 years. The ones of a similar age or younger just didn't display the 'wherewithall' and similarly I just couldn't feel comfortable around them. Good luck with your pursuit. Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm not a guy but .. I find the same when it comes to age preferences I've only ever gone slightly younger than me as I find there to be a difference in maturity - more often than not I prefer my own age or older.
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Sawadee
9 years ago
No matter what your age, we all subconsciously send out signals . I gave up yonks ago trying to work it all out and feel better for doing so. These days I never restrict myself to a age group because I find that too restrictive. I'm attracted to the person, not their number. If we get along and have good chemistry..that's more important. Whatever you do , follow your own instincts , not what others expect you should do.
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RHP User
9 years ago
WomenI don't have any issues playing with girls younger than me, and I've had some amazing sex with women of all ages. For me age doesn't really come into it with women, unless you're over 45 - that's just a little bit too much of an age gap for me.I do however prefer to only play with girls who are mature minded enough to hold a decent conversation, as I do find mental immaturity in both men and women a turn off. I have come across 19 year olds girls who are sometimes more mature for their age than girls I know my own age. It varies from person to person so for me if you're under 45 I don't really pay much attention to how old you are I care more than you are interesting and that I can hold a decent conversation with you :) MenMen on the other hand are different. I have always had a thing for older men. Mr is 12 years my senior and I have always dated men who were at least 5 years older than me. I do not find guys under 25 attractive or very good in bed. This is my personal opinion from what I experienced when I was single. Couples When Mr & I were swinging together (before he got sick) we would play with couples between the ages of 18-45 but the male half had to be over 25 because as I said above I just don't find younger guys attractive. Also being 38 Mr had a hard time connecting to younger guys because they had nothing in common and were at a completely different stage in their lives compared to him. We also found younger guys had way more issues with jealousy when it came to full swap and sharing their female partner. So we just ended up boycotting couples with younger guys because it wasn't worth the drama. This is just my experience from 4+ years of swinging with Mr + my time as a single girls before I met Mr. Im sure some people will agree or disagree with me. Taby x
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
You like what you like. You do not have to explain yourself to anyone, it's your choice. I know lots of men in the same situation. If you like ladies older than you, enjoy! You're a cub, stand proud. :) Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Perhaps you are not much of a teacher! If someone is inexperienced, the I actually enjoy their journey with them.... I have had older and younger.... regardless, it is about enjoying the journey, and that is a choice!
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RHP User
9 years ago
When I joined RHP I was fresh out of a long relationship. I met a couple of younger guys and found that I had a better rapport with them than men of my age or older. So I had a preference of guys of around 30 years old, and I was happy. As Miss Foxxxy says, its up to you, its your life and you like what you like. Enjoy all your RHP experiences, Ive had a blast and met some awesome people, Im sure you will too xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think I find the lack of maturity one aspect but also mental stimulation is quite important for me. I find smart women attractive. Sure sex can be great regardless but a I've always had better sex with a smarter women, a women than can stimulate my mind and soul before my body Lol I'm not sure if I'm asking too much but this is just my opinion I guess - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Having a preference for women A BIT older then you is pretty normal. I wouldn't worry about it. Just get out there and meet people who are on your wavelength regardless of how old and have some fun.
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Definitely can relate to your experience, Cengiz91. Like you, I have never slept with men who are younger than me! Like you, I find younger men annoying and not as attractive as men who are older than me! 😋 so yeah, you are not in the wrong crowd young Cengiz91! 😋 However, I have learned that some thoughts are better kept to myself, as words are too powerful, especially in the cyber world, and could hurt younger men's feelings by describing what I think about having sexual contact with men younger than me! So, be mindful of your description towards the idea of sleeping with girls younger than you, Cengiz91! There are many people silently read in the Forums, but never comment. It is not that hard to be a little more considerate and mindful :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm your age, and I agree with you to an extent. I am mostly attracted to men about 10-15 years older than me, i find they are much better with what I look for online! That said, I've 'played' with a few guys around my own age and enjoyed it! If the connection is good and the sex is too, I dont get too worried about the age, but initially, the age means a bit!
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RHP User
9 years ago
op I used to be attracted to older men when I was young, now obviously I've flipped that around, and rather than finding younger guys annoying, it's the opposite for me. I find young guys, it's hard to explain, it's not just the physical, I connect better with them. I get annoyed with older guys, cannot stand complacency, and that's what I've found, in my experience only of course. Example would be, guys whinge they can't get a root right? So occasionally I decide to hit on an older dude, in his 40's, maximum mid 40's, but I hardly ever go through to actually meeting them. Apologies to a few who have done nothing wrong, just me chickening out, I just feel uncomfortable with older men. But there are others who are borderline, in the respect that they look okay, in reasonable shape but I haven't got the flat out hots for them, not meaning to be nasty, but there's room for improvement. But I might like their written about me or whatever, send them a message to see what might come of it, thinking they'll be excited, but you know, you might get a half hearted message back a day later or something. ffs guys, if you want a root and a woman half decent hits on you, be enthusiastic, jump on that keyboard. I'm nothing if I'm not enthusiastic and if a hot guy hits on me, I'm on it I literally jump on my keyboard, I do, I stand on it and jump around excited but I find they get complacent. If I get the feeling from them, they think they're doing me a favour, or just chasing a root, any hole's a good hole, I'd take a young guy for sex any day. The only reason I'd hook up with a guy in his 40's is to, actually I can't really answer that because I never do, I'm always put off before I go there No matter how old you get guys, don't lose that hunger. I have to have that, if I don't feel they want to ram me up against a wall, I'm out
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've had relationships with young women half my age in the last few years, as well as similar in age. There are all sorts of generalisations one can (statistically correctly) make about different age groups, but in the end we are all individuals. I salute all my lovers. You have all given me something invaluable, irrespective of whether you are 20, 30 or 40 somethings. I admit that I haven't gone older than I, but there's always a first time...
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RHP User
9 years ago
At the cougar age now , the young guys hit me up and there sweet and never forget to keep in contact every now and then to let me know there still free to catch up anytime 😋 They just want a fun night , and feel fantastic that they have been with a older chick 👌👏 Yeah you get the young dum and full of cum ones that are just annoying . Some older men give the long speel about boring shit it's like a job interview just to serious for me .. I get you I_Touch if it's casual / safe sex I would prefere a hot cub any day 💪🏻
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry but I spat my drink out when I read that!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Pink_Sprinckles' At the cougar age now , the young guys hit me up and there sweet and never forget to keep in contact every now and then to let me know there still free to catch up anytime 😋 They just want a fun night , and feel fantastic that they have been with a older chick 👌👏 Yeah you get the young dum and full of cum ones that are just annoying . Some older men give the long speel about boring shit it's like a job interview just to serious for me .. I get you I_Touch if it's casual / safe sex I would prefere a hot cub any day 💪🏻 absolutely. I had one guy, older, a rare thing for me, very rare, but he said all the right things to start with and I thought why not. Figured it might be nice for a change to be able to go out for a drink or coffee or something, meal, but he was lack lustre, claimed he was horny, I thought otherwise as the days wore on, and questioned it, then the boring conversation, talking about his kids etc. and how he had to go and see them, might be able to see me a week after that blah blah I didn't want to know at that point, I just wanted sex lol I expected some dirty talk, some kind of urgency, but nothing was forthcoming, so I told him what no guy would ever admit, he wasn't horny enough, because he wasn't. Of course he denied it. They all think they're horny, but until they meet me, they don't know what horny is Do you want a root or don't you guys? To be fair, I've been so busy with work lately, there would be a few guys accusing me of the same, but not through lack of wanting it sigh
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CrouchingTiger
9 years ago
I'm open to fun with women of any age provided they are attractive and engaging. I guess that's most likely to occur with someone of similar age to me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Got a message yesterday from a 19 year-old... I told him I have tattoos older than him. He responded by saying they probably don't look as fresh as he does. ............ Damnit. LMAO
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was 19 and I slept with a 29 soon to be 30yo sheila, I new I was good but was nervous she was going to be to good and then I would be off my game. I never told her our old I was until we did hook up then she turned to me and said seriously how old are you not that it bothered her but was trying to overcome the fact of how good she just got it. Anyway she was awesome sometimes I still think about her. But it's a known fact women 5-10 years older then the guy they hook up with get better satisfaction then a fella older than them. A cub always goes to the cougar hahah - Posted from rhpmobile
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