M34

Would like some help from experienced users of RHP

December 15 2015

I have been premium on the is site for just over 3 months, and in that time I have only met up with 1 woman (who was also my first time ever). To me, this is great that I actually met someone, and the whole experience was very positive and still makes me smile, but I would like any help in relation to my profile, as well as how to initiate contact with someone I may want to meet. The woman I met already advised me to change my Profile Pic (which I have since done) but what else can I do to increase my chances of meeting someone? It hasn't been that long since I met this woman (to be honest), but it took me 3 months to meet her, and I'd rather not have to wait another 3 months to experience it again. Would like to get advice on what I can do to better improve my experience on this site.

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RHP User

10 years ago

Politely speaking: a) You are asking women to be quite understanding of you and your situation. That white elephant in the room/profile will carry onto your dates, and that's not the best thing. It's cool that you're starting out in the minor leagues, but many people on this site are playing in the big leagues. The big league'rs probably don't want to teach... they want to meet peers and go for it. b) The profile is a little bit of a downer... Who are you? What do you do for fun? What's a fun date? You're bold enough to go with your face pics... be bold enough to tell the ladies about YOU. c) You're assuming people won't accept you for who you are. People are quite open-minded on this site, and they will accept you, me, and everybody else with no issue(s) at all. d) Admitting you are not dynamite (watch your spelling) in bed... nix that ASAP. e) Get some pics of you and your mates or just you out having fun... 3 selfies? Let's see some more life in your pics. One last thought... don't search for sex. Search for fun, laughs, and wine - the sex will come if it all flows. And back to point A) If this is the big leagues, and you're not quite ready? That's cool. Get on Tinder and just out there dating, having sex, and having fun. All respectfully stated. Best of luck.

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Seachange73

10 years ago

a second forum topic.... same one... what't going on OP... you did not like the answers in the other forum? What are you expecting to see this time?

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RHP User

10 years ago

be persistent, if at first you don't succeed keep posting or messaging till you get the answer you want - guaranteed success ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

Thinking the fist forum didn't go through and posting it again? Has happened a fair few times before. Here's the other one: http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Would-like-some-help-from-experienced-users-of-RHP-50430

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Seachange73

10 years ago

the other post was approved on 13 Dec, 2 days ago... You'd think that the mods, as part of their verification of topics for publication, would have picked up on the duplication.... simple search but not for me to say nor comment on their selection criteria.... but just pointing out a gap in their process. .

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RHP User

10 years ago

I have been on here for a number of years... under a couple of names... ALL because there is ONE female on here... I cannot meet her... I don't know what to do.. I don't know any other way to get her to understand me..What am I going to do?HOW will I overcome tis...Years and Years of trying to get her interested...BUT.. I will continue to try...UNTIL THEN??"Thank Fck the PUB SCENE is still good for picking up the odd fck.... "

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RHP User

10 years ago

Thanks, Cavey.

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RHP User

10 years ago

You know me waaaay too well..

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RHP User

10 years ago

As many times as you like, after all it's your membership right! Mate the thing is it's not you, you must take the time to grasp the obscureity of this paradigm. It's obscure because you've not grasped it yet. Again it's not you. Mate do you want every women who views your profile? I love never met you but surely the answer must be NO WAY! So Why would the reverse be accurate? Take care SA

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RHP User

10 years ago

Quoting 'Meander' Thinking the fist forum didn't go through hopefully it isn't a typo, I'm quite interested in hearing more about this fist forum you mentioned ;) ;)

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RHP User

10 years ago

I made the first one, but it kept coming back as "Failed to post". So I wait a couple of days, and tried again. Didn't realise that the first one actually was accepted :/. Even thoug I'm a techie, i am still surprised at how buggy computers and servers can get from time to time :/. I have replied to the other forum that Meander provided the link to. I'm thinking that I may actually do the mods job for them and delete this forum thread...if I can figure out how to that is XP.

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RHP User

10 years ago

Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose'hopefully it isn't a typo, I'm quite interested in hearing more about this fist forum you mentioned ;) ;) Know ME waaay too well.

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