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Why so many request for weekday meets?!
September 22 2025
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Blueflamingo
8 months ago
Welcome to school holidays 😂 All the naughty teachers come out to play 😈
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Flirty2020
8 months ago
They are cheating on their wives / girlfriends
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ElectricDreamers
8 months ago
I always think married...
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MsSuperFoxy
8 months ago
Why weekdays? Darling, some men just can’t tell the difference between a boardroom agenda and bedroom agenda. If you get my drift. Ms Foxy 😉 😜
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Nightglider
8 months ago
Agree with Blueflamigo, school holidays certainly increases this with teachers being on break too. Attached or single many men will have other commitments often involving their kids. And with hybrid working since pandemic, lunch time meet ups no doubt became more accessible. For attached guys it is often the easiest and most discreet way to meet. Working week during the day is often so much easier to cover given, kids being at school (outside school holidays, and partners being at work in many cases or trusting that he’s also working. Logistically there’s less pieces of the puzzle to worry about.
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time4us4play
8 months ago
It’s because a lot of them are cheating husbands and can’t leave home at night without suspicion.
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RHP User
8 months ago
Same reasons some women are only available daytimes - shift work, between school runs, cheating, certain circadian rhythms. People have all sorts of reasons for it. I prefer to meet daytimes as I’m more relaxed, Abi isn’t home and I have that flexibility. Doesn’t mean I won’t go fuck someone of a night but for hosting I do daytime.
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The_Spartan
8 months ago
I do daytime/weeknight meets fairly often, because I'm busy! Balancing family life, social life and dating life can be tough. If everyone is competing for just the Friday/Saturday night option it leaves very little time to fill all those buckets. Plus, who wouldn't want to spice up the work week with a hot date 😍 I think generally most people aren't being deceptive, given this is a swinging site (as opposed to a regular dating site). yes a lot of us have partners, but i'd say 95% of people on here are playing with the consent of their partners. Also, sometimes you want to have the weekends free for dates with your ACTUAL girlfriend, wife, partner etc. My relationship with my partner comes first, so I prioritise scheduling the weekend with her, other dates are just extra fun that fit in where you can. That's my take on it 😊
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FeistyFatty
8 months ago
All my meets are scheduled for daytime's. We both work for ourselves and from home so that suits our lifestyle.
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selfless__lover
8 months ago
I would simply ask them why they insist on daytime meets. When my kids were younger, it was easiest for me to do daytime meets and thus keep my private life separate from my adult activities. It could mean they have a partner who is at work during the day also but there are plenty of ways to work this out, like if they are adament they will never host, if they want to get a coffee but will only do so a long way from where they live etc. I would just be open and ask them and then trust your gut instinct about their response.
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MsSuperFoxy
8 months ago
I'm a full time shift worker who works 12hr shifts. My weekends are sometimes during the week. If I'm meeting FIFO during weekdays, it works exceptionally well. There's no hidden agendas, which is like. Ms Foxy
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Andrea_Sydney
8 months ago
My partner can do whatever he likes with my blessing. During the day or whenever suits. It doesn’t always mean people are cheating. On reading some of the other comments - if a woman my partner is talking to went to the trouble of cyber-stalking me and then message my partner with threats and naming me in them, I would be scared for our safety and suspecting she’s a bunny boiler. I would involve police. That’s scary shit! No man or woman should stalk or otherwise investigate someone to find out their story or teach them a lesson. That’s absolutely unacceptable. So Low Low, to your question: you just talk to them on here and ask what you want to know. Then you see how you feel about their answers. If you feel okay, you continue the conversation. If you don’t feel okay with it, you cut them off without lecturing or investigating them. Always keep in mind you might be wrong with your suspicion and a harsh reply is not needed. Just go by your gut feeling and if you don’t feel okay, you let them go and move on to the next person. My five cents.
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Marquess
8 months ago
Because there’s nothing sexier than a cheeky hotel hookup in the middle of the day 🥵
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Marquess
8 months ago
I agree with you Andrea, some of the responses are downright bullying and stalkerish behaviour, scary .
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Rinoandpinkie
8 months ago
Why can't we just accept that people meet when they can, which does not always align with a Friday or Saturday night. Nothing is traditional these days but if it makes you uncomfortable then don't do it. I personally think the suspicion is not needed any more than other meets. If its a single profile then the risk remains the same. If its a couple profile then you would assume you're meeting both. Days can be just as fun and exciting as nights, especially with no kids and no interruptions, except maybe the mailman 🤭
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Kelticblues
8 months ago
For me weekdays often just suit better. As an emergency services worker working 24hr shifts, recovering and also juggling family commitments, simply trying to coordinate calendars with 9-5 folk for any kind of meets can be a struggle
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RamRoverStang
8 months ago
I prefer daytimes. I don’t work, I am married and I’m not cheating. I also don’t judge people’s lifestyle choices. Given our chosen lifestyle is meant to be judgement free. If they’re not to your liking then move on. It’s pretty easy.
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RHP User
8 months ago
It’s also in pubs clubs shops in middle of streets. People meet people everywhere. 24/7 living/work means availability is when it’s suits.. AND. Both sexes cheat on partners. 2 choices. Yes Or No.
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ThiccThighs13
8 months ago
I see my regular fwb on a Saturday arvo when our schedules align..works for us. I'm a busy mum and he's self employed and busy during the week. We used to meet on a weekday arvo but my kids are why this changed. Every situation and timing is why ppls availability is different..
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RHP User
8 months ago
I'd love a weekend or more with you but I'm in Tas. Your hot baby, you can call the shots. :)
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viriltoro
8 months ago
I have two properties, an acreage a long way out, and apartment in the city, which I rent cheap to my little sister and stay there during the week (so hosting there is not an option). Most weeknights I have pre-arranged sports training, gym, or corporate events. So weekdays are just by far the easiest. I can arrange my work day to suit. It also seems to work because I mostly play with hotwive/cuckold couples and most of them have school ages children.
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RHP User
8 months ago
Because they are lying and cheating
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RHP User
8 months ago
It's family time with there children. Single Dads
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Jase52
8 months ago
I can only speak for myself but everybody's different. I've had a serious disability for most of my life. I don't have to work to put food on the table or to pay the rent. I'm just in the routine where in the daytimes is when I'm up and active doing things and prefer to mellow out at home in the nights. So in the days is when I hook up. It's just what makes sense to me. Like I said everybody's different.
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DevilsMechanic
8 months ago
Daytime you can see each other clearly… 👀
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Balgar
8 months ago
I'm retired and my wife still works a few days a week, so rarely available on weekends. Week days I have more freedom - that's usually when I take my few days camping trips in Victoria. Any mature, happy campers welcome to join me.
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Ragaussie007
8 months ago
😆
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RHP User
8 months ago
With hybrid, flexible working conditions nothing is better than daytime sex when you can release your stress! I’m usually in my pjs by 5pm too! 😂
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RHP User
8 months ago
Hense why i have strict policys 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Love_To_Lick
7 months ago
I'm amazed how many people jump straight to "cheating" So many of the other comments cover it so well. While the kids are at school and the house is empty, it's the perfect time. I can catch up on work once they're asleep!!
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GeorgeNMildred
7 months ago
Is the answer not obvious?? 🤫
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RHP User
7 months ago
No secret partners some of us work nights 🤣
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voetsek01
7 months ago
Could be like me simply going out with friends or family on the weekend. We just want a day or 2 to recover. Or unwind during the week is a fantastic thing to do schooldays. If it’s a short interaction it’s quick and done by mid to late evening. Ready for the next day
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Empty_virtues
7 months ago
Nice note.. I'd suggest it is about discretion, if they are attached. Note that often guys can interpret, a potential partner who says they are open to attached or unattached partners, as that partner being open to a discrete affair . Hence the desire for a daytime meeting where they can get away with not accounting for their time.. Just my few cents worth 🤷🏾♂️
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SweetSerenade
7 months ago
Anyone seeking "discreet" = cheating
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Firejuggler
7 months ago
Also for a smaller minority it is because they have shared custody of kids, but I’m guessing that isn’t many
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arnoldarcher85
7 months ago
You haven't asked me out yet🤙🏽😁👌🏽
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RHP User
7 months ago
I can only speak for myself, but sometimes its easier for me during the day. Some evenings I may be at work or engaging in a business call with overseas. I can understand your caution but why not just ask to meet during an evening time if that's your preference. If someone is worth meeting there will be a common ground found.
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BugsandBunny
6 months ago
because they are cheating. Wife and kids at home, so during office hours is the only time for them.
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RHP User
5 months ago
Firstly :) lucky you. There are people that openly want you x Maybe like me, they are willing to make time in their day for you. Not everything is suspect
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Sensuality777
5 months ago
Some might be mistaken as cheaters who want to meet mid week, but there are people who work weekends and their days off happen to be midweek. Most people who do hospitality or shift work plus any services fire, ambo, police etc
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Christian833
4 months ago
Less hectic schedule especially if they got kids
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NaughtySchoolBoy
4 months ago
So are you telling me that I should be asking for night time dates. Well, that's good because that is what I am doing.
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Letssee1122
2 months ago
They are obviously cheating on their partner
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Tdkokay
one month ago
Always seems to be down on a cheating husband, but not a cheating wife. My wife has said find your sex elsewhere, i'm simply not interested. She then gave a set of rules, suffice to say they are fair but one is that she does not want to know anything about what i might get up to. Am I a cheater- no. Am I an ENM -no. Can anyone engage with her - no. Am I complicated because of it - yes. Does it narrow the market, because some think i'm lying - yes. Hmmm I'm tempted to write single, but honesty get the better of me...I'll just stick to complicated I think...
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Ladyfingers
20 days ago
Not everyone who seeks day/weekday meets is cheating. I personally can’t do weekdays unless it’s school holidays. My husband has his own profile and can be more flexible during the week days. It doesn’t bother me if he plays during the week or if he hosts when I am at work and the kids are at school. That’s probably more convenient.
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Happyfeet26
19 days ago
Live and let Live I always believe a lifestyle choice which is not judgmental is a healthy one.
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Zpaset
18 days ago
I wouldn't jump straight to he's cheating as the answer as there are many reasons why that time makes sense for many people. If it bothers you ask and see if there are any other red flags. If it doesn't feel right trust your instincts and don't meet them, trust your gut and be safe. There are 100 guys on here for every one women so plenty to choose from.
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