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Why no photos guys?

August 16 2018

How come so many couples profiles have zero or very little photos of the male partner? Feels like we are constantly having to ask to see photos of him. If you want both of us to play we want to see both of you, no one is taking one for the team. Also some feedback from a woman’s perspective, I want to see what your body and face looks like, I know what a penis looks like 🤔😃 - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    the wife is the most god damned awful photographer with next to no time to stop and snap a million to try and see if one is ok and my selfie skills are not much better , mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    She's cut your head off.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Are usually because the female is used as the draw, the bait if you will... and the male of the half is seldom as big a draw card than the females. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • blondes6365

    blondes6365

    7 years ago

    Its because sex sells

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    You will see that this has been asked / brought up many times in the past. And the answers have all been pretty much the same . Why is porn geared more towards males? Why is fashion geared more towards females? Sex sells and the female form is certainly the main attraction. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Its always interested me as to know what women like to see. Some say general photos, other says half nudity, full nudity etc.. what is the general consensus

  • Deep_Love

    Deep_Love

    7 years ago

    I am straight, so the male face/body photos are really important to me. Sadly there are rarely public photos of the male half of the profile. I'm with you OP, I just assume that the male partner has let themselves go and is not photo worthy. I don't give a toss, what the lady looks like. It's more important to me that she is good company and a nice person in a swinging scenario.

  • Deep_Love

    Deep_Love

    7 years ago

    Comment above by Mrs Deep_Love

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    That's my presumption anyway... I want to see both on their profile personally, together, and I'd like to see them as individuals. Not joined at the hip in a way that suggests they don't have their own minds and personalities. When I'm looking, perving the penis is part of the package, but I'm not your average bear, Peachy

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    the difference is ,i put a pic of any part of mrs b up and the flirts and nonsense annoying messages go through the roof , i put a pic of me up and it’s slows passing traffic to a roadworks speed ,and that’s perfect ,so from i take it ,that i’m either repulsive or it’s the women’s pics most of rhp members want cos most of the membership is men and that’s what they want to see except for the odd pervy women and thank god for them ego inflators 😂 maybe it’s different for us as we don’t use here to hook up with people ,we like to do that in real life where we can play the what you see is what you get if your lucky 🤪and we get to play what we see is what we want if we are lucky ,shocks and surprises aren’t big on our list of wants or desires mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'boobs_or_bust' the difference is ,i put a pic of any part of mrs b up and the flirts and nonsense annoying messages go through the roof , i put a pic of me up and it’s slows passing traffic to a roadworks speed ,and that’s perfect ,so from i take it ,that i’m either repulsive or it’s the women’s pics most of rhp members want cos most of the membership is men and that’s what they want to see except for the odd pervy women and thank god for them ego inflators 😂 maybe it’s different for us as we don’t use here to hook up with people ,we like to do that in real life where we can play the what you see is what you get if your lucky 🤪and we get to play what we see is what we want if we are lucky ,shocks and surprises aren’t big on our list of wants or desires mr b - Posted from rhpmobile The thread though is about why couples don't have pictures of the men.

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    sorry op was having an overly hot bath ,lol why no men ,it’s cos i think most are batting above their weight and know it , the women know this, let the men join a swingers forum thinking its their idea ,but really it her looking for a hotter option and says put pics of me up as bait but really she is thinking don’t want to scare em all away,, how’s that for s different way of looking at it😂😂😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Why well, because they are smart lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Mine are up checkem out - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    THANK YOU!!! So it’s not just me that is over seeing the same photos of women with zero male presence in their public gallery 🤨 I understand that most couples are looking for bi girls and heavy into ff play and a lot of single girls aren’t that fussed with him but if you’re listed as a couple, for the love of god show as much of him as her. Please. There are some profile flags that lead me to completely ignore people and this is starting to be one. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    We have no pics of my amazing husband as we are only looking for single straight guys to play with. So in our case - there is no need for pics of my husband. Once we start to chat to someone we do share a couple pic of us. But for all intent and purpose, there is no need for a pic on our RHP profile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    This really annoys us. We figure if there's no Male pics then he's letting the team down. Hubby likes to see me with a hot guy. So if there's no pics of him up front we just don't go there. Using the woman as bait is really off-putting too. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The way I see it is if both want to play, then both should show themselves, I understand face pics in private gallery, that’s fair enough, but at least something would make finding a couple u would like to get to know a lot easier 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I keep mine private so only persons I’m chatting to see them not everyone deserves it and if they cannot wait for a pic to be unlocked... not get any