Why is it so?

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  Innercircle

  13 years ago

  Ummm, 'cause they're to tired after chasing around after the family?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  You sound a lot like we used to be. Eventually family committments/life commitments ruled out swinging for us.what with soccer/football/cricket/motocross, one of us was always unavailable.Motocross was the worst for takibg up time between practice and racing.Eventually we just quit swinging, could we could never be guaranteed to be in the same place at the same time.That was when we discovered open relationships.I do miss swinging was great fun.Cheers Felonius

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  The eldest is 23 and the youngest is 6. We only get an occasional opportunity for a playdate. What we would really love to find is some nice friends with benefits. We could still enjoy each others company even if the opportunity for sexual play doesn't arise each time.

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  Cheekyarses

  13 years ago

  Time is very limited to us aswell! We find that we only do lots of chatting which is great! That suits us at the moment - some ppl are very lucky to have either no children yet or their children have grown up and moved out of home

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Oh for a naughty fun night........

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  Mr_MrsJones

  13 years ago

  We have two kids, jobs, house, study, vanilla lives and we still like to get out and about with like minded people!!!!Sometimes it is hard to organise a time when everyone is available but we have found that with patience and persistence things can come together.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  They are... you just have to line up a date and turn up? or attend some house partys...we meet plenty of couples just like us. It can take time to align the planets, but worthwhile :>

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Thank you for your suggestions.. We do like the private parties, but they seem so far and few between..and sometimes don't align with a nurse and shift work.

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  playful4u

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'Luvnya69'Thank you for your suggestions.. We do like the private parties, but they seem so far and few between..and sometimes don't align with a nurse and shift work. Agreed, parties suit us best too and you can meet more people.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  My suggestion is when you say your going to ring....... you ring!!!!   We agreed to meet you guys.....but you failed to keep to what you said you would do !!!!!! on a number of occasions   now here you are...........asking were are the GENUINE couples   hmmmmmmmmmm....... interesting

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  QLDtwo4fun

  13 years ago

  Chatting, meeting playing all take time, things come up and dates are cancelled. We have kids, jobs, and other commitments it just all gets too hard. Now we know some party people, if there is a party on, and we are free, all we have to do is turn up.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hey xxfriskycplxx, We did ask to call you guys one Wed night but you told us "It was your family night", so we respected that. As most people with young families, our lives revolve around them, and our own working lives, so time does get away and other things become more of a priority. Maybe you guys aren't for us, as we don't like to be pressured into any aspect of this lifestyle. Enjoy the journey!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  It was so good to hear all your thoughts, Thanks guys n gals...

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