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Why do you swing?
July 01 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
What do you mean by 'no attachments yet'?? My explanation is - that someone very close to me was recently in an accident, where they should have been dead, yet miraculously survived. It really opened my eyes to the fact that - life could be over at any moment. Why go through life - which incidently, could be such a small amount of time - just surviving and taking it all far too seriously, when we should be enjoying and making the most of the time we have left. Sex is a part of that time we have left - and we're maxmising our enjoyment of that aspect of our lives. (MRS)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think there are so many answers, different ones for different people. I think a lot of people lie to themselves about their reasons. I think there are a lot of guys or women out there who can't keep it in their pants and drag their spouse in so they can fuck around with permission. Without a doubt there's a lot of those. Women are often (sometimes the male) scared of loosing their spouse if they don't agree to it, scared of them cheating or leaving. For us it was that we wanted to add another dimention to our lives, a little bit more of a thrill. We were bored to death with socks n jocks and bills n babies and we wanted a bit of excitement in our lives. After 10 years together, completely monogamous we decided we adored each other but wanted something to spice things up. We were never going to cheat on each other so that wasn't an issue but the dullness of just living a responsible life was just not enough for us. We had a blast while we were playing, met some wonderful, wonderful souls who we miss dearly now that we have left the scene and intend to continue the fun in other ways. If you dont' do it for the right reasons you are asking for trouble. Resentment and possibly the ultimate destruction of your relationship may follow. You have to remember that we are ALL putting our relationship on the line for a fuck. This is a risky game and we all know it. But as i said, it worked for us. A lot of exterior things came together in the end to draw us away from vanilla play but we don't regret a second of it. For me now, my treasured memories are of a good chunk of my fantasies were fullfilled and i met some beautiful, beautiful people.
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RHP User
14 years ago
That's a very mature approach I think. There will be a time when it ends.. and maybe not concurrently with your life... I mean, your inclination for sex... or maybe not even your inclination.. it might be outside your capabilities and sex is all just a memory. That's the bit I want to retain.. I mean... what's the good of being a really old fucker sitting there with a raised eyebrows listening to some other old arsehole bragging to you about what once was... and all the while.. in the back of my mind... I'll have plenty of dirty little secrets keeping me quietly entertained. I'll have forgotten many of them for sure, but some will be triggered by that other old dude's memories... yep.. memory triggers. Get out there and use all the household appliances.. loaves of bread... a glass of milk... a fruit platter.... a tray of scones... whatever you can find and you must incorporate those every day things into your devious pursuits.... I've no doubt when you're pushing 99, you'll be thanking me for putting you all in the picture on this gig!As for swinging.. well, it goes hand in hand with outrageous sexual pursuits doesn't it. Enjoy the journey and spread the love.HugsStalky Quoting 'foreverlove7985' What do you mean by 'no attachments yet'?? My explanation is - that someone very close to me was recently in an accident, where they should have been dead, yet miraculously survived. It really opened my eyes to the fact that - life could be over at any moment. Why go through life - which incidently, could be such a small amount of time - just surviving and taking it all far too seriously, when we should be enjoying and making the most of the time we have left. Sex is a part of that time we have left - and we're maxmising our enjoyment of that aspect of our lives. (MRS)
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RHP User
14 years ago
'cause its more fun than the see-saw......lol l(I know, I know, its a really bad joke but was just begging to be said,)
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DonnaBrett
14 years ago
...we like it!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'DonnaBrett'...we like it!! Because its fun!
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DonnaBrett
14 years ago
Yeah fun too!! There's no deep & meaningful explanations needed, there's nothing to justify. It's not rocket science people... if you like something (and it's legal) just do it ! Life's for living..cos you're a long time dead!! Quoting 'JustEnough' Quoting 'DonnaBrett'...we like it!! Because its fun!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' 'cause its more fun than the see-saw......lol l(I know, I know, its a really bad joke but was just begging to be said,) Hahahahahaha
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RHP User
14 years ago
Swing parties are not my thing.Sure I did go to a couple but it actually makes me nervous and I just stood there like an idiot in shock. lolz.. My eyes popping outta my head! ..Glad I am not a guy and to be in that situation with a limp dick. :P I prefer in private with 1 or 2 men. I still get nervous! . I enjoy the meet n greets and have some wonderful friends from going to them. I am very social and just love being around and chatting, flirting with lovely open minded people. I def have a wish list but have to get over my nerves.. sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chronology -v- timeline is something I have always believed be it work, leisure or pleasure. There is a damn good reason they call it the "average life expectancy" and that is because a lot don't make it alone the way. Any one of us could be sitting on 99% gone today and we don't even know it...so live each day as it may be you last, it really could be. | The other reason ... I enjoy the experience of meeting new people. There are a lot of nice kids in the playground...no matter how old or young they may be.
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RHP User
14 years ago
One simple and irrefutable reason for us .............................. FUNThat one word covers why we do it and what we get from it, yes certainly there may also be friendships that develop, but if that is the case for us that is a bonus.FUN, such a good wordShell and Gaz
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RHP User
14 years ago
I swing from guy to girl to guy and so on - is that the same
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RHP User
14 years ago
All those sexy popular culture music video's and constant sexual tension on Home and Away... No for us it's because we are young, fit, healthy and love sharing sexual adventures together. When will it end for us? Easy, when we start a family. That's just our values though... please no hate mail!
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RHP User
14 years ago
because it means we can have casual sex with others, guilt free and on our terms....... and we can pick and choose who we want from a huge assortment of quite willing playmates, without ever feeling obligated to take it further or to even go back for seconds or more............
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RHP User
14 years ago
we are a new couple and discovered within the first week that we enjoy sex with different partners.... its human nature, more so on the males part to want to fornicate with more than one partner although that said, the same trait can be found in females. So in conclusion if two of these horny open minded human specimens discover each other and communicate thier desires then waaaallllaaaaaaah, bingo, let the good times roll........Happy Swinging Swingers mwah x
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Mr_MrsJones
14 years ago
Quoting 'DonnaBrett' Because ...we like it!! Because its fun! Because we can!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
we live in reality land... men and women enjoy variety in bed as much as food or weather.. This way its fun for all ,and we still have a stable happy relationship. Not a cheating one, or one where you pretend you arnt interested in other men/women...lol
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DonnaBrett
14 years ago
..to quote Gene Simmons... "Monogamy is like holding your breath...you can do it for a while, but not forever!"
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'DonnaBrett'..to quote Gene Simmons... "Monogamy is like holding your breath...you can do it for a while, but not forever!" Must remember that one for the next time a cheating thread starts.........butt very true
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RHP User
14 years ago
it's fun! and i don't think anyone is just meant to be with one person forever... it allows us to fulfill all our temptations without going behind each others backs, the best part is we do it together. and we always fuck like crazy when we get home.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'raunchyfunx2' it's fun! and i don't think anyone is just meant to be with one person forever... it allows us to fulfill all our temptations without going behind each others backs, the best part is we do it together. and we always fuck like crazy when we get home. yes.........the 'after' sex is just sensational! best ever!
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