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Who’s hosting?
August 26 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well, let's break your post down into its key points: - You can't host- You don't want to shell out for half of a hotel room- You have a family and babysitting is expensive- You are cursing younger men out because they don't have/can't afford to have their own private accommodation and don't want to inconvenience their housemates with shagging noises while they try to sleep or whatever. Sooooo… you want the young guys to take care of all the responsibility of arranging a place for you to shag them. At no cost to you. Were this a bloke who had written this post about a woman, he would be called ''entitled''.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think we can all agree that it’s pretty costly constantly getting hotel rooms for a night, even when it’s split & privacy when living in shared accommodation is almost non existent. I did note that between you and your husband it’s costing a small fortune between babysitting and spending costs on hotels right? Maybe preempt the younger men that you’re happy to come to theirs and don’t mind the housemate scenarios, perhaps suggest that when it’s time to get down the young one can either give a forewarning to his housemates, ask them to turn up the volume on the TV or turn up the music in the bedroom or even ask if they can vacate for an hour or two? In the middle of the night when sleep is deep no one gives a shit about how loud you’re going to be, they won’t hear anything. I’m fortunate enough to have housemates who know the lifestyle I live and have no problem with the noises being made. I can only hope you find the suitable types who can accommodate your needs as well as their own, either that or take it down a notch in meeting frequency? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Have this issue as I live on my own and tend to attract men of the same socio economic backgroundwho also live on their own However for not having accomodation hassles, means I have to be thrifty in other areas of my life and give up other luxuries. You may have to do the same, give up something or alter your expectations You’ve got everything but still want more I’m not saying you can’t have it all, but hey there’s a price for everything and yes you have to pay for it, so start saving for cheap hotel rooms, there’s plenty out there like Formula 1, and only play on the nights that hubby takes care of your children and don’t turn your nose up at car sex, as it can be fucking hot And yes you may have to change your preference from just younger guys and be a bit more empathetic I’ve lived in shared houses before and as I much as I didn’t care what my housemates thought nor did I care what they did, I still wanted the ability to scream the walls down if it came to that without them rolling their eyeballs at me the next morning and I’m sure they wanted more privacy too. And sure, I could do without their judgement and if I was fucking a married person I could do without their silent condemning stares, so yeah try to get that ok Plus just for the record often when they say they can’t host, is because there’s another party involved, don’t be closed to that If this is such a huge issue for you then I suggest you put this at the start of your profile and not at the endocrine it like it is now Welcome to 2018 where having your own place is a luxury not a given especially in Sydney
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RHP User
7 years ago
* end of Stoopid auto correct on iPad
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RHP User
7 years ago
How does 1 go fucking around without the husband when they are married. There seems to be a few things on here that people do that i cannot get my head around it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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FireHorse101
7 years ago
Quoting 'OkeyDoke45' Well, let's break your post down into its key points: - You can't host- You don't want to shell out for half of a hotel room- You have a family and babysitting is expensive- You are cursing younger men out because they don't have/can't afford to have their own private accommodation and don't want to inconvenience their housemates with shagging noises while they try to sleep or whatever. Sooooo… you want the young guys to take care of all the responsibility of arranging a place for you to shag them. At no cost to you. Were this a bloke who had written this post about a woman, he would be called ''entitled''. Seems everyone has something to complain about, I wonder if you could host when you were younger??
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FireHorse101
7 years ago
Quoting 'OkeyDoke45' Well, let's break your post down into its key points: - You can't host- You don't want to shell out for half of a hotel room- You have a family and babysitting is expensive- You are cursing younger men out because they don't have/can't afford to have their own private accommodation and don't want to inconvenience their housemates with shagging noises while they try to sleep or whatever. Sooooo… you want the young guys to take care of all the responsibility of arranging a place for you to shag them. At no cost to you. Were this a bloke who had written this post about a woman, he would be called ''entitled''. Seems everyone has something to complain about, I wonder if you could host when you were younger??
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
What I do have issues is, when they "invite" themselves over (1st/2nd email). It's NO! It's rude. It's my home, and I do the inviting, not them. I met in a public place first. My safety is important. From there, mutual arrangements are made. If a guy is into you, he will compromise. Being a cougar has nothing to do with it. Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Read up about DOGGING...
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RHP User
7 years ago
You can’t host.... they can’t host...... the only difference is the reason But in here, there’s a plague-like swarm of “single” flies.... I mean guys.... who CAN host.... if that is your preference So I just don’t see the problem DG
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RHP User
7 years ago
Another reason is they don’t wanna fuCk you in front of their mum & dad,, Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissRedFox
7 years ago
Many housemates seem to have an issue with people getting laid Or is housemate code for mother or wifey I ponder XX - Posted from rhpmobile
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SensualPair21
7 years ago
For the record I do host from time to time when I can arrange it, and that my point if I can manage to arrange it and I have a family , why it so hard for a single guy? And I never said I want them to pay for a hotel or anything , if I use a hotel I will pay half. And isn’t it entitled to think some wants to fuck u in their car or at a park! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
So it’s bit confusing Single people have commitments to you know If they can’t host, click next, plenty of single guys on here that are single and can host I think you may find there is a myriad of reasons why they can’t host, think about it
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RHP User
7 years ago
This thread turned toxic pretty quickly!
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
But you're a bit far away. But then, so is everyone lol. You only have to pass the judgement of my dog here. But that isn't exactly hard :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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egr2please69
7 years ago
Well said Snap Dragon, being a single dad who gets his kids on and off its a juggling act but not impossible. I host most of the time, just depends on the day and who has the least to organise for clear space lol
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mvis0
7 years ago
I host when possible but often it's hard to say when I'll be able too, and oftenly depends on the person coming over. I don't really mind if it , happens when housemates home much prefer to do it when they are out, not so much cause I care if they hear but more that it's their place too not just mine and it's honestly quite ride to continuously make them hear it, when they just want to relax, plus. - Posted from rhpmobile
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mvis0
7 years ago
Some people want the discreet treatment. So imagine constantly being asked to stay in the your room or leave for a bit from your own place just cause housemates bringing over someone. It's one thing if you do it to but if when you aren't it would get very annoying, very quickly. And we have to live with that person, so we gotta compromise and sometimes say we can't host. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Aristippusx2
7 years ago
Hi Mrs LF 2018 We don't know your background particulars but you consider the follow scenerios Is it possible for you and your hubby to take turns caring for the children whilst the other partner hosts at the house. Also what about hotel/motels that charge by the hour esp during the day We travel extensive and have noticed that Airbnb appear to be relatively inexpensive. You could also try overnight camping trips Warm thoughts D and J
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RHP User
7 years ago
how young are we talking and i can host :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
wow
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Not an issue and I'm in the same marriage and children situation. Don't really go for the young guys myself so find men my age have no issues hosting. Plus if hubby is home we can take turns taking kids out to dinner and movies etc to free up the house if need be. - Posted from rhpmobile
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curiousgirl35
7 years ago
Maybe travel out of sydney to find someone. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'FireHorse101' Quoting 'OkeyDoke45' Well, let's break your post down into its key points: - You can't host- You don't want to shell out for half of a hotel room- You have a family and babysitting is expensive- You are cursing younger men out because they don't have/can't afford to have their own private accommodation and don't want to inconvenience their housemates with shagging noises while they try to sleep or whatever. Sooooo… you want the young guys to take care of all the responsibility of arranging a place for you to shag them. At no cost to you. Were this a bloke who had written this post about a woman, he would be called ''entitled''. Seems everyone has something to complain about, I wonder if you could host when you were younger?? If this were directed at me, no I couldn't - that was my whole point. A lot of younger blokes can't afford their own place.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I was living with a couple of friends....they would always ask me why I wouldn’t bring anyone back there... Just shy I guess... But in my own place I’ll host...if they’ve earned my trust... - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
It is a self imposed problem because it is one of the consequences of your decisions and choices. I know many young people who live in share houses and most are quite considerate with regards to their housemates. Some have house rules about guests and bf/gf stay overs etc so its not all shag city. You have a number of choices to address this dilemma: - only choose young blokes who can host - set a budget so you save for play dates - do some more research on hotels which charge by the hour, there are quite a few which do. Not usually the 5 star places, but the small suburban ones which are practised at turning a blind eye to daytime dalliances - Utilise the swingers clubs in Sydney - change your attitude about only playing with youngsters. Sometimes they can't host because they live with their parents, and are ashamed to admit to that when they are on sites like this. There does seem to be a little bit of entitlement in your post. You are a 37 year old woman who perhaps needs to take other people's situations into consideration, rather than having a pout about it all being so inconvenient to you.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Install a glory hole on ya backdoor. 🏃 💨💨💨💨💨
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RHP User
7 years ago
I can’t host due to sharing a unit and I like to meet couples and girls and like to keep that part of my life seperate! I prefer to meet at a hotel which is neutral ground. Luckily most couples are here in holiday at the Gold Coast so that works for me! Not a fan of meeting at someone’s house as you have no idea about cleanliness
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djc23
7 years ago
I’m more than happy to host babe if your looking for a guy to host - Posted from rhpmobile
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