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Who do you think about?
October 15 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
Insecurity breads jealousy resentment revenge.Goes both ways..... Get the bond tight, have boundaries and discuss sexual desires openly and honestly. Men have to swallow their pride and women put the nails away and try accept they are going to hear their lover say words along the line of...... I was fucking your friend John when you were out front mowing the lawn, we were watching you through the window while he was sliding his fat beast inside me, it felt so erotic and naughty I am wet just talking abut it, oh babe it was amazing,,, I fantasize about so many different scenarios and yes some are our friends, He replies why don't you tell me about them.... I worry you will turn into a green machine jealous with rage, I fear you will become an insecure overposessive babboon and hate on me....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think you'll find the majority of people are thinking about someone else.... It is a fantasy after all....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Excellent topic I love it. To answer your question when I was married, every sexual encounter with my ex wife would play in my head, the good ones and the not so good ones. It still turned me on to no limit as she was the object of my affections. However, generally speaking I think that fantasy land has no limits, no rules, anything can happen, Jesus I'm making this sound like Disney movie, lol, but the point is, that's the magic of fantasy. Be who you want, where you want and how bad you want ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Waterbabes my mind can swing from differing scenarios so ....i will have to say yes and no on this one..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011' Excellent topic I love it. To answer your question when I was married, every sexual encounter with my ex wife would play in my head, the good ones and the not so good ones. It still turned me on to no limit as she was the object of my affections. However, generally speaking I think that fantasy land has no limits, no rules, anything can happen, Jesus I'm making this sound like Disney movie, lol, but the point is, that's the magic of fantasy. Be who you want, where you want and how bad you want ;) haha, i'm sure there's people who fantasise about that as well
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RHP User
13 years ago
Working on the skydiving! :) a bit of both for me too here. When I was married it was probably about 70% of her or with her in them but still about 30% involving other people. It never really meant anything, I was very much in love and they were just fantasies indulged in for self pleasure.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i think its normal to fantasise about others now and then , where only human. I dont consider it cheating at all . I know some people would think its like cheating . I just think thats naive. i fantasise about my wife but sometimes others sometimes both . Great topic though. And i know for a fact she fantasises about others to , and im find with that , infact i think its healthy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I always used my memory of one particular time with a guy I knew for years. He was hot, sexy and he was the best fuck I ever had. I used this memory when I was married and even now I'm single.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If I sit in my loungeroom and start to imagine how it would look if I did a makeover, with new color scheme, a nice white lounge and nice new artwork .. Am I fantasising... ? Do I do this because something new is more stimulating ... ? It's human nature to stimulate the mind, and fantasising is as natural as it comes.. I feel sorry for anyone who are in a relationship controlled by a insecure partner... Fantasy is normal and if anything be shared with your partner..
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RHP User
13 years ago
theres only one person i fantasize about....the woman i married.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'theres only one person i fantasize about....the woman i married. Good answer
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'goldcoastcple69' i think its normal to fantasise about others now and then , where only human. I dont consider it cheating at all . I know some people would think its like cheating . I just think thats naive. i fantasise about my wife but sometimes others sometimes both . Great topic though. And i know for a fact she fantasises about others to , and im find with that , infact i think its healthy.Yep, I totally agree with you. Thanks for your comments
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RHP User
13 years ago
But only me with other men :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Water babes your new main profile pic certainly caught our eye ! Dare say it may get a run in our next naughty talk session ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'If I sit in my loungeroom and start to imagine how it would look if I did a makeover, with new color scheme, a nice white lounge and nice new artwork .. Am I fantasising... ? Do I do this because something new is more stimulating ... ? It's human nature to stimulate the mind, and fantasising is as natural as it comes.. I feel sorry for anyone who are in a relationship controlled by a insecure partner... Fantasy is normal and if anything be shared with your partner.. Yeah, I am always re-decorating.....perhaps my mind needs endless stimulation!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Who I am thinking about when i fantasise changes but has some pattern to it I find. Always, there is me - either in action or background somehow.Normally, there is somebody else - either in action or background somehow.That somebody often changes with the fantasy - either past, present or "future" (read wishful) women of my journey.And I agree - Nobody should be threatened by another's fantasies.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hebe1'Water babes your new main profile pic certainly caught our eye ! Dare say it may get a run in our next naughty talk session ;-) Thanks Hebe1.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'slinkey'But only me with other men :) we tend to share our fantasies.....and end up expanding on them with each other via text.... obviously by then, our fantasy has become foreplay.....often theres mention of others...no, usually there is lol....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Mr Mischevious, I fantasise about extreme things....very rarely do they involve my man....mostly it's of me experiencing things I have seen in porn with faceless strangers. My sexual daydreams on the other hand involve people I might be having "a thing for" at the time and are just glimpses of sexual acts, skin, sounds, things I'd like to do to them etc. I didn't say it before because I was worried that the thread might become about cutting me down instead of being an open discussion about other peoples opinions. XXX
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RHP User
13 years ago
My opinion is that it would depend upon the frequency and repetitiveness of a fantasy - if it's a passing fancy or something that you remember involving someone other than your partner/someone you don't know and you just think about it on occasion, it's natural, however if for a significant length of time you think of everyone BUT your partner (or at least them involved in some capacity) and notice a high frequency/pattern, I think there may be an underlying issue there.... Just my opinion :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
whom I am speaking to at the timex R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Waterbabes' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Mr Mischevious, I fantasise about extreme things....very rarely do they involve my man....mostly it's of me experiencing things I have seen in porn with faceless strangers. My sexual daydreams on the other hand involve people I might be having "a thing for" at the time and are just glimpses of sexual acts, skin, sounds, things I'd like to do to them etc. I didn't say it before because I was worried that the thread might become about cutting me down instead of being an open discussion about other peoples opinions. XXX I agree the forum far too often turns in to a bitching match were people are trying to force there opinion down your throats this once size fits all belief is crap!!! Only you know what makes you happy everyone’s emotional and physical needs and wants are different, The idea that our partners must be the sole suppliers of love and physical satisfaction is one of the reasons so many of our generations parents and vanilla friends end up in divorce court the expectations and pressure to be everything becomes impossible and unbearable. So yes I believe it is natural and healthy to fantasize day dream and embrace the things that make you happy life is too short to be unhappy or unfulfilled. A saying I like I think it was by Charles Kingsley,”Feelings are like chemicals, the more you analyse them the worse the smell”. So let’s stop analysing and thinking so much and start enjoying our so very short time here J.Mr2n2
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RHP User
13 years ago
But sometimes its not just the two of us. The others are always faceless its not about wo they are its what they are doing.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Waterbabes' I fantasise about extreme things....very rarely do they involve my man....mostly it's of me experiencing things I have seen in porn with faceless strangers. My sexual daydreams on the other hand involve people I might be having "a thing for" at the time and are just glimpses of sexual acts, skin, sounds, things I'd like to do to them etc. Not sure if my fantasies are extreme, but that sounds just like me...
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RHP User
13 years ago
fantasy land is FANTASY LAND............. says it all!!!! total respect of the general confusion regarding this subject, but all in good hands thanks!! XXX
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RHP User
13 years ago
WELL SAID!! there's a huge set of boobs to be said about that
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RHP User
13 years ago
Fantasies can make the dullest parts of life interesting
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am in somewhat of a dilemma over this. When I was with my ex, i would fantasize about other women WHILE HAVING SEX with her, which kind of made me feel bad, ultimately i found that I really wasnt in love with her and it was as wrong as two left feet to keep doing this to both me and her.I have for a while now been seeing this little minx that has knocked me out of my tree. I work on board a mothballed cruise ship currently as the engineer, and keep the thing from sinking maintenance, etc, and wander these halls alone for a month at a time. You get a little stir crazy and i might not see another human for over week. I surf RHP and occasionally someone will throw me a bone and i get to watch a couple fuck or watch her suck him off. I watch porn and alot of times I fantasize about BEING WITH MY GIRLFRIEND, which is weird being that I am watching two top notch porn stars doing what their profession is: FUCKING.I dont fantaszie about her doing what they are doing which is kinky hardcore sex, but her doing her sensual erotic straight sex thing that i normally would find boring, but she makes it anything BUT boring.I guess it is your state of mind at the time.
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