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Who Pays For The Condoms?
November 27 2024
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MsSuperFoxy
one year ago
Good question! IMO It's ALL parties that are responsible. We are all adults and are educated well enough to know about safe sex. I always have condoms on hand and I also expect and do have conversations with others regarding safe sex and use if condoms and to carry. It's duty of care to myself, but others also. Ms Foxy PS Having condoms next to your bedside table was a safe thing to do. Condoms are easily accessible! I wonder how awkard it had been if you didn't provide, nor the other, leaving Margo in an awkard position.
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TheFriendYouWant
one year ago
I most certainly bring my own, I know what I like and is comfortable plus, it’s just common courtesy. Kudos to yourselves for having them but it’s a bit much to expect you to provide them.
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Massage_Donor
one year ago
Omg, surely this is a no brainer? I always take my own. Always. Except ... that one time I forgot. I was mortified at myself, as I thought she'd accuse me of trying to go raw. But she was really good and understanding and we used hers instead. Phew!!
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RHP User
one year ago
If you want to use them then buy them? I would take it as my responsibility as the guy if we agreed on safe sex. How would it look turning up and thinking the other was sorting them out and nobody did? Like turning up to a dinner party and everybody thinking everybody else was bringing the wine 😬
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nightingale8
one year ago
Think of them as public property. Like umbrellas! I’ve donated quite a few on the train, outside cafes, etc and don’t feel at all bad when I pick up one that’s been clearly left behind.
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boobsandbusted
one year ago
Everyone ,as a host I’d always have ample supply at the bedside table ,just in case one needs a swap out for whatever reason ,better safe than sorry ,for the safety value a pack of condoms and lube is a small price to pay ,,imo Mr b
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boobsandbusted
one year ago
And to add ,Mrs b has a preferred brand of latex free ,🆓 condoms and lube ,if rather supply those than someone use their own which may or may not be to her liking ,
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Cheekyeurocouple
one year ago
Not only have we paid for the condoms but we also have paid for the hotel room.Some males have no idea thats why they are single
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RHP User
one year ago
We usually supply them, we always keep a stock in our toy cupboard so why not. Except one time, I put some condoms and lube in a bag to take with us then forgot to take the bag 😅
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Sawadee
one year ago
Goes without saying we all need to protect ourselves. .. Expecting someone else to look after you is naive and careless, l hate condoms with a passion , but l put up with them.. just the way it is these days...
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NeoAndTrin
one year ago
Put them in a vending machine beside the bed Alex. $1 a pop. Problem solvered.
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RHP User
one year ago
Always BYOC as a single guy. Have you ever tried to put one on that is too small? It's near impossible and looks ridiculous.
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RHP User
one year ago
Has me thinking - what if condoms became scarce? A rubber shortage or someone shorted the world’s largest condom producer? Assume intercourse (cock in the pussy or butt) was off limits. How creative could you be? What would try and what would you learn?
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Mrs_Deep_Love
one year ago
I can see the rudeness you feel when they're coming to fuck your wife and use your condoms too. If you were a cuck, maybe. But you're not.
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Blueflamingo
one year ago
I expect the guy to be carrying condoms as they usually have a favourite brand and size. I do always have some spare just in case, but not the full selection like Vivian in Pretty Woman 😂
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CallMeV
one year ago
I would never take someone’s time for granted. I always carry condoms and chuck it in the bin before I leave house/hotel.
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RHP User
one year ago
I prefer to know there are condoms and they are good quality and not hidden in a wallet for months 😝 We always have our own and prefer using our own
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ReyandJean
one year ago
But do you trust day visitors to use a condom that's not going to break? I won't say doctored, but maybe been in the wallet for a few months....
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Dalidreaming
one year ago
These days, I think it should be common practice that both parties have them on hand and never assume 💕
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gazpacho
one year ago
Great topic thanks! I think the rules of engagement are very clear. Nobody could care less about your sexual health. It’s every man (or woman) for themselves. That stated, if I want someone to use protection, it’s up to me to make sure that they do. There’s plenty of punters around quite happy to pass on their crabs or whatever. No matter when someone says “yeah, I’m clean” you can’t seriously expect any random fuck to be truthful.
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Fuckmywifexxx
one year ago
It's a huge reflection on the dude... But your own personal responsibility to be prepared.
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SweetSerenade
one year ago
We always bring and supply our own. We use latex-free only and insist our play friends do also. We only buy Skyn and specifically the variety Mr serenade uses costs out at about $1.40 each. We actually ask other men to use the ones we supply and certainly don't ask anyone to pay. $14 a pack for a night of safer play is negligible cost.
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Polynesian_BBWx
one year ago
i totally get you ! nothing makes me cringe more than when a guy asks me to buy condoms before meeting them..... im not the one wearing it mate. but even in your situation, they should bloody bring their own
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RHP User
one year ago
I have never worn one mainly because my dick goes soft trying to put one on It's just an awful feeling. Feeling smelling tasting a pussy is too good to be spoilt by rubber Never Ever ever
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danum
one year ago
to tell the truth, we dont use condoms. i dont like it. my wife doesnt either.
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RHP User
one year ago
I always bring my own but some playmates have preferred to use the ones supplied by them for peace of mind safety in regards to untampered, expiry dates etc. I would rather bring them than miss out on any safe fun!!
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realcpl4funBris
one year ago
We always have some available on the bed side table too but the guys invited should most definitely bring their own.
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DonnaBrett
one year ago
We always bring our own condoms even if at a party or club that do supply them. We both have a brand/type preference so it's easier. However on that subject, any guy that rolls up to a play date with a lady and he isn't carrying his own condoms then that's a red flag. It can only be assumed that he's willing to play without protection if he can get away with it and if he does it in that instance then he has probably played unprotected with others.
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Doug1972
one year ago
Man wears it man pays
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RHP User
one year ago
Who are these miserly people? They should bring their own raincoats!
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RHP User
one year ago
Who pays? Easy...the guy. Like you said "they cost next to nothing" so come prepared
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WkdWolfnkitten
one year ago
We do, kitten has a sensitivity and has worked out the hard way which condoms and lube don’t react negatively with her body. We keep several sizes and then know they are in date and not tampered with……in saying that no male has ever turned up without his own but they have always been happy to use ours at her request.
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DonnaBrett
one year ago
Everyone should carry them, male & female. Even when we go to parties where they are supplied we always use our own. You never know when the supplied ones are out of date or inferior quality.
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TheaussieBull88
one year ago
I always bring my own.
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