M41

Where to start

December 24 2018

Outside the bedroom or any intimate place I'm a bit shy and not good at drumming up conversation. Have been out of the dating scene for 12 odd years and new to this swinging thing. Where do I start? How do I get people to notice me when there's thousands of single and not single blokes everywhere especially online? - Posted from rhpmobile

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FeistyFatty

7 years ago

Write a Forum Topic on How to Get Noticed?🤷‍♀️

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RHP User

7 years ago

The hardest thing is to just start - so just start. Send messages. Be polite, be complimentary without being sleazy, pay attention to the profile of the person you want to send a msg to and make sure you are compatible with them. Remember behind the profiles are women - real women who have a mind - this seems to get lost in translation at times to the single male or non single male. Understand that thanks but no thanks means no and don’t pursue relentlessly because that will probably get your ass blocked lol.. Be honest. Be real. For me personally smokers are a turn off regardless of what else you have to offer. Maybe a little bit more in the description area would be beneficial but admittedly it is hard to fill out these profiles at times. But send messages. It’s the only way you’ll learn what sort of approach works best for you. Meet and greets are an option as well to if you are inclined to shine in a social atmosphere, but we all had a starting point. We were all nervous and unsure at one stage and we all had to just send messages - we all liked to be chased and desired... so do some respectful chasing, make that person feel desired and see how it goes... hopefully it’ll be reciprocated

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RHP User

7 years ago

No one can tell you how you’re different from every other guy.... That’s for you to show it to others......

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