M63
Where am I going wrong
September 03 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
What percentage of those replies are explicit "I am not interested" replies? The others had some level of interest so don't be too quick to assume too old, ugly, crap profile. I am wondering if your roadblock is what you do after that point. How do things typically play out with those have replied?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Was an estimated guess. Largest majority are, sorry, but no thanks
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just makes me laugh to start... not sure about the profile pic - whilst I’m sure it has a good story it just seems odd to me... but that is just me.. Maybe refine your profile wording a little bit.. There’s honestly not that much to go on to get and indication about who you are or what you want - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your "about me" on the profile is kind of shallow, frankly. There's just not much there to build a picture of you. That can't be helping your case. Why not put some stuff up about your interests, what you like to do...that sort of thing. It'll help you appear human and relatable. And may give insight into your sense of humour.
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
A little from column A, a little from column B. RHP is fickle playing ground Wang. There's is well down disparity in the numbers of males to women which means women can take their pick essentially. Not that you're my target demographic but profile feedback.... your profile pic is silly. A nice normal smiling pic is way more appealing to me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Lets see1.profile name2. profile pic3. profile4.whats written in your profile5. whats missing from your profile Overall its mainly your profileRefine it puts some decent picsyour luck might change
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Pulling no punches here but let's not beat around the Bush. Few things against you. You live in Geelong. Far enough from Melbourne to limit interest You are getting past that 54 yo cut off for many. I know I'm there as well. You have your description as large. It drastically limits interested people. Add what others have said Add all that up means you need to be patient. Good luck
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RHP User
7 years ago
My profile picture, is just having some fun. Wearing a Samurai hat. I kinda hiding I know. That’s to stop anybody I know, seeing me. I just see this site. As a private thing. I always send photos of myself, with my messages. From my pg To those who have replied. Thank you
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RHP User
7 years ago
Is an old Howlin Wolf song title. With some of the manes I’ve seen on this site. For eg. Whore, slut, fuck me hard etc. I don’t find it strange
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RHP User
7 years ago
you think the samurai hat is funny but honestly i have arouns 1.3 seconds to decide if i like a profile and tyours i dont even enjoy looking atTake our comments on board or listen to the cricketsYou asked we have said what we thinkyou are obviously doing something worong so what you think isnt workingHarsh but you did askYour name and pic are terrible i wouldnt even want to read the profile
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AKAHunk
7 years ago
Don't be too tough on yourself mate, I'd say that's probably around the average reply rate on here. Men massively outnumber the ladies on here, you've got to be something special to stand out from the crowd!
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Rosali
7 years ago
Ha ... We think its a pretty cool profile name. Looks like not too many folks in RHP land are familiar with the names Chester Burnett or Willie Dixon
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
I think your profile pic and usernames aren’t doing you any favours. If people aren’t familiar with the music it just sounds a bit juvenile. For good examples of nice profiles look above my post at Kool or Dallas. Give people a bit more about who you are as a person so they want to learn more. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Dogging Bukkake Not fans of property of both You seem to have not taken any of these comments on board and still have the same profile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you have another look, I have changed a few things One, I will not be changing my user name. I, like many others. Don’t judge books by their covers. Growing up, I had a mate called Egbert. Yes, Egbert. He got tested. Yet it didn’t change the fact, because he had a different name. He was a great guy. To be honest. What’s with the 7,after your name
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Why even bother asking for advice and honest opinions if you can not cope with the responses? Maybe, going out on a limb here, your failure rate is moreso due to your personality coming out in messages than your username and profile pic? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I wouldn't change your name, either....if you're happy with it.It's not offensive, and that's the main thing. There's other eccentric names on here. Take Obi..K, for example. Flesh out your profile with some things about yourself, and word it like you are actually speaking with someone...in a flowing, comfortable sort of way. I see you've made a start. It does take a bit of coming back to. And be careful not to rise to baiting on here....it never looks good.
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RHP User
7 years ago
WangDang (it is fun to type), don't be too perturbed by what some have said on here. I too think the samurai hat looks silly but that is just me. It certainly is different - my profile pic is as dull as dogshit, most profile pics on here are - at least yours does stand out. Ditto your profile name. If people are going to skim past you based on those two characteristics then I dare say you are better off without them. If they are that easy to disappoint without having met them, just imagine what it would be like should you be invited into their world. I did have a quick look at your profile when you posted this question initially and it was a tad on the dull and uninspired side, but again so is mine. I have chopped and changed mine a few times over the years. I've put more detail in, taken detail out. I've made it more in-depth, I've made it less in-depth. At the end of the day people here tend to fall into two camps - the ''TLDR'' camp that like a simple profile, and the ''you need more detail, I need to know your favourite colour'' camp for whom too much is never enough. You cannot please one camp without turning the other off you completely. Make your profile what you want, it will truly reflect you then - and if that means you are not what people are after, then so be it. Oh, and Sweetjen? You are constantly complaining on the forums about what a rough time you have in your quest, so your ''you need to change it to what I say'' attitude will do WangDang no favors at all.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm in the same boat my friend, the interest I seem to be able to stir up is minimal at best, and I'm terrible at taking photos. I generally find that I will get on a date on the rare occasion when I actually do manage to organise one & the lady will be delighted with how I look & sound compared to my profile, where I will be left a little bemused by how different they look. So I guess here's some thing to consider. -ladies are usually absolute jets with photos, filters, lighting & have the advantage of lingerie & make up for that extra initial appeal - They will pick at & decide against the weirdest imperfections in both appearance & profile ie, profile name, occupation, height, you have a nipple that's to large or the wrong colour, they don't like the throw rug you have on your couch etc (obvious made up examples) and they can do this because like me, they are very particular and unlike us (men) they hold all the power in the world of initial attraction. - Probably the biggest clincher is purely just the numbers game... If you take out the couple that contain a lady (who are also more often than not also seeking another couple or single lady only) then the percentage of single women to men is absolutely miniscule.. Probably as low as 10% are single females. So you would have to really really stand out among your male competition, many of whom are fake, inactive profiles or they're are set up by jaded & bitter married or newly single men who just want to unleash frustration on any good woman willing to talk to them. You throw all that in with day to day living, kids, careers, longer than 20 minute travel to a date etc & I'm amazed that most ladies even bother when all they'd rather do is kick back on the couch with a glass of wine & have their feet massaged in silence & obligation free while they watched SOA or the bach... At least that's the conclusion I've come to 🤣 Good luck my friend, we all need it... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have listened to a few. If I listened to everybody, I’d be a lunatic. With some contradictings others. The name stays. The profile picture, says. For reasons I’ve said on here. I do send better pictures of myself, in my pg. when I send a message. Yet some don’t seem to want to red that. First, no guys going to question a femal user name. Whore. Plenty of guys would say yes. Slut, even more guys would say yes. Cum in me. Well her inbox would be full. I’ll explain gain. Wangdangdoodle is just a song title. Secondly. Your limb. Well, go figure. So many fucking women on this site, who do judge books by their cover. Which I’ll add. I do kinda understand why. They do get the choice.mthe way it is. Besides, you wouldn’t have a clue what my messages say. But you be the judge. I’m fucking over it. 8th September. Will be goodbye. I have better luck, pick up at the pub
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Supernova
7 years ago
I'm holding my breath for ya... Be ready my friend, be ready.
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RHP User
7 years ago
That escalated... - Posted from rhpmobile
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AKAHunk
7 years ago
Quoting 'Sweetjen7' you think the samurai hat is funny but honestly i have arouns 1.3 seconds to decide if i like a profile and tyours i dont even enjoy looking atTake our comments on board or listen to the cricketsYou asked we have said what we thinkyou are obviously doing something worong so what you think isnt workingHarsh but you did askYour name and pic are terrible i wouldnt even want to read the profile I honestly think you need to change your username (as you've suggested to Mr WangDangDoodle), there is absolutely nothing sweet about anything you've written on any of the many forum posts you've made lately. There's criticism, and there's constructive criticism...big difference.
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ocean_man
7 years ago
Things women have told me...… Most women don't like a cock picture as your main picture. They want a picture of you. The good news is that you are not one of those knobs with a picture of your penis in your only public picture :) But you don't have a picture of you either. You sound like a sporty guy. Have a picture of you being sporty. No need to show your face. Names are the same. It seems most women are not impressed by a cock nickname that references your genitalia. Your nickname has three words in it and two of them are slang for penis.Women and couples receive so much mail from single guys that it can be too time consuming to delve into everyone's profile and personality. If you don't immediately grab their attention by presenting yourself favourably you can hardly judge them for judging a book by it's cover.Your profile is not bad, but it is not making you shine. Hope this helps.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Well written. Nailed it. OP You asked for opinions and you got a wide range of responses. No obligation to change anything or a lot. Your profile pic and name is different and stands out and in this world of dic pics, chest pics, ab pics, nothing wrong with it. We are all individual and should do our best to remain so. I hope you dont leave and hope you dont take the comment personally but l know is hard to have a ducks back all the time. You and your profile make a varied contribution to the site so dont pander to the few tanties that some make for not taking their comments on board it's your profile, not theirs and has been shown some you wouldn't want to connect with anyway. All the best
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yep, what Annie said.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Tell automatic slim Tell razor totin' jim Tell butcher knife totin' annie Tell fast talkin' fanny Tonite we're gonna pitch a ball Down to that union hall Gonna romp and tromp 'till midnite We're gonna fuss and fight 'till daylight We're gonna pitch a wang dang doodle all night longTell poodle I'll tell him here Tell albert I'll see him near Tell old pistol pete Everybody gonna meet Tonite we need no rest We're really gonna throw a mess We're gonna break out all the windows Gonna kick down all the doors We're gonna pitch a wang dang doodle all night longTell fats and washboard sam That everybody's gonna jam Just shake it boxcar joe We got sawdust on the floor Tell chicken head till I die We're gonna have a time When the fish head fills the air Be snuff juice everywhere We're gonna pitch a wang dang doodle all night long
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thank you. I couldn’t be bothered writing the words to the song (wangdangdoodle). It’s not about dicks it’s not racsist, it’s not a lot of things. But it’s just a great old fashioned tune. By one of my favourites, Howlin Wolf. I chose the name. Because the first thirty or so, where taken. This song was playing at the time, on my iTunes. So I thought, yes. That’s different
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RHP User
7 years ago
If your opening gambit isn't working. Change it. See how that goes. Is it working? If not, tweak again. Sweetjen7 is right when she says she has 1.3secs to decide (it's actually 8 secs these days. This is from peer reviewed studies btw) on whether to pass or read further. PUT YOUR BEST FOOT FORWARD. Put yourself in others shoes. Ask yourself what do I look for? Do I look for attractive women with a beautiful pic? If so? Then put a pic that shows you in the best possible light. If youre the sort of person that doesn't lie on your resume then you're probably unemployed. Suffice to say, if you aren't going to talk yourself up, have someone else do it for you.... You need to gain a stranger's trust immediately... So do what it takes to get the trust. Apropos, to dick pics in public folder. This is weird but ever since I added my cock in my public folder... My flirt and message rate shot right up. I think people ostensibly say they hate it but actually require it haha they need to know they ain't wasting their time on a shit root. Maybe? They hate unsolicited dick pics from an unattractive and uncharismatic person I would wager... But every woman will say in public they hate the things they desire in private.... Human psychology hey? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
why not actually try to change a few things and see what the result could be? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Wangdangdoodle' Thank you. I couldn’t be bothered writing the words to the song (wangdangdoodle). It’s not about dicks it’s not racsist, it’s not a lot of things. But it’s just a great old fashioned tune. By one of my favourites, Howlin Wolf. I chose the name. Because the first thirty or so, where taken. This song was playing at the time, on my iTunes. So I thought, yes. That’s different Dang it I thought wangs and doodles were dicks :S
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Seachange73
7 years ago
"I wouldn't change your name, either....if you're happy with it. It's not offensive, and that's the main thing. There's other eccentric names on here. Take Obi..K, for example. Flesh out your profile with some things about yourself, and word it like you are actually speaking with someone...in a flowing, comfortable sort of way. I see you've made a start. It does take a bit of coming back to. And be careful not to rise to baiting on here....it never looks good." If you're happy with your name and pic, don't change them. Just remember that it may deter many people from communicating with you. Unfortunately. Yes, we're a tough crowd in RHP, specially for single men. Sometimes, you need to sweeten the bait for us finicky bees🐝 🐝. And as others said above, don't get into a slanging match with some people. Pick your battles. Some are not worthy of response nor extra palpitations. 😄 Remember, you catch more bees with honey rather than vinegar.😉 Best of luck. Hope things improve. Else check the talent in your local pub.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Don't take it personally. Much easier to connect on free sites or a pub. Or have a wank and a cup of tea, and do something more fun. I'm off too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
7 years ago
"Dogging Bukkake Not fans of property of both You seem to have not taken any of these comments on board and still have the same profile" Why does he need to appease your need for the profile change? Aren't you presumptuous that you are what he seeks? 😎 Honestly, if the OP wants bukake or dogging, the the should state it. I prefer his honesty rather than being a pretentious twat to appease anyone. What makes you so special? He may just appeal to others who are into these things. For starters, you're in the Gold Coast and he's in Geelong. Chances are Buckley to none that he'll meet up with you, assuming he's EVEN interested in you. You've given your pov but have no right to insist on those changes.
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Rosali
7 years ago
Who knows, You could get lucky and meet up with Wang Dang Sweet Poontang
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Seachange73
7 years ago
If you are serious about meeting people on this site, go to the upcoming Melbourne meet and greet on the 6 Oct, Saturday night. It's a social meet in a city bar. Register yourself on it. Show up, be dressed to impress your audience and have a chat and mingle with the. VIC rhp people. Friendly lot they are. Lots of interstate people coming over. Just watch out on freaky fun. You won't know what hit you.😱 But on the other hand, you can hear her coming a.mile away. Lol.😄 Your chance to meet and chstyto real people on this site. Lots of women too.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks seachange, I’ll consider it. Wow, must say, just looked at your profile. Please understand, this is a compliment. Very hot, umm
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wang. You are out if my search criteria for a nimber of reasons. Age, location but even if you ticked them. I wouldnt give you a second look despite pics, profile wording or name. You aren't verified. I deal with so many fakes and ferals i dont even bother with people who wont even take themselves seriously enough to get verified. I can block dozens of profiles a week across a number of sites due to harassment of some form. I wouldnt look twice at you due to the lack of verification. I hope it helps. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Then you wouldn’t look at many. With largest majority not being verified. I know I’m real.
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
What Seachange last said (cheque is in the mail Seachange). You will be made very welcome. Frankly, as a guy, your profile reads just fine. Don't change a thing. Not even your name. Brings an amused smile to my face at least. There's plenty of guys here with names like bigcock4u69 etc that have lots of listed female and couple friends, and stuff all other information. You have made an effort, and filled out all your profile and interests too. Distance is a killer, but I am on other sites too, where they do have local meet and greets to you also (ie held in Geelong). Melbourne is not far and vice versa, considering all those that commute, but then again, for something private, many do only want someone within a few suburbs away at most. To your credit, your reply rate is still way above mine (when seeking a private date/meetup). Except when I'm sending Meet & Greet invites, of course... :P :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Surely the first thing you should do is proofread your profile. I gave up counting how many spelling and punctuation errors there were. That on top of the poor formatting...would be enough for me to hit the back button. These are easy fixes. A better picture is another easy fix. Mike xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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Checker
7 years ago
I personally don't mind your profile. But, if I were a Woman on a dating sight I'd be playing it on the safe side of things if I thought a guy might own a Samurai sword. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sooooo… WangDang - the 8th of September has come and gone. Are you still with us? (I hope so)
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’m still here, as a premium memeber. I’m tipping I’ve got my dates mixed up. I thought, the six months was due then. Obviously, not
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RHP User
7 years ago
Was one of my favourite days in Japan. To visit the Samurai museum Where the rich Samurai showed their armour and colours I always thought the Samurai where the best fighters. Well it’s how it’s been shown to me, in proper gander. Oh how so wrong. It was their ninjas who where the warriors and fighters of their lords. The Samurai Just some uselesss info for you
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Checker' I personally don't mind your profile. But, if I were a Woman on a dating sight I'd be playing it on the safe side of things if I thought a guy might own a Samurai sword. - Posted from rhpmobile I think wang is from the ancient and globally feared "Velvet Samurai clan". he never wields his mighty pork sword in anger. Actually I dont think he has been wielding it at all lately :S
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RHP User
7 years ago
Definitely the profile pic! Just a bit scary! - Posted from rhpmobile
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imjustmetassie
7 years ago
think your picture says it alllov from me
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
My ears were burning, I have no idea what you're talking about I'll be my shy, delicate wallflower self as always 😂😂 But while I'm here, Wang for most of that 6 months you didn't have a very flattering dick pic as a profile pic so that probably has a lot to do with it. Oceandreaming not sure what you're talking about. Your photos are great. Nice smile. And no we don't all use filters and lingerie, l take shit photos 😂. What you see is what you get.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have to disagree with the comment that you live too far from Melbourne and your past it at 54 . Am inundated with men wanting to travel over 2 hours for meet ups and am closer to 54 than 50 . It’s your picture and the ridiculous name, eye rolling material at its best ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah change your picture, and you will see hordes of scantily clad women clambering all over themselves to impale themselves on your mighty sword! Ok back to reality, that reality is there are just too many ninjas. Your picture shows individuality and a sense of who you are but generally from my observations of a lot of ladies profiles (not all) is that the friends list contain more 6 packs than Dan Murpheys Its a buyers market, buff up or bail. :D
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'bblonde' I have to disagree with the comment that you live too far from Melbourne and your past it at 54 . Am inundated with men wanting to travel over 2 hours for meet ups and am closer to 54 than 50 . It’s your picture and the ridiculous name, eye rolling material at its best ! - Posted from rhpmobile You are femaleHe is male. Men will travel great distances for sex. And age is no barrier. You are firmly in the sights of 18 to 80 yo's
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah mate, dont feel too bad. I think theres plenty of us in the same boat..... and the chicks' boat may be less crowded. Hang in there, or don't, but dont let it get to you personally. Good luck 😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
Give it time mate, I went months without a single message response, then met 3 people who I’ll never ever forget. Just be patient.....and listen to advice 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Women are spoiled for choice on dating sites Wang so anything off putting in a profile and your done. I've heard of women rejecting men simply because they have a foreskin. You may be having a bit of fun with your profile pic but it could scare many who look at it especially the sword.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thats right i dont. Way too many fools. I get so many messages anyway so it hasnt hindered my success. Yet being verified doesnt guarantee anything with regards to turning up, but it only takes two seconds. Us chicks get inundated. Its one way i can be sure your pics are yours and not some feral just looking for a wank. As for your name, interests and profile pic i wouldnt judge any of them negatively. I actually like wangdangdoodle... Good luck anyway. I was just trying to be helpful. With all the timewasters i get 2 seconds to get verified is nothing and another step to proving youre legit. You could try some hookup trips to melbs where there are more people. Maybe attend an event too. I go to Syd myself. Novacastrians are in lower numbers and more hesitant on meeting up. Annoying, but meh whats 2hrs down the rd? Nothing for me. Their loss huh. Im having fun. They can stay home. It works for me.. Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Aren't people's reactions to your profile and msgs an indicater. Quite clearly how you have presented yourself in your profile and msgs hasn't worked for you and that wont change for you unless you change, meaning, change your approach and profile. (Haven't looked at your updated profile If you have updated). At first sight your current profile pic looks .... dare I say it ....hideous (i.e. Not What We are Looking For). Excuse our ignorance but not everybody will understand your reasoning with your profile pic. You sent us a msg and at the time your profile pic was a "Not Flattering" "Dic Pic" and as others have said about your profile, your msgs portrayed exactly what we thought "you're all about me". So many single guys like you, ask for advise, ignore advise and then it all becomes everbody else is at fault. Life in general is a reflection of yourself. In your case you want people to be interested in you but you are or were all about youself. Good Luck.
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RHP User
7 years ago
**Is the not so sweet Jen gone..? Yayyy for RHP!*** I also wanted to point out a few more things to give perspective. If I set up two dates for sydney on a weekend I can get in excess of 100 expressions of interest. So I dont care for the guys who waste my time, ask for pics or tell me its my fault, have a sook about that fact alone or are rude. I just dont have to worry. Its no skin off my nose. So maybe despite your need to feel to express your individuality being a little more sensitive to what this environment is like for women is an idea.Personally I support your want for an individualised profile pic... Could it maybe not be your main one? Maybe plain chest pic is the way.That and get verified. I dont think the name and your interests are a concern.Considering all the rubbish I see I wouldnt flinch. I think the events are a great Idea. You could even plan a holiday in Sydney and play up. People in Sydney are much more open to hooking up. Dont send unsolicited dick pics either.It is soooooo fucking annoying.Avoid silly questions Like why are you on here. Its obvious. Some of the shit that gets done to us chicks, not hooking up is a minor problem. Then we get told its our fault for picking the wrong guys. Yes we are responsible for a mans behaviour. It is of no surprise to me that women dont care to be on here. Absolutely none. Some sensitivity about this from men like yourself may help your cause. There are heaps of idiots on these sites and women shouldnt have to put up with it at all. Personally I think everyone should have to prove they are real. Wont stop them though, but at least when I see a pic collector or a ghost down the street I can be a bitch.LOL I have no nude pics. I am fully clothed in all my pics. Those profile ones are the most revealing. Thats how selective I can be... Hope you get a root soon !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
The male half here. As my wife and I both use the account I see a number of messages that males send her. Just based on your profile pic alone it is doubtful you’d get a look in. And then when you combine it with the many basic spelling and grammatical errors that you have displayed through this thread, it is an impossible uphill battle. Want more success? Get rid of the profile pic and proofread before you send. It’s a woman’s world on RHP so if the many women on this thread are advising you to change the pic then it is advice worth taking. If you don’t, then you can’t expect anything to change. Brett - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well for starters I’d ditch the profile pic it’s kinda creepy and screams serial weirdo which I’m sure that’s not who u are, just saying, I’m kinda brutal where I tell it like it is lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Spelling! You can’t tell a ‘tail’. Unless you’re giving instructions to the hind quarters of an animal. You can however tell a tale. A small thing, but bad grammar, spelling and punctuation can be turn offs for some. I understand the profile pic, but most female users do want to see a face pic. I’ve never worried about people I know seeing me here. At the end of the day, they’re here too. Plus what’s to be ashamed of? So maybe there’s a better one? One without the sword? It’s a bit intimidating, I’d say. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wang, the bushido thing is surely fascinating but not the best hook maybe, dont listen to not so sweet people...Oceandreaming, Seachange and Countrytouch have the right of it....and a constructive, helpful attitude...be you..if that puts others off thats a good thing...remember...if you whittle yourself away to please others pretty soon theres nothing left of you at all......good luck.
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
Few women profiles have perfect spelling and grammar, as for many couples, some are poor but still successful, but because there are so many men, you are under much more scrutiny and you need everything right to make positive contact via messages. Perhaps English is not your first language? Other people here (especially some women) have mentioned they do have less capability in spelling etc, so have asked for and received some* understanding. Some have had learning difficulties. In any case, if you come directly to social events, people can talk and see you in person, and in essence skip much of your frustrations. Just turning up and making the effort puts you above many others. Even if nothing goes further, it's a confidence boost at least. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Online dating is certainly way easier than things used to be, particularly if you’re living in a small population....whether it be a small population location or a small population niche With you you’re fortunate you’re in a big population city , it’s just that the vast majority of women here are looking for a more mainstream guys. Some of the advice you’re receiving is about shifting more mainstream No doubt being authentic has its advantages. Particularly if you are looking for something ongoing. You want to match with the right type of person for you Just if there aren’t many of them here in the rhp community...you need to be patient Think of it as being a bit like living in Oodnadatta. You’d probably accept it’s going to be slower going than if you lived in Sydney. But it doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you or how you portray you Just be patient or switch to finding ‘your tribe’ by participating in social groups of people with similar interests. They might not be as sexual or open minded as the rhp community but I reckon it’s an angle worth exploring
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RHP User
7 years ago
Biggest issue in here as many sites like this is ratio of women to men is grossly lopsided. Women in here tend to filter and narrow down search criteria to gain best outcome. Also there are a portion of womem who just dont give a fuck to reply to messages. These are the self entitled self abosrbed women who you dont want to meet anyway. Then there are those portion who do view you and maybe reply maybe not. So out of a limited number the chances of actually meeting someone are very slim....and the chance of meeting a woman who wants what you want and you have chemistry....well....shit. Nearly a unicorn. So in conclusion....the women stay as guests while us guys fork out every month for the priveledge of getting treated this way....riddle me that.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
The issue isn't whether your pics are good enough, the profile name, the content of your profile etc. The issue is you are male on a very male dominated site. The dozen women or so who actually use this site are so swamped with messages they don't answer anymore. And there is no way of telling when someone was last online so it means you might be trying to connect with someone no longer here. Dead site as all these sites are, full of fembots and dead profiles. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Stick it too them hotmale69...haha
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
And men reckon women whinge. Fuck me 🤦♀️ Naughtyman you can see when the person was online on the desktop version just not on mobile l believe. Carry on 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I can only say I do prefer man with foreskin. How is that ?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I had met a man here I had great fun with for a year. No matter why I had split up , I can only say this is a way to find someone as I did when you are not ready to commit to partner who may wants to move in . I never regret this approach. I have to say at that time I got more request I could handle even I was over 40 years old. I never thought I would get so much response and I have to say I got a little overwhelmed at that. However not everyone is fake and be patient if you can. .
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RHP User
7 years ago
I found this whole conversation very Interesting reading, glad Wangdangdoodle put himself out there like that As a trending topic I say it’s an important one for all to read hope it garners more attention - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It’s all about marketing mate. You can have the bet product / service on the market but if you aren’t advertising appropriately to your chosen market then you won’t generate any interest. Mystique is more sexy than...... your current Samaria profile pic. You’re a fishermen right? Well, as time has told you might be using the wrong bait or fishing the wrong area to find what you are looking for. I can honestly say that you asked, the fish have spoken...., either take the advice or don’t, that’s completely up to you. Just don’t go being rude about their advice and no one is attracted to complaining. No matter which pool you fish in, that character ain’t helping. Best of luck bro 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
oceandreaming you pretty much seemed up this whole site 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Having viewed ur profile- for us- we’d not even glance at ur profile because of ur profile pic- that’s what ppl first see. Then reading ur blurb- lots of spelling and grammar mistakes- yes ppl do take note of these things. If ur after casual meet ups- ppl don’t care what ur hobbies are- they want to see genuine pics- not just dicks- see if there’s a mutual attraction. We first go on pics, then read what ur looking for- then only bother to message if those boxes are ticked first. Otherwise wasting each other’s time - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
No one is stopping you from leaving! I must not of got the memo you did when signing up that stated "you will meet people" you know what, your own fortune is at your fingertips. Most women gain more satisfaction talking to a well mannered, smart individual. Dont get nasty because you are not getting attention. Move on cobber. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sweetlove
7 years ago
I was thinking the same that what’s wrong with my profile. Thanks for asking this question, I can get some good suggestions and improve hopefully 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’d like to thank you all for your feed back. Strange I’m still here. I thought my membership run out early September. I’ve made a few changes tail to tale, yes sill me. If there’s any other grammar spelling mistakes. Please do tell. I can’t pick them up, for looking Cheers again Wang Oh yeh, I’m trying to change my profile pic, bloody iPads
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RHP User
7 years ago
If your an older man or out of shape and you show your face please smile because that is something to be attracted to that will draw some people in if they dont have a physical or age type. I didnt read your profile because your profile pic made you look really angry and it didnt entice me to read on. My advice is use a smile to attract others and I'm truly sorry if this sounds harsh... I'm just being honest. Good luck and i wish you all the best - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your profile pic makes you look like a miserable git....your attitude on this thread only confirms it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Point taken. I used what I had on my iPad. I’ll look at changing it 2n2 I try to be honest and say what I think. I could pretend to b3 something I’m not. Funny, you’re the first to say that.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wang it takes courage to ventilate your lack of success in a public forum...when the amazingly insightful and hot (really ...just ask them) are gratuitously critical remember anyone paying attention knows it says more about them than someone sincerely seeking a hand..
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RHP User
7 years ago
Better pic up now. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Better pic up now. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
You have a private photo that guest members can’t see and you’re not a verified member. Those are the first 2 things we look for in a couple on here and I assume women just looking for a man would be the same. It’s not that hard to take a pic of yourself with the message and send it to RHP for validation. Guests can’t see any photos deemed too naughty (ie, penis, sex photos) and I won’t even click a profile if they have the blurred stock photo as their profile pic. Geelong again would be a factor. If you want to meet Melbourne women don’t put Geelong. But in saying that, nothing worse than talking to someone whose profile says Melbourne and when you go to meet up they say Geelong. I’m not travelling that far for sex. So only change if you can make the travel to town. Mrs CT - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Think ive got a better chance of meeting a girl on the local jetty when im happy fishing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
don't know why you wouldn't take constructive advice, the men like you username the women suggested an update, to me it just reads like your all about your wang, and you may well be but some of the ladies may not do they don't bother
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RHP User
7 years ago
Put up a profile picture, i know for me if there ain’t no profile picture ( head shot) no not that head you know the one! 😂 For me if no picture i just keep scrolling? Try that maybe....
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