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When do you stop being bi curious

March 28 2025

When you look through profiles the most common thing I think you see is ,women who themselves or their partners list them as Bi curious , Mrs b also had that ticked and when asked about her sexuality she would say not bi sexual but bi curiois , but recently when on a sexy holiday someone put her on the spot and asked a few questions she could answer definatly she liked women for foreplay and fun ,happy to touch or be touched by women ,but dicks were her main event at the end of the day or night ,to which she was posed with ,so your not curious, you know and are happy to be touched or touch women so your bi sexual aren’t you ,, to which she had to agree ,because she absultly knew what she liked or didn’t like, no curiosity at all ,who else ,man or women just defaulted to curious and not straight up bi sexual and why ? Mr b trying to create one new topic at a time

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FeistyFatty

one year ago

I always thought it was when you stop needing that "buffer" person/people and start enjoying that other side confidently and independently.

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Ourmalibu

one year ago

My thoughts are…Bi curious means you’ve never ventured down the ‘Bi’ path yet but are curious?! Whereas bi sexual means you’ve had experience and like it. I also thought bi sexual meant you’d have a relationship with the opposite sex…whereas Heteroflexible meant it is just sexual (no option for that tag on Pie). I could be wrong there? 🤔 I don’t particularly like labels or ‘boxes’ but it seems necessary these days.

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boobsandbusted

one year ago

Ps I should add ,we have changed Mrs b to bi sexual from that very conversation ,

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Alex_Lover

one year ago

Great question. Margo enjoys playing with women, but isn't 'into' women. She's not up for solo play, and not after a romantic relationship with a woman. So she doesn't consider herself bisexual enough to put that on her profile. I tend to agree. I think bisexual points to someone who is interested in romantic liaisons with the same sex. Not just some play in group environments, comprising both sexes. I'm even less in the bi camp than her. Happy to play a little with guys, in group environments. Not sure if that furthers the discussion, but that's where we stand - Alex.

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SafeHands2024

one year ago

Every man I’ve met on RHP who identified as bisexual has probably been more in the heteroflexible camp (excuse the pun). They all said they are not attracted to men, or seeking romantic relationships with men, however, they are very comfortable in varying degrees of sexual intimacy with other men. To quote one guy “For my cock, a warm mouth has no gender.”

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Brian_Breynolds

one year ago

I think people have taken bi-curious to mean what you’ve described there. Basically slightly bisexual but more into straight play. Bi-curious should really only apply if you’re interested but haven’t tried it. Then there are the categories bisexual, heteroflexible, experimental, etc. Maybe there should be another one that is bi-appreciative or something? Like saying “That’s a nice cock. I don’t want to put it in my mouth, but I can appreciate a nice cock when I see one.” I think I’d fall into that camp if it existed. Anyway, there are so many labels. Mostly I think we should be able to feel into what we like, where our boundaries are, and then communicate them. Because experimental (and even straight) can mean completely different things to different people.

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RHP User

one year ago

Why do people call Bi guys Gay?

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nightingale8

one year ago

I’d actually prefer if women stopped putting bisexual if they had never been with a woman before or only done so with their male partner present. Sure, experience doesn’t make you bi (and vice versa) but inexperience captures a lot of women who just like the idea. It’s a bit of a turn off when it becomes apparent they’re doing it for their partner etc Before anyone gets upset it’s just a preference not a rule

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MrandMrsEss

one year ago

It’s not so easy to define. We find the “experimental” choice a good one.

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2_Perthguys

one year ago

Your sexuality is what you identify with not who you have sex with.

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MsSuperFoxy

one year ago

I asked my gay friend when does a Bi courious man know he really likes cock sucking cock and isnt bi curious? He stated: "When they stop asking a person for their name. In the gay scene, men don't care who they fuck". Ms Foxy 🤷‍♀️

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BellaMelb

one year ago

I think of “experimental” as “interested but not sure”, “bi-curious” as “likes to play with the same gender but has a preference for the opposite gender” and “bi-sexual” as “likes both equally”. A lot of bi-curious women like to play with other women but would never date one, for example. That’s my take anyway.

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RHP User

one year ago

Having gone though that journey of finally being comfortable to call myself BI rather than curious, I felt it was when I went back for more after I had satisfied all my “curiosity”. After topping, bottoming, oral etc, I knew what I liked. So I still meet with guys but know my preference to top rather than bottom etc.

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privatebutterfly

one year ago

I think it's a case of not having a suitable option to select. I have played with women in a threesome or moresome) situation and feel I have passed the stage of "bi-curious". But I haven't, and probably wouldn't, seek out a 1:1 connection with a woman (basically I'd miss d!@k). So while technically, I could be called bisexual, it feels a bit misleading in the sense I would potentially be wasting the time of someone doing a search for bisexual women and making contact with me. It also doesn't account for genders outside of the binary M/F. For this reason, I usually prefer queer if asked to label my sexual orientation, but that's not an option on RHP, so 'other' was what I ended up with.

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The_Perfect_Pair

one year ago

I list curious because I can’t see myself going down on a woman, but I want one to go down on me. I also enjoy kissing and touching women in a foreplay setting. So what does that make me if not “curious”? Straight? Bi?

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BiPeggyGal

one year ago

Another term some may feel better with is "heteroflexible" ???

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