RHP

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What makes you, you?

August 12 2018

Kinks, fetishes, turn ons, fantasies. The question is not so much what, but why? Talking to various people, I've always found it intriguing as to why people like what they like. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Primal play, D/s role, flogging and bondage because variety is the spice of life and when I’m with the right individuals.. I can play with all of the above at the same time haha Also sensual play 1on1 because nothing beats a steady rhythm of erotic pleasure and tantric sex mixed with deep kissing and heighten senses - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    A good question, one to watch with interest. I have often wondered if people from non-Western or non-European cultures have the same fetishes and fantasies. Do you get a villager in Afghanistan fantasizing about threesomes for instance, or innuits with spanking fetishes? Did Neanderthals have fantasies about pegging?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    As far as the "why" goes, can you pinpoint it at certain time of your life? Or is there something or someone that changed your mind? Or is it something that you've always thought about. Part of the reason behind the question is because sometimes there can be negative stigmas associated with some kinks or fetishes when more often than not, it's not the case - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    I was always a bit different. But not one single shrink has been able to answer if the priest that interfered with me had some/any/major effect on my outcome. Perhaps l was always going to be gender challenged. I've accepted it as just is

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The answer to the literal question is the egg, it didn't come from a chicken. Chickens came about through evolution. My point being is in some cases you'll never really know if a traumatic experience had that kind of affect on you or not, obviously you've accepted to a degree it and let you be you. Do you remember a time before that where you thought you were "different" or that you wanted to change in a sense? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Very large breasts. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • HotNightsGC

    HotNightsGC

    7 years ago

    Kink, group sex, orgies and female play. Because life is simply too short. A view I wish I’d had years ago but was stuck in an emotionally abusive marriage and a bland traditional sex life. Thank goodness for lightbulb moments 😃 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Came from a conservative strict background and when the light came on must have had the wrong/right reading material in my hand. Saw what could be and wanted it. Kink, group sex and orgies but as much chance as a snowflake in hell of finding compatible people to form a group willing to indulge. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Get invited to an event that caters for it. - Posted from rhpmobile