RHP

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What do you call...?

July 16 2017

sex

A younger woman who like to okay with men and women 15 - 25 years her senior? Uhhhh... Asking for a friend 😊🙊

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Play*

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    8 years ago

    Im sure plenty of people would be ok with that as long as its a consentual mutual environment and she was respected - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    8 years ago

    Always keen - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    8 years ago

    For a girl who likes older guys is a panther - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    8 years ago

    Smart? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    8 years ago

    A woman who knows what she likes 😉

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    8 years ago

    Lol yeah basically. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • 225Special

    225Special

    8 years ago

    We would call her straight away....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    A kitten - Posted from rhpmobile

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    a smart woman ,who isn't limiting herself, mr b

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I definitely agree, but is there an actual term? I'd love to put it in my profile 😋

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    8 years ago

    Who can do what she wants ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Often 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Sexy deviate 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    8 years ago

    Is PANTHER Hehe i googled it - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    8 years ago

    Csn I have her number? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    We call her awesome - Posted from rhpmobile

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    Golden or platinum unicorn - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Woman, who likes the company of older men. Wonder why the almost disparaging terms seem only reserved for the reverse.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Ohhh I like that! Platinum unicorn. I think you've just made up a new term 😁 aaaaaand I'm stealing it!!! Frolic - I do like panther too.... I was definitely talking more about couples than just just men or just women.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    all these responses. Why is it that cougars get a whole different reaction. Cougar threads start, and in come the smart arse remarks from older men and defensive remarks from women, what I'm reading here is great humour and 'niceness', same people come into this topic and cheer on/support the reverse situation lmao The men respond better for obvious reasons 😉 the women, I'll never figure them out. Anyway, very interesting read. I'll be following with interest 😃 This is exactly how cougar topics should go, happy, friendly, acceptance, no judgement, nobody feeling threatened? See what I did there. Laughing so hard right now, definitely need more coffee. I'm on it 😛

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Funny, but there are similar topics on here about guys who prefer younger women. Apparently guys who prefer younger women are insecure about their age and having a mid-life crisis. Should they luck out with younger women, those women are being used and manipulated. And yet here it is a sign of liberation! Which I actually think is true by the way....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Sorry to interrupt your thread, had to point that out. Practically every cougar thread ends up getting deleted solely due to the insecurity of said/sad individuals. Clearly they're accepting of your choices, as am I, good for you. I also wondered if there was a word. LetsFrolic> Panther is (I think) the word given to older men with much younger partners, not a word for her, and is also used for older women with younger partners. So the younger woman it seems has been forgotten about. That sucks. We'll have to invent a word 😀 I'm officially a Jaguar, might try that. Has quite a refined/classy ring to it, nah that wouldn't suit me 😂😂 I'll be back with some ideas for names Great topic btw 👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    wow that escalated quickly hahaha 1. If anyone is berating you over your sexual desires, the onus is on them. Their problem, not yours. 2. Nothing wrong with healthy debate, persecution of someone simply because of their preference is low and cowardly. Sometimes people can be quick to play victims though. Standing up for yourself builds character. If someone decided me liking older people meant I had a complex, I would suggest they refer themselves to the song 'you don't know me' and I would also laugh and throw some sarcastic wit their way. Because I have a sharp mouth and love to use it. 😁 3. Older men liking younger women has been clouded by misogyny and sexism for a very long time. Please forgive those women who have probably been hurt by those things from the minute they were born, but have faith in the younger generation to learn from your mistakes ✌✌ Plenty of respectable older men on this site, and they tend to take rejection much better than the younger men. 4. There are plenty of forums, topics, groups, websites etc for cougars. They are literally everywhere, I don't believe you are under represented or held down by society. Younger women get a hugely bad rap on these forums from my experience. Being said to have less experience, confidence and self esteem. Which in regards to myself is so untrue is laughable. We all get stereotyped, I see it as a challenge to not only prove yourself but to change and open minds. Keep rock in to your own tune! 5. The original post was about me... If anyone missed it 😂😜 Xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Fit_Geek' 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile That AFL joke went straight over my head hahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Just got into trouble for two older (married) men having affairs with younger female employees. Nothing to suggest anything illegal, but interesting they were forced to walk, but their younger paramours got to stay. Personnely I think it was no ones business and unless they were doing it in the office in work hours, it's up to them and the wives to sort out as they see fit. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Sorry to interrupt your thread, had to point that out. Practically every cougar thread ends up getting deleted solely due to the insecurity of said/sad individuals. Clearly they're accepting of your choices, as am I, good for you. I also wondered if there was a word. LetsFrolic> Panther is (I think) the word given to older men with much younger partners, not a word for her, and is also used for older women with younger partners. So the younger woman it seems has been forgotten about. That sucks. We'll have to invent a word 😀 I'm officially a Jaguar, might try that. Has quite a refined/classy ring to it, nah that wouldn't suit me 😂😂 I'll be back with some ideas for names Great topic btw 👍 No need to be sorry, it's apart of the discussion for sure! I liked the suggestion of platinum unicorn... I'm stealing it and it is mine hahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Fit_Geek' Just got into trouble for two older (married) men having affairs with younger female employees. Nothing to suggest anything illegal, but interesting they were forced to walk, but their younger paramours got to stay. Personnely I think it was no ones business and unless they were doing it in the office in work hours, it's up to them and the wives to sort out as they see fit. - Posted from rhpmobile Ahhh I see, I don't watch/read mainstream media anymore, so I've missed that! I agree, unless they worked under them, then I could see the issue. But none the less I'll repeat what I said before. I think that older men get crucified because of the implications of what it use to mean before women had more rights. That's another topic entirely though!

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    Age is just a number ,not representing too much more than that ,some oldies are good to go and hang with people half their age ,some Dont and some young ones love hanging with older people ,some Dont , each to their own ,we say I love being told to act my age by Mrs b ,at times when I having fun with our boys ,so I can retort back NO !! Life's to short It2 you just keep going girl, call yourself what you want , and wear it proudly like you do ,you rock that body and use it to your advantage ,good on you Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    ..is a blessing. The term you're looking for is Panther . The reason I know this is because a younger girl I was seeing asked me if I thought she was ? Id never heard it before but I knew what a Cougar was and figured it must be some other type of cat. So when she explained, I told her yes , looks like you're a Panther alright ?This put the biggest beaming smile on a face I'd seen in ages.. lol.. So yeah, now we both know.. Here kitty... 😜 lol..

  • CompersionCouple

    CompersionCouple

    8 years ago

    I have exactly the same taste in my man as well as my play partners. Now I know that I'm a "platinum unicorn" I love it. Thanks - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Mr b 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Why do we need names for everything these days? We are who we are, just enjoy being you. You are... just you!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    My man ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Due respect but that is a ridiculous thing to say. You have a name don't you? I assume you have one in real life too? lol Names/labels/tags/brands/account names or profile names/band names/groups & organisations Red Cross or Richmond Tigers, Nike Let's do it 😜 Need I go on? Names are used to save time and when used for advertising, a whole explanation can't fit in the opening line or spiel of their ad. It's the same on here. One word or a short phrase captures the interest of those searching for that specific thing, even those who aren't 😉 but more than that, it defines who we are. If we want to be defined, that's up to us, none of your business or the person next door or the guy who runs the shop down the road. We label ourselves because it works, simple as that. I still say pictures speak louder than words but pictures, along with a brand name, so to speak lol very effective 😛 What isn't effective is when we get treated like a paid sex worker. Message I received yesterday asked if I was free to hook up/meet a few days later, having never spoken to him. Yeah nah he got a lecture haha randoms I do in RL, not online, safety etc.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Before the usual non judgemental suspects judge 😉 that last sentence, who cares, I can't even be bothered explaining. You see what I did there? I'm not trying to sell myself to them so I couldn't give a stuff. Make sense?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    the correct term was 'discerning' ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I'm with OP, I'm gonna go with platinum unicorn if I ever get asked again haha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    No offense taken and I appreciate your view. I understand what you say about advertising and if something works then use it. All good and I agree 🙂 I don't however think my post was ridiculous, just my opinion that's all. Yes we have lots of names for all sorts of things and that doesn't worry me at all, but just every now and then it might just be nice not to have a label for everything. OP, sorry if my post took your thread off on a tangent, please carry on!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Attraction can take many forms.. when I was younger I preferred older women, now I am older I prefer women younger than myself. No idea why, its just the way it is. I am sure its the same for women. There are no hard and fast rules to attraction (although some are obviously taboo and some are abhorrent to most ie below age of consent.). I do like the term 'Platinum Unicorn' but when you start to label things, then people will start to attach stereotypes and judgments to that label. It is what it is .. whatever makes you happy (as long as you arent hurting others).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I have no concern what so ever if people want to stereotype me on here. More than OK with it so long as I get to call myself whatever I want 😁😁😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Its just an arithmetical value, more an issue in mind over matter. Maturity is what counts! Of course its not open slather and for good reason!!! We have had the pleasure of a 19 year young mature lady. Hubby did not have sexual penetration with her, for us its all about erotic massage. Sensual stimulation, creating a really intimate atmosphere "moment " masturbation. The difference in age heightened the experience, she was seeking out her fantasy!! Just because people are of similar age means nothing!! A meeting of the minds is what counts. Its comforting to have a partner who has had similar life experiences, but we are all on here for our own reasons, seeking different experiences and to make that happen, it takes all sorts and all ages. Happy hunting 🤗🤣👋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    There seems to a bit of consensus around 'panther', so let's run with that for the time being. Then we have the more well know 'cougars'. But there is a whole pantheon of predatory large cats out there, so what other categories might there be? Civets, ocelots, leopards, tigers...maybe not cheetahs ahaha... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    By 15 years, no one has ever batted an eyelid. Well not to my face.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    One of the blessings served up to be wasted by men with refined taste! - Posted from rhpmobile