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What do men think......
June 30 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
More about the person for me personally. As far as my respect for them as a person it makes no difference to me if we sleep together on the first date or not. Making someone wait feels so artificial sometimes and at other times very natural. Who says I would sleep with anyone on the first date anyhow lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wouldn't do ti with everyone either, but if you feel an attraction...whats the point in waiting.Theres all this stuff around about waiting and in particular for women to do so, as the man will respect you more. I mean come on isn't this 2013?
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RHP User
12 years ago
then its all systems go, if it isn't then it's not a drama. And yes life is short, its over before you know it...literally
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RHP User
12 years ago
If it does....Hell yeah
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RHP User
12 years ago
If she does not want to sleep with me on the first date or I don't want to sleep with her how does it matter. its just fun. The very important part independent of sex is whether you want a second date. We are no longer children hanging for a root. Its about meeting interesting people and finding a new friend, a lover. Its easy to get a root its hard to get a good friend.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If the attraction and chemistry is right then to me it seems false to wait just to "prove some questionable point such as I'm not too easy". But if it takes a bit of time to sort out if there is real attraction or chemistry there then by all means hang out for two or a few dates. As it has been said life is far too short to refrain from pleasure for the sake of appearances. On the other hand it is far better to go into a first date with your eyes wide open and you antenna up and no expectations
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RHP User
12 years ago
Depends if he's the type of Shmuck that will use it against you if things get serious, or wants a cheap reason to break ties.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sometimes everything clicks and you just play, but if timing can allow waiting and then setting up for a 2nd date with play is super fun :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
If it's one of those dates that just fire, eye contact, hands under the table, you just know you want to fuck them and soon then hell yes go now and go hard.If it's because there's crap on telly and he has a pulse then no.A real man will respect your honesty and passion, not your ability to deny what you both want, just coz.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't always last! For me, I find the excitment and anticipation of meeting someone new face to face (especially if you've been texting and chatting etc) often skews the first impression. If you're still keen on/after a second meet then I believe you have better indication (personally). However, that's just me, I prefer things to be ongoing not one offs- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
oh the "life's too short" "its there's connection" radda radda radda.. History hows us that we came a long way when it comes to understanding the art of courtship.. whether if its a fling or long term, it does not matter. Then the 60's came... and everything literally went out the window.. the 70's didn't help.. and since then we been left to pick up the pieces, and figure out the "rules" that worked SO WELL pre-1950....Meanwhile, we been bonking each other blind on the pretext of "life's too short" .. (a phrase which got caught since the 80'mid 70's by Shirly Conran's "Life too short to stuff a mushroom"), which argumentatively no doubt create problems on the health and social line. Oh why didnt we listen to our parents?Yes, condoms do exists, but that doesnt really help us much .. does it? you still ended up getting stalkers, god's gift too everyonekind, bitter grumpy lil shits, etc etc etcso, no.. life IS not too short....You all need to step back and think about what you are doing lol
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
It would make no difference to Mr Cheeky or myself - what people do is their business and not ours, we are here to judge what others do in any way shape or form. We are had sex with people with whom we have met on the night....We take more notice of how a person or couple treat us, not how they conduct their sex life. If they want to tell us about it, great we like a great sex story xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have no predetermined agenda other than to enjoy myself Simply, I Flow with the Go..... but if I have a preference, it'd be not on first meeting. Experience has taught me that options stay far more open that way. But I suspect more RHP guys will say yes to it, than no. That's just the nature of the site. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Spartanis' oh the "life's too short" "its there's connection" radda radda radda.. History hows us that we came a long way when it comes to understanding the art of courtship.. whether if its a fling or long term, it does not matter. Then the 60's came... and everything literally went out the window.. the 70's didn't help.. and since then we been left to pick up the pieces, and figure out the "rules" that worked SO WELL pre-1950....Meanwhile, we been bonking each other blind on the pretext of "life's too short" .. (a phrase which got caught since the 80'mid 70's by Shirly Conran's "Life too short to stuff a mushroom"), which argumentatively no doubt create problems on the health and social line. Oh why didnt we listen to our parents?Yes, condoms do exists, but that doesnt really help us much .. does it? you still ended up getting stalkers, god's gift too everyonekind, bitter grumpy lil shits, etc etc etcso, no.. life IS not too short....You all need to step back and think about what you are doing lol Quoting 'Cheekyarses' It would make no difference to Mr Cheeky or myself - what people do is their business and not ours, we are here to judge what others do in any way shape or form. We are had sex with people with whom we have met on the night....We take more notice of how a person or couple treat us, not how they conduct their sex life. If they want to tell us about it, great we like a great sex story xxx Life is too short and I personally know all about it, having lost my soul mate. So I don't throw the saying around like most people do willy nilly (oh sorry for my loose sense of the English language again) Life is too short.and not too sure what you mean by I need to take a step back and think about what I'm doing with a lol on the end...you mean laugh out loud?I consider all my actions and choices. I don't just give myself to anyone that comes along and fancies a bit. I am choosy and thankfully most of my choices have been good one. So before you go an assume...remember it makes an ass (as a lot of men seem to on here). Get your facts straight as to what the question is really all about. Its about society today and how we women are still made to feel. I say fuck society and I'll do what I damned well want and god love the other women on here who are having a good time.Just interested to see if 'society' and some men had arrived at a place that warrants us being in 2013. But with a comment like you have just made, Id suggest not everyone has
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not everyone who roots around is a nutcase. Maybe you need to make better choices
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RHP User
12 years ago
People at a consenting age can do as they like.I have never really been one to judge .If two people both consent to sleeping with one another so be it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mis_understood2' Don't always last! For me, I find the excitment and anticipation of meeting someone new face to face (especially if you've been texting and chatting etc) often skews the first impression. If you're still keen on/after a second meet then I believe you have better indication (personally). However, that's just me, I prefer things to be ongoing not one offs- Posted from rhpmobile I pretty much know from meeting someone within the first three seconds, on whether I will want to continue on with them. Whether this is a friendship (non sexual) or a potential longer term thing. Not all sex that happens on a first meet will purely be a 'one off'Why does it have to be? My current partner and I slept together on our first face to face meet, although we had spoken etc on the phone and messaged and are still together 2 years later
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RHP User
12 years ago
3 seconds
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RHP User
12 years ago
who really cares.Just sayin, we are not teenagers.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' who really cares.Just sayin, we are not teenagers. Why do people get so shitty about a question. If you don't like the question...why respond?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am not shitty. I just had an opinion. I agree with your post. If it feels right do it. Life is too short.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' I am not shitty. I just had an opinion. I agree with your post. If it feels right do it. Life is too short. fanks (blushes)
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RHP User
12 years ago
...something that happens to you, while you're busy making other plans..John Lennon
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RHP User
12 years ago
We will play on first meeting, but we have to have felt comfortable about them before meeting.
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RHP User
12 years ago
sleep with men,I always try as hard as I can to stay awake
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RHP User
12 years ago
more women should do it but use protection equality in gaining sexual knowledge or just being horny
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RHP User
12 years ago
Subject line asys it all!! You are over 18 and responsible for your own actions I hope. What a DUMB arse question!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Tight_Fit' Subject line asys it all!! You are over 18 and responsible for your own actions I hope. What a DUMB arse question!!! No offence but that is easier to say when you're a man and has no concept for the intelligent question askedThanks so much for your input
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