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What am I missing here?
January 14 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't engage in web cam sexing or chat room wanking or those things, it kind of makes me laugh, and I don't want to offend anyone by thinking I'm laughing at them, most sex things are ludicrous, and I totally understand the desire to be both exhibitionistic, and voyeuristic. OH, I lie. Sometimes, usually when I'm procrastinating about an assignment, I get onto a live webcam sex site and tip the girls and couples to perform for me. Interaction, services for change, and this totally satisfies my love of perving.Phone sex is a bit strange too, I certainly have a hard time trying to describe a fantasy scenario without bursting into laughter. It makes me giggle. Although, with text, I am prone to exchanging ideas about what would be fun to do to try, and I guess that could count as sexting?? Just, at the moment, with uni and work and other commitments, I'm pretty busy. I don't get a lot of time for the "dinner & show" experience, and I also have no interest in spending that much time with someone I've never met before.I will meet for a quick "no obligation" coffee/drink to check chemistry, but it may be awhile before I actually put out.@MischeviousLad - the water view comment was uncalled and completely bitchy and MrsP wonders why newbies don't hang around.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I used to assume it was more the mining sites in perth that were the instigators a bunch of horny men sitting in the vans/sheds?? and getting it which ever way they could....but a lot of people have kids and whilst their asleep its the only time they get to be sexual.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think it comes down to putting yourself out there as much as possible. Be it in person, online etc.
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RHP User
13 years ago
All those mediums you mentioned are simply tools, spurn them or use them.Learn to use them to facilitate the outcome you want, if that's a meet great, or if it's just spraying the keyboard makes you happy, thats ok too.If you have heaps of time on your hands, sure do it the old way, but most people use these tools to zip through the tedium and maximise the fun time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I always seem to have trouble with Sextext . I've only got two hands:(- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' I always seem to have trouble with Sextext . I've only got two hands:(- Posted from rhpmobile I'm a visual person, so imemdiately pictured an octopus, phone in hand, member in hand, etc... made me giggle. Time to train those toes up to be useful.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' I always seem to have trouble with Sextext . I've only got two hands:(- Posted from rhpmobile Doesn't Siri help you with that?
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N4November
13 years ago
#next_pages_container { width: 5px; hight: 5px; position: absolute; top: -100px; left: -100px; z-index: 2147483647 !important; } Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'MisterGreen' I always seem to have trouble with Sextext . I've only got two hands:(- Posted from rhpmobile Doesn't Siri help you with that? Its only because I have a younger boyfriend who is a tech/apple/geek that I now know who and what 'siri' is!!! lol so proud of myself
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RHP User
13 years ago
even connect with others a continent away,not necessarily in a sexual way but sometimes.I have done both,I don't like cams but I enjoy sexting,phone sex and meeting in person too. The medium is the massage
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks Polar_Bear_Girl , I guess if I use my feet , it will be like a stranger is touching me ;) Meeka100 , another good idea . The sultry voice of Siri would make me think I'm in a 3some. My only concern is that I might fall in love with her ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am a hands on, face to face kinda girl......like to make the most of the spare time I have.When I first ventured into the crazy world of online sites I did spend sometime on msn , took me a little while to realise they guys really had no interest in meeting, they were just using me and the cyber medium for wanking.So now, I dont give out any of my online contacts until I have met someone in the flesh.Like PBG, I also found the whole thing very amusing and would end up laughing, not so much at the person, just the situation.As far as texting, sms.....cant really comment other than to say I did get dumped (just like in high school) because I dont have a mobile phone. Still makes me giggle that one .I can understand the benefit of this type of contact if your loved one or lover or both are away and it is the only way to keep in contact sexually....then I suppose it could be a lot of fun !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' I am a hands on, face to face kinda girl......like to make the most of the spare time I have.When I first ventured into the crazy world of online sites I did spend sometime on msn , took me a little while to realise they guys really had no interest in meeting, they were just using me and the cyber medium for wanking.So now, I dont give out any of my online contacts until I have met someone in the flesh.Like PBG, I also found the whole thing very amusing and would end up laughing, not so much at the person, just the situation.As far as texting, sms.....cant really comment other than to say I did get dumped (just like in high school) because I dont have a mobile phone. Still makes me giggle that one .I can understand the benefit of this type of contact if your loved one or lover or both are away and it is the only way to keep in contact sexually....then I suppose it could be a lot of fun ! I'm very visual, so cameras are good :)As for phone sex (etc), my limited experience is that one 'side' of the encounter has to 'give' (ie, be directing traffic, making up the story, keeping things moving), for the other side to let go and enjoy the pictures that are painted. Then it can be generous, and good.Both have to trust, I think, and suspend their sense of reality for it to work. I can't imagine that working straight off with a new connection.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Each to their own. I'm not into camming myself; prefer just a few messages via RHP, then texting, sexting (even sometimes actually 'talking' on the phone!) then meeting in person if it looks like we have some mutual interests (other than just sex). I'm a touchy feely type of person and enjoy engaging all my senses by meeting potential friends and/or lovers in 'real life'.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I like to meet real people and I am a hands on type of gal. Skin on skin. I have been duped into cybersex and it left me feeling used. If people want to do that type of thing then thats fine by me but I dont do that. ....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Basically unless it is skin on skin it is masturbation. All the rest are just various masturbation tools. Happy sexting all you wankers !
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madotara69
13 years ago
Maybe the chat/camera rooms suit people that are tied down, so to speak. We have been to the cam part of this cyber sex world, and had a ball. Tara has a few guys that put a show on for us, and we for them. It spices things up for us and them I guess. It is fantasy mixed with the reality, and all harmless fun that appears to be shared by many others.I imagine that it is only false if you are not you with any of it.The live cams at the least give the chance to introduce ones self or selves, to say here we are Shaggers, this is groovy so lets get on with it then. It is the forums that really get techie, get one thing out of place and the lectures can have you screaming out for help. hehe, lol, lmao and :D whatever that means. i think it means, you are delicious, or a dick head. We are learning, especially me.Hope this helpsMado, Tara xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Handmaiden,it is not just masturbation...it is mutual masturbation
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RHP User
13 years ago
...VibroMagic app for your iPhone, unfortunately unavailable for those on the 'droid.What ever happened to...decorum?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would much rather spend our precious time with real people, rather than text/chat/webcam stuff. It just seems to be really hard to find people who are willing to actually meet in person. Most people you talk to on the site seem great then when you try to organise to go out somewhere for meet'n'greet drinks, all of a sudden they have no time until a week from six months from now, or the conversation just stops and you never hear from them again. I dunno, maybe they just chicken out when it comes down to the face to face end.
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RHP User
13 years ago
just cant do cam....makes me feel just....bad ! lolitd be my luck and i would stream my sex camming to my son on skype.....and watching a guy wank is ...sorry guys...just ridiculousif im going to make you cum...i want to beeifit from having you there....selfish that i am loljust is not sexy to me....but hey..go right ahead...ill do the housework or a book ..or somethingphone sex..im hopeless..." and then you ..um..put um..giggle...you know um..."sexting however Im addicted to...love getting naughty little messgaes ...love the written word...very sexy and arousingand the traditional hands on stuff im not bad at either......
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
We love technology but cybersex of any description just gets in the way of real encounters and you can waste so much of your time here as it that we just have no time for it. Or inclination, much better to just meet in person.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Those things are like modern foreplay so that you feel a sexual energy between each of you BEFORE you go out for dinner and seal the deal!!! Of course if I was dating someone for a long term relationship in mind my actions would be way different. With a booty call I am not planning to marry them and don't have to act a certain way or be deemed a hussy or whatever
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do all of the above. Why? Because I can't get a date, pretty much.Phone sex: I love hearing a man moan. It gets me off.Txt sex *now called sexting: I do it when I'm really horny at work and want to stir someone up and be stirred. I'm already wet at work so might as well make it more interesting. See how many customers notice my stipples.The others *now called cyber sex: I love watching a guy masturbate watching me masturbate.
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