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What Do You Want
January 15 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
.. with all the benifits. LWB I think RHP is just a "fuck site" to those who share that mentality. Nothing wrong with thinking that if that's how they want to roll. For others its more than that. I think RHP has a good diversity of people for it to be what you want from it. I like RHP because I like to think members are open sexually but in saying that I think most people are, if they're further educated and willing to experiment with sexual desires, needs, fantasies and have the emotional and sexual maturity to do so.. IMO :-D - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
The ratios of horny men to cynical women is way out of wack for decent hook ups to be common. I am sure they happen - but i guarantee they are rare. This is an every now and then it happens and even then every now and then it is actually good site. I find the riff raff here amusing and also use it for fishing out a particular fetish. Any thoughts of a higher level interaction on here is in the same league as a lotto win. They happen but......
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Wanted a best friend, a soulmate and a partner, and I found him 😊 but I didn't meet him here, but have gained some precious friendships with those awesome wise ones from here. Hence, RHP is not just a sex site in my experience. Femme, there are countless threads asking for exactly the same question as yours in the Forums! It's so frequent that there's almost one thread about this question made every week! 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Can change often, and therefore this site suits me perfectly. I can find fwb and lovers, and verrry occasionally fb (the number of times being related to having a itch which needs to be scratched rather than something I regularly seek). Really, its what you want that matters, and making sure your profile reflects that. If you are not after fbs then state that clearly. Many use it for sexual friendships- and platonic friendships. My life is so much richer because of the beautiful friends I have made here; sex does not always enter into the friendship equations.
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RHP User
9 years ago
In every sense... I found somebody on here that was a wonderful FWB for nearly 2 years. I would love to meet somebody again that I connected with mentally and could have fun in and out of the bedroom. I am not at a point in my life where I am ready for a relationship. Not having much luck recently though....the words "ongoing" have frightened a few people off. Then there have been others that began with promise, but then conversation could not be maintained beyond a certain point or there was no chemistry on meeting. I have met some wonderful friends through here...that was an unexpected bonus. As others have said before - this site is what you make it. I have been on and off here for nearly 3 years and I have seen a number of people eventually succeed in what they were looking for. Good luck Femme....hope you find what you are looking for xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
A cock on-call at the ready when I am 😊 I did find my man here but unfortunately we have not been able to find another one from this site. He has, however, found a handful of gorgeous people for us from another site, with delicious results! Mmmmm 😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Other's minds and bodies inside and outside of the bedroom ...Moreso now, I've been open to a lot of things since meeting people from here, some things I have to put my L plates on and go slow... but that's ok, we've got time ;) there's always new experiences to be had with different people, sexually or not. - Posted from rhpmobile
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TakingMyTime
9 years ago
I would love one of each please but alas this is Mackay and not finding either - thank God I am planning lots of travel this year - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Marriage.... White pickets.... 15 kids 58 grandkids... And.... A fish called Wanda lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Stiry, you crack me up! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'happy_fun Hey there Wembley Man, Seriously you think this place is pretty fucked up? Why are you hear then, may I ask? Perhaps you just like having a positive input in to the forums?
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Sawadee
9 years ago
A friend with benefits and a fuck buddy are lovers... I can't have one without the other. If we are going to fuck , I need to be sexually and mentally attracted. I can and do have a friend who I like to fuck without a commitment.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Stirry'...A fish called Wanda... and sparkiling repartee As @Braedom alludes in (most all of) his post a couple of days ago in another thread, I too seek to clearly identify and establish a compatible worldview before I'd take things offline. Simpatico is sometimes not easy to find... Physical attraction alone is not all, and not enough. I find inability to relate intellectually and experientially holds strong potential to suppress any spark or douse any flame. (Tolerance is a good virtue, to be sure. I can get along with a vast array of different people. However, I don't think the best intimate relations are founded on tolerance. Tolerance in this context suggests to me a lack of passion).
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Like Shells said, you reap what you sow 😜 and with an attitude, or a mindset, like yours, everywhere you go will be fucked up, not just on RHP! 😁 Your profile name doesn't reflect your vibe, in this thread 🙃 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's hard, I get it. I'm sorry you're not enjoying yourself. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would have to disagree on all points, apart from finding the riff raff amusing.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Part of the reason I stay here is because the place is fucked up...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well from personal experience of meeting different people on this site I'd have to say most people I've meet aren't looking for more then just a FWB. In saying that sometimes the best relationship start out this way, then develop into something more forfilling in time. Alot has to do with your own or partners living arrangements. (You or they may have kids? ) Certainly believe if someone wants to be with you then they will. Simple as that so why fuck up a good thing 😉 Keep it fun for all. Nothing wrong with being honest if your looking for more, For me the key is being upfront and not rushing or putting preasure on anyone.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would like to find a lady that just likes foreplay and not too bothered about intercourse. Seems to be as rare as rocking horse shit atm. I have found and had some good times with couples, a few women and several guys from this site. This was when I just needed some sexual relief/fun (and I still do). Nearly all are now non-sexual (for various reasons) but some I still remain good friends with. I have one very good relationship with an Asian lady (you know who you are) from RHP that has never been sexual and I treasure that. I. like many others, need/want sexual relief (getting my 'rocks off' if you like lol) so I guess a Fuck Buddy is basically why I'm here.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Conversation, connection, chemistry and cuddling.
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RHP User
9 years ago
As the book says;.YOU CAN'T CHOOSE WHAT YOU WANT BUT YOU CAN CHOOSE WHAT YOU DO ABOUT IT.
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Sawadee
9 years ago
Cocooning , Caressing , Cissing , Cumming ? I know , I know , I spelt one wrong ... 😜
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RHP User
9 years ago
The 4 "C"s would suit me at the moment. You can't always get what you want , But if you try sometime You just might find you get what you need
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RHP User
9 years ago
MsJonesy and Cucknshells covered it for me. I've met wonderful people - a lifelong lover and best friend, and some wonderful people who have become very important to me. I'd love them to be a little closer - I seem to have geographical issues with the people I connect with! - but mostly I'm really happy to have found a place where I can be ok with letting all of me out to play. :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Like others mentioned above, this site is what you make it. I have friends from here that have literally changed my life, and others who I simply love. Sex wise, I am looking for a lover - want the connection, joy, emotions as well as fabulous sex, easy! 😂😂 Just when I decided to only use pie for the forums, and seek my lovers elsewhere, up popped a couple of delicious men who had been right here under my nose the whole time 😉 No clue what the future holds, but that's ok - the journey is a lot of fun 😈
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RHP User
9 years ago
I find the forums funny, entertaining, insightful and interesting, but essentially my ultimate objective is to find a 'fit' for us.Unfortunately it's a 'needle in a haystack' effort as to date I've only seen one potential couple I'm not really winning lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've found some amazing lovers through this site. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Knows exactly what he wants (me) and won't ever give up the game! Far out wish u lived close, can't help but fantasise that one day you will ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Good friends, whom with I can frolic on adventures with :) Delicious in mind and body 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Someone adventurous and is loads of fun :)
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Sawadee
9 years ago
Quite often our ideals don't match RHP reality. I think that's why it's easy to become despondent if things don't come as quick as we like it to. Don't give up , there's someone out there looking for you guys too.. Best of luck...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'jayme2' Quite often our ideals don't match RHP reality. I think that's why it's easy to become despondent if things don't come as quick as we like it to. Don't give up , there's someone out there looking for you guys too.. Best of luck... It always seems that one partner in a prospective couple is a perfect fit and the other....not so much. That in addition to wanting other requirements e.g. starting with soft swinging etc is kinda making foran impossible find.The wife has been expressing an interest in finding a unicorn but again, another needle in a haystack Thanks for your comment and we will persevere :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_in_Sydney' Quoting 'larocker00' Someone adventurous and is loads of fun :) Couples profiles that really belong to couples, and that don't have pics straight from Shutterstock. I was just imaging all the troubles That Guy From The Photo Frame, and his Attractive Model Wife would have if they ever went on a dating site or similar now that people use Tineye
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RHP User
9 years ago
Does it have to be a couple? That's okay, I can grab a guy and pretend to be a couple 😘😉😘 I'd fit right in around here lol 😇
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Does it have to be a couple? That's okay, I can grab a guy and pretend to be a couple 😘😉😘 I'd fit right in around here lol 😇 Lol, I'm sure you'd fit very snugly between the wife and I
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haha ooh 😊 if she didn't like me, she wouldn't even know I was there. What am I saying, yes she would, I'm not exactly quiet 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
...I would like to think that one could have it all and all in the same person. I know that you could apply a separate definition to each category but there are times when I want a woman who is a friend to be my lover and that same woman to be one that would whisper in my ear ''let's fuck''. There's a lot to be said for finding the ''total package''. Best.... CM
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RHP User
9 years ago
A nice honest sexy couple who are what they say they are would be a nice start......
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's certainly not a 'fuck site' for me. If unfulfilling random hook ups were all I wanted I would stick to tinder. Here, given the patience, I can find intelligent, experienced men with similar kinks that lead to much better sex and a lot more fun. Fortunately I don't even need to open messages from men to know if they're just looking for a fuck. Some of the best lovers I have had I've met through this site or others similar. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
"I want, doesn't get" I would like...........good friends and good times happening often.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Friend With Benefits or Fuck Buddy, but for me it's "a needle in a haystack" to find somebody who will like man at my age. I had interested lady's, they said they "love older man, the older the better" but when it comes to the meeting they chicken out or have excuses why they can't come.
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Starlet1
9 years ago
Is Friends we Fuck 😉 We want to meet and form ongoing friendships with amazing, intelligent, hot people we fuck regularly 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It is a sex site but you can meet a partner as well, but there are so many assholes on these sites it screws it up for those wanting say regular sex or multi partners or couples, honesty is very short on here as I have found by quite a few people on this site, if your not interested just go away and let others have some sexy fun with no limits lol.
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RHP User
9 years ago
As a happily married naughty couple who have been together for 18yrs, have a beautiful little family and the house with the white ficket fence, so to speak, we have found RHP to be the perfect conduit for meeting, getting to know and selecting compatible, like minded couples and women whom love to enjoy the arousing, lustful, playful, experimental and mutually satisfying experiences a "bedroom fun" addition or additions has to offer. Granted we do have an exceptionally extensive blocked list but every site has weeds that need to be removed so no real surprises there. If you know what your looking for, have an open mind, are willing to effectively communicate and be smart, there are amazing people here on RHP. IMO, RHP is a swingers site, not a fuck site. Yes we swingers like to fuck but majority of the single component of the profiles here change the dynamics. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Naughtydouble
9 years ago
We all know of a Night club or bar that you can pick up , is it any different to a site .No its like a garage sale site there is lots on offer something for everyone , Yes you might have to shop around for what you want and if you are patient you will find what you are looking for. Untill such time enjoy the adventure - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
It's not just a sex site to me.... I've found my twin Flame, my exquisite lover of 2+yrs (met on date finder), my travel buddy, my best friend, my flamboyant girlfriend, my amazing TV friend, my joker friend, my friends in chat room...the list is endless! So it's not all about fucking, or getting the next root- there's meaningful relationships/friendships to be found here. I know, I have it and more. So, I'm now deciding, seeing I have such a great fulfilled life, had some great adventures, met some great people and have meaningful (long term) relationships and friendships....do I really need/want to be here anymore? Ms Foxy
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beachgal20
9 years ago
Seems always the ' possible ' ones are interstate....
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am new on this game but looking for longer friendship obviously FBuddy to start looking but long term. Please contact me anytime interested in Potts point NSW - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'd love a FWB. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yep I think that about covers it. Just don't need the white picket fence of Stirry's. My thought was more ten foot mesh with razor wire? You can never be too careful! Yes the ratio is pretty bad on here, yes I think a woman could find their special person on here if she works her way through the pile of maybes. May take a while. At least you know that the sexual side is covered before you go into the day to day stuff. I think experience teaches us that the sexual aspect is way more important than we first thought as those teenagers embarking on our first encounters. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'd like to find a FWB. Unfortunately it seems what I would like isn't possible 😕. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Two_Warm_Hands
9 years ago
A FFM polyamorous trio is what I'd like to find or create here (yeah, I know, every man's dream), but most importantly I'm looking for openness, honesty, intellectual stimulation, shared interests outside of the bedroom, someone to hang out with, someone to journey with, learn, explore, grow, be amazed with. The labels and everything else are all negotiable. Whatever suits the situation. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks, I resonate with what your saying. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
"Poly A FFM polyamorous trio is what I'd like to find or create here (yeah, I know, every man's dream), but most importantly I'm looking for openness, honesty, intellectual stimulation, shared interests outside of the bedroom, someone to hang out with, someone to journey with, learn, explore, grow, be amazed with. The labels and everything else are all negotiable. Whatever suits the situation." I love this, the honesty and openness of it l. Thank you. I am facinated by the Poly lifestyle, though bi comfortable, I am not bisexual (at all). I'm intrigued both as a highly sexed woman in an MMF poly relationship but unsure if I have the chops to back up what seems like a Utopian fantasy. While there are so many aspects to the lifestyle I do appreciate, me, I get mono focus when I'm connected or in love, I have blinkers on. I'm not sure I have the emotional fortitude to share my lover or be shared. This is at loggerheads with my distain for ownership within a partnership. Expansion of experiences, connection & love even is appealing but every Poly relationship I have witnessed personally has resulted in one feeling rejected in some way. The "third" never quite making it within the primary bubble. I got sidetracked, mostly I just wanted to say thanks. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I wish people would write proper profiles/messages. Tell us what ya want?! So we don't have to guess. (moving along). I've approached ppl who seem like a possibility only to be shot down. Wow! A simple no thanks would suffice. And Hello, if it's such a huge deal maker or deal breaker .... Why is it not in your profile?! And the other side of the coin... Guys! Note: General profile that reads I'm into anyone, not a particular type and open to anything, unsure about orientation... Pretty much just after a fuck. Turn off, right?! And don't introduce yourself with a "hi, how you doing?" I'm sure I'm not the only one to ignore such boring drivel. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...if someone wanted to have sex with me. Beggars cant be choosers I guess. Get action elsewhere on normal dating sites. But on the sex site... well that cherry remains unpopped. Ultimate prize would be a FWB that is perfect in every way for both of us. Its a nice dream. Think I will hang onto it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Romance is key to any relationship, Without passion it's not worth it. Having the right woman in your life at the right time can make your life beautiful. It hurts like hell when it ends, but it sits easier in my mind than a relationship based on bullshit I'll give you a hint. It starts with M and doesn't end until one of you dies. Give me a lover and I don't give a fuck about anything else in the whole world. I know what reality is, My emotional state is the only part of me I trust any more. Yours, Christopher - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
A perfect fit! When your both into each other and sexually " in sync" that no matter what we tried we always successfully got the best results!!! I know, I have been told I should be very nice thankful that I had that! As we all know! Its hard to go back to something when you've had far greater! In my case, I've slowed down greatly as I'm not inclined to take on anything if I feel that its less than! I guess I'm standing my ground now and will forever now look at the quality and never quantity! Quite some long periods of drought! And forever optimistic for when the rains come once again
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RHP User
9 years ago
Short for time, but, this topic says it all what us "nice" people want! Maybe we should just friend the people who think the same way as us in the forums, rather than looking at profile after profile, or checking the so called "Relevant" list? We want the old fashioned lover, or mistress. We all know what we're basically here for. If you want notches on your belt, to try every single kink possible or push women around, I don't want anything to do with you. I just want a "nice" lady who wants me, naked! Simples! MD4
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RHP User
9 years ago
Someone who knows exactly what they want and isn't afraid to tell me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Easy! I'm recently out of a relationship and I just want to find a decent fuck! I find the whole getting to know you phase tedious so somebody I can meet with once a fortnight to once a month would be ideal to scratch that itch! Somebody who isn't up in my grill in between meets, who is genuine, kinky, respectful and fun. Who can host (as I would probably need to travel to meet) and is prepared to come here (2.5-3hrs from Melb) For me the better I get to know somebody and more trust is built, the kinkiest the play becomes. So an on going no strings exploratory sexual relationship would be perfect. And I truly don't mind how many others they are fucking, in fact that could be a bonus as they could be included too! Shouldn't be so hard to find.... right?!?! 🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
If only I was taller with more facial hair!!!! Would be an ideal arrangement!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
We want two other people to join our 'Super Awesome Best Friends Club' 😂 Another hot, sexy, stable, long-term married couple we can be semi exclusive with... so we can all get tested, trust one another, and fuck raw like rabbits on the regular lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...to get laid.I accept that it won't be with my wife.It would be nice to find someone who likes me, and has needs too.
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RHP User
9 years ago
We are mostly seeking couples to hang with and shag. Emotional maturity, sanity and a capacity for depth are important. We like to immerse our selves in the pleaure pool. Broad minded people that are a bit out side the norm and capable of an intelligent conversation are our jam. We do play with singles Boy gets lost in intelligent sultry ladies with a submissive bent, creative interests and a naughty disposition are a plus. Girl enjoys strong intelligent men that have a good sense of humour, aboud with charisma and character and know how to fuck hard. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Waiting - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Im looking for a lover. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm in the same boat Ideally, all of the above for me. The fantasy is a couple I will say too. I find it's couples, who at least reply. On most occasions.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Friends with benefits mainly - would love to have a girl, guy, and/or couple for regular meets that we really enjoy their company in and out of the bedroom. Given we're quite alternative in out nature, it's really hard to find friends like this with a swingers type kink . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'd love to have a few couples or singles that were chilled and just enjoyed having fun. Non judgemental, no preconceptions just good adult fun :)
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