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Validations - Yes or No ?
September 13 2025
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MsSuperFoxy
8 months ago
Validations are just a small snippet of people meeting. Just like 5 star reviews. Love them or hate them. There's real reviews to fake, then there's bragging (5+ validations) to humble achievers. Alot of people met and don't write any validations. I guess, one will only know if validation is true is not is by meeting face-to-face. But then again it's individual based. As they say; What's trash to others is treasure to others. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
8 months ago
Take them or leave them. They don't work for me. Connection is different for everyone. So what does it for one does not do it for all. Too many and it is a put off and the only ones that I will take notice of is about the person not their exploits
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sublime
8 months ago
I enjoy reading them as it’s a useful tool to weed out the fakes . Also gives me a little insight to what a profile enjoys and if we suit.
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boobsandbusted
8 months ago
Just another tool to help to see if the profile is real or not ,but not a guarantee ,I rarely read them for content as that is subjective ,but sometimes it’s fun to see a person you know, has left one and then think hmmm in a good or bad way good if it’s from someone you like or a group ,bad if f they are the opposite and you don’t like them and all their friends ,but it’s a tool in the bag that can be handy
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BlueSpark
8 months ago
They're too easy to fake. My partner and I received multiple requests to leave fake validations on our couples account in exchange for one, usually from single guys desperate to look better. If I know the person/people who wrote the validation, or if I know of them through a mutual friend, that means they're likely legit and more likely to be someone I'd enjoy getting to know. Otherwise it's irrelevant to me.
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FeistyFatty
8 months ago
I don't display them or read them anymore, I don't like everyone knowing who I've played with and how etc. Profiles with 10+ displayed are an instant turn off.
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YouTarzanMeJane
8 months ago
Tasteful validations are ok, I guess. But explicit ones are an instant turn off for me.
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55SexyandSingle
8 months ago
I think a tastefully written validation is okay and can help determine real from fake (in some instances) … But as others have said already, too many validations, or validations that are too explicit are a huge turn off for me personally. But as with anything, each to their own.
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Blueflamingo
8 months ago
I prefer connecting with people who have validations so I know they are serious about meeting, being a part of the RHP lifestyle and less likely to be time-wasters. It gives me an idea of who they are, and what they might be like in person.
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RHP User
8 months ago
It’s a no from me. If the profile I am looking at has hidden validations or have them it’s a bit of an ick.
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Thesunlovingsub
8 months ago
I like to read them to get a better picture of the person, but I also like to read what they write about others too, because I think that’s even more telling. I’ll always offer a validation to a man who deserves it, because I want other women to know he’s safe and sexy and I want him to have more opportunities to meet people 💕
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RHP User
8 months ago
I think validations should (ideally) confirm that the person you’re considering an approach for has relevant feedback. I would read them to check if they play rough and hard, for example. Others might want something else and this method can give confidence of intention. I agree with some comments - why have them if you hide them? It’s counter-intuitive to their purpose. It’s like having an art show with the lights off.
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TwoPisces
8 months ago
We tend to give more consideration to profiles with validations as it’s another level above being verified to weed out potential fake profiles and last minute ghosts. Our experience is that most people we’ve met, actually reflect their previous validations.
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RHP User
8 months ago
I think validations are stupid
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WildestDream
8 months ago
Validations are good. We are adult people and we all live a busy life. We all have the right to now if we will live a good moment or just loose a night of sleep
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Naughtygccouple
8 months ago
We find validations are useful for a number of reasons. Are the people time wasters or a fantasiser ? Omg the amount of no shows we used to get. Some people get jealous/Ick with seeing validations. Great, you’re in the wrong game and not our people. It shares insight to our sexual alignment. If too many or not enough are an issue then you’re too fickle for us so it’s a great self filter. This is all about fun, laughs, chats, hot sex and desires. 🥂💋. Cool people please say hi
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S33kNud1stFr3nds
8 months ago
I find validations are great to get an indication of compatibility and if they are real or fake. Not all people we play with want ti give a validation. Some are social validations. Yes I do look for validations to basically confirm what people say in their profile. I'm always happy to give one in return. 🙂😜💋
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HappyZappy
8 months ago
I have mixed feelings about them. They are great to read as they can give a snippet of who the person/ people/ couples are. Especially when someone writes they are respectful, fun, GSOH, etc What can sometimes be a negative is when you get one and then you get a mass of messages and often unsolicited pics of genitalia etc. I'm always happy to write them for people who ask and I believe they deserve one
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EroticTouch24
8 months ago
Don't need to know what they did and with whom, but validations do help weed out the "tyre kickers". How about anonymous validations - both get an annotation that they have actually met on here, but we don't need to know with whom. Worst thing on this site is the people who are here and will never meet wasting other people's time.
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RHP User
8 months ago
If a man messages me and he has more than three validations, I block him immediately.
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RHP User
8 months ago
If we are looking to be validated for an ego boost, this is probably the wrong platform for you. But it tells me you’re real, you show up. Regardless if you have 1 or more, we are here for fun.
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Countrykinksters
8 months ago
Validations are good, helps the filtering process on which could be suitable. Sure i get that people may like to boast a bit but hey this is where we can really be free on here. It's a great lifestyle and there are some amazing people here. To share a snippet of good times for others to see is really nice. We ask first after an interaction if they would like one. Doesn't need to be posted but at the end of the day good times certainly can be shared 🤗 honesty on here makes a big difference 😈
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RHP User
7 months ago
I am on the fence. 1-4 I think is a good indicator. More than 10 is an ick
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sterlingarcher1
5 months ago
Validation is a tricky word. I mean each day when we are seen by another human being and acknowledged, it validates our existence. I personally don't know much to be honest as I'm rather new, but I can see how the concept was possibly created to help extend the authenticity of being real, and also "reliable" as you have possibly shown up and not stood up those who have validated you.
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