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Validations....

August 31 2009

I have had a skim of the forum and I can't see any topics about thoughts on validations, so apologies if it has been brought up before...   I wanted to know what guys and girls get from seeing a profile has been validated and how our views differ?  Do you see them as an indication that a person is serious in their intentions here,  is unlikely to be an axe-murderer, is going to be easy or that the profile is genuine?  Do you even notice or look to see if there are any validations?   Look forward to hearing your thoughts....   S xox

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I've never read any forums beside the WA and State, but for some reason the topic has only been brought up, that I remember, in the WA Hot Topics, twice. Once by us (Peachypear) when the feature was first introduced (no responses) and a few days later by Spartanis @ http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Forum/To-Valid-or-to-be-invalid-22559 which has responses cos I posted on it a few months later rofpmsl  You might like to check it out tho, I went into a bit of detail...But yes I do like to see validations, in all their variations, but people that take the time to send personalised validations are of particular interest to us.A note of interest is that you can't validate if you're not verified CheersMrsP

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thanks for the link Mrs P! I'm still finding my way around the many sections to the forum - it would actually be really great to have a search feature so you don't have to go into each state and section individually and manually browse through the many pages.  Great to see that you got your validation   Interesting that you can only validate if you're verified!     I guess I was curious mainly because I have a validation waiting for me to approve it and I wasn't sure if or how having it there would change the way people see me/my profile.    S xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You're welcome, makes it so much easier! I've spent a lot of time in the forums lately lolol and can still spend ages looking for something I know is there, this one was easy hehehe Couldn't agree with you more on the idea of a search feature. There's a few posts on the topic of a forum search in the 'Suggestions for RHP' thread by sexperiences in this forum ;-) My most recent thought was a word search tho I think my first suggestion on the other thread would be simpler to achieve. Yes, we did get our validation lol, and one that suits us down to the ground, always gives us a smile :-D I'm just sorry I wasn't that cluey on validations when I did MandN's so theirs is only a template :-S I did say happy birthday to M in the forums last month tho... I like that you can only validate if you verify tho we have missed out on at least one validation cos of of that fact. Pity that doesn't help with the idea of searching for those that are verified but it would help find those that can validate. haha I've been really curious how people see it and was hoping you'd get more responses. I remember now that there's a question similar to yours in the WA 'Secret Women's Business' forum which I also answered but validation really does not seem to be a popular topic... A tip: a validation only becomes permanent once you accept it, till then it is possible to delete it and receive another one from the same sender :-) We do like to read validations and make sure to read them if a profile has them. Also we post in our profile that we are a couple who like to validate our friends when the occasion arises lol! Cheers n hugs MrsP xoxox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I was going to take a validation photo of my dick alongside my validation numbers and stats ...... so people could say yes... that strangle shiny glowing nob with the lens flare on it really is on the end of Gazza's penis. But all this talk about whether or not we should show our dics on our profile has made me reconsider. *sigh* OK... I admit it. I'm really a conformist after all.   Since I have none, if I was seriously into validating (and into pissing people off) ... I'd open a new profile using a photo of my drunken neighbour and then validate myself. Meah, she drinks a lot and she is always smiling. lolz. Sometimes its  hard to tell if she is actually conscious... so if you see a photo of some completely plastered old hag sitting on her front verandah holding a sign with some numbers on it... and then a glowing reference from her in my validations section.... you'll know it's a set up. That's it.. Ive done it! The cats out of the bag now.    Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I read the validations, but for me it's just another way for me to confirm in my own mind that the profile is real.   Cheers,   Mrs MC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey Mrs P :)  I had a read of the secret womens business thread and agree....certainly doesn't appear to be a popular topic  LOL.  I guess I was just curious to see what judgements/assumptions were made if you were validated.  For me, unless they state something along the lines of "the sex was so hot", then I wouldn't just assume that it was a physical encounter and that they were 'easy' but more that they were real, genuine people who were unlikely to be axe-murderers *giggle*.    Gaz....as always you crack me up and I will be on the look out for a validation for you from a smiley, completely plastered old hag   Mrs MC...Thanks for your response - that's the way I see it too.