Validation

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I see a lot of people that have validations, some have many.   However, I have had known people on here in the past that don't "friend" or validate people they sleep with from here, because they don't want others to know who has slept with who.   I personally don't care and if I find somone worth validating, then I do so, but not everybody sees it that way, some see it more as a form of advertising who they have been with.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  you had sex with her/him/them !!!...what were you thinking   or you had sex with /her/them/him....wow !!!   Like most things it's all about personal prefence but some people are collectors of friends and validations,the RHP equivalent of notches on the belt I suspect and appear to be very busy.Sometimes I see the same face on many friends lists and validations.   But the other issue here, is that most women are guests,guests can't validate.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'Freya13' you had sex with her/him/them !!!...what were you thinking   or you had sex with /her/them/him....wow !!!   Like most things it's all about personal prefence but some people are collectors of friends and validations,the RHP equivalent of notches on the belt I suspect and appear to be very busy.Sometimes I see the same face on many friends lists and validations.   But the other issue here, is that most women are guests,guests can't validate.Female guests can validate...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  when I tried I was told I couldn't...hmmm ...thanks fun

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hi! WAusman:) It can be 1 sided for sure .I'm surprised tho Hun I would have thought the Lovers you've shared yourself with would be lining up to validate you because you do radiate some awesome vibes including a subtle sexuality mmmm very nice I must say he!he! Your others vibes tell me you're a Fun, Intelligent, very nice Guy too ..so much more :) I don't want you blushing or barfing whichever the case maybe so i mentioned the others too he!he! Personally I 'm not Interested 1 way or the other..I share something very Precious and a Unique Sexual Encounter with my Lovers ..It's validation enough to see the look in their eyes, smile on their face more mmmYUM!. The Public validation on My Page is just an Ego trip I don't need to have My Ego schmoozed..Besides I've more than enough Interest now. I'm slowly getting through to Chat and meet some very Cool Sexy guys ..I don't need more rushing at me.. not right now atleast he!he! Enjoy Cheers Lu :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I don't give a damn - in fact it's kind of a turn off. No one wants to know where you've been before - but that's me.

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  Paradisepair

  13 years ago

  I think a unique validation shows that someone has inspirational qualities and is clearly either likable or hot. And I do want to know where someone's been before (Scorpio... Likes to do my homework).

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We've validated couples we've met/played with/enjoyed, with no reciprocation from them.. We don't think any less of them if they don't. But you do need to be other than a "Guesty" to validate others.

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