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January 20 2019

We have been swinging for a number of years now and have had many awesome meets with couples. Meeting new couples and having hot sexy fun is just the best. People lying in their profiles is our main gripe in the swinging scene, it’s hard enough to find couples that click with both of us without the added pressure of the initial vetting process of reading couples profiles is untrustworthy in some cases. Misleading pics, misleading statements regarding smoking or equipment size or age etc. Our latest annoyance was a couple from Melbourne, who shall but shouldn’t remain nameless to protect the guilty. After reading their profile, reviewing pics etc they seems a nice couple to meet. We started to message and things were going fine, we are planning a trip to Melbourne so we thought they were a great couple to try to catch up with. The messages then proceeded to become a bit strange, taking only about him, about travelling a lot with work and wanting to make this year all about MMF fun. Our profile by the way only states we are after couple fun, not guys. Upon pressing the point with him regarding couple fun he stated they were playmates and each had their own single profiles. So it turns out that he was using a couples profile with her pics to con other couples into chatting with him in the hope that he could arrange MMF fun. When I told him if my frustration of his misleading profile he blocked us. Ha ha Ahh well back to the search for real couples for real fun. - Posted from rhpmobile

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justforthefun44

7 years ago

Name him there is heaps of them on here

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RHP User

7 years ago

Seems to happen a lot, as does other annoying stuff like people being overly pushy then nasty when told no for the tenth time, but there’s not much you can do about it. Naming and shaming invites a world of trouble you really don’t need and there’s often no way of telling in advance who you’re actually dealing with. It’s a constant process of trial and error on dating sites and in real life alike.

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MsSuperFoxy

7 years ago

The problem with online shaming it is easily visible, a form of entertainment for trolls and can have serious consequences. It is normally done by those who feel/believe they have been wronged done by, turn to a community of like-minded supporters who are willing to take up their cause. Use this experience as a screening tool when chatting to your next profile. Use your instincts. If there are red flags or your gut says something, or it is a bit strange (as stated), end the conversation and move on. Ms Foxy

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RHP User

7 years ago

Great reply and advice MsFoxy. We are of the same mind, we have had some great experiences from meeting otners from RHP and of course some not as great, We tend to focus on the better memories and as quickly as possible let go of any negative so as not to sour our own experience in the lifestyle. As for naming and shaming we would say dont invest any further into them/him as its a waste of your precious time. Instead send a flirt or .essage to a nice couple and enjoy your day instead :)

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RHP User

7 years ago

Thanks Ms Foxy, yeah we know the name and Shame thing isn’t the right way, we have reported the profile and left it with RHP. We will live and learn and continue with our sexy journey.

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RHP User

7 years ago

Hey Funcple74, yes we certainly have had more fun experiences than not and we are moving on focusing on the new fun times ahead. We usually have a laugh over the strange ones.

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Forus1234

7 years ago

If you are ever unsure..initiate contact by phone earlier, with both husband & wife on speaker so you are all there at once. We also use this method for singles, certainly weeds out the fakes & this has never failed us. Sometimes, it’s wise to invest your time with verified or validated profiles. It can be difficult if they are new to the scene, then you have to go with your gut instinct. Hope this helps. 😉

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RHP User

7 years ago

Not the first Won’t be the last Doesn’t say much about a person if they have to lie just to convince another to talk to you

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MsSuperFoxy

7 years ago

I have seen a lot of name and shame in the forums over my time being here, as a consequence, many closed down and removed and normally the shamer posting rights removed. It's frowned up by the mods. Not only that it removes the rights of the other to have their say. Shit like that should be kept private, not aired for all to see. I for one do not want to know who has been done by nor be involved or support a community gang up. Ms Foxy PS Good choice ND. :)

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RHP User

7 years ago

It absolutely makes my blood boil when you call people out on their bullshit and they then block you.

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