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Tips needed lasting longer
February 26 2018
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bonefide
8 years ago
Unsure as to any technique, buy your current support is very positive towards him. Best of luck to both of u.
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Used for premature ejaculation, along the lines of squeezing the head of the penis, firmly , shortly before he feels he is about to ejaculate . Google it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
After the first time he won't come so quick but will still be there for several rounds more - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Kudos to you for taking the time to talk this over as that can be a rarity in itself. DynamicCouple have mentioned one technique and there is also the start stop method. Your chatting and making your partner feel comfortable is a great start as relaxing and not feeling any pressure really helps. The best thing I could advise is maybe get him to purchase a fleshlight best male sleeve out there and price is good. There is one called the stamina sleeve (STU) which I found very helpful for lasting longer. There are also medications but I have no idea of those. You could also try withdrawing and have him pleasure you orally so you stay aroused and give him time to settle. So I wish you and your lover all the best and hope you find something that can help you both out.
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gazpacho
8 years ago
Really go for it, back up real hard against him and grind. Faster the better. Then yell “next”. Works for me. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
8 years ago
Firstly do you like to watch a man masturbate? If so then make that part of your foreplay.
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Katkat
8 years ago
I’d usually tell him to jerk off the night b4 he sees me the next day so he’s not too excited, but then again everyone is different. You could try get him to drink alcohol first, my ex FWB used to take cialis got it from his mum lol 😂. Also tell him to jerk off more constantly to get not too being excited. Other than I always pick a guy that always last to make sure I don’t feel like I’m flying or left me flying. But I would make sure to tell him to eat me more so I’m satisfied orally. I hate the feeling of not being satisfied & they’re in heaven smh 🙄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Do not take medication that is not meant to be for you, even if it is all across sex forums that this will do this or that a most unwise thing to do. Sorry SassyChic just one of those things that can be bad advice. The rest of your post, perfect.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Perhaps l should read the swearing thread..... 😂 But good on you for trying. There is nothing that works for all. You need to try everything and see what helps. Try numbing creme from chemist. Desensitises the skin. But sometimes it's a mental thing. It's a challenge though. Dunno what's worse, can't get it hard or cum to quick. Perhaps the nightmare is a bit of both. Half hard then cum. Then swipe left.....
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RHP User
8 years ago
My lady friend, Mrs Farmer, has a hubby who has always blown his load too quick for too long. That's why I am seeing her, when I can.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Mentally recite the current Australian cricket team..... in batting order. Hey, it works for me!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have heard that you need to be careful with that numbing creme as if it touches the womans pussy it will also desensitise her. I am presuming this is very possible.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Quoting 'pangolin28' I have heard that you need to be careful with that numbing creme as if it touches the womans pussy it will also desensitise her. I am presuming this is very possible. I'm presuming there will a condom in play. Which is the very first step in lasting longer anyway . Cream on then condom
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RHP User
8 years ago
You guys start. Then he is not to excited and then works his way up normally. 1.Go less on the foreplay. 2.Use different thickness of condoms. The thicker the longer he lasts. When you want him to cum quick use a skin or a zero and increase the lube. 3.Use less lube.
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madotara69
8 years ago
Exercising his PC muscle is the sure way of lasting longer, theres a few things, essential amino acids, a couple teaspoons each in a glass of something to make them taste ok, or just drink it in water and down quickly. Only worth taking amino's if you are not time poor for a few good hours, You both are in for the rewards and you will find some changes in yourself, increasing some sexual energy together and experience sex in a way ineffable. Wildfire Black oils infused with aphrodisiacs 4 in 1 Bath, Body, Massage, lubricant. Wildfire Enhance her, "....................................................................................." Spirulina, zinc and some ginseng, horny goat weed, stuff like that, his and her health supplements, don't need to go crazy, Spirulina over all if not for any others has all above any other of the vitamin, minerals, that comes from a friend of around 6 others in the world who share the level of expertise in the 'whatsies of the ofthee' of it all, last I saw her she had after years in the Blackmore lab, developed a way for vitamin and mineral binded together where one would no cancel out the other. She told us spirulina and no hesitation of doubt. Dr Gordon Fulvier who runs his staff of the emergency intake, St Vincent Hospital, put himself on public TV sending us a message, the single most problem of all his staff deal with people coming into emergency, dehydration. Told the world, promised the local folk. 'if they had taken drugs, drunk, pill party rave dance, whatever, if someone became unwell, get into the hospital asap, alone or bring friend in, no one will be in any trouble with the authoritative's, if we feel thirsty we are already dehydrated and can quickly decline into dangerous health issues, death. He needed the patients in better condition than they were coming in and if he tells us, listening is wise, so you need to keep yourselves hydrated well, lemon water is a very good thing, Beroca even and health well being...... A song list with a few hours of your favourite music playing in the mood of foreplay, sensual massage with each other, suck his cock until your gagging and mascara runs, have him hard and swallow his cock into your throat deep as you get, if he has his hips thrusting after an hour or so of keeping him on the edge, you will have stream of wetness down the inside of your legs, in return he lick your pussy teasing the clit, spreading your silky lubricant all over your pussy and all over his face and keeping you on the edge of orgasm, both covering your bodies with those Wildfire oils, the smell of them is uplifting, cock and pussy enhanced sensations, best of any. The Amino's.. A little organ in our brain seeks out those amino's and formulates them into the chemicals of arousal, ample supply the organ keeps on releasing arousal into the system, you both have this happening and you both will come to a moment into time around 2 to 3 hours foreplay edging on the rising levels of arousal meeting inevitably flooded with the chemicals, overwhelming and into heightened senses, a form of altered state of mind, euphoria, sexual energy, sensation becomes intense, time stands still, it's during these intimacies, he can truly feel the benefits of exercising, clenching his PC muscles, to hold off the urge of orgasm becomes less to the clenching of the PC forcing blood filling his penis, most sensation as the head swells past any usual erection and the more he exercise, the more to the pleasure, also the PC is developing and stronger sensation, control of ejaculation, the feelings with his penis filling a grip you have with a hand and feel yourself his cock swelling in the rhythm of the night, your PC muscles EB same same and squeeze his cock, squeeze let go and squeeze, let go, you'll be insatiable your body will be having the beginnings of uncontrollable involuntary muscle spasms, his hips in the beginnings of uncontrollable involuntary muscle spasms, thrusting his cock if near enough then into you and you both will at some point collapse exhausted, (hydrated) writhing subsiding holding each other in recovery, in bliss, in ecstacy of orgasm in heightened state, both leaking the fluids of having so fucking good sex, a moment together reminiscing, muscles still firing and twitching, everything feeling as about as good any feelings can be and coursing through both your bodies, intimately connected no need to speak, lay together as you both come back into relative state and eventually able to stand and whatever. You can both discover something so very special in each other and share together an adventure of extreme sexual intensities, still enjoy the opportunity the quickie any moment presents, both sexually in peak physical condition. Squeeze those nipples to exhilarating, slap to the sides of his cock it feels good, slap each other's arse, fuck each other with those PC muscles fair working, lucky you EQ, you are able to have so many types of vaginal orgasms, combining a clitoral into the ultimate throws of climax, only beaten if your arse has something or someone filling it complete and a hard cock pulsating by the PC muscle into your throat, tears of absolute conviction, determination and just feeling so damn good about it all and by all or just both. Truly liberated, it'll be seen by a skip in the steps you walk on by with smiling eyes. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was talking condom they still say it can still happen
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Supernova
8 years ago
You don't need tips OP, sounds like you're doing a good job! Guys learn self control with experience, for example, I always try and do the times tables in my head while banging away...3, 3's are 9 - 4, 4's is 16 - 5, 5s are 25.... Also a good whack of the shaft seems to work - porn stars do that sometimes, some light pain takes the pleasure away momentarily. Also, as the testicles rise when ready to cum, yanking them downwards can give you more time... And if things are really hot just....don't look down :S - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just when he feels like he’s gonna spray, bash him on the toe with a hammer.... I guarantee his focus will change lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
DynamicCouple said. LC.
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RHP User
8 years ago
A woman once unexpectedly bit hard on one of my testicles when I was about to come at the end of a play session and that stopped things dead. I wouldn’t recommend it for PE though as it Hurt like hell. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
That we have to do all this bollocks so we don't shoot in 2 minutes rather than just enjoy what we're doing!? I've mentioned it before in another thread about something that sometimes happens to me. I get super hard, super horny and sensitive but yet I have total full control of my ejaculation and can literally cum when I decide to. It feels amazing for me and really makes me feel God like!The only problem is I don't know how I achieve this and I can't do it all the time If anyone knows how it's possible please share
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madotara69
8 years ago
Any common ? Position Eye contact Her name Which God
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not sure what you mean by any common. Lots of different positions. I was able to change many times and in order for me to cum I had to really concentrate and thrust hard Sometimes eye contact As I said it's happened many times during my sexual career but the time I'm recalling at the moment was during a foursome with a couple from brissy. I actually can't recall her name. it was a couple of years ago and we didn't see the couple again, me and the ex has broken up since then although they are still on my friends list on Rhp Hmm I think the god in question would have to be Odin from Norse mythology
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' But good on you for trying. There is nothing that works for all. You need to try everything and see what helps. Ok, I will strive to try everything. Except the hammer and the biting. I'll give those ones a miss and possibly a warning before I yank on the testicles. Also it may take me a while to decipher and work through Mado's extensive list but the end result sounds like a worthy goal. Thinking about cricket or maths would be a surefire way to stop me cumming. Think you are on to a winner. Its not always, its like Pommy says, hit and miss. And he's not selfish, more than makes up for it in other ways. Also thanks for saying I'm so nice .....but my motives are not entirely altruistic he he. It must be annoying to be a man sometimes. I feel sorry for him when it happens as I know he finds it pretty frustrating. I've found this issue to be quite common TBH
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
What went wrong with that formatting
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NightToRemember
8 years ago
There are a few resources around some free, some you pay for. Google ‘Tantra ejaculation control’ or, for example, this course: https://beducated.com/courses/tantric-ejaculation-mastery/ There are also a few books around too, like ‘the multi orgasmic man’. They all recommend approaches and techniques that have no focus on squeezing various bits or distraction techniques, just lots of practice at not coming. It works. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
8 years ago
Quoting 'Pommyfucker' Not sure what you mean by any common. Lots of different positions. I was able to change many times and in order for me to cum I had to really concentrate and thrust hard Sometimes eye contact As I said it's happened many times during my sexual career but the time I'm recalling at the moment was during a foursome with a couple from brissy. I actually can't recall her name. it was a couple of years ago and we didn't see the couple again, me and the ex has broken up since then although they are still on my friends list on Rhp Hmm I think the god in question would have to be Odin from Norse mythology You would have had Frigg looking in as she sat at her spindle weaving the destiny of man and gods alike.
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NightToRemember
8 years ago
Have a look at Tantra and Tao. Both disciplines examine how to channel sexual energy for spiritual enlightenment, and both consider ejaculation detrimental so have a range of approaches to ‘lasting longer’. There are courses and books around that draw on both Tantric and Taoist teachings to guide ejaculation control. Worth a look! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hawt1
8 years ago
One technique I used in the past when I was trying not to cum so soon was to think about something horrible, maybe like a dead cat in a bag... the smell. Another was biting my own tongue really hard.Lately I have the opposite problem of sometimes being unable to cum at all or only after extremely vigorous thrusting. I did some investigation and did read a thread about masturbation.. over masturbation can desensitise a penis, perhaps get your friend to wank more. A time period of months is what's required. I did try to lay off masturbating and just rely on my lovers pussy to cum and am pleased to report it did help with me being able to cum a little more easily now after about a month of fucking. So update please Earthqueen, how did it go?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Hawt1' One technique I used in the past when I was trying not to cum so soon was to think about something horrible, maybe like a dead cat in a bag... the smell. Another was biting my own tongue really hard.Lately I have the opposite problem of sometimes being unable to cum at all or only after extremely vigorous thrusting. I did some investigation and did read a thread about masturbation.. over masturbation can desensitise a penis, perhaps get your friend to wank more. A time period of months is what's required. I did try to lay off masturbating and just rely on my lovers pussy to cum and am pleased to report it did help with me being able to cum a little more easily now after about a month of fucking. So update please Earthqueen, how did it go? I am just trying to get my head around you thinking about a decomposing cat while you have sex. I just need a few minutes - or maybe a few months - to unpack that.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hawt, the dead feline was a barbecue-stopper enough, but you bite your own tongue really hard if the decomposing cat doesn't work? Just come prematurely man...
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Hawt1
8 years ago
Quoting 'OkeyDoke45' Hawt, the dead feline was a barbecue-stopper enough, but you bite your own tongue really hard if the decomposing cat doesn't work? Just come prematurely man... I haven't had the need for years, more the opposite problem lately.The techniques above are from pre RHP days.. before I could ask anyone for advice but... it worked. I did also bite my tongue to avoid an erection whilst having a particularly risque massage, my girlfriend was in the next room and I wasn't sure how she would feel about that. Told her about it after she said why didn't you.. like she could care. lol I said we're going back!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some things you could try that might work for you: -Have him cum prior to sex If he takes a long time to recharge then maybe the previous day; if he's quick to recharge then a shorter time might be fine. In any case, you probably don't want him too edgy at the start if you can help it. -Let him control the stroke If he's on top controlling the rhythm then he'll be able to feel when he's close and adjust the angle/speed/depth before he passes the point of no return. -Have him edge to porn (or whatever you guys like) while masturbating Some of us live for teetering on the edge for hours without climaxing, but if that's not already your thing then it's still a skill you can practise. -Give him a smack/pinch Depends on the person, but sometimes a bit of physical pain or shock can be distracting enough to reset you for a while. Then again, it might make him instantly cum buckets and then you've learned another little peccadillo you can tap in future. ;) -Baseball, cold showers, Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day This is mostly up to him, but often thinking of something completely unrelated can bring you back from the edge. The mind is very involved in sex; thinking of one thing can tip you over, so thinking of another can take you down a notch too. Anyway, practice makes perfect. It can be tricky reconciling the sexual instincts of two individuals, especially if you're with somebody new. But the more you do it, the better you understand each other and yourselves, and hopefully you get better and better results together. See what works for you! :)
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Quoting 'OkeyDoke45'So update please Earthqueen, how did it go? Well...straight after I wrote this he stopped talking to me and then I thought he had read this thread and freaked out. But I was sure he didn't read the forums ....but maybe it would be good if he did. Would save me having the conversation LOl And there were a couple of other things that happened so I just gave him space. Now I feel I can't bring it up. Its too sensitive a topic and I avoid awkwardness like the plague. I know communication is the key to all these things but I already know he feels bad about it and I don't want to make it worse. We are just FWB. He already thinks I don't like him enough. But I do. Apart from this we are very sexually compatible. I don't know. I'll see how it feels when I see him again, which hopefully might be today. I'm happy to hang around and see how it progresses and if he brings it up I might say something. How would I say it in a sensitive way? You are men, how would you feel if someone said it to you?
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