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Tips for messaging as a couple..

January 15 2020

Hey RHP couples, Just want to get a generalised idea for how sensible and experienced couples manage their profile when one person does most of the searching and messaging. For example: - Not giving access to galleries until the other person reviews the 3rd party person/couple profile; - Messages/flirts are not sent to another person/couple by one person until both people in the couple have seen the 3rd party profile and agree to make contact; - Pornographic images are not shared unless both people agree first; - Is it common practice to send an ice breaker message followed immediately by access to restricted galleries (containing explicit images). Would like to know what experienced RHP members do, and have learned what not to do, in order to be successful using this site while respecting their relationship boundaries. Thanks :) - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    6 years ago

    Tidy2 I can only speak about us of course and I by no means can speak on behalf of any other couples . All couples , we feel should write their own rule book . Of course, as a couple their rules and boundaries can be changed with respect , negotiation and both parties happily agreeing . This is about all parties being comfortable. My husband and I discuss all contact before proceeding . Every step of the way is a joint decision . If we proceed to chat on kik , my husband is added to the chat . He isn’t keen to communicate via kik or RHP but for us its important he reads all communication and his thoughts are just as valid as mine . In regards to opening PG , we also make joint decisions . We used to send our face pics immediately and proceed with chat prior to seeing others face pictures. For us that didn’t work. We developed a rapport and sadly we didn’t find any attraction. Advice I was given has served us well -it may seem shallow but attraction is important . See face pictures straight away . It’s always hard ( got us ) to say no thank you . Best to do it early on . Goodluck here & have fun A and J

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    6 years ago

    For us - not ( got us ) sorry 😐

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    ..should have thier boundrys, just make sure you dont get bogged down by having too many .. Your here for a good time , don't spoil it by wasting your time on the silly little things... We learnt that lesson a long time ago..