M37 F35
Threesomes
September 02 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
We've had a few FFMs before. We found it far too difficult to arrange for a single girl to meet us - there was always plenty of interest, but they all seem to get cold feet on the actual day. Not even a courtesy phonecall to say "sorry, I changed my mind". Just simply didn't show, switched off their mobiles. Only one girl actually carried through, and she was a very nice divorcee in her 40s. Lovely woman in every sense of the word! We got tired of that kind of behaviour and winded up using escorts for a while, but that got expensive real quick, and also got boring real quick - to them, it's a job, and it's treated as such. After 2 such encounters, we called it quits. We're shifting our attention now to FMMs. Unfortunately, there's such a paucity of nice blokes out there, we're just about to give up on this as well. Maybe it's time to focus exclusively on couples for us. That said, 3-somes are a lot of fun. We haven't had a couple swap yet, but we've been told that it's even more fun. Really looking forward to our first swap.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We've had a few mff 3somes over time, some found on the net and some when out and about. The out and about ones are the best as it all happens on the spur of the moment but they don't come by often. We've found single girls are quite flighty or very needy and actually can be a headache. As such like gohkm we've moved on to couples and find them much more satisfying - mind you we've been trying to get gohkm into bed for ages haha!
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have had one threesome and I Mrs sexycountrycpl have been in some as the extra girl. What i am wondering is why don't two couples meet to "borrow" the females for each couple to make a FFM threesome? Yeah sure one male has to miss out on one night of fun play but then his turn comes around But then the question is who plays first???
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RHP User
16 years ago
For both me as a single guy and when I was playing as half of a couple some years back. Good luck.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have been fortunate to have had an mmf 3some. My fuckbuddy at the time had a gorgeous ex-bro in law who came over for bbq and drinks. My buddy knew I had a thing for the ex-bro and we had whispered early in the nite that he would try to set it up. Anyway, long story short....it all worked out and was an incredible nite. There was no ill-feeling or weirdness afterward cos my buddy was no longer married into the family and we all knew each other pretty well beforehand. So, the moral of this story is sometimes it pays to look closer to home..e.g: friends/already existing relationships. Cheers Elljae ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, puppy, here's your chance :). We admit it's really hard to get hold of us, because of the hours we work, but this Sat, we will be at the whiskey appreciation festival at the Rocks, and we'll probably get a room at one of the hotels around the area - no way we're driving home after all that drink :)! Be nice if you could join us :).
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RedHotCoast
16 years ago
Quoting 'sexycountrycpl' What i am wondering is why don't two couples meet to "borrow" the females for each couple to make a FFM threesome? Been there tried that .....FAIL. The other cpl couldn't communicate and were selfish.
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RHP User
16 years ago
had mfm a few times . would love to try mff.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like this concept. Would work for FFM and MMF and gang bangs even. More bi couples the merrier. Not for the whole night though. Fantasy play with lots of swapping. Mars
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hrneecple
16 years ago
We've had FFM 3somes with my best friend. We have been so close for such a long time it feels like she is part of our relationship and when it progressed to sex (t has a couple of times spontaniously), it is great. I love watching my partner satisfy her, it is such a turn on, and we are all so passionate. We have been to swingers clubs and the sex is great but nothing beats the intimacy of three people spending the night making love!
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's possible that you already know the girl you will eventually play with....someone already in your circle of friends who is both open minded and sexy.... If not, then online at least affords you some anonymity and will help you avoid embarrrassment as you try to find the right person. I would recommend patience....lots of patience as you find just the right woman for you both. Perhaps a women (a little) older and with some experience....respectful of your relationship and appreciating that this wb yr first time. Good luck and have fun..... Dog.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for all the replies guys really appreciate it! So would anyone recommend going to a swingers club too to try and meet someone or online is still the best bet? Thanks again though all the replies have helped I guess we just have to learn to be patient and wait for the right woman to come along
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey slayn2009Not sure swingers clubs are the right way to go there. Most guys that go there are just after a quick night of fun. I assume that you would want more ongoing fun.You need to pick and chose the people you have threesomes with, so they will come back again and again, and hopefully be come good friends as well...Have had a couple of MFM threesomes in the past and met with them on numerous occassions. So hang in there and find a nice guy or girl for ongoing fun,,
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RHP User
16 years ago
Slayn U2 have so many years ahead of you dont rush in and get a STD. Or get turned off by playing with just anyone and feeling bad later...it happens! Make sure your play friends are clean...tested. I would be very careful in swingers clubs....its obvious why. Or get to know them 1st and again..tests please 1st. Condoms dont protect against alll STDs. Online is the go. There are millions out there looking like U2. Just dont rush....wish I started like U2 when I was 20. And had the internet...we didnt have mobiles, faxes and still played vinyl ffs....online is wher I met my Venus. Mars Mars
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi there, Threesomes are hard to arrange in which ever combo you wish to think of. I seriously owe Sal a MMF. We have had three FFM's the first was really into me which was rather nice but pissed off Sal (we found her on Zoosk on Facebook FYI) the second was all over Sal and I serioulsy could have gone and read the paper and it put me off bacon and Pink for life! But we think we have cracked the threesome code with the third. Sal took over the whole thing, texts, phonecalls and e-mail. We had been through enough to know what we liked and what we hated. When the third came along all of it was layed out on the table. This turned out to be an awesome experience for all of us, and the next time we three shall meet there might be a mini earthquake in south brisbane! okay that's dumb but i'm sleepy! RHP is the best place to arrange a threesome. But sometimes it takes a while for those planets to align so make the most of it when it happens. I love my double BJ's and the double trombone/bj combo. And a double whopper with extra fries for afterwards when i"m so shagged out! A a
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lmfao Andy .. Man, what's up .. first it's pork and now with the bacon? c'mon... lolz ~ "But we think we have cracked the threesome code with the third. Sal took over the whole thing, texts, phonecalls and e-mail. We had been through enough to know what we liked and what we hated.When the third came along all of it was layed out on the table". So it's MMF you are now thinking... well... are looking for volunteers to lay it out on the table? I wanna lay all of it out on the table, Andy! Pick me.... Pick me, Mr Perkins! hehe. Lolz ... I can almost do the double trombone/bj combo all by myself~ C'mon! :P You guys are serious fun. I take my previous post about being uptight back! Soz mate. Warm Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sexshinecoast' Quoting 'sexycountrycpl' What i am wondering is why don't two couples meet to "borrow" the females for each couple to make a FFM threesome? Been there tried that .....FAIL. The other cpl couldn't communicate and were selfish. if you find a couple you get along with well and have the confidence and trust in each other, it can work. We haven't, but one or two of our couples we would be more than happy to do it with, and we know the feeling is mutual.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We were fortunate enough to 'borrow' the man from a couple for one of our best MMFs ever. You know who you are... thank you!Hugs MrsP
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RHP User
16 years ago
We were lucky when looking for a threesome. A lovely lass, 43, who lived just down theroad had a look at our profile so I contacted her. We met and she was gorgeous. Because Ric , me, is the older partner, I wanted to make sure that she was serious so we met again and she was even lovelier at the second meeting. She did not meet Ms Ric until the playdate a week later. Wedressed up, she has no bra or panties at my request and loooked good enough to eat and I did, we had French champagne and caviar then proceeded to play. She had a fabulous body, breasts and nipples to die for and she was so wet from the very first second. She was mad to get at Ms Ric and could not wait to pounce. I had a good time watching and doing verything except intercourse, her rules because of her fella, but sadly when she was spent, decided to cut and run. It was a oncer for her because of the changed status of the relationship with her man. He was a bit antzy about her playing alone so sadly for us no more from her.I guess that as long as you are out there you may get lucky as well. CheersMr and Ms Ric
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RHP User
16 years ago
You guys are really young so you can afford to be patient and wait for it to be an awesome experience... I wouldn't rush into it and end up hating the experience! They are some of the best times I've ever had! The first girl I ever slept with was one of my best friends when I was about your age. We just started kissing at a party and went into one of the bedrooms with a guy that was there too (he got intimidated early on in the picture, couldn't get it up and so she and I pretty much had a great time on our own hahahaha). When she found a gorgeous steady boyfriend (who she is still married to today) we started (wine, wine, flirting, more wine) a threesome which was amazing and lasted until I moved overseas. They are both still my best friends today even though we no longer sleep together. Since then, most of the threesomes or moresomes I've been involved in have been through the internet but it's all been fun, thanks to that first positive experience!! Why am I telling you my life story :-D ??? Just tying to say "All good things come to those who wait and choose well!! hahaha Good luck and hope your first time is as good as mine... can lead to a lifetime of fun !! xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
GOHKM we just saw your response, missed you by a whiskey!!!!!We'll catch you one day soonxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Reading the responses has made me realise how lucky we have been over the past 25 years. We have always had MFF threesomes. Our first was when my wife invited an old school friend over for the day and one thing led to another and we had an incredible night. This relationship continued until we left moved.Since then, my wife has made many friends on the internet, and as they have reached their 40's, many have been curious to see what it would be like to go with another woman. They all know we have had threesomes before as we are very open, and with a little bit of teasing from me, all seem to be very willing to join us.We are still friends with everyone we have ever been with, and still get together every now and then even as we reach our 50's.We have never gone with another woman without getting to know them first as friends, is this the important ingredient?
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RHP User
16 years ago
This is a question we could have asked.It looks like we will just have to wait for the planets to align before we are going to find a girl that wants to join us.Interesting responses though so we'll keep holding onto some hope
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for the responses again! It's really helped us. We don't want to rush into anything because neither of us wants to have a threesome if we're both not 100% keen on it. I guess the best thing to do is to wait and when we're sure we're really ready for it to upgrade our account and flirt around on here more. We just want to get to know someone a bit before we jump into anything though so we enjoy our first experience and not be put off this whole thing altogether. All your stories sound great though and we hope we can have a first experience as good as the ones you guys described!
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RHP User
16 years ago
How come so many people are into 3somes ffm?? why doesn't anyone want a mmf?/ and what happened to just 2 couples getting together? I guess i ask cos i am not bi and a ffm would not do it for me.
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RHP User
16 years ago
FFM, MMF, FMFM, and all the permutations therein ... they're all good :). As long as it's between consenting adults, and you find just exactly what floats your boat, it's most definitely all good :).
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RHP User
16 years ago
Why mff 3somes? Well if like us we got into all this as Mrs Pup was curious to play ball with a girl. So mff 3somes and ff fun were the order of the day. We soon found that single bi girls are rare and rarely completely sane (ouch sorry to the sane ones out there). So we ventured into the mfmf arena and low and behold Mr Pup found that he really enjoyed seeing another man pleasure his wife. We still adore the rare mff fun but the mfmf works well too. We haven't tried mmf as yet but have our eye on one special fella...
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RHP User
16 years ago
we have had a few experiences now, best was with an old friend, we had a mmf and it was great. after months of trawling through here we ended up with our best friend. i think (mrs) mmf is great as i am yet to be contacted by a female i truly connect with, i will keep looking. who would have thought finding some one to have sex with would be so hard.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have only had one FMF 3some and it didnt work out well at all - the lady in question eneded up being more like a stalker and it took weeks till she finally stopped calling us. We have found we prefer 4somes and 6somes as there are more bodies to play with and its easier with even numbers. Of course, we havent totally discounted threesomes as we are always in the lookout for a that special playmate. Bev and Peter
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RHP User
16 years ago
ive had a few mmf with a married couple they were great fun, would love to it again and ofcourse id love to try the fmf but as a single male im not holing out much hope for that one in the near future.stu
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi read this with interest and just wanted to add our experience is that if your patient you will find what your looking for. We have had reasonable success if you like finding a small group of friends on here that have provided some fantastic experiences but we have had to be patient to take the time to chat a bit online 1st or meet without playing to establish if we get along 1st. One couple loaned hubby for my wifes 1st 3some which was an amazingly positive fun experience and we recently returned the favour we have also had a a 4some with them and a 3some with her aswell. Only have to loan the wife to them now to complete all the options LOL. We have also got impatient and had meets where we didnt really take the time to make sure we clicked with them and were less than stisfied with the outcome. The common theme with our really successful meets is we have take the time to build a rapour with the person or couple. If you noticed a lot of replies here talk about great times with friends. We are having so much Fun in our sexual adventures please dont forget that F word when having yours and take your time its not a race. S and R
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Gorgeous Slayn, I was going to suggest Swingers Clubs and associated meet and greet places. They are a perfect place to meet your date at or find a playmate for the night. As long as you do not go there with expectations except having a good night out and perhaps meeting some nice people and friends anything after that is a bonus is what I say. Perhaps go out together one night just to check it out and see if it is for you. I noticed you are both young and haven't read your profile yet so I have no idea of your experience. As with any young, new couples or first timers they think that is what they want to try and it all goes a bit pear shaped if they have not done their homework, discussed rules and boundaries and most importantly secure. If I play with a couple that is probably the 1st thing I look for when talking to them after the initial attraction thing. I have seen a few upset partners because this wasnt done or it was a one sided fantasy type thing. So go down and just check it out. They are friendly. The closest one to you is XS (aka Ladies Playground or LP's) in Wangara. Not sure if they have their website up yet but you will get the address if you go to the old LP's site. I have been there quite a few times, its clean, nice people, and there is a hostess that will show you around and answer any questions, ya might even see cheeky me up to no good hehe...mmmmm dungeon room. But for your information there are four clubs in Perth, and happy to point you in the direction of any of em or answer your questions here or through msgs , I was a Hostess for a while at one of them so heard lots of questions and none are dumb. You might like to also try the private swingers parties that you will find on the events board. I have been to bothtogethers and Heavenlies and they are both lovely welcoming couples, yet to get to some of the others. You can also see who is going on the events post and if there are any that interest you perhaps contact them before hand and say hi. Its all bout fun and friends.also check out a post I wrote in the WA forum under couples - Why couples can't find single girls - A singles view. Might give you some information.Hope this helps, oh and if you see a mischievious lollipop sucking school girl up to no good say hi! Might even let ya peek in my school bag.Have FUN! U can spank me later!xx Miss Honey xx <<
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RHP User
16 years ago
swingers club :) Attunga works for us
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RHP User
16 years ago
and the only ones that happened, were the ones that travelled from Perth.Unfortnately we've tried the pub scene, both myself and Mr, he gets rejected, and I'm too shy to approach anyone, I don 't do the picking up, not even with guys.I'm fine with everything that happens after the picking up has been done... just the picking up to begin with I suck at royally.Hopefully one day we'll find a chick in tune with her body, sexually confident and happy to let us ravish her for a night, but so far in the 8 or so yrs since we've been playing that's yet to happen.
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RHP User
16 years ago
To answer your questions.We have had them all. And both want lots more!!! To date. 3 x FFM with same female. For me the last one was the best. We went out to a pub in Melbourne as a blatant 3some sexing it up on the dancefloor and outside. Returned home ar 3AM and got it on. Crashed and then at it all next day on and off. My best night and day ever. Lots of MMF. Probably 12 or so different guys. Some only once and 2 more than once. Much better the 2nd time. Our new guy 3 times so far and we will have more. MMF is more for Venus but I like them as well but not as much as MMF. We had one MMMF as well as a birthday present for Venus. The qualify the guys had to be cut, shaved and over 9" . No problem getting them either lol. Couples. So far none where its really been all in. We are still looking for the right bi couple. Where to look? Here and other sites like this. Hot clubs such as Abode. Mars
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RHP User
16 years ago
We tried 3 somes with a couple that we had previously swapped / same room play. all four same room. We dissucussed trying MFM 3 somes and we all agreed it would be fun. The next weekend the other guy joined us....and his wife didnt much sleep and stayed at home that night. The next night I joined the other couple...and my wife didnt get much and stayed at home as well. We all decided that did not work too well......so now all 4 same room and play together. Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have had a few fmf 's and enjoyed them very much as I (mrs countrycouple) am bi but my hubby loved it as well then by compleate accident and I had the best time of my life i was spoiled rotten
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RHP User
16 years ago
We've played with a couple once, had MMF 3 times and had FFM 4 times. All fun in their own rights but for us so far the MMF seems to be the least complicated.
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WhispersAndMoans
16 years ago
we had tried MFM with a friend and not had a lot of success, but that was alright because we were good friends and no harm or awkwardness left afterwards. We have had two MFM from men we have met on RHP, and both have been fun times. Our latest we met from RHP whilst travelling so it was a great holiday, everything worked out perfectly. We met before hand so that we all had the opportunity to make the decision and step back gracefully if there seemed to be a mismatch, clearly there wasn't (you should see the photos!!!) Our lessons are that you have to invest the time and make sure that the two of you are very very clear about what is on and what is not and then communicate that to the other. This saves major issues arising afterwards. And there may stil be some things that make you unsure of how you felt, you have to commit to discussing them too! We'd love to make it a more regular part of our fun but it depends on life being not quite so busy for three people. And we only play away from our home town... too small to bump into someone you decided was a bit of a knob after all. In summary RHP does work but expect a lot of dross before you find the gold, work through it with lots of communication and remember in the end that it is meant to be fun, if it isn't then it probably isn't worth it. Good luck, I am sure you are being swamped with offers :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Had an mfm with my ex and another guy she was screwing a few years back. All of us loved it, especially my ex. Having all that attention, two cocks, every conceivable combination, she was completely sated - must have come a dozen times. The experience was up there with one of the best I've had. My current has done ffm (which she loved - her and a friend were screwing the same guy and decided may as well do him together) and mmfmfmm (which she didn't - felt like a piece of meat). I've also had ffm, fffm, orgies, gang bangs but none really did it for me...
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RHP User
16 years ago
JUST PAY IT WAS TO EASY
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RHP User
16 years ago
had a 3sum and 5sum before which was fun, best if your comfortable with the poeple that your doing it with and not someone that you hardly know.
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RHP User
16 years ago
As a single girl ive had a few 3somes and they are way over rated. Guess I just havent been involved in a good one but at this stage I doubt I would eva again. Unless I was completely wasted lol. AND 2 the person who said single girls are flighty.. not all.. must just be the ones u attract.
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RHP User
16 years ago
have been fortunate to have 2 memorable MMF romps....but is tricky when organising 2 guys ... specially as now no longer in a relationship... not into girls so ffm not my thing...but ever hopeful of more mmf....mmmmmmm
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RHP User
16 years ago
have been fortunate to have 2 memorable MMF romps....but is tricky when organising 2 guys ... specially as now no longer in a relationship... not into girls so ffm not my thing...but ever hopeful of more mmf....mmmmmmm
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RHP User
16 years ago
You know I would happily let you ravage me!!!. Hate that we live so far apart! I don't consider myself bi, but have had my fair share of MFF in my 20's and 30's. Always been dissapointed as the other girl didn't know what she was doing or was not really bi(hate that). So since I have been back in Australia . MMF has been my choice. NOW...if the right couple are there and her and I do click. I am way more than happy to explore and frolic with her..lol..And help her spoil her man..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi sweet...next time i want to spoil Grav i'll be phoning you ...Leelee
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RHP User
16 years ago
Had ffm & mmf both times great experiences.Although did find that the ffm was much more fun as Iam not bi.The ffm was a very good friend of my ex wife worked very well.The mmf was a woman I met who said she and her husband wanted to try a threesome so I volunteered.First time that I'd had a New York sandwich fantastic.
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RHP User
16 years ago
My first threesome experience was an 'accident' (actually, not sure how much was planned by my mate). I was staying with a mate from school who I hadn't seen for a while Her much older flatmate and I fell into bed several times together and had a lot of fun. Then one Saturday morning my mate came into the bedroom just as we rolled over from sex. She hopped into bed with us - apparently she did this most mornings - the two flatmates together. We enjoyed some great triple sex, which was an 18-year old's wet dream come true. Not sure many people have a mate who lives with a randy flatmate, but don't count it out as a source of threesomes!
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