RHP

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The weirdest thing......

October 11 2009

The strangest thing just happened to me.   I started communicating with this man this morning. From memory he initiated contact. After a couple of emails he asks me if I am married or divorced or whatever. I reply that I am very single but have been married and have two kids, along those lines.   Then sitting here happily waiting for a response. No reponse email. Thats ok, no biggie. Then I check his profile and he has blocked me!!!!!!!!!!!!   The only reason I can assume is that he has blocked me because I am a mum! Fair enough he thinks "kids are not my bag, I'm, just gonna let this go" but why BLOCK me.   My feeling is that this is one weird cat. Or are mums second class citizens? What do other's think?   Lovebitten xoxo

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sounds like twice now i have been contacted by guys who do fit my criteria and when i go to reply I am BLOCKED, and they initiated contact.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    yes thats a bit strange, he may of just got cold feet.Only logical explanation i can come up with.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Desserts,   So it has happened to you too? It strikes me as weird! I'm glad it is not just me!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    sounds very strange,only logical explanation i can come up with he got cold feet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Lmfao- and I thought it was just me! I've been blocked by around 80-90 guys. I thought it was because I saw them wanking on cam but now I realise it must be because I have children. Huh. Lots a laughs around here at the fickle blockers. I was begining to think that maybe they feel self conscious wanking on cam in front of guys but no! They're scared of parents. Lmfao. Naughty boyz! Where's miss honey with her ruler when you need her! Hugs gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Oh well that explains why the girls aren't chasing me, what with my witty sense of humour and great photos. LOL   Seriously though if I thought it wouldn't work for me (assuming I had contact a mum) I would just say thanks and move on. No reason to block people. Some people get up tight about the silliest of things.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    that is just weird either tell the person that they arent exactly what you are looking for or dont reply but obviously you thought they were attractive so whats the harm in staying in touch and just being mates some people are strange yep there is my rant for the day thank you all for reading hahahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    they should be blocked of this site    how rude of them

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Doesn't matter, he's not worth the time wondering anyway.Just let it go, there's plenty of them out there.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Your responses all make me feel a little better.....its not nice to be blocked when you are rather sane and not at all a bunny boiler!!!!!!!!!!!   lovebitten xxoxoxoxo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think he has saved you the time and effort of finding out he's a complete twat!!Just my opinion...BJxxxps...oh....and i'd block him back!

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    16 years ago

    Well it sounds to me like he did you a favour by blocking you early.......well it saves you doing it......he is obviously a dick head......plus he is the big looser here, by maybee missing a chance to get friendly with you ?......geez some guys !!!   xo Tam

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Just remember that everyone on this site is different and we all have our own values. Perhaps he has Mummy issues.... Has issues with singe Mums? Perhaps a single Dad? The options are endless.. Just be comfortable in who you are and dont let people like that get to you xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    well, im sorry that there are indeed twat-donkeys (thank you MissBJ for starting with the twat part, its so difficult to slip twat-donkey into a sentence) anyway, unfortunately these people exist, If its listed on your profile that you are divorced/single and have children, but then this ....lets charitably call him a male....comes along and messages you, then it must be presumed that he;s read and understood the profile, ticked his own boxes about a person before starting a conversation, this is a luxury of meeting people only....gee you can search down to height, weight, ethnicity so on a so forth.....that should allowed the pickiest of picky people to search for specifics of what they are looking for. Anyway.....I get really annoyed when someone blocks me, I haven't blocked anyone (on this site.....msn and other dating sites I have a large block list) but on this one i don't really bother, Im hear (and everywhere else) to chat and meet people for non sexual encounters, I use to have men listed as what i was looking for, but that was a very bad move (i was looking for male friends, at the time i had it listed what i was looking for in my profile) that went badly so it (as well as the male option) has been removed.Like i said in the women's body thread, for some guys its a no-go zone, that's their choice, you cant force them to go down that road, in saying that, he contacted you...so he either cant read or hasn't had his daily intake of medicine.....It's rude of him, but well.....meh. Block him back or just drop him like a rock. I block people who've blocked me, people I've never contacted before....i go to contact...im blocked....my thought process is equal to - well, you can go fuck yourself...block.Chin up, natural selection no longer exists through-out society, but its every man and woman's duty to ensure natural selection keeps the idiots from breeding Alright that might have gone off topic alittle......just remember, I do it all for the LOL's Failing that....reading this and thinking 'ummm....WTF' is also a valid response

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    He did what he did and so be it. I would love to have children but I cannot. I would be open to adopting another persons children. But some People Don't . They would like to have there own family from there own Gene Pool. There is Nothing wrong with that. Been Blocked well I have had the experience of been stalked both online and in reality. It is not a nice feeling. Please Remeber this is the Internet and there is Net edicate but in the real world we deal with the people around us in a different way.... Hey we don't put a name tag with our sexual fetishes listed and walk around. In this social enterprise be greatful that we can be liberated

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    He's obviously a selfish prick who doesn't deserve your time or effort Lovebitten. There was no need to block you. He could've nicely replied that he had changed his mind or something along those lines. Being a mother is the most important job in the world and you should never have to apologise for it or feel the need to defend yourself/be made to feel like a 2nd class citizen. Good riddance to him!! Cheers Elljae x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well Miss BJ, you will be pleased to know I did block him!   IKnowWhatIWant, I think he did has issues BIG TIME. Thanks to all you guys again!   xxxxxxxxxxxlovebitten

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey gang,Maybe its just the fact that you have kids tho. I have been with a few yummy mummy's and kids don't scare me off but maybe he thinks he will end up having to support the kids as well (men are strange creatures lol) or that you being a mummy means you can't be with him at the drop of  a hat lolBeing with a yummy mummy is really cool, the woman seems to have things more in perspective a bit but not true of everyone.Pierced

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Lovebitten... call me me stoopid, but maybe he just updated his profile and it is locked until approved.   I could be wrong as I cant tell the difference when I see a profile locked or blocked  ????   if he blocked you, he is clearly the loser in this equation =)   cheers,   dodger

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It's a possibilty, but a friend of mine on the site could see him. See, a baddy after all!   lovebitten xoxoxoxox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well, my dear, if your friend can see him, then this guy who blocked you is definately the loohoooserherrr !!!   keep the faith, you are a BABE !!!   kids included  =)   cheers,   dodger xoxo xoxo xoxo xoxo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    He sounds like a complete twat...don't need dicks like that around.....you seem pretty cool....take it as a gift and a favour......There are heaps of nice people out there...Stu

  • bondage_reality

    bondage_reality

    16 years ago

    Lovebitten who was he, save the others from the ass hat out him