M63 F50
The problem that we don't talk about
December 13 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
why not just have an enema / douche to clean things out beforehand?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Tough one isn't it? I'm relatively inexperienced, well not really but compared to some people, so well here goes, this is what I do. I used to do the enema thing but found i hated the cramping and you still have to clean the passage anyway, so now I shower and use soap and my finger. Anyone want to help me with this process, i'm free most days 💋 😘 I also don't eat very much in the lead up, never eat before I have sex anyway, but more 'lean' if I think anal might be happening. When I get out of the shower I wipe with paper really well inside near the entrance, I don't know if i'm doing enough. End of the day though, that part of our body is there for another purpose, we can only do what we can do and most guys who want to take me in the arse aren't usually too worried. There was one all nighter where my guy and I showered about 4 times haha huge night. Fast forward to round 5 or 6 and I asked him to leave the are alone, I was sick of showering haha so that was a messy night, however usually I don't think it's a big problem, little bit of mess, nothing too bad. I'll be reading here with interest though because having been only on the receiving end, it would be good to hear how the 'tops' feel and how they feel about the messy aspect - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Leave the arse alone I meant, typo - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
If the person/s you play with are genuine then all involved must surely understand that it occasionally happens regardless how prepared one is . I wouldn't panic to much . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm hearing you :) It only happens with very special men and for that reason, have never had DP either! Mary xx
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QLDtwo4fun
10 years ago
As a a guy, you have to accept there is a risk of the occasional spot of mess when you go there. Stop when in doubt, and anyway it does wash off.
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RHP User
10 years ago
that if you've prepped yourself as thoroughly as you suggest; then most people I'm sure would understand entirely and be compassionate to something that is obviously quite normal... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Part of your preparation?In the days leading up to anal if you are concerned,eat lightly,no spicy food,you could try an enema on the day before..I am certainly no expert but I hope this may help...just relax and enjoy xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Use lots of lube! If its slippery less will 'stick' to it, but expect some things to join you on your play, also depends how long you do it for. And as stated above, clean before. :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Douche. No problem
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Douche. Get a routine organised that works for your body. A deep douche can give you up to 18 hrs of playtime. A routine ensures no water is still inside that can be a bit of surprise to someone down that end if it decides to have a quick exit....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have indulged in anal regularly for years and can only remember one "messy" occasion. It wasn't about diet she was not 100% well but we went ahead anyway. Our bad. What has been said already about covers it. Enjoy.
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kimarianne
10 years ago
i'm sure all those suggestions work wonderfully, but does not allow for any spontaneous shenanigans.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
So does the douche flush or squirt up further? I'll just try one, but can you tell us how they work. Sounds great. Definitely will be doing this, be good to take away that underlying concern. Get on with the business at hand lol 😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just to be sure after douching we should do the finger thing, can't take any chances 😎😝 i'm still um available most days 😘😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
But anal play and penetration can be lots of fun. I would say just have your normal bowel movement for the day and carefully shower and us a shower shot enema. This itself can be fun with a partner helping. You are now ready to lay back, think of England and relax and enjoy the pleasures that will follow. You should be fine and safe for rimming and shallow anal play. If you have deeper anal penetration there is always going to be a chance you'll hit pay dirt so it pays to have a towel ready. Most reasonable people that indulge in anal play will understand the possibility of traces of what the rectum was designed for appearing and will deal with it discretely and without fuss. I love your attitude. Just relax and continue to be amazed.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Squeeze the bulb a little bit till some water comes out, that way you minimise squeezing any air up there.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thank you. Useful information for others reading this too and sounds like an easy and effective process ☺ definitely getting me one of them
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RHP User
10 years ago
A fire fighters hose 😝
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have a toy now. Haven't looked into proper prep yet. A couple of times with protected (condom covered) fingers first and I agree with Respect about lube. If someone else was involved I would look into the other cleaning methods. But if even the smallest trace of natural body substances - similar to bleeding around period time - does your head in, best to reconsider doing the activity entirely. You can always use protection even as a private couple or on any toys too.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is handy particularly for travelling or if you go dogging, etc. You can also buy home enema kits and attachments for your shower too. There are those chemical tubs that you can buy from the chemist and insert which will make you "release the hounds' so to speak. Enemas is a whole fetish. Some of you should look it up "enema fetish" on pornhub.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'CucknShells' The douche I use is like a bulb with a long sprout. I got it from a sex shop.Fill the bulb with water. Screw on sprout (can't think of a better term). It has several holes at the end. Add a bit of lube to the end. Insert and squeeze bulb. Then you sit on the toilet and push the water out along with anything else that might be there.Repeat until clean. I hid it when I had family staying with me recently, and now I can't find it.
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MissBishere
10 years ago
I have tried those little bulb douche and don't find them very effective I have an enema kit that I can use in the shower. Hop in the shower stall and fill up then step out to the toilet to empty. I have recently started using this again after an absence from anal and am having some issues finding the right balance. By this I mean I keep overdoing it by overfilling and and haven't left enough time to have the area cleaned out in full so have had to abstain from the anal pleasure. I'm quite neurotic or should I say anal abut it being squeaky clean though.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'willowtree_2' A fire fighters hose 😝 I have a fire fighters hose!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Tough one isn't it? I'm relatively inexperienced, well not really but compared to some people, so well here goes, this is what I do. I used to do the enema thing but found i hated the cramping and you still have to clean the passage anyway, so now I shower and use soap and my finger. Anyone want to help me with this process, i'm free most days 💋 😘 I also don't eat very much in the lead up, never eat before I have sex anyway, but more 'lean' if I think anal might be happening. When I get out of the shower I wipe with paper really well inside near the entrance, I don't know if i'm doing enough. End of the day though, that part of our body is there for another purpose, we can only do what we can do and most guys who want to take me in the arse aren't usually too worried. There was one all nighter where my guy and I showered about 4 times haha huge night. Fast forward to round 5 or 6 and I asked him to leave the are alone, I was sick of showering haha so that was a messy night, however usually I don't think it's a big problem, little bit of mess, nothing too bad. I'll be reading here with interest though because having been only on the receiving end, it would be good to hear how the 'tops' feel and how they feel about the messy aspect - Posted from rhpmobile you got cramps cause you let air go up in your bottom used to get them too till we realised why...if you make sure you squeeze the air out first ...then it won't happen..:) i
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RHP User
10 years ago
there is one called the "shower shot" I think, it screws onto the tap so you don't have to stuff around with filling bags, or pumping the squeeze bulb
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lol fire fighter's hose. Is that because of the dementia and you forgot you'd flushed your brains out last time? 😨
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RHP User
10 years ago
one of my ex girlfriends was firm when it came to having anal on the menu, available to indulge just as much as straight, or even more if we liked, and she would spend a couple of hours filling herself up with water, cruising about the house on her own between flushes, testing, and repeating if required, and she would test if she's ready or not by putting a thin but long (almost 12"), anal chain cord inside her body all the way and doing this a few times and if it came out clean , she was ready, and at this point, yeah, she could take whatever, whenever back there, as deep as you like, for as long as you like, and whatever it was would come out clean as a whistle, she loved doing ass to mouth to show me how proud she was of the almost OCD like effort shed gone to to pull off complete anal access haha it was magic ... but yeah, if you want it, you have to want to commit to it!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah thats it. Lol. I actually use a hand held small hose attachment thingy that goes onto a tap. Get them at the cheap shops for $3.99, it does the job perfectly.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Diet is the key. You know your bowel habits and adjust your diet accordingly....if the guy is overly large and thrusts too deep well some mess is inevitable. - Posted from rhpmobile
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SexyHedonist
10 years ago
I love anal and dp, gang bangs are frequent. Be prepared. In Australia you can buy boxes of Microlax from the chemist. They are 5gm baby enemas. I carry a couple in my hand bag with lube and wet wipes. The enema only takes 10 mins then shower and wash, or if out basin and wet wipes. When I can I always have a towel handy for under my butt. If it's a rare occasion where it's messy (and it has happened) just get partner to tell you, wipe with towel and continue without anal if uncomfortable. You don't have to worry about mess on sheets, no big deal. I've found most hard core anal fuckers don't care about a bit of mess. It's your arse! Relax and have fun. It's sooo good! Now double anal..... give that a go ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'smuttygirl' I love anal and dp, gang bangs are frequent. Be prepared. In Australia you can buy boxes of Microlax from the chemist. They are 5gm baby enemas. I carry a couple in my hand bag with lube and wet wipes. The enema only takes 10 mins then shower and wash, or if out basin and wet wipes. When I can I always have a towel handy for under my butt. If it's a rare occasion where it's messy (and it has happened) just get partner to tell you, wipe with towel and continue without anal if uncomfortable. You don't have to worry about mess on sheets, no big deal. I've found most hard core anal fuckers don't care about a bit of mess. It's your arse! Relax and have fun. It's sooo good! Smuttygirl does your diary have any open booking? Now double anal..... give that a go ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Never done anal and are willing to try Havnt done 69 either I want to be adventures Help anyone? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Without getting a little juice on your chin. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
When served properly you can, Jeff
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RHP User
10 years ago
The equipment comes in all shapes, styles and sizes. Try Eagle Leather in Melbourne for a start... so many tools and methods. ...and as somebody said earlier... it can be fun to assist a partner... whether it be as part of disciplinary play or just as a giggle.
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RHP User
10 years ago
but use an s on the loose instead haha :p -------------🗿
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would help with shower process ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
most people into anal will understand that playing in the back garden is bound to get you dirty.It always helps to always voice this concern before commencement and ask that they start with a condom, which upon withdrawal of the penis can be held at the base and turned inside out as the cock pulls out.if condom is clean, go for gold and drill yourself a vegimite patch...
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