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October 08 2019

Hi all! I’ve noticed that the community is very big on terms, names, phrases and of course knowing your kinks. (All a bit new to me) My situation is that I have a much higher drive than my partner and whilst we have a loving and great relationship, I need a bit more than he does sexually. So our discussions around play are all around me seeking additional release, and him getting some much loved extra sleep and time to himself without me on his back, or front as it were. Is there a term for this, as me outsourcing isn’t a turn on like in a hotwife situation, and as a cuck it doesn’t seem to fit either. Basically he is happy for me to go play and mostly just wants to know I’ve had a good time and have returned happy. Happy spouse happy house style. I don’t mind if there is no label, but one people know might be a time saver 🤗. Thanks In advance! - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

6 years ago

I'd say this is just referred to as an 'open relationship'? Open in that you're allowed to go off and play on your own.

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3SM_Events

6 years ago

What Little said. I’m in much the same boat at the moment.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Thank you :) as a general rule I just say we’re opening things up so at least I’m in the right general area! Most people here seem very knowledgeable compared to my noob status! ☺️ learning every day!

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nevahadsomuchfun

6 years ago

Ha I’d call it a happy, understanding marriage! Not easy to find but great to have! 👍

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Sawadee

6 years ago

CC.. seems you have the ideal partner who's apparently happy to see you happy ? If he dont mind and theres no problem ' you couldn't ask for anything more. Guess I'd have to agree with the others that if you need to call it anything , it'd be a open relationship.. Lots of women would love your appetite for more sex , what's your secret ? 🤗

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XBonnieClydeX

6 years ago

Google "compersion". This term could possibly suit your situation....x

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RHP User

6 years ago

Yeah open relationship suits. My wife and I have a very similar situation. Difference between our relationship and for you and your partner is that we both have very high sex drives and don’t get to play together as much as we want because of a young child who invades our us time all of the time. So we have our separate time with our other partners to fill the void and tell our adventures when we come home.

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