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Talk is cheap...

July 02 2013

Dont know about everyone else., but when I come onto this site I notice how much more insensitive people become when they allow their fingers do the talking. Sometimes I find myself allowing a post go ahead where I should of pulled back and edited what I had to say. Once its gone its too late and I regret I didnt take the time or courtesy to make it read better.I sometimes do this out of frustration as I believe there are too many people are here just making up the numbers. Correct me if Im wrong, but isn't this is a site for meeting like minded people. ? If so, is there anything wrong with having a link for those serious about finding real people and another for those just wanting to talk ? Surely cant be too hard.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    but I find you OP confusing.I often say stupid shit then press 'post'. Oh well. It's done now ... I'll just top up my glass and off I go again.For your 2nd point(?) I have found this site fantastic for meeting real and very much like minded people. I'm actually more likely to meet people who have spent some time chatting here on the forums. Talking before meeting is good.Jay, will you be going to the meet and greet in Sydney on Saturday? You'll definitely meet 'real' people there. I met some amazing people at the last one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    So.....What IS a real person?!!!! ..... I talk, type, share viewpoints, and meet some people...... but decide not to meet most I talk to.... does that make me un-real?! (I mean seriously..... Im already unreal HAHAHAHA)......sorry op.... but to me... the topic is somewhat confused. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Some times I actually say things...where I should pull back and edit This site is about bring together people with similar out looks. It the same with Ten Pin Bowling I go there and bugger me despite the fact we are all interested in ten pin bowling other people go off on tangents... Other people don't even bowl but they come along just the same.Who is to say that just chatting is not the perfect relationship for some one. I know what you are angling at but if you set the criteria as only those want who will meet this door and every one else the other...It would not be as much fun...Seriously Flirting with people you know you will not have a chance to meet is still fun...teasing regulars is fun...and speaking you mind is fun...It does not have to be all about the actual meeting. :)LC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    JayThe first part of the post is a given. Even in real life, sometimes we say something we shouldn't have. I did mention this very thing before and the moderators gave their reasons why the don't like the edit feature. After all, there is no edit feature in real life. Should people censor themselves? Maybe, maybe not. It is a numbers game. The more you write, the better is it for people to figure out where you are coming from and what you want. If you say something you could have worded better, you might think twice the next time before posting. I do...most of the time. I do have the occasional lapse of good judgement. As for the second part, I am not quite sure what you mean? There are all sorts of people here with all sorts of motivation for being on the site. How do you know who goes where if you start categorising or segregating people? People wear masks all the time, whether they are on RHP or not. It is up to you to decide whom you think you would like to meet and ask them out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm a bit over them to be honest. Do whatever floats your boat and let others do the same. Live with the consequences of what you do and let others live with theirs. Sure, it's conducive to better forums if people are courteous, but in the end it's their choice. As it is if all they want to do is chat. We're each free to do what suits us, pretty much.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    This is an outlet for my 'social' side. If I'm not having fun with real people I jump on here to entertain myself. I have met a few ladies from this site and, I think, they will say that my facetious remarks on here are consistent with my real life personality...unfortunately:(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Realise the post was a lil confusing. Probally highlights what I was trying to say in the first part of my post. Two separate topics I guess' but points taken on first few replies. Paintme' I'd love to go , but at 3.30 pm I'll be in Melbourne for a seminar. Love curve, you made some good points...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I wonder Jay where you belong in that comment.I have met with people here that have and do contribute to the forums but most of the people I have met here have never posted a comment.I do what I do here.......read and comment on the forums, Message and contact men. Meet the men I desire to meet. Look at naughty pics, read erotica, learn a little. Im fine where I am thanks.I have on occassion visited other sites and not found them to be a user friendly as this one. where I can do everything simply and easily.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quote : I wonder Jay where you belong in that comment ? ..... I already expressed my thoughts in the original post. ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Is by far the most congenial. The forums give it a different dimension compared to some of the others. There's more of a friendly feel and sense of things actually occurring rather than just sending off a message or wink/flirt and waiting for an often non forthcoming reply. Talking to people in the forums gives a sense of community. And like real life engaging the finger or mouth before the brain fully kicks in sometimes gives a truer insight into the speaker/poster's thoughts and feelings. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Only briefly, I was introduced to you. I hope we meet again. If only to compare notes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We are edited by the powers above when at times posters rants deserve your uncensored view!. Regretting what you have first written , which is obviously your instinctual and true opinion and feelings is only done to please others. There are delusional people on here that you know in real society you would not tolerate, and or take the time for their opinion. Then here are the worst type who stalk out the forums as a hunting ground but will not actively participate, instead try to use what is written and said as a means to approach and seek. I made a comment( joke) recently re transsexuals and have been viewed by a ton of men since because they think it's an option , none of these have I ever seen voice or share an opinion in any post I have read... So op I think it's something you have to suffer with, as far as courtesy, why sugar coat an olive, be open and honest, speak your mind and I think like minded and same, will value and appreciate it .

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    12 years ago

    Jay - I agree! Lots of talk n no action.... Like how long do you give someone to meet you or make a move on you - like 2weeks, 2 mths, 2 years??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    @ miss Paint And what notes will we compare..... DG

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I do what I do here.......read and comment on the forums, Message and contact men. Meet the men I desire to meet. Look at naughty pics, read erotica, learn a little. Im fine where I am thanks. DG and Paintme can I come along I'll take notes!! Puhleeeease? I'll be good I promise! (Doing scouts fingers!) Jay_Me sometimes you're really fun on certain topics and others inciteful. Just lately though has something happened because you seem a little "disenchanted"? I hope it's just a passing moment and you're ok. Here's a virtual hug just for you....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Awww shucks, hugs accepted. Thanks for your nice comment.. You are instinctive, there are a few things playing on my mind. But nothing I can't deal with.. Thx for caring.. That was nice.. Jay x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I am in agreement with Indagine.The "action" is in the profiles, the forums are just an aside, yes you can flirt here and you do get a better insight into the characters that participate here, but if your "serious about real people" troll through the profiles and get amongst it !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    free to a good home really...but my talk... NOOOO that aint cheep