TIT 4 TAT

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I don't believe its a case of Tit for Tat,I would see it more as an opportunity to expand on your relationship.Perhaps you can phone each other before and after maybe even during?just a thought cheers

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Pardon the paraphrase but you get what I mean. If you want to play with these people, regardless of anything hubby has done, then play with them if the idea excites you. If you think you should do it so that hubby won't feel guilty then don't do it. Consider your feelings and what you really want to do. Would you still want to play if hubby didn't exist? Or is this going around in your head because you are jealous of their successful threesome? Are you hoping for some of the same action? If you are not totally at one with the idea then leave it for now as I am sure there will be other opportunities once you have moved. Good luck.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  you won't have to go all the way and you can still have some fun!!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  When you guys shift to Vic will the other couple be willing to give you guys a mfm and fmf 3 somes? We have done similiar with a couple it did not work for us, one of us playing without the other.Neither of the wives slept well when their husbands were away playing. Playing worked fine. Guess we are swingers and not in a open relationship. Same room together. No real way to know we reckon till you try! Have Fun.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Nope! Steer clear of it altogether IMHO and reassess your feelings on playing apart. This bit rang alarm bells for me: I found myself arroused by this but then became quite upset (mixed feelings). Apparently it was a very successful threesom. it was not ment to happen but I did not give the red light. If you have rules in your partnership that require green lights and red lights, they exist for a reason and they should be observed. Tit for tat is never a good MO, but in this situation, the cards are already stacked against you. It's going to be a little hard to undo, even if you go along to 'even the score'. I don't think sleeping with people to appease your other half's guilt is a very good idea and to be honest, I really doubt it will result in the outcome you or he or even they, are hoping for. . Flirty x

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  jigjam

  15 years ago

  anyway been down and now back. Yes we did play and yes I wanted to, just like my husband, the temptation was too great. truth... it was not that successful as their previous mfm, as my lady friend and I are only bi curious. Anyway I can tick that one off the bucket list. Hubby and I will never play alone again, it is about our joint enjoyment and I love seeing him with another woman and doing the whole twister thing together.

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  sunnyfun

  15 years ago

  We met a couple that became play mates, then one day the lady dropped by out of the blue and wanted a 3 way ( well she really wanted to play with my wife).. anyway about a week later we got a call asking if my wife can come alone to their place (anyone thinking setup??) she felt she had no choice but to return the favour - but instead of being mainly girl-girl the other guy just had a great time with my wife while she watched! we both felt a little used and are a lot wiser now... plus we much rather play together anyway its heaps more fun.... sorry to hear your moving to Victoria

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